Yang Yikun was happy at this meal, Du Xinyi still had a small appetite, and she always wanted to keep in shape, but she enjoyed the meat sent to her mouth, and threw her guilt to him with peace of mind.

Li Shoucheng ate a little painfully, and Shen Mengying's sister was a little shy and a little curious...... Of course, Yang Yikun is not a mixed eater and drinker brother, he became a wingman at the dinner table.

He talks about the past, when he was a kid, when he was in middle school. He is a very strong storyteller, and he can often substitute everyone into it, so he talked about what a patient Li Shoucheng is, he can wait for his friends for an hour, and he has no regrets.

Li Shoucheng was a little weak-hearted, this was obviously a pigeon that was licked by a girl for an hour, how could it be so bright...... Then Yang Yikun also said: "But Xiao Li also has a shortcoming!"

Li Shoucheng's heart suddenly, I rely on you not to speak ill of me, my meal is bleeding enough-

Shen Mengying has already been put into the topic, because people have such a characteristic: what the parties themselves boast is difficult for people to believe, but what they hear from the mouths of others is more convincing!

Yang Yikun is creating this feeling, helping Li Shoucheng to speak, and fulfilling the responsibility of a wingman: "He is too enthusiastic about treating people, when he met a bad girl, he took advantage of his kindness openly, but in the end he issued a good person card, and he didn't blame the other party." I don't think it's necessary for a man, don't you think?"

Du Xinyi disagreed: "Is it wrong for a man to be good to a woman? Like you, it's good to be a good person all day? And he just accidentally met a bad woman, there will be a good woman in the future!"

Yang Yikun shrugged, her eyes fell on Shen Mengying, she was thoughtful, and then smiled: "I also think it's good for men to be intimate, not all women are bad." ”

"Oh......" Yang Yikun looked like I understood, and thought to himself: Brother can only help you get here, my sister's level of emotional goodwill, if you don't catch it, it will be really useless!

Li Shoucheng finally changed from worrying about his dead friend to revealing his bottom to joy: "People will inevitably encounter some bad things, the important thing is to keep the original intention and be full of enthusiasm! Come, let's replace wine with tea!"

"Cheers!"

After drinking the tea and eating almost the meal, Yang Yikun said goodbye and gave them a chance: "Xiao Du wants me to accompany her to buy something, if I miss it, you can send my sister back safely!"

"Definitely!" Li Shoucheng nodded.

Du Xinyi also had a heart, and gave a boost: "Hey Yingying, didn't you say two days ago that you wanted to go shopping?

Shen Mengying smiled a little shyly, Li Shoucheng scratched his head, and asked: "Then I'll accompany you to go shopping?" It's not too late, don't worry, I'll send you back on time." ”

"Hmm. The girl nodded.

Yang Yikun pulled Du Xinyi away.

went downstairs to the street, Du Xinyi suddenly stopped leaving and wanted to coax: "I also want my boyfriend to be so caring." ”

"I'm overwhelmed, you'll stick to my belly first. ”

"No—I hate you, why are you always like this!" she laughed and scolded, and deliberately touched his belly, "let you eat so much!"

Yang Yikun was thinking about what to say, but eating too much was a bit detrimental to his brain.

"That way tomorrow breakfast won't have to work, right?"

She helped him refine his reasoning first.

"Clever. Yang Yikun feels that this answer is okay.

She was not satisfied with the emphasis: "No! you can be busy with work, but you also have to pay attention to your body!"

"Yes. He was just perfunctory.

"Look at me and speak!

Du Xinyi caught up with her long legs, she just wanted the man to be obedient and smooth: "Tomorrow at noon, at night, and in the next few days, you will accompany me to dinner." ”

He thought for a moment and said, "But I'm going on a business trip for two days." ”

"Then you video with me, I want to check!"

Du Xinyi asked that she must see that she also has a stubbornness, so she must let men listen to her - in essence, it is still a struggle for value dominance.

Here there will be a contradiction: according to the theory, you should continue to maintain a high position and not obey her.

But the problem is that there is no absolute formula for getting along, long-term relationships require tension, and a strong will make one party very tired, so Yang Yikun chose to nod: "Okay!"

Seeing that this hard stone finally lowered her posture, she felt comfortable, as if her efforts to make an investment had finally paid off. Even though she has given a lot, she will feel that the effort is worth it!

"And another," she paused again, "is there no money to go out?"

Yang Yikun put his hand in his pocket and looked away, "Yes." ”

When she saw this kind of dodge, she didn't believe it: "I'll give it to you, how much do you lack?"

"I don't spend your money. Yang Yikun didn't want to deal with her.

"You're going to pay it back!" she stressed, "and you have to bring interest, and the interest is to accompany me to go shopping and watch movies...... Anyway, you can't say no to what I like. ”

"Oh woman!"

Yang Yikun shook his head and wanted to leave.

"Stop!" she stomped her foot unwillingly, "then you can have a little opinion, and I'll consider it." ”

Yang Yikun, who had his hands in his pockets, looked back at her: "How much?"

She rummaged through her bag to find her phone and card, and then looked up: "How much do you want?"

The corners of Yang Yikun's mouth curled up, and the project went on as expected.

……

We can look at how they get along from a third-party perspective.

First of all, Yang Yikun, a standard scumbag with a heart, has a girlfriend and is still flirting with other girls, and has a very general attitude towards his girlfriend, not licking or coaxing, and occasionally picking fault with her and making her angry.

And then eat her and drink hers, and go to play is all paid by the woman, and she eats soft rice with peace of mind! What is even more incomprehensible is that he also spends his girlfriend's money, and it is not a small amount!

Looking at Du Xinyi's side again, she found a boyfriend who was completely different from what she imagined to be "elegant and noble, gentle and considerate like Prince Charming in a fairy tale", but she liked it very much.

She ignores her suitor, but she compromises him everywhere! she feeds and drinks him, and keeps giving him money to spend...... The familiar good friends around me can't stand it, and some have told her that this is not good, saying that such a man is unreliable!

She'd retort, "You don't understand! He's not like that!"

He obsessively continued to devote himself to this relationship that others could not understand.

Above.

In fact, in reality, it is not uncommon to see this kind of example: a woman has an unmotivated boyfriend, and the man doesn't look very good, not a handsome guy, and not necessarily gentle and considerate, but she just likes it obsessively and indulges him.

The men are all howling: "Why can this kind of spicy chicken man have such a good girlfriend!Why don't good men like me have a girlfriend!"

Yang Yikun has become a standard scumbag in people's eyes, and Du Xinyi has become Bai Fumei who can't be persuaded to look back!

Why?

A lot of people want to ask, but a lot of people don't know!

Did Yang Yikun pour her ecstasy soup? Or did Du Xinyi fall for the poisonous Gu? Actually, it is not, one is the investment psychology, the second is the inducement psychology, and the third is the sustenance mentality.

Let's start with one of them, such as stocks being trapped. Once an investor is trapped, it will be difficult for him to break his wrist, and he will not be able to withdraw from this game that is getting bigger and bigger!

Although others saw it clearly, they advised him to take a stand as soon as possible and persuade him to stop the loss in time! But he would not listen, he must be obsessed with it, because he had invested too much in the past, and he did not want to give up!

This is a little the same as Du Xinyi's mentality, when she is attracted, the man is already standing in a high position, she will want to get more, invest more, and look forward to the rewards that belong to her.

[PS: Just a brief mention.] Because it involves mental anchoring, hypnosis, and behavioral psychology, we will explain it in detail later on advanced techniques. Don't copy your homework either, it's easy to mess up. 】