Chapter 013: From Strange to Quickly Familiar
From the moment you dare to walk up to a beautiful woman and take the initiative to say hello, you have beaten 90% of men!
Don't underestimate this simple step, "proximity anxiety" can destroy 90% of men who have had ideas in their heads, so that they will stay in their minds forever and never take this step!
If you dare to do this, your act is a display of high value! You are proud! But in this breeding war for the best mates, it is not enough to take the first step!
After Yang Yikun said "Hi", the hot girl was still squatting on her own.
She doesn't squint, concentrates, and squats rhythmically...... I didn't distract myself from being greeted by someone next to me, and I didn't pay attention to the person who accosted me.
What would you do if you were ignored?
You know, beautiful women tend to be very confident, even proud!
There is a data in the United States that shows that when a beautiful woman grows up to the age of 24, she may experience two or three thousand overtures from men!
But men are mixed, which ones are alphas, which ones are betas? Go and check their accounts a little bit, see what cars they drive, what houses they live in? How is it possible!
In hundreds of thousands of years of evolution, the foreshadowing has already been laid! Because females have a limited lifespan and reproductive period, the reproduction mission requires their judgment to be fast and accurate!
If a person makes a mistake in judgment and is impregnated by a weak and incapacitated person, they will face the risk of lack of food, self-protection, and even death during the 10-month pregnancy!
So in the end, the females who misjudged were all extinct! The rest of the women who have bred to this day have the natural genes to quickly distinguish between the strength and weakness of a man's value!
Some high-scoring women will deliberately treat the favorites indifferently, resist or even speak disrespectfully, in fact, this is not their small-mindedness or, this is just the instinct of choosing a mate.
They will reflexively protect themselves, which is a "waste test" for men! The hot girl has taken a cold and uncaring approach this time!
If you don't have enough experience, most of the time you can't find the topic, the embarrassment of not being able to open it, and you're gone!
Even if you don't leave, you will be nervous and flustered, your eyes will have nowhere to put it, you can't stand, you can't walk!
The panic of this series is unnatural, they will catch it instantly, and immediately know that this guy is just a worthless, low-value person at the bottom of society!
But her indifference did not affect Yang Yikun's positive mood at all, and he was not in a hurry, just leaning on the shelf next to him, smiling and watching her do squats.
The Spice Girl had actually noticed the guy, but she wanted to finish the set.
Yang Yikun looked at her with an appreciative attitude, and waited for a few seconds before he said leisurely: "Your squatting thighs are not level enough, and your knees are a little crooked inward." ”
The hot girl let go of the barbell and turned her head over and asked, "Are you the coach?"
The tone in which she said this was not an inquiry, but a kind of questioning of the accosting!
Yang Yikun saw that she was serious, so he joked: "The coach wants money, I just need a smile." ”
The corners of her mouth moved, but she was still on guard: "What are you laughing at?
Yang Yikun always smiled easily: "If it's not good-looking, don't worry I won't come to talk to you." ”
"You men!
"If you don't come when you see something good-looking, most of the time there is a problem. I'm normal. ”
"Hmm...... It's so thick-skinned. ”
The hot girl smiled, her first minute resistance had been lifted. Yang Yikun's tone and posture before and after were completely different from those men who usually made her curious.
The waste test, also known as the consistency test, is not only in a strange conversation, but also in the development of a friendship with a woman, when you fall in love with a girlfriend, and even when you get married, it will exist!
There are many kinds of tests, for example: I'm stupid (ugly, xx) so we don't fit!
Or: I don't like fat (thin and short);
During the relationship, they asked: Do you love me? Who will you save if your mother and I fall into the water?
And so on.
Women are born with these tricks and are good at testing men's consistency!
If you are frightened and hesitant in the face of these problems, you will lose consistency!
If you get angry and fight back and scold her, you're a spicy chicken with no breath and no stomach!
First of all, don't let her words affect your mentality!
And then don't justify!
Just like Yang Yikun's response just now, he can even do the opposite: "So you're new?"
A man who dares to question a woman has the meaning: I have a higher value proposition than you, so I dare to question you!
The hot girl is a little more curious between her eyebrows, because in her life, everyone praises and flatters her, and she rarely meets this kind of man, and she is also very proud: "Do you think the newcomer can practice so well?"
Yang Yikun laughed: "Actually, I like free training, personal trainers fly in my ears like flies and nag to sell classes, I feel like going to a hairdresser to wash my hair." ”
After the hot girl let down her guard, she was infected by his emotions: "Do you want to apply for a card for a beautiful woman who keeps being sold!"
"It's just, it's embarrassing and there aren't many lines to refuse!"
Yang Yikun quickly established their common concept and extended:
"In fact, those of us who have some foundations, mutual assistance and cooperation, on the contrary, are more efficient. ”
She nodded habitually, because beautiful women usually get a lot of flattery in life, Yang Yikun looks okay, and takes the initiative to approach herself to help?
However, Yang Yikun picked on her again: "But I found that you may be a little, how to say, you are very good-looking, but it affects my concentration, you may ask too many questions!"
She looked puzzled: "Why?"
Yang Yikun shrugged with a smile: "Look!"
The hot girl was satisfied and disgusted, and scolded with a smile: "Hey, you guy...... What do you want me to answer?"
See, the interaction has begun, and the sense of resistance has been lifted!
Yang Yikun broke the proximity anxiety with self-confidence and passed the waste test, and he performed differently, so she started to get a little interested!
He communicated very naturally, and the conversation felt like an old friend for many years, and he knew that her name was Du Xinyi, from the Academy of Arts, or studying dance, and after opening the topic, she was actually very cheerful.
Yang Yikun created a comfortable atmosphere, and exchanged some fitness content with her, and learned that she wanted to practice stronger because she felt that her thigh meat was not tight enough.
He said he felt: "There are very few women who are as good as you and willing to take risks." ”
She wanted to communicate: "Because you can train thick legs?"
"Aren't they afraid of being a little muscular? But I personally feel that they dare to pursue what they like, even if they are fierce, they are charming. ”
She nodded: "I don't care what other people think, I just want to make myself better." ”
She slightly agreed with the framework that Yang Yikun threw to her, which was a good signal to advance, and Yang Yikun said: "But I can help you guide you on how to choose between the two." ”
"Really?"
He smiled slightly: "There is a condition. ”
"Just know!"
Du Xinyi's expression was expected, because she felt that this person was very practical, she didn't hide anything, she just said what she should say, and she wouldn't be flattered and touted because she was good-looking...... He's kind of a friend's positioning.
Yang Yikun smiled: "Others ask for money for teaching, so I don't need it, let's eat instead." ”
"I'm going to look at the quality first!" she said.
"No problem!"
Yang Yikun quickly established a high-value display of her, and a little pickiness about her, which stimulated Du Xinyi's desire to challenge men with character...... In layman's terms, she's starting to take the bait!
He began to talk about his practice experience: "Girls don't need to practice with a lot of weight, a small amount of many times is more appropriate, by the way, how tall are you?"
"I?171. ”
She is indeed quite tall, her skills are very flexible, and the woman who practices dancing feels soft everywhere, like no bones, Yang Yikun's vision is right, she can score nine points.
Then she smiled consciously: "It's stressed!"
"I find that you really tend to be overly proud! Don't you feel that you are standing much shorter than me? narcissistic!"
Yang Yikun ridiculed with a little suppression.
High-scoring women have been living in praise for a long time, and they can even be a little silly, thinking that all overtures to her are taken for granted, and all praise is deserved - he needs to constantly suppress this thought (high profile)!
"How can you say that a girl!" she was unconvinced, "I'm not proud, I'm strength!"
Yang Yikun smiled and didn't believe it: "Okay, stop boasting, come on!"
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[ps: In reality, there is not so much difficulty in accosting, because there are very few high scores and pride, you boldly go up and say "Hey, I see you are very cute, I want to know you", most of the girls are laughing or shy, most people will talk to you politely, and even they will be nervous. Personal experience insights. 】