Chapter 40 Emotional intelligence determines the height of life
Ma Dongbao's eyes lit up: "Negative?"
"Yes, it's negative. Not only are they not self-motivated, but they are often self-denying. I can't do this, I don't dare to do that. That is to say, not only do they not give themselves a little positive encouragement, but on the contrary, they always drag themselves back. ”
Ma Dongbao asked in surprise: "Is there really such a person?"
"There are quite a few such people. Take you students as an example, most of the people who don't usually like to study and have low grades have this situation. And many people who seem to have good academic performance also have this situation to a greater or lesser extent. If these people are not convinced, you can ask yourself, have you done your best to study?"
Ma Dongbao: "When you say that, I can probably understand a little." Look at my tablemate, Wen Yaxin, class leader, she has a strong self-motivation ability, right?"
"Well, people are not only self-motivated, but also able to motivate others, which is of course very strong. You see, if you are the same student, or a classmate and a tablemate, why is the gap between the two of you so big?"
Ma Dongbao: "......"
"There are many things to say about IQ and EQ, you are all still students, and IQ has a lot of direct relationship with academic performance, that is, people with good academic performance tend to have higher IQs. But the importance of emotional intelligence must not be overlooked. ”
Ma Dongbao: "What's the importance of emotional intelligence?"
"I don't know if you've heard some words? IQ determines the starting point of life, EQ determines the height of life, IQ determines how fast you go, EQ determines how far you can go, IQ determines the opponent, EQ determines the result......"
Ma Dongbao seemed to understand a little, "My tablemate Wen Yaxin is a person with high emotional intelligence, right?"
"Yes, as the class president, she can be supported by most of her classmates, which is very revealing in itself. To be a cadre on duty must be a person who can endure humiliation and bear heavy burdens and dare to take responsibility. ”
After listening to Xiao Dubao's words, Ma Dongbao finally understood why he studied so poorly, it turned out to be his low emotional intelligence, and the most direct manifestation was that his self-motivation was too poor.
However, the unexpected surprise that Ma Dongbao didn't expect was that his IQ was very high, and he could be regarded as an IQ master.
While Ma Dongbao was pondering, a voice shouted:
"Ma Dongbao, you stand up for me. It turned out that Wu Meng was standing on the podium and shouting loudly.
Ma Dongbao stood up obediently and looked at Wu Meng with a blank expression.
"Since the beginning of the class, I have seen your mouth keep moving, what have you been saying?" Wu Meng asked angrily.
Ma Dongbao finally understood why Wu Meng called his name, it turned out that when he was talking to Xiao Dubao just now, his mouth kept moving. But although my mouth kept moving, I didn't make a sound, and it didn't affect your lecture or your classmates' listening to the class.
I'm not even bothering with you anymore, but I didn't expect you to hold on to me now. He looked very innocent and said, "I didn't say anything, I'm listening carefully." ”
"Are you listening with your mouth?" Wu Meng asked.
The class burst into laughter.
"My ears and heart are listening, and my mouth is just repeating what you have said, so that I remember it more firmly. But I definitely didn't speak up, which affected the other students. Ma Dongbao said seriously.
"Then let me ask you, what was the last sentence I just said?" Wu Meng asked.
"Then let me ask you, what was the last sentence I just said?" Ma Dongbao replied honestly.
The class burst into laughter again.
Wu Meng's nose was almost crooked, and he forcibly suppressed the anger in his heart, and said, "I mean what I said in the last sentence just now?"
"Then let me ask you, what was the last sentence I just said?" Ma Dongbao replied honestly.
"You!?" Wu Meng really tilted his nose, "Okay, what did I say in the first sentence of class today?"
"Teacher, do you remember what you said in the first sentence?" asked Ma Dongbao, tilting his head.
"Of course I remember. Wu Meng said coldly.
"Okay, teacher, you say the first sentence, I say the second sentence you say, is it okay?" Ma Dongbao said seriously.
"Good. Wu Meng said angrily, "The first thing I said was: Students, let's study Lesson 10 today. ”
"No, the first thing you said was, Teacher: Go to class!" Ma Dongbao immediately corrected.
Wu Meng rolled his eyes angrily and said angrily, "Then what is the second sentence I said?"
"Students, we are studying Lesson 10 today. Ma Dongbao replied calmly.
The class erupted in thunderous laughter.
"Ma Dongbao, you!?" Wu Meng was a little angry, but he didn't know what to say for a while.
"Teacher Wu, don't be angry, I'm really not raising a bar with you. I really memorized everything you said, and I don't believe I'll repeat it to you. Ma Dongbao said calmly, and began to read it according to the big screen in his mind, repeating a paragraph word for word, in no order, imitating vividly. Even the sentence break mistakes that Wu Meng accidentally said, and then immediately corrected them, were completely imitated.
Wu Meng was surprised and angry on the podium, but he had no choice but to let Ma Dongbao sit down again, and warned him not to move his mouth in class, even if he didn't make a sound, because he looked very awkward.
Ma Dongbao had no choice but to agree, and warned Xiao Dubao that he could no longer chat with himself in English class.
So, Ma Dongbao finally finished the following English class quietly. As soon as the class ended, the students in the class were fried, and they were surprised by Ma Dongbao's performance, not only did he have the ability to tease the English teacher in class, but he also showed such a strong memory ability.
So after class, the students quickly gathered around Ma Dongbao and asked why Ma Dongbao had such an extraordinary memory ability?
At this time, I saw Gao Jianren swaggering to Ma Dongbao's side, hugging Ma Dongbao's neck and kissing Ma Dongbao's head. caused everyone to exclaim, Gao Jianren is more and more proud, it is rare to have such a highlight moment in the class, and he is the only one who deserves to share so intimately with Ma Dongbao.
Wen Yaxin smiled faintly beside her, Ma Dongbao's ability in class just now was beyond her imagination, but something similar had happened before, Wen Yaxin was not unprepared, and the degree of surprise was naturally not as good as that of other students.
Liu Jianhui wanted to turn his head several times and took the initiative to talk to Ma Dongbao. This bad student, who has been ignoring himself before, often bullied and teased, has shown superhuman abilities one after another since he passed the supernatural index test. After all, I couldn't wipe my face and didn't look back.
Zhao Ying, the class flower in the same group, couldn't care so much, besides, she had participated in Ma Dongbao's celebration banquet, and turned her head and praised: "Ma Dongbao, you were so amazing just now!"
Ma Dongbao smiled, his eyes swept over Zhao Ying's face, and by the way, he swept over his chest, which was still not zipped, and said, "It's over." ”
Zhao Ying saw that Ma Dongbao was the first to talk to herself, and she was overjoyed, and hurriedly asked, "Ma Dongbao, how did you achieve accurate memory?"
When Zhao Ying asked this question, all the students around her pricked up their ears, which was also the question they wanted to ask the most.