Chapter 50: Don't Be a Man (Ask for Collection)
"I know that there are a lot of popular jokes on the Internet right now. The first thing that comes to your mind is probably these paragraphs. Wang Zhan, let's talk about it. Xu Jiang named.
"That...... I did think of a sentence, that is, people who are smarter than me work harder than me, so what am I trying to do? I can't surpass them anyway!" Wang Zhan finished speaking, and the other students laughed.
Including He Xizi.
Everyone has heard this sentence, and I have to say that it has affected many people.
It's okay to talk about it, but it's hard to think about it as the true meaning of life.
Because in this life, people are not compared with others, but with themselves.
"Father Wang Zhan, everyone knows it, he is very rich. He is also very good, and he can be said to be a successful person. Xu Jiang gave an example, "Similarly, Mr. Lei of the rice mobile phone, everyone should have heard of it." He must be much richer than Wang Zhan's father. But he, at least he doesn't think he is a successful person. ”
"Why?"
"Because a person's happiness depends mainly on the circle he is in. If he is at the peak of his circle, then his happiness will burst. In the same way, even if a person is successful and surpasses 99.99% of the people in the world, as long as he is at the bottom of his circle, he will not be happy at all, and he may even become inferior. ”
"This is the consequence of comparing yourself with others, and it is easy to lose yourself. ”
"And compared to yourself, as long as you are more successful and work harder than your past self, then your life will always be meaningful. You will be hopeful and motivated for the future, rather than self-hypnotizing yourself into a salted fish. ”
"It looks like a Buddha, but it's actually making excuses for your laziness. The real Buddha system is that I don't compare myself with you, I compare myself with myself, I have my own rhythm. ”
After Xu Jiang finished speaking, he looked at everyone thoughtfully, and concluded: "So, a small and medium-sized talent has their rhythm. And we have our own rhythm in the third class of Taibai, as long as we go at our own pace, in the future, we may not lose to them. ”
"Life is a long road, the speed of a moment is nothing, the road knows the horsepower!"
Bang Bang Bang!
Wang Zhan applauded wildly, No. 1 licked the dog with a real hammer!
Zhang Xiaowei simply looked down on Wang Zhan's shameless behavior, because his applause could not surpass Wang Zhan, Wang Zhan had great strength. But Mr. Xu said well, to be a man, you must have your own rhythm and compare with yourself.
"Okay, that's great! Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years!" Zhang Xiaowei didn't blush, ignoring everyone's contempt, I have my own rhythm.
After that, Xu Jiang seemed to discuss with everyone separately, but in fact analyzed two other sensitive topics.
These are the most common words in the mouths of young people today.
One is "parents just live their own lives, don't worry about us, they should have their own lives, they shouldn't live for others, even for me as a child".
It seems to be positive energy, but in fact, it is also divided into categories, and I have explained it before, so I won't go into details.
To see whether this sentence is sincere or not, the core lies in whether the children who speak have arranged something for their parents. If there is, then this sentence is sincere and worthy of praise.
If you just talk empty words, and do not give your parents corresponding financial support, route planning, and greetings, it is purely to evade responsibility.
Because you have taken care of me now, I will take care of you in the future.
The last one is the theory of raising children and preventing old age.
Many young people don't want children now because they feel that raising children is nothing more than raising children to prevent old age.
This view is a bit extreme.
But as long as your starting point is not to escape the huge financial pressure you need to bear because of raising children, then it is okay not to raise children, as long as you don't regret it.
But many people actually don't want children just to escape the huge financial pressure.
Speaking of which, this generation of young people has taken on too much pressure, and the reason why many unconventional statements can resonate with young people is that there is actually a shadow of evading responsibility at the core.
Because of their young age, it is normal for young people to not be able to take responsibility in a short period of time. But as long as they develop the belief and habit of facing everything bravely, one day they will be able to afford that piece of the sky in their own home.
But if you accidentally fall into the trap of these so-called "young people's voices", get used to avoiding pressure and responsibility, and don't work hard when you're young, then when his dependence leaves this world, they will suddenly collapse, and that's really worrying.
"Teacher Xu, the value is a bit high, I don't understand it. Yang Peng, the sports committee, raised his hand, and he was very serious in class.
"You well-developed Yang Xiaoniao!" Xu Jiang explained, "To put it bluntly, many people advocate the so-called freedom and independence of the West, which is very simple, according to the core of independence, you pay back everything you owe to your parents, and then settle the alimony in the future, whatever you want." If the parents don't understand it yet, it's the parent's problem. ”
"But I think most people are going to pay off this account. It's not freedom and independence, it's the old man!"
"Alright, the time is almost up, let's go to the exam. ”
Xu Jiang personally sent half-understood students into the examination room. Each person sits in front of a computer with two cameras to ensure that candidates are not cheating.
This kind of test is the same as the first and fourth subjects of the driver's license.
Having said that, how much they can comprehend depends on the ability of these students themselves.
……
Two hours later, the rematch was over.
Qin Feifei and the others came out to look at Xu Jiang, and their eyes were different.
Hit again!
Really fake!
This time, there are a total of nine topics in the semi-finals of the National New Concept Essay Contest, and everyone can choose from them.
Three of them talked about the views on Buddhism and salted fish, the understanding of family responsibilities and freedom, and the in-depth analysis of the reasons behind the current hot topic of having children.
God!
Of course, the requirements for the semi-finals are much higher than those for the preliminary round, especially the writing skills.
This time, everyone was almost unsure.
Due to the limitations of experience, it is one thing for Xu Jiang to talk about those arguments, and it is another thing for them to write what they wrote.
"Walked away, eaten. Xu Jiang was going to take everyone to dinner.
As a result, I met Liu Jun at the school gate.
Liu Jun also has two teachers by his side, and another person is dressed extraordinarily, wearing more than 10,000 Tissot watches in his hands, and a brand-new BMW 3 Series sedan by his side.
It's like a rich second generation.
"Going to dinner? What, do you want to go with me for a meal, my friend, please." Jiangcheng has opened a new seafood buffet, 269 people! I haven't eaten it!" Liu Jun was proud in his heart, one was that the two students in his class were said to have performed well, and the other was that he had met his rich friends and could show off his muscles.
This is called a social circle, do you understand?
According to science, the average of your five best friends is roughly your level. So having friends with local tyrants is worth showing off.
He Xizi smiled.
Xu Jiang eats Lao Tzu, uses Lao Tzu, and sleeps Lao Tzu...... Target.
The word "of" is important.
I've never seen a blush, this kind of cheeky person, I'm afraid that you won't be able to sneer a few words?
Be careful to hit the snake with the stick.
"Yes. Sure enough, He Xizi knew Xu Jiang too well, Xu Jiang kept nodding, turned to his students with a smile, and said, "Students, Teacher Liu invites you to eat seafood buffet, thank you Teacher Liu!"
Liu Jun's face changed drastically, and his friend also looked panicked.
With so many people, do you have to ask for 3,000 or 5,000?
In this place in Jiangcheng, three or five thousand for a meal is really too luxurious, and money is not spent like this.
What's more, although this rich second generation has a good watch and an okay car, it doesn't mean that he is really rich.
In this society, some people earn millions a month and drive more than 300,000 BMW 3 Series.
Some people earn 4,000 a month, and they also drive a BMW 3 Series with a down payment of 200,000 yuan made by their family and a 3,000 car loan every month to repay for six years.
Someone has a watch worth millions.
There are also people who have a watch worth 100 yuan, but it seems to be a million.
Who knows who?
Xu Jiang firmly believes that except for He Xizi, they are all scum!
"No, I mean it's just you and Teacher He, there's no ......"
"Thank you, Mr. Liu. "Cowardly as a mouse, Zhang Xiaowei successfully snatched the status of the first licking dog.
Squeeze on others, he's professional.
"Oh, that's it, I know, there are two packages at noon, a 269 enjoyment package, and a 358 premium package, I want 358!" Although Wang Zhan was a step slower, he maintained his own style, trench.
Xu Jiang's words, they remember them very well.
Liu Jun's friend is estimated to hate Liu Jun to death now.
So be a man, don't be high.
Don't say anything like this when you explode ten chapters on the day you put it on the shelf, because if you don't say it, you don't have to do it, and if you say it, you have to do it.