Chapter 164 The parents of both parties agreed to set a date for the marriage
After the meal, the sickle went back. Hashun Gerili's parents proposed to agree on the matter of arranging the family wine, and the six of them gathered in the model room where Caizi's parents lived and began to discuss.
Sun Fuhai said: "This family wine has to be done in accordance with the customs of the hometown, no matter what, this is the Sun family's daughter-in-law." ”
Hashun Gerili's mother glanced at her husband, then at Sun Fuhai and said, "Brother, of course, whoever takes their daughter-in-law is not allowed to follow the man's customs! ”
Hashun Gerili's father also said: "Brother, okay, just do what you ask, I have no opinion." ”
At this time, Caizi's mother said: "Big brother and sister-in-law, since this is the case, it is great." But there is still a question: Will this marriage be done in my hometown or in Shenyang? Let's go back to my hometown and do it, what will the old girl's family think? I don't know if the old girl's mother can get sick, and what if the crazy woman comes out to make trouble?"
Before Hashun Gerili's parents could speak, Caizi said: "Don't think about it when you go back to your hometown, I'm afraid it's not okay to be disturbed by the old girl's mother on this happy day?" ”
Sun Fuhai pondered, this is indeed an unavoidable problem, going back to his hometown to do an engagement wine is naturally a very glorious thing for the old Sun family, and the seven aunts and eight aunts of the Sun family are also good to look at the talented son and his daughter-in-law, hey......!
Sun Fuhai understood this, so he thought about it again and again and said, "Then it's in Shenyang! What do you see?"
Father Hashungeri said, "That's fine, so that we don't have to toss." Now that we have agreed to marry our daughter to your family, we don't have much to say, it's better to keep it simple. According to our Mongolian custom, we have to accompany our daughter to a corresponding amount of dowry. During the marriage, the bridegroom wears a bright Mongolian robe, a ribbon around his waist, a yarmulme red tasseled hat, high leather boots, and a bow and arrow. But you are Han and don't have these etiquettes, and besides, you won't be able to! Just do what you do, and we'll just do it. ”
Sun Fuhai was very moved when he heard that this prospective in-law was so sensible, and he said: "Since, brother, you have said your part, you have nothing to say, this matter is easy to do, set the day after tomorrow for the wine, and make preparations tomorrow." ”
Sun Fuhai's proposal everyone nodded and agreed, and Sun Fuhai said: "We have to buy something for our future daughter-in-law according to the rules of my hometown." I don't know what to buy now, so let's pay for it and let them choose for themselves! As for the bride price, we'll give the money, right?"
Hashun Gerili's parents said, "What kind of bride price? Our family has already spent a lot of money on talented people. In addition, the two of them are much richer than us, so let's get rid of them, brother. ”
At this time, the talented mother said: "If that's the case, let's give them the money we brought, we made preparations when the old couple came, and we don't want to take some money when our son gets married?"
At this time, Hashun Gerili's father lowered his head and did not speak, he felt very uncomfortable, he knew that his family had no money for this future uncle.
Caizi and Hashun Gerri Li sat on the side without squeaking.
Caizi knows that his parents don't have much money, and even if they have a little, they save a little pocket money. The money I sent back the last two times is estimated to have been spent.
At this time, Sun Fuhai gave Caizi's mother a look, and Caizi's mother understood her husband's meaning. She went into the toilet and came out a short time later, holding a plastic bag in her hand.
Caizi understood that this was the part where her mother hid the money on her body and took off her clothes or pants to take it out.
Caizi was amused in his heart, he knew that this was the usual method used by rural women when they went out, so it was safer not to lose it.
Caizi's mother carefully opened the bag, and the money rolled into a ball, and she counted them one by one. Sun Fuhai on the side was anxious, Sun Fuhai said: "Didn't you count them all when you came, what else did you count?"
Caizi's mother didn't count anymore, looked at Hashun Gerili and said, "This is 5,000 yuan, and I won't count it either." You're going to buy a gold ring or something, right?"
After speaking, the talented mother walked up to Hashun Gerili and handed the money to Hashun Gerili. Hashun Gerili looked at the prospective mother-in-law, and then at the talented man, he didn't immediately reach out to pick it up.
Caizi understood that this Hashun Gerili was asking for his opinion, so he said: "This is a little bit of our mother and father's heart, let's take it, and we will find another opportunity to return it in the future, won't we?"
Seeing that the talented man said this, Hashun Ge Rili took the money and said, "Thank you, auntie, thank you, uncle." ”
When the talented child's parents saw the eyes of Hashun Geri Li looking at the talented son just now, they understood that this daughter-in-law must be a reasonable person. They felt a sense of comfort in their hearts, feeling that the object chosen by their son was really good.
In the end, everyone agreed on the wedding date, and Sun Fuhai said: "Bring the Yanghuang calendar, and I will calculate it." ”
Caizi understood that the Yanghuang calendar that his father said was the local dialect of his hometown, and this Yanghuang calendar was a calendar.
There is a calendar on it, Sun Fuhai looked at it, at this time, this year's new wall calendar has one page per month, only the first two pages are the date before the Spring Festival, and the date after the Spring Festival.
The father stopped on the second page, pointed to the second day of the second month of the solar calendar, and said, "Just this day, the first week of the Spring Festival, the lunar calendar is December 22, and it is a double day, auspicious." ”
After speaking, he looked at everyone and waited for everyone to express their opinions. Hashun Gerili's father took the calendar, looked at the date designated by Sun Fuhai and said, "This day is good, so be it." Can you take a look?"
The two mothers-to-be also came to see that they all said yes, and Caizi and Hashun Geri had no opinion. And so the day was set.