Chapter 023: Happiness is Conservation
What is written in the letter?
Su Yan roughly recalled and said: "In the letter left by my father, he said that he left me thirty acres of land, and there was a certificate of lease of Zhang Tian's property in the envelope, saying that the field had been leased to others, and let me remember to go to the farm office on January 15 every year to receive a share of the output, and if I have no intention of cultivating or doing other things in the future, I can return the field and plant it myself."
"My mother left ten taels of silver in my envelope, she said in the letter: If you feel lonely, just find a girl to marry earlier, if you can't find it, go to my uncle for help, if you don't want to find your uncle, you can also find a matchmaker, then ten taels of silver should be prepared for me to marry. ”
When talking about these things, Su Yan omitted all the true feelings in the letter, so that people couldn't see what kind of attitude his parents used to write to him, and they couldn't see what emotions Su Yan might have after reading the letter.
However, everything can be interpreted as much as possible in the good light, which is conducive to people to better embrace the future of life.
Huang Xiaobing, who was sitting on the same bench as Su Yan, put down the dishes and chopsticks, moved a short distance towards Su Yan's position, stretched out his left hand and rubbed his head and comforted: "It can be seen that although uncles and aunts have no feelings for each other, they really care about you, otherwise they wouldn't have thought so much about you, and they would have to wait until you have the ability to survive independently before leaving." ”
She cautiously stretched her head to the left, turned over and faced Su Yan with half of her face, looking at him from bottom to top, revealing a good-looking smile, trying to comfort Su Yan who might have fallen into loss.
Who knew that Su Yan not only did not show a depressed expression at this moment, but a happy look, he grinned and said: "I can accept any parting, and I can accept them to come back at any time, in fact, for me, it is better for them to be able to separate freely than to get together for me, they have always been very good to me, and I also hope that they can find their own happiness...... Why are you looking at me like that?"
It's embarrassing to get so close, Su Yan's head was raised back.
Huang Xiaobing sat up straight and thought, "It turns out that he is stronger than I thought?"
After pondering for a second, she hugged Su Yan, rested her head on his shoulder, and said with a grin: "Then before Daddy and Mother go home, I will accompany you!"
Su Yan looked at her perfect smile and felt that this was the happiest moment in her life, there were not so many messy things, where could someone like herself find such an easy partnership?
He smirked, "Hmm...... Well, eat, eat!"
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Happiness is conserved, and some people are happy, and most of them will feel unhappy because of it.
For example, at this moment, there was a man standing at the door of Su Yan's house, and he looked at the courtyard in front of him in a daze, feeling that the space he occupied in this world was simply not worth mentioning.
Thinking about the way Huang Xiaobing and the man walked in just now, his expression was blank.
For a while, he was a little depressed, and said nonsense: "Obviously I came first, whether it is acquaintance, whether I meet my parents, whether I like Xiaobing, it is obviously ......."
He scratched his hair in annoyance and said angrily: "Absolutely not, they must not be together, I want to stop them!"
Although he wanted to stop it, he couldn't directly rush into Su Yan's house like this to pull them away, firstly because it would definitely leave a bad impression on Xiaobing, secondly because it was illegal to trespass into a private house, and thirdly because he couldn't enter even if he didn't consider breaking the law, because this was not a world where ordinary people lived after all, and if you wanted to open the door, you must have the corresponding door secret order, that is, the identity jade plate that matches the door.
He couldn't enter the Su Mansion, so he had to take two steps back, and then turned around and ran towards the South Fifth District.
While running, he whispered: "This matter must be known to uncles and aunts, when they know that Xiaobing actually wants to be with the poor boy in District 1, they will definitely stop it, I am also for Xiaobing's good, uncle and aunt will definitely agree, hum!"
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Su Yan and Huang Xiaobing didn't know that there was a lost man outside the door just now who fled in a panic because he saw them happily together.
They didn't have time to care outside the door, because after eating, they had already started to communicate more deeply.
It is only through constant communication that they can deepen their understanding of each other so that they can get along more harmoniously in their future lives.
For example, if there is no such thing as Baiyi Pavilion recruiting readers, what are their original plans for the future, and what kind of job will they choose?
For example, if they get married in the future, how should they run their own small family, and how should they avoid the mistakes made by their parents when educating their younger generations?
If you still can't help but make the same mistake in the future, how should you admit your mistake to your children, don't give them the impression that your father and mother are unreasonable, and then lead them crookedly.
If you really don't want to admit your mistakes, what roundabout way should you use to get your child's forgiveness?
Of course, they also know that it is a very bad way to admit mistakes in a roundabout way, because after a roundabout, they may not be able to help but often admit mistakes in this way after seeing the effect, after all, for parents, this is the least costly way to admit mistakes, and in the end, in the roundabout, the distance between the two generations will actually be gradually distanced, because in this mode of admitting mistakes and forgiveness, it is actually the children who pay more costs.
Eventually, the more parents admit their mistakes, the more pain the child will suffer!
Obviously, adults are the more sensible party, but to let children be more sensible than them, there will be such a cruel truth in the world, if you haven't experienced too much, how can you understand this pain?
The reason why Su Yan can understand is because he has seen a lot in his previous life and experienced a lot of himself.
And the reason why Huang Xiaobing can understand is because the population density of the South 5th District is still quite high after all, and she has seen many friends become miserable because of this since she was a child, and she feels that it is difficult to face the world.
So it's the way parents and children get along that they definitely don't want to use.
After chatting for a long time, they couldn't help but be very happy to find that each other's ideas were so compatible with their own.
However, all fantasies will inevitably fall back to reality in the end.
After thinking about the future, they always have to return to the present.
Huang Xiaobing has a general understanding of Su Yan's family situation, and then it is her turn to introduce the situation of her family, and before meeting her parents, she must always let him be prepared.
It was getting late, and Huang Xiaobing talked eloquently to Su Yan, which made him understand the reality that the two families were in the wrong place, but this also completely aroused his enterprising spirit, and he wanted to be more attentive to the things that led the readers.
At the same time, there was a woman named Chu Yuqing who passed by the Su Mansion in a carriage to the city gate, she got out of the carriage and went up the west slope alone, very eager to know what happened to that man, why did he leave this world at a young age?
'Is it true, as others say, that he died because of me?'