"That's true. Listening to He Fang's words, Li He was thoughtful.

Mrs. He said, "Girl, whether to give it or not is a matter of attitude, not a matter of money, give a dollar, two yuan, we can't care, after all, the mind has arrived, this is a matter of touching face, if you don't give a dime, in my opinion, this family can't do it, it's too bad!"

She was embarrassed to ask if they agreed, or did they not admit it?

I didn't take you seriously at all, how hurtful it is!

So it's very tactful, I can only say that the man in the family has a problem with his character!

Li Yan looked at Li He, and then at He Fang, and said with a weak heart, "The customs and habits of various places are different, maybe they don't like this locally, maybe they can't say it." ”

"Who are you fooling, this is, I haven't been here with your brother for a day or two, people are particular about this, even if they don't give it to you, they won't let you come back empty-handed, your key thing is a bracelet, and you almost give a food, a headscarf or something. He Fang said unceremoniously, "Okay, just don't say any customs, let's just talk about human feelings, the first time you entered the door, you weren't embarrassed to go empty-handed?"

How did they just make you come back empty-handed?

When I saw it one day, I had to ask!"

As she spoke, she seemed even angrier than Li Yan.

"This old Chen seems to be a bit excessive. Li He didn't seem to be angry, the love between men and women is not a matter of two people, it is also a matter of two families, the other party's parents disagree, what is there to be angry about!

"Don't be angry, I don't think so, there's no need to take it too seriously, besides, after all, it's the first time I've come to the door, where can people settle down so easily. Although Li Yan was unhappy, like Li He, she could see it.

The old lady said, "That's not right, you girl just haven't suffered a loss, and your heart is big." Since his parents didn't think about the two of you in the first place, why did they blindly call you to dinner?

What does that mean?

At that time, the man and the woman made an appointment with each other, either to introduce others, or on the ridge, to take a look at each other, and then after thinking about it, they called the woman to go to the man's house for a meal or something.

You say, his parents, if they were really thoughtful, they couldn't help but meet you in advance, and according to the current practice, go to a restaurant or teahouse, get to know you as a person, and inquire about your family situation.

Call home, and then put this score again?

Isn't this a pure heart!"

The old lady peeled off the cocoon and said the Tao.

Li Yan's face turned red, and she said after a while, "I won't live with his family in the future, so whatever they do." ”

He Fang smiled and said, "How can you think so? If you don't get along well with your in-laws, there will definitely be conflicts in the future, you say that he is caught in middle age, if he is reasonable, you can feel better, if you are stupid, you will suffer in this life." ”

"I see. Li Yan lowered her head, and she didn't know what to say.

She was originally happy, and she was very happy with the warm and meticulous hospitality in the man's home, but at this moment, when she heard everyone's analysis, she found that this was not the same thing as she imagined!

"It's fine. He Fang also found that what she just said was a bit heavy, but marriage can't be dragged on with mud and water, she can't help but say it, she comforted, "You deal with it first, you can't deny his parents like this, and look at it later, I know that you are busy with work now, so you will focus on work." ”

Li He said, "Don't say anything, you guys are busy cooking, I'm hungry now, I'll pick up the children from school." ”

When he came back from picking up Li Lan, he began to work on a newly dug fish pond, the water was a spring coming down from the cracks in the stones on the mountain, the water flow was not large, but the water flowed for a long time, much better than the pond of the old house before.

He Fang and the old lady also opened a small vegetable garden on the flat land nearby, with turnips, tomatoes, and cucumbers that have begun to vine, in short, all kinds of vegetables suitable for the season.

I haven't bought vegetables from outside since the first three months since I moved here.

Of course, chickens and ducks, these two girls are also raised, and they are scattered in the mountains, and they are not afraid of them running, because they have formed a habit from the beginning, and when the time comes, they will come down to the door to find food.

A good set of Xishan villas just let these domestic animals spoil the atmosphere, and sometimes the steps of the house are full of chicken feces and duck dung.

Although Li He was helpless, it was up to them, otherwise he would be able to go crazy if he stayed in this remote countryside, and he wouldn't even be able to find a chatter.

He and He Fang can still stand it, after all, they can read books in their spare time, learn things, and meet the needs of their inner world, but it is extremely difficult for the old lady, and she can only relieve her loneliness by communicating with others.

On Saturday, He Fang came back from the chess academy after picking up Li Lan, happy for a while, and sighing for a while.

Li He asked, "What makes it difficult for you to be like this?"

He Fang handed him a piece of paper, "Read it for yourself." ”

"Go to Japan to participate in the Go competition?" Li He, like He Fang, didn't know whether to cry or laugh. From the bottom of his heart, he is proud of his son, and it is remarkable that he has the ability to go abroad to participate in such a high-end Go competition at a young age!

But in practical terms, this is unrealistic!

None of the two wanted their son to take the road of Go, and it was unprecedented to promise his son to go to the chess academy, but now his son is going farther and farther on this road!

This is something they never thought of!

"yes, what to do, I'll listen to you. He Fang let out a long sigh.

"You look at it. Li He didn't dare to make decisions indiscriminately, for fear that he would become the source of quarrels between the two in the future!

"I said, "Go ahead. He Fang really couldn't bear to see her son's disappointed eyes.

"It's okay, whether you have grades or not, you should see the world. Li He is looking forward to his son's failure to produce results, and he may die in Go at that time, "You go with you?"

He Fang waved his hand and said, "No one has parents to follow, but it seems that the child is pampered when I go, so let him follow the teacher, I have explained everything to the teacher, no problem."

Besides, the age is not too young, let him go out to exercise for a few days and learn to be independent on his own. ”

In order to make Li Lan learn to be independent, she now lets Li Lan wash his own socks, make his own bed, and sometimes even let him help work in the vegetable field.

"Then it's decided. Although Li He is also worried, if he doesn't let the child learn to be independent, he will definitely be unable to finish his heart in this life!

There are some things that money can't solve!