Chapter 165: About Marriage
Bai Xiaojiu used to think that Qi Jingchen was quite mature in thinking about some things, not like he was twenty years old at all.
Some men, when they reach the age of twenty-three or four, are still like boys who have not grown up, living in romantic longings.
Even if Bai Xiaojiu doesn't care about marriage, she still has a family that needs to care, in order to adapt and survive in this society.
She must also get married and have children at the right age, and live the life that all women should live.
No matter how much she wanted to be a maverick and a bachelor, she still had to think about marriage.
And seriously, for the sake of the future, think as comprehensively as possible.
Qi Jingchen's words made her look at his side face in surprise, and at this moment she felt that he was still so immature.
At least for now, it seems that he will not be a suitable marriage partner.
Bai Xiaojiu looked at his side face stunned, Qi Jingchen was scalding vegetables for her, scalding them and putting them in her bowl, seeing her attentive gaze.
was a little proud, remembered what he said, and looked at Bai Xiaojiu's expression was not good, and asked inexplicably, "What's wrong?"
"Do you think that when two people are together, as long as they have feelings, it is enough?"
Qi Jingchen felt in his heart that when two people are together, feelings are the primary condition, and other family conditions, the external conditions of both parties are secondary.
Of course, he fell in love with Bai Xiaojiu at first sight at first sight, which had broken what he had always thought.
He always felt that it was natural for two people to be together, and never thought that love at first sight would happen to him.
Bai Xiaojiu's emotion just made him subconsciously think of his previous cognition, so he casually followed and expressed his opinion.
But now it seems that Bai Xiaojiu doesn't seem to approve of it, and he doesn't like this point of view very much?
Qi Jingchen has no experience in love, but he has an instinctive sense of his girlfriend's emotions, and he doesn't look happy when he sees her like this.
Trying to reverse the impression, but how to explain it?
Qi Jingchen was a little short of words, opened his mouth, and "I" for a while before he stumbled and continued to pull, "I, what I mean." Two people, two people. To be together, there must be affection. ”
Zheng Qing almost laughed when he saw Qi Jingchen like this, endured it, lowered his head and swiped the vegetables in his oil dish.
Zhang Jueyu glanced at Qi Jingchen with sympathy several times, but Bai Xiaojiu sat opposite them, he was even more afraid that Bai Xiaojiu's topic would resonate with Zheng Qing, and then the two women would have a fatal problem together.
The two of them can basically hold on to death.
"This hot pot restaurant tastes good, right? It didn't take long to open. I think the duck intestines are about to be eaten, do you want to try his goose intestines? ”
The topic that Zhang Jueyu tried to divert did not get a response.
Bai Xiaojiu slowly put down his chopsticks, picked up a tissue and wiped the corners of his mouth, turned his head and looked at Qi Jingchen with a serious face, "I don't mean anything else, I'm just curious." Do you really think that two people are in love together? Nothing else matters?"
If it was before, when you were still longing for romantic love, you would probably be happy in your heart when you heard your boyfriend say such things, and I felt that he was expressing the love of two people.
But she is now twenty-five years old, and although she does not feel too old in her heart, she has also reached an age where she must think about the future.
Those unrealistic ideas should be put behind you and find a man who is suitable for life, no matter how boring it is in your heart.
"I ......" Qi Jingchen was silent for a moment, nodded honestly, looked down at his oil dish, and didn't dare to look at Bai Xiaojiu, "I think so." ”
"It's good. Bai Xiaojiu lowered the disappointment in his eyes, looked at the steaming hot pot and the tumbling hot pot, and replied lightly.
Zheng Qing, who was sitting opposite her, saw it at a glance, and felt a little emotion in her heart, even if she was younger than Bai Xiaojiu, she understood that sometimes feelings are more than just two people.
Zheng Qing pursed his lips, opened his mouth slightly, and was about to speak.
Zhang Jueyu stood up suddenly, pulled a pair of hems, and showed a flattering smile at Zheng Qing, "Didn't you just say that you wanted to eat ice powder around here?"
As soon as Zheng Qing heard what he was eating, he was instantly distracted, and nodded again and again, "Mmmmmmmm He turned his head to look at Bai Xiaojiu with a look of recognition on his face, "The ice powder in that house tastes great, but it's a little far away." I was afraid that I missed the scheduled time, so I didn't take a detour to buy it. ”
"I'll buy it. That, I can't hold four bowls by myself. Zhang Jueyu glanced at Qi Jingchen, then turned his head to look at Zheng Qing, "Is one bowl enough?"
Zheng Qing, who was about to continue talking to Bai Xiaojiu, bit his finger with a tangled expression and stretched out his hand, "I want two bowls." ”
Qi Jingchen consciously stood up, "Then I'll go with you?" quietly breathed a sigh of relief as he spoke, and glanced at Bai Xiaojiu's expression again.
"Then you go. We are here for you. It just so happens that these dishes need to be cooked for some time. Bai Xiaojiu smiled at Qi Jingchen, trying to make this smile look more natural.
Qi Jingchen didn't see that her mood was inappropriate, so he breathed a sigh of relief, patted her head gently, as if silently saying that you are good, tilted his head and smiled at her, and followed Zhang Jueyu to walk out.
Zheng Qing waited for them to walk out of the store, sat down beside Bai Xiaojiu, turned his head to look at it a few times, and pursed his lips, "Every time he doesn't want to listen to me, he uses this trick to slip away." I don't know him yet?"
Bai Xiaojiu laughed, and was pinched by Zheng Qing's arm, so he stopped laughing, "Isn't this a good thing? In the future, marriage will be directly converted into a family model. ”
Zheng Qing just shook his head casually, showed a somewhat self-deprecating smile, and turned his head to look at Bai Xiaojiu, "Are you quite disappointed?"
has been with Bai Xiaojiu for so long, she thinks she knows her, at least Bai Xiaojiu in her heart is not such a romantic.
"Sort of. I think he looks pretty mature. But in fact, he is not a suitable person to marry. Bai Xiaojiu was a little depressed when he talked about this topic.
Zheng Qing racked her brains and thought about how to comfort her, and just raised her hand to pat her back.
Bai Xiaojiu suddenly showed an indifferent smile, and turned his head to look out of the floor-to-ceiling window, "Actually, I didn't expect to marry him, after all, he hasn't even reached the legal age." I think it's been enough time for us to get to know each other and figure out what I want. ”
Zheng Qing's raised hand stopped in mid-air, looked at Bai Xiaojiu's side face, slowly withdrew his hand, and turned his head to look in the direction of the hot pot in some confusion, "Actually, I don't know what will happen to us in the future." ”
Bai Xiaojiu was stunned, but she didn't expect Zheng Qing to say something pessimistic, and turned her head to look at her with a slight frown, "You two are childhood sweethearts, and your relationship is very good." What do you mean by not knowing what the future holds?"
"It's because of childhood sweethearts and good feelings, so the two often deal with each other. I probably understood early on that love may be a matter of two people, but living together is not a matter of two people. I never thought about getting married. Don't even dare to think about it. ”
Zheng Qing's words made Bai Xiaojiu react a little, and said two words tentatively, "?"
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a big problem, no matter how they get along, it is rare to achieve complete harmony.
"Well, more than that. My mom and dad, it's complicated anyway. I thought it would be best not to get married. Otherwise, I don't know how annoying it will be in the future. When Zheng Qing said this, he took a long breath and turned his head to smile at Bai Xiaojiu.
"I'm okay. At least we've agreed now that we're not talking about marriage for the time being. What about you? What about your parents? The one in your family is still young, and he doesn't look like a person who can think about getting married. ”
Zheng Qing's words almost pierced Bai Xiaojiu's heart, making her want to hold her chest and rub it, ease her emotions and wave her hand, "Don't mention it." I feel like I'm being told by my mom that I'm thirty-five years old now. ”
"Which store are you going to buy? Is it far away?" Qi Jingchen walked out of the store, was blown by the wind, his stomach was even more hungry, he wrapped his coat, lit a cigarette and asked.
Zhang Jueyu had just lit a cigarette, and when he heard this, he turned his head and raised his eyebrows to look at him, "I'm saving you, brother." What kind of topics do women talk about about marriage, all of them are fatal questions, and you want to answer them?"
Qi Jingchen was stunned by what he said before he reacted, and shook his head with a somewhat silly smile, "I think it's okay." After all, when two people are together, they always have to talk about this. It's better to be honest with each other for the rest of your life, and I'm not worried about what she'll do to me because we're talking about these topics. ”
This sounded like the "silly white sweet" just now who was full of love and water, not like the same person, so Zhang Jueyu looked at him several times, "Are you thinking about marriage now?"
Qi Jingchen tilted his head slightly and looked at the street lamp in the distance, dimly as he thought about his plan for the future, "I thought that the two of them would always be together." But getting married, I think it's still a bit far away. ”
Zhang Jueyu laughed sullenly, and no longer brought up this topic, after all, they were not particularly familiar friends, picked up a cigarette and took a puff, and slowly snorted, "What kind of flavor does your family like to eat?" ”
"It should be similar to your family, right? Why don't I call and ask?" Qi Jingchen was a little confused, and scratched his head, "By the way, what is ice powder?"
"What is a man? If it weren't for the fact that it's normal for a man and a woman to get married in modern times, I would love to marry you. As Zheng Qing spoke, he turned around and continued to look at the quiet family of three, his gaze resting on the mud on the ground.
They chatted a few words at this table, the embarrassment over there was gone, a family of three sat together eating hot pot, the handful of roses was gone, and only the pile of flower mud on the ground reminded people that there was once a delicate place.
Bai Xiaojiu was amused by Zheng Qing's words, put her chin on her shoulder from behind, tilted her head slightly sideways to look over there with her, and reached out to twist her head, "Don't look at it." Even if you don't know each other, don't embarrass them. ”
"Actually, you're right, I also think that poor couples are sad. You see them eating a hot pot, almost all of them are vegetarian dishes. I was reluctant to settle the bill and leave after arguing like this. Wearing a ...... too"
Before Zheng Qing finished speaking, Bai Xiaojiu patted him on the shoulder and covered his mouth with a tissue.
"I live my life by myself. Live your life well. ”
Bai Xiaojiu's indifferent words made Zheng Qing laugh, glanced at the direction Zhang Jueyu left, took a deep breath, and showed a relieved smile, "Yes." I live my life by myself. Why keep looking at others. ”