Chapter 135: On Respect

Zheng Qing agreed with Bai Xiaojiu's words very much, nodded with deep sympathy, and sighed with some emotion, "I also think that what I like, he can't accept it, he should try to accept it, and he shouldn't directly deny me." That's respect! I was thinking that he just didn't trust me. Now when you say that, I think it's really disrespectful. ”

"I'm not saying I have to wear a swimsuit like this, I just like it. If you look good, you don't have to be this style. I just don't like his attitude. ”

Bai Xiaojiu was obviously a little sulking when she said this, feeling that he not only disrespected her, but also didn't give her face, insisting on it in front of her friends.

Even if the two of them didn't quarrel, the atmosphere was very awkward at that time, and in the end, she gave in, and she felt a little uncomfortable.

It's not that she can't give in, but after giving in, she will ponder it repeatedly, and there will be some unease.

"It's not called compromise, it's called mutual accommodation, humility, and understanding. Do you want her to listen to you for everything, so that you can be happy?" Zhang Jueyu said this to Qi Jingchen, and also said this to himself.

In fact, he still didn't want Zheng Qing to wear this style, and he always felt that he was at a loss when she dressed like this, but after thinking about it, she was so angry and insistent at the time.

Is it really right to make the person you love unhappy and satisfied for the sake of a swimsuit?

Zhang Jueyu also saw that her eyes were red after she got angry, and she was still arguing with him, at that moment, she was heartbroken and self-blame, feeling that she had done something wrong.

So he gave in, no longer insisted, and didn't use his own thoughts to influence her.

Qi Jingchen could understand what Zhang Jueyu meant, but he couldn't agree, nodded very seriously, indicating that he heard it, but replied stubbornly, "I don't have to let her listen to me, I just feel that I don't want her to do this, if she cares about my feelings, she won't do it." ”

"Hmm. I know what you mean. "Zhang Jueyu has experienced a lot of things, and he is much more mature than Zheng Qing, and he can think more deeply.

He didn't want to use his own thinking to influence others, not to mention that Qi Jingchen was still so insistent now, and followed his words: "Then you can have a good chat with her." ”

"Anyway, it's not negotiable, that's what I answered. In the end, he relented. Zheng Qing glanced at Qi Jingchen and Zhang Jueyu, who were some distance away from them, and leaned into Bai Xiaojiu's ear and whispered, "Otherwise, you two have a good chat, right?

"Hmm. Bai Xiaojiu hesitated for a moment, feeling that if he didn't communicate with Qi Jingchen, he would have to face this problem for a while, and they needed to solve this matter privately.

Zheng Qing stopped, let go of Bai Xiaojiu's hand, and turned to beckon to Zhang Jueyu, "I want to eat bamboo rice, Xiao Jiu doesn't want to eat it, he said he wants to drink milk tea, let's go eat?"

Zhang Jueyu was still listening to Qi Jingchen's gushing psychological analysis, and his heart was full of helplessness for this kind of novice in love, as soon as he heard Zheng Qing's words, he hurriedly interrupted Qi Jingchen's words and responded loudly to Zheng Qing, "I'll accompany you to eat." I see you haven't eaten anything since noon. Let's go. ”

Qi Jingchen was talking about what men think and what women do, when he saw Zhang Jueyu walking towards Zheng Qing, he glanced at Bai Xiaojiu, who was staring at him, and immediately stood up straight and smiled at her.

"I want to have a cup of milk tea, do you want to drink it?" Bai Xiaojiu handed it to Zheng Qing, who was holding Zhang Jueyu, and smiled gratefully, and walked over to Qi Jingchen.

"Thirsty, go. I'm going to drink. What about them?" Qi Jingchen glanced at the two people who left arm in arm.

"They're going to eat bamboo rice. Let's go for milk tea. Bai Xiaojiu also stepped forward to hold his arm, looked sideways at his expression, but didn't see any dissatisfaction, and felt a little uncomfortable.

It seemed that he didn't understand how uncomfortable she was just now, which made her feel a little bored.

"What is bamboo rice, is it delicious?" Qi Jingchen not only didn't think of what happened just now, but was attracted by the food, and he didn't expect to need to communicate with Bai Xiaojiu at all.

"It tastes okay. But I want to go for milk tea, and if you want to eat bamboo rice, go and eat it with them. Bai Xiaojiu's words were very casual, and he didn't care about it, but it was full of temptation.

Qi Jingchen didn't hear the temptation, thinking that she just said it casually, but it was definitely impossible to ask him to leave his girlfriend and go to eat with others.

He raised his hand and slid the back of his hand over her cheek, with a gentle smile, "Of course, I will accompany you to drink milk tea." After drinking, I will go to eat well, and it is more important to accompany you. ”

Qi Jingchen is not a person who is good at rhetoric, sometimes he thinks this from the heart, so the words he says are always very moving.

Originally, he was still uncomfortable because of what happened just now, but when Bai Xiaojiu heard this and looked at his smile, his whole mood calmed down again.

"Then let's go drink milk tea. By the way, sit there for a while?" Bai Xiaojiu pointed at his hand.

Looking in the direction of her hand, the bubble tea shop was not small, with sofa seats inside, and a bamboo fence outside, surrounded by vines, and wild flowers of unknown varieties.

Outside the store are bamboo chairs and bamboo tables, which look quite wild, not like a shop for drinking milk tea, but more like a good place to have a cup of tea.

The two of them ordered a cup of hot milk tea and sat down in the corner of the street outside the store, with bamboo chairs and pillows, and the whole person leaned on the back of the chair, and was illuminated by the warm autumn sun in the afternoon, so that they could sleep comfortably.

As soon as he sat down, Qi Jingchen was about to open his mouth to speak, when he saw Bai Xiaojiu leaning on the back of the chair, holding milk tea and raising his face comfortably, squinting slightly, looking extremely comfortable, and slowly closed his mouth again.

Bai Xiaojiu held the warm milk tea, the palms of her hands exuded just the right temperature, and her face was covered with sunshine, and she instantly felt that it was a pleasure to sit all the time in this leisurely afternoon.

I was about to fall asleep with my eyes closed, and there was a conversation with passers-by in my ears, and the two of them were discussing which hot spring to go to for a dip.

Only then did Bai Xiaojiu remember his main purpose, slowly opened his eyes, and looked at Qi Jingchen.

Qi Jingchen likes to see Bai Xiaojiu's lazy appearance very much, holding milk tea with both hands, supporting his elbows and upper body on the table, watching seriously.

When she opened her eyes and looked over, she immediately smiled, "Are you sleepy, do you want to sleep for a while?"

"I'm not sleepy. After Bai Xiaojiu responded softly, he didn't know how to talk about swimsuits.

"I ......"

"You ......"

Before the silence lasted five seconds, the two of them suddenly opened their mouths together, Qi Jingchen felt that she still needed a swimsuit at night, and this matter had to be resolved, and wanted to tell her that if she felt comfortable here, he could go and help her buy it back.

Bai Xiaojiu felt that he was going to go to the hot spring at night, and this matter had to be solved, so he wanted to talk to him directly.

The two of them spoke at the same time, this tacit understanding made the two of them look at each other and smile, Bai Xiaojiu pursed his lips and shook his head helplessly, opened his mouth to bite the straw, slowly sucked the milk tea, and waved at him, "You say it first." ”

Qi Jingchen had the heart to let her speak first, and when he saw that she lowered her head and slowly sucked the milk tea, she opened her mouth, "You like to sit here, then I'll help you buy a swimsuit, right?" Do you like the black one or the flower one?"

When Bai Xiaojiu heard these two choices, he inexplicably began to feel depressed again, took a deep breath, let go of his mouth, played with the straw with his hand at will, looked down at the milk tea, and replied softly: "I don't like any of them." ”

This sentence silenced the two of them, Bai Xiaojiu didn't get a response, looked up at him, and looked serious, "I just like that navy blue swimsuit." I think it's nice to look at, I love it. ”

Qi Jingchen was still adjusting his emotions, wanting to persuade her a few words, but when he heard her say so firmly, he wanted to blow up a little, and he held back his temper and emotions, and it took a while to calm down, and he tried to calm his tone, "Baby, that one is really not suitable for you." It's not pretty. ”

"Isn't it pretty, or do you think it's too exposed? Do you think women shouldn't dress like this? Should they wear old-fashioned one-piece swimsuits? It's better to just wear clothes and pants?"

Bai Xiaojiu's repeated questions made Qi Jingchen tighten his lips and be silent for a long time before he looked at her, "I really don't like you dressed like that." ”

Once a gap is opened in the hidden thoughts, it is easy to reveal them all, "I will be jealous, and I will feel that other men have taken advantage." I don't like it when you dress like that, and I want you to dress a little more conservatively. ”

"What age is it now? It's 2007! It's not 1807! Do you think it's still in the past? A swimsuit that I think looks good, I don't think I'll show anything, I just like it, you know? But what do you mean? I wear it for other men?"

The more Bai Xiaojiu thought about it, the more angry he became, thinking that he was obviously younger than her, and he should know more about trends, how could he be like an old antique?

"I know you're going to look good in this. But I feel uncomfortable, I can't stand you wearing this. I didn't say you wore it to other men, I didn't mean that. I just don't like what you wear. Besides, you like navy blue, and there are other swimsuits. There are other options, so why do you have to do that?"

"Qi Jingchen, you don't understand, this is no longer a swimsuit thing. It's about respect, I'm a human being, I'm an individual, I'm free. You are trying to restrain my freedom now, you want to restrain me with your thoughts. You understand? You don't respect my ideas, you don't respect my decisions. ”

Qi Jingchen was a little stunned by what Bai Xiaojiu said, and he was very anxious, leaning forward slightly, "I didn't disrespect you, I didn't restrain you." I just don't like you wearing it like this, I'm going to be bad. I can't accept it. Can you understand?"

"Why do you feel uncomfortable? Why do you feel uncomfortable? I can't accept it? Am I not wearing any clothes? It's just a swimsuit, you are so repulsed, you ask yourself, why? What do I like to wear, why do you care about other people's eyes? Why do you care about others? Do we live in other people's eyes?"

Compared with eloquence and reasoning, Qi Jingchen is not Bai Xiaojiu's opponent at all, listening to her words at this time, he was even more confused, looked at her blankly, and repeated, "I just don't like you to dress like this, I'm really uncomfortable." ”

"Do you think that others are taking advantage of me when they see me? You don't think about it, you are uncomfortable, forcing me to choose something I don't like, am I uncomfortable? You think that if you want to be comfortable, you need my accommodation? I don't want you to be uncomfortable, but I can't accept your thoughts. ”

"I didn't mean that, I don't want you to be uncomfortable!" Qi Jingchen hurriedly stretched out his hand, held her hand, and looked at her with a serious face, "I just want to spoil you and make you happy." ”

"But you don't respect me now, you want me to do what you ask, and I don't care if I'm wronged. ”