"You didn't, but your children didn't blame you, because they have grown up and understood what you used to do. ”

"But even though you're not around, your children learn how you live and think: what they hear from their grandparents!"

"He learned that in order to take on the responsibility of the family, you must make money day and night, and in order to make you live a happier life, he must also make money day and night, and your behavior has also made them have the illusion that filial piety and love can be replaced by money!"

"'Generate bones and grow meat', 'A one-year-old is a dog, a thousand years old is a dog', because the way of life and thinking he learned from you since he was a child has been deeply ingrained in his thoughts, so he repays you tenfold and hundredfold according to the way you gave him at the beginning, you say, is he wrong?" Rong Anran finally returned to the two sayings just now.

"No, boy, what you said doesn't make sense, I was almost surrounded by you......" The old man's eyes glared: "How is it written in the book? Even the song sings "Always Go Home to See", is he such a big person, will he not know?"

"Knowing is one thing, and doing it is another!" Rong Anran said.

"Isn't that over? I can't go home often to see, if he is not unfilial to him, what is it?"

"Uncle, you understand, can you tell me, how do you understand and how your thinking has changed?"

"Yo--I didn't think about that!"

"Then I'll tell you, it's time!"

"When?"

"Yes, it's time, so you can't be too selfish and have to let your son do "Always Go Home to See" right away, because the way of thinking and that kind of concept you taught him since childhood subconsciously governs his actions, making him ignore the importance of "Always Go Home to See", because, in his thoughts, there is more important than going home often!"

"Uncle, you haven't heard the saying in our hometown, but the ancients' saying 'do unto others if you don't want to do to yourself', have you always heard it?"

"You...... What do you mean to say...... Wrong...... Not in son, in me?"

"What do you say?"

"Wait, let me think about it - let me think about ......"

"Thank you, boy, for saying such a simple truth, but I have never thought about it before...... It seems that I was wrong, and my son's behavior really seems to be caused by me...... No, I have to go back quickly, go back and tell my son, so that they can set an example for their children from now on, ah--"

"Wait, uncle, I have an ancestral technique, I can temporarily go in and hurt, I'll help you!"

"Really?"

"It's true, but your bones haven't fully grown yet, and you're still holding steel plates, so even if it doesn't hurt, you have to be careful!"

"Oh, oh, good, good--"

Rong Anran pretended to be clumsy, and it would have been good to have a few taps, but he pretended to spend more than ten minutes.

He did not instill spiritual power, but used magical acupuncture points, and as his cultivation deepened, Rong Anran had a more thorough understanding of acupuncture point acupuncture.

"Thank you, young man, for your methods, and even more for your theory, and I suddenly feel that my son is the best in the world, young man, goodbye!" the old man scrambled to his feet and disappeared into the distance.

At this time, Rong Anran's surroundings remembered thunderous applause.

Rong Anran's heart was shocked: Why do I suddenly feel that my heart is clear? This is amazing, isn't it? Is this a merit? No, there is also faith, this is also incredible, right? I can only untie a knot in the old man's heart.

Yes, on the surface, Rong Anran only untied the knot in the old man's heart, but he was surrounded by ......

His theory suddenly opened the hearts of many people around him! He was dissipating many people's grievances about their children not returning home for many years, and his merits were immeasurable!

"How old are you, young man?" asked a kind-eyed old man beside him with interest.

"Uncle, I'm almost seventeen!"

"Seventeen years old? Who taught you this theory? Is it your father?"

"No, my father only taught me how to read, and these theories are all in books!"

"The afterlife is terrifying...... the old man sighed: "'Those who have aspirations are not old, and those who have no aspirations live for a hundred years', uncle, I really lived in vain......"

"Young man, you said that your theories are all in books, may I ask you, which book is in them?" asked an aunt who was not very old.

"Auntie, do you know what knowledge is?" Rong Anran is so weird, he often answers questions.

"Tell me about it!"

Because of Rong Anran's words just now, everyone not only laughed at them, but also listened carefully.

"There are two kinds of knowledge, one is the knowledge of others, and the other is your own knowledge!"

"What is in the book and what the teacher teaches should be regarded as someone else's knowledge, and only when it can be used can it be regarded as one's own knowledge. ”

"Oh, young man, do you mean that real knowledge needs to be put into practice?" asked the old man just now, thinking about it.

"Yes, this is also the difference between academic qualifications and academic ability! Some people have a high degree of education, but they have achieved nothing, and some people have a low degree of education, but they make people admire, according to our general way of thinking, on the topic of the uncle just now, some people have resentment, thinking that God is unfair, but in fact, it is not. ”

"People with high academic qualifications are not necessarily high, and people with high academic ability may not have a high academic qualifications, but he can live and learn, I remember when my father asked me to study, he repeatedly reminded me: 'You have to read dead books, you can't die to read, books are dead, people are alive'. ”

"Your father is a professor?"

Rong Anran lowered his head and smiled embarrassedly: "He told me that when he was a junior, he would skip school!"

"What about you, young man, you must be from a prestigious university, right?

"Uncle--I...... I ......" Rong Anran's face flushed: "I haven't even gotten a diploma from primary school......"

"Is it possible?"

"How so?"

"It can't be too naughty and get expelled from school, right?"

"How can it be? Such a good student, any school will tolerate it!"

"Either the teacher can't teach him, deliberately embarrass him, and kicks him out of school......"

"It can't be that I can't study because I don't have a hukou......, right? Is it an illegitimate child?"

"Oh, that's possible......"

The whispered discussion, not a word escaped Rong Anran's ears, he felt very aggrieved at first, and slowly, he became calm.

This is mind cultivation!

"Young man, what you said sounded rough and quabble, but when you think about it carefully, you find that it is to the root, young man, according to what you say, is our ancient 'filial son under the stick' too much?"

Obviously, the old man has his own ideas, he just wants to take the test Rong Anran.

"'Filial piety comes out under the stick', focusing on the word 'strict', so the ancients had the saying of 'strict father and mother', which shows that in education, behind strictness, more need of care. Therefore, what a really good child needs is to be 'guided by the situation' and need parents to lead by example!"

"Then if we old guys are so willing to forgive our children who don't come home, are we too spoiled and will let them gain an inch?"

"No, because, the child has grown up!"

"I see, young man, all theories need conditions, they need a suitable foundation, right?"

"Thank you, uncle!" Rong Anran smiled, it was obvious that the old man was quite knowledgeable and had a stronger ability to understand.

"According to your theory, then we old guys deserve to be lonely for the rest of our lives?"

"You're wrong, uncle!" Rong Anran knew that the old man did it on purpose, but he was still happy to explain: "While forgiving others, you have already received ......"

"Oh, what do we get?"

"Tranquility!"

I understand that forgiving others is a virtue, but I have never thought that if I am willing to forgive others, I can still gain something, you say, how can I feel at ease?"

"Uncle, you have to admit that the heart is like water is the way to health and longevity, right?"

"I admit it!"

"So, if a young man steps on you......"

"Then it depends on whether the other party has the intention or not, but the other party must apologize!"

"What if the other person doesn't apologize?"

"That must be angry!"

"That's right – but if you think so: the other person may be thinking about something, negligent, and don't think of apologizing for a while...... The other party may be in a hurry and too late to apologize...... The other party is too engrossed, or he is a careless person, and he doesn't feel like stepping on your foot at all......"

"I'm sure I'm not going to be angry when I think of that!"

"Uncle, what is not angry? Isn't it possible to get it if you are not angry?"

"Crooked, but not unreasonable!"

"Young man, you just said that you are only seventeen years old, and you spend so much time talking to us about things that have nothing to do with your career, don't you think you are losing?

"Wrong, uncle, you are wrong again, who said I didn't get it, I got it!"

"Oh, what did you get?"

"Happy, uncle, I got happy!"

"What's so fun about that?"

"Of course, uncle, what do you think, what is really happy? Oh, no, I want to say, how do you get happy?"

"Hahahaha, young man, it's really you, you want to tell me that everyone is happy together, it's called happy, right? The problem is that we are all idle, not afraid to kill time, and you are in the prime of your youth, 'every inch of time and every inch of gold', isn't it a waste for you to chat with us?"

"Uncle, when it comes to this question, I want to ask you: What is a career and what is success?"

"Isn't this the lice on the bald head? Those big entrepreneurs, great calligraphers, painters, musicians, and those who have successful careers and regard money like dung, they are all successful!"

"Treat money as dung, that is also when they have money, this kind of person, do not let me look up to it. In ancient times, the spirit of 'not bending your waist for five buckets of rice', the kind of 'worrying about the world first, and the joy of the world after the world', and the spirit of fighting for the ideal of 'tens of thousands of summers and thousands of summers, and the cold people in the world' are happy, is not it considered a success?"

"Just like I am now, my ideas have been recognized by you, isn't that an achievement?

"Young man, I thought I was looking up to you enough, but now it seems that I have become a frog at the bottom of the well, and I really want to visit your father!"

"Hehe--my father told me to be a human being, to be a human being, to be a human being, to always remember that you are a 'human being', and then think carefully about how you should 'behave'. He told me that people don't know why they come, but they can arrange how they want to live their lives! He said that life is nothing more than enjoyment, and it is necessary to understand what enjoyment is. He told me that struggle itself is a kind of enjoyment - a most meaningful enjoyment!"

"Thank you, young man, for being taught, I didn't expect such a thing to come from a seventeen-year-old young man, and it really makes me ashamed!"

"'The ruler is short, the inch is long', why should the uncle be ashamed!"

"A good sentence 'the ruler is short, the inch is long'......"

"Uncle, Lao Ji is in waiting, why sigh that the years have passed?"

Looking at Rong Anran, who was floating away, the old man was still immersed in endless amazement......

"It's a good kid, a good set of alternative theories, such a simple truth, but it is considered with another way of thinking, so in-depth and simple, but every sentence is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and exciting, the land of China is really Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. ”

"By the way, why didn't I ask him what his name was, how to get in touch? Maybe, I can meet him again tomorrow, and I'll ask again then!"

What the old man didn't know was that Rong Anran was shaking his head helplessly to himself: I'm out of line again, I can't stay here anymore, sigh, this scale is really difficult to grasp...... Where should I go now?