One hundred and sixteen The test of girlfriends
Han Tian's answer was still quite clever, Hao Jie couldn't find fault if he wanted to, poured a big sip of tea, and said, "I heard Guan Qing say that you used to be the director of the creative department of the head office of Sound and Color, and then you were transferred to W City because of an accident, can I ask what the accident was?"
Guan Qinghan came down, he was so familiar with Han Tian's relationship, he didn't dare to ask about it, lest he reveal Han Tian's scars, Hao Jie only met Han Tian for the first time today, so he asked this question, which was too rude.
Guan Qing stepped on Hao Jie, Hao Jie bared her teeth and said, "Why do you keep stepping on me?"
Guan Qing: ......
A smile appeared on the corner of Han Tian's mouth, and he said solemnly, "Actually, I've always wanted to find an opportunity to talk to Xiao Guan about this matterββ"
It turned out that when Han Tian was in the head office, he took over the advertising business of a catering company, which mainly operated Western-style fast food, and asked Shengse to help them open up the local fast food market. After Han Tian contacted the company many times, through on-site tasting, visiting the kitchen operation, and going to the breeding place to observe poultry and other raw materials on the spot, it was found that the products of this catering company were completely inconsistent with the content they advertised, and even suspected of false publicity, so Han Tian refused to accept the company's business, but the customer service department at that time had already taken over the business and signed a contract with the other party, and the general manager was unwilling to make any more extraneous branches and give up this big order, so he persuaded Han Tian several times to be flexible in a timely manner, and after Han Tian refused, the general manager transferred Han Tian to the W City branchγ
The truth was revealed, Guan Qing silently praised Han Tian in her heart, she was not mistaken, Han Tian is indeed a principled and responsible person.
Hao Jie stuffed a large piece of roast goose into her mouth, nodded with a serious expression, the other party seemed to be a little more reliable than she imagined, but she couldn't take it lightly too early, there are too many scumbags who are good at disguise now, and for the happy future of her best friend, she must be interrogated and interrogated again.
"Director Han can adhere to personal principles, I admire, it seems that Director Han is a very principled person, but as a man, career and family often can't be taken into account, if you want Director Han to choose one of the two, I don't know how Director Han will choose?"
When this kind of question is raised by a girlfriend, it can make a man collapse directly, and it is as difficult to answer as the question of 'wife and mother fall into the river at the same time, which one to save first'.
Although Guan Qing felt that this question was a bit abrupt, she also wanted to know how Han Tian answered. Guan Qing held the teacup in both hands, pretending to admire the roses in the water, but her ears were pricked up.
Han Tian thought about it, it seems that this girlfriend is deliberately embarrassed to come by herself, maybe she has opened an evaluation system in her heart, silently scoring herself, as long as there is a mistake in an answer or action, the other party will mercilessly subtract points for herself, in case she goes to Guan Qing afterwards to add fuel and vinegar, she will be quite passive.
Han Tian thought for two seconds and said, "Fundamentally speaking, I don't think this problem can be called a problem, because it confuses the concept of life, whether it is a man or a woman, the fundamental purpose of life is to pursue happiness, and although career and family are necessary conditions for a happy life, they are by no means the only conditions, just like dressing and eating, they are all things that must be done every day, there is no one more important than whom, the key is to make reasonable choices at different times." β
Although Guan Qing felt that Han Tian was suspected of stealing the concept, on the whole, this answer was still impeccable.
Hao Jie, a high-achieving student, couldn't find fault with it, so she could only pretend to be pensive and stuff a large piece of roast goose into her mouth.
Now it was Han Tian's turn to fight back, and Han Tian said with a smile, "I heard Xiaoguan say that Miss Hao studied psychology abroad?"
Hao Jie glanced at Guan Qing, this guy is really a heavy color and light friend, he won't reveal all my affairs and career, right?
Hao Jie snorted.
"I heard that Miss Hao's family is engaged in the breeding industry, should Miss Hao study business administration more appropriately?"
The roast goose in Hao Jie's mouth swallowed a little fast, a little choked, hurriedly drank a big sip of tea, and said, "My family did let me study business administration, but I want to take a path I chose." β
Han Tian nodded, "It seems that Miss Hao is also a very principled person-"
The word "also" made Hao Jie feel that the other party had introduced himself into a way of thinking that was the same kind of person as him.
Han Tian continued, "Since Miss Hao is studying psychology, I have a psychological problem I would like to ask, I once heard that people's behavior is often influenced by the subconscious, if the entire consciousness of a person is compared to an iceberg, the part that surfaces belongs to the scope of the conscious, accounting for about 5% of the consciousness, and 95% of the iceberg belongs to the subconscious. Psychologist Carl Jung once said that your subconscious mind is controlling your life, and you call it fate. How does Miss Hao understand this sentence?"
Does he still know Jung?
Seeing that he talked about psychology calmly, he was at least half an expert, and it seemed that the other party's strength was unfathomable and should not be underestimated.
Hao Jie had to pull herself together and deal with it carefully.
Director Han is right, the subconscious mind affects people's decisions all the time, for example, people who are afraid of failure in the subconscious, no matter how hard they study and work hard, they will not be able to get happiness from their achievements, but will be crushed by the accumulated exhaustion and anxiety, so from the perspective of psychology, sometimes the turning point of fate is just a change in people's subjective consciousness to change their inherent concepts. β
"If Miss Hao subconsciously sees me as an adversary, someone who snatches your friends away from you, then how should you overcome this subconscious?"
Han Tian threw out a psychological question to deal with Hao Jie, who specializes in psychology, deliberately making things difficult, and in a word, he pointed to the bullseye of the problem, and Hao Jie was speechless.
The next topic was much more relaxed, Hao Jie didn't dare to throw questions easily, the three of them chatted around while eating, and lunch ended in a pleasant atmosphere.
After eating, Guan Qing and Hao Jie stood at the door of the hotel and said goodbye to Han Tian, Guan Qing originally wanted to give Han Tian a ride, Hao Jie said that she had eaten too much and couldn't hold on, so she had to let Guan Qing accompany her to go shopping and eat.
Hao Jie grabbed Guan Qing's arm, pulled her back from her steps, and said to Han Tian, "We will be friends in the future, Mr. Han often comes to the apartment to sit when he has nothing to do, Guan Qing and I are very welcome." β
Guan Qing glanced at her, this duplicitous guy.
Han Tian smiled generously and politely, said goodbye to the two, and turned to leave.
Guan Qing reluctantly said goodbye with her eyes, Hao Jie glanced at her lips and said, "Don't look at it, we see each other every day when we go to work, and we usually have to stick together, so we don't get tired of panicking?"
"When you go to work, you are busy, where will you always meet!"
"People in love are hopeless. Hao Jie shook her head in despair.
"After observing for so long, what do you think of him?" Guan Qing stretched out his arm back.
"Okay, to be honest, after my careful observation and analysis, he should treat you sincerely," although Hao Jie saw that this best friend was going to fly away with others, and she would be shopping alone in the future, she still said the truth, "Your life is settled, and my hard work is not in vain." β
"Why do you tone like my grandmother?"
"As your best friend and hardcore friend, of course I have to take care of your lifelong events, after two years of study, my psychological analysis ability has reached the level of a professional psychologist, I think Han Tian is a person, although he is not good at verbal sweet words, but he can take responsibility and responsibility, and he will take seriously the person he thinks is worthy. β
"You are such a great expert in psychological analysis, when will you find yourself a reliable boyfriend?" Guan Qing joked on her lips, but her heart was sweeter than eating honey.
This is the problem that Hao Jie is most unwilling to face, she took Guan Qing's arm, "There is a year-end promotion in the mall, let's go, let's go shopping, I really miss the busy streets of our country, everywhere is full of human touch." β
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The next day was Sunday, Hao Jie went back to her parents' house, and Han Tian asked Guan Qing to come out early in the morning to meet.
It was a sunny day, the world was immersed in a warm orange, and the air was full of small dust fluttering like elves, a rare sunny winter day.
Winter sunshine is always cherished because it is rare and short.
When Guan Qing walked on the fitness trail in the community, she felt that life was so beautiful, she missed the summer and the autumn, but finally did not miss the best days of sunshine in winter.
The car has been parked at the entrance of the community, Han Tian is dressed up neatly today, shaved, his hair is combed neatly, and the white collar is exposed inside the sweater.
"Is it an important day?"
"I want to take you somewhere today. β
A hint of mystery flashed in Han Tian's eyes, something Guan Qing had never seen before.
Guan Qing didn't ask any more questions, and Han Tian's car drove onto the main road, and after a few turns in the dense city road like a spider's web, drove into a hospital.
Guan Qing looked at Han Tian suspiciously, and her determined side face pursed her lips, showing a rare seriousness.