Chapter 20: Thoughts don't match
"But your mother means that you are twenty-five now, and you should have thought about getting married earlier. Mu Xize only thought that this was Bai Xiaojiu, embarrassed.
He can understand, girls, thin-skinned, some things can't be brought up by her. Mu Xize didn't know her well, and he didn't expect that Bai Xiaojiu was different from other women, saying that if she didn't, she wouldn't, not a woman who said no, but thought yes in her heart.
Bai Xiaojiu's most annoying thing is that others talk about her age. She really doesn't understand that a person says that he won't live to be a hundred, even if he lives to eighty.
What stage of life does it take to reach the age of twenty-five? How can a woman feel like she is middle-aged after twenty?
Everyone thinks that women are over twenty, don't think about anything, just find a man to marry them?
Not to mention twenty-five, even if she is thirty-five and not married, she still feels that she needs to be responsible for the future, why do you have to get married if you find someone who you think is suitable?
No matter what others think about getting married in order to get married under pressure, she definitely shouldn't be this kind of person.
"What did my mother say, that was her idea, not my idea, understand?" Bai Xiaojiu tried her best to be patient, and the only remaining reason was still reminding her that Mu Xize was just respecting her elders.
Musizer often thinks straight and doesn't think deeply, and he spends most of his energy on his work.
In his opinion, what the elders said should be followed, and he didn't see that Bai Xiaojiu was a little unhappy at this time, nodded confusedly, and was still retorting,
"But that's your mother. Doesn't it matter what she says?"
"What my mother says, do I have to listen to it? Otherwise, it's unfilial?" Bai Xiaojiu restrained his smile, let go of the hand holding him, and looked at him with a slight frown.
With such obvious displeasure, Mu Cize finally saw it, and nodded a little wryly,
"No, that's not what I meant. ”
"I'll talk about that later. My neighborhood is quite large, so I'll walk around with you as you like. Bai Xiaojiu was originally very depressed because her relatives came, and she was expected to finally get married.
Who is it, but he just wants to find the marriage partner he wants and be responsible for his future, but he has been repeatedly said to be picky.
Being incomprehensible, being blamed, and even sneering at relatives will not feel comfortable.
"I think your mother is right, you're twenty-five, I'm a year younger than you, we're the right age. It's something that can be considered early to get married. Mu Xize followed Bai Xiaojiu's footsteps, wanting to hold her hand, but afraid that she would still be angry, stretched out his hand, and retracted.
I didn't realize that Bai Xiaojiu's anger was about getting married. The word marriage seems to be a constant reminder to her that when she is old, she must think about the future, and not getting married is a crime.
Bai Xiaojiu didn't expect him to mention this stubble, stopped, took a deep breath, turned his face sideways and looked at him seriously,
"How long have we known each other? You're starting to think about getting married now?"
Bai Xiaojiu can understand that he is a responsible man, and his mind is full of marriage, but she really thinks that this is a very cautious matter.
Instead of two people just thinking it's suitable and can try it together, they start discussing marriage. She knows that there are many people who get married in a flash and have a good life, but she is not the kind of person who likes to sit down and make hasty or impulsive decisions.
"I've been thinking about getting married since the first day I met you. Musize said with a sweet and longing smile on his face.
Bai Xiaojiu was stunned by these words, and he was stunned for a long time before he reacted,
"You really want to get married?"
"Of course, my mom also hopes to hold her grandson sooner. Wouldn't it be nice that I want to get married and have children as soon as possible?" Mu Xize had that kind of silly smile on his face again, and his delicate face revealed honesty.
"Giving birth?" Bai Xiaojiu asked three words, paused, and didn't say anything, this is her biggest question.
But it should be her own problem, Bai Xiaojiu doesn't plan to be a strong woman, but she really doesn't like children very much.
It shouldn't be said that she doesn't like children, it should be that she thinks that raising children is another prudent thing after renewing marriage.
The child should be taught well and raised well, she thinks that she still has some children's temper, and she is not suitable for being a qualified mother.
Now that medicine is developed, there is no problem for a woman to have a child before the age of thirty, even if she is in her thirties and becomes an elderly pregnant woman, there is no big problem.
She herself knows very well that everything is not ready now, and Musizer has already thought about having a child?
"Yes, do you like a daughter or a son?" After Mu Xize asked, he saw Bai Xiaojiu's expressionless face, and hurriedly followed: "Whether you have a son or a daughter in the future, I like it!"
"We've just started, you just said get married and have children, do we know each other?" Bai Xiaojiu waved his hand helplessly, turned away from him, took a deep breath, and suppressed his temper.
It was really Qiu Zhuping who was pressed tightly, and every time she had a dinner, her relatives also loved to put pressure on her and kept asking.
She chose Mu Cize not because she was forced to get married, but because she felt that she could try to get along with him, and if the two of them were really suitable, she would think about other things.
After all, he still has a little affection for him, and this liking is that he has no experience in love, and he is clumsy with sincerity, so that she is not afraid of getting hurt.
Modern society is too impetuous, there are too many men and women who like to play, and she doesn't want to and dare not meet a man who uses feelings as a game.
But she really didn't expect such an inexperienced man to get married as soon as he came.
"Are you angry again?" Mu Cize didn't understand at all, it stands to reason that he said that getting married is a sign of responsibility, right?
Why didn't she like him when he said he was married? Did she think he wasn't good enough? Thinking of this, Mu Xize's heart tightened, and he subconsciously grabbed her hand,
"Did I do something wrong?" Bai Xiaojiu knew that he was a little sensitive, so he didn't break free of his hand, but just kept taking deep breaths to soothe his emotions.
In fact, it is just her own psychological state, facing Qiu Zhuping's forced marriage every day, facing the pressure from relatives, and the society is more demanding of women.
She was probably a little oversensitive, and Musize was innocent. Bai Xiaojiu is good at this, many times he will think from the other party's point of view, and he will not drill into the horns, and when he realizes that his thoughts are wrong, he constantly convinces himself to calm down.
Sometimes when I quarrel with someone, I get angry at the time, but I quickly lose my anger and I don't remember it for a long time.
She waved her other hand and turned her head to smile at him,
"I'm fine. You did nothing wrong. I just don't like being forced to do something. Do you understand?" the gentle voice made Mu Xize's heart relax, and he nodded hurriedly,
"Yes, I understand. ”
"I'll talk about some things later. The most important thing is that we enjoy the moment, right?" Mu Xize dared to provoke her, no matter how much he was puzzled in his heart, he would not say it, and nodded again,
"Yes. Right. ”