Holding her mobile phone, she excitedly returned to the room and closed the door, she kept clicking on the dialog box and suddenly closed it. Similarly, Shen Yizhen on the other side looked at the input and showed that the other party was typing......

Just like that, he looked at her, and she looked at her. After enduring it for a while, the mobile phone suddenly rang, not WeChat but a phone. There was a hint of joy in my heart when I saw your familiar name appear in front of my eyes. She didn't ring twice, and she picked up the phone excitedly. "Hey~" There has been no sound reply on the other end of the phone. "Hey~!Hey...... Is that you?"

Shen Yizhen could hear her nervous and rapid breathing on the phone, "It's me." ”

Suddenly breathed a sigh of relief, "...... You're finally ignoring me, and it's not what you see at the gate of the community just now. ”

"You don't have to explain it to me. By this time, he was still pretending to be nothing.

"Not really. Suddenly I was afraid that he would be like this, and the more Shen Yizhen said this, the more scared she became. "Listen to me......"

"Okay, I don't need to explain. ”

"I ...... I know I took this Donald Duck, you must think that I took his things, and I didn't take yours. But you believe I'm not what you see, today... A lot of things happened today, I really didn't know what to do for a while, Brother Dong saw that I was not in a good mood before he agreed to buy me the doll, and I was not the only one who bought one for Xiao Mo. ”

"It's over!"

"Nope. ”

"Okay, I said you don't have to explain it to me, and besides, there's no need for you to explain it to me now. "I'm most afraid that a man will say such a thing against his will. Obviously, the hell I care about is not pretending to be a big-tailed wolf.

"Shen Yizhen~" As soon as he said this, he was so angry that he almost turned his back on it. "You bastard~ You don't need me to explain why you called me, you obviously care a lot about saying things that hurt me so much, you have a heart. ”

Shen Yizhen snorted and laughed: "If you want to listen to me call you, then I'll hang up." ”

"Hey~ Who are you, you blocked me!"

"That's right, I'll stop you!"

"Hey, you can do it, Shen Yizhen. You really can't control me now, and I don't need to explain it to you, we both broke up anyway. ”

"After breaking up, you are so quick to see something different~"

"Who did you say that you saw the difference and thought about it, obviously it was you who mentioned the breakup, and I was dumped for no reason, and now you are saying that I am unreasonable when I see the difference. ”

"I'm breaking up, so can you hug and hug other men? You're right, aren't you thinking about you...... This is not to keep the way of women, to see one and love another. ”

"You bastard Shen Yizhen, you don't keep the woman's way, who is with Yin Yiyi in the Drunken Immortal Residence? ”

"If you don't mention the Drunken Immortal Residence, I forgot about it, don't you dress like that, if you don't know what you do, just looking at your outfit, I thought you were going to a nightclub, who are you wearing to see that, showing so much. Cut~"

"I said I was going to eat and meet people. ”

"Who do you see! Seeing that Gao Jin and Ao forgot about me, they just separated from me on the front foot, and they followed one after another two days, and they were all sent to the hospital to protect the three handsome guys, really good, you are more popular than actresses. ”

"I'm bah~ When did I come forward and follow one another, you are talking nonsense. ”

"Okay, Tao Xuanran, I can see it, you are very happy to leave me Shen Yizhen, you are very happy, the most seekers around you are more powerful than the other, first Dai Feng is Gao Jin, and this time there is an uncle, I ask you if you don't choose to eat so hungry, he is more than thirty!"

"You...... You...... Unreasonable, I thought you called me to explain, it turns out that you humiliated me to come. Why didn't I find out about it before, why are you so dark in your heart, I've been with you for so long, when have I done anything excessive, you think so much and say that I don't go against your heart!"

"Aren't you against your will?"

"It's you who don't want me, it's you who say break up. I don't go against my heart, I am wronged. She yelled with a crying voice.

As soon as he heard that he was angry and cried by his own words on the phone, Shen Yizhen didn't dare to say anything, he was most afraid that she would cry, and when she cried, her whole body would tense, and after a few seconds of silence, he finally spoke, "You...... Don't cry, I don't say you're just. The end of the phone was still twitching, and Shen Yizhen didn't dare to squeak, or say anything more, for fear that she would cry endlessly.

"Alright...... Don't cry, I've said it, I'm not going to talk about you. ”

"But you've already said it~" she cried.

"Then I've already told me what you want me to do, can you forget what you heard?"

"Yes. She replied cheerfully.

This answer caught Shen Yizhen off guard: "Can?"

"Well, if you want to say that you didn't mean to say something about breaking up, I don't think I heard it, and I can forget the injuries I suffered at the airport that day. ”

Shen Yizhen suddenly realized that this girl was waiting for him here, it seems that she has grown a lot this year, and she has learned to frame people, "You play me, that's it!"

"You asked it yourself. ”

Shen Yizhen smiled happily on the other end of the phone, although his voice was very small, he was suddenly heard. "What are you laughing at?"

Shen Yizhen cleared his throat, "That...... You listen to me, breaking up is breaking up, how can you pretend not to listen to what you say, I called you just to remind you that you can live well without me, not to mention that you are now the president of Step shake Group, your status is different from before, and the people you come into contact with are the same, you have a long snack, don't get into anyone's car, don't wait for someone to sell you, and you still laugh silly. "Although it is said in a very fierce tone, it can be heard that I still care, so I can only make up this kind of reason.

"You...... Is this concerned about me?"

"You can think whatever you want. ”

"Shen Yizhen, why did you break up with me! Can you tell me why?"

“…… There is no reason. Shen Yizhen was silent for a moment and responded to her.

"Have you ever seen my grandmother? ”

He hesitated a little when he was suddenly asked. "Shen Yizhen, did my grandmother make any deal with you, you reached a consensus agreement. Is that so?"

“………………”

"Shen Yizhen. ”

"I still have something to hang on. As he spoke, Shen Yizhen hung up the phone. "Hey~Shen Yizhen, hey~ What kind of person! She lost her temper on the phone, "It's not that you don't care! Say that I don't keep the woman's way, what does it matter to you, it's you who broke up, and you don't care if I talk about mine." Hmph~"If the contradiction is not solved in time, I am afraid that the problem will become more and more serious, if you care, you must learn to resolve everything."

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How to skillfully resolve the conflict with lovers!

Lovers should learn to empathize and not entangle. The reason why I put this in the first place is because I personally think it is very important, once you quarrel with your lover or have any unpleasantness, don't rush to tell me what you are wrong with, but should look at it from the other party's point of view, and make a clear and rational judgment.

Give plenty of space, don't press. This space does not mean that two people are far away, but that they should give each other enough psychological space, people have their own secrets, not to say does not necessarily mean that they want to hide from you, but to consider your feelings, do not press step by step, must force each other to a dead end, but to give enough psychological space to each other.

Don't save up, solve it in real time. Once there is a conflict between lovers, don't blindly save it, wait until a certain degree to solve it together, which will only accumulate more and more, and accumulate more and more annoying, but to find a solution, even if you are wronged, you can bow your head first, lovers, it's not a big deal. Respect each other and be coquettish appropriately. As the saying goes, if you want others to respect you, you have to respect others first. This rule also applies between lovers, don't say that he is my boyfriend or girlfriend, I can do whatever I want, you must know that love is very respectful. Of course, it's okay to be coquettish appropriately.

"Coercion" temptation and clever resolution. "Coercion" does not mean that you are really asked to coerce, of course the inducement is real. For example, to buy an apple, banana, candy or something, and then ask for forgiveness or something, it actually works.

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It is often said that the spoon can still touch the edge of the pot, and there will be conflicts after a long time, but if two people don't know how to solve it, even if they are reconciled, these problems will also be buried in your relationship, and over time, the relationship will slowly grind clean in the conflict. So, how to resolve the conflict between couples!

Give in to each other in the event of a conflict. Conflicts between couples, under normal circumstances, girls must have the upper hand, think that there is only one answer to everything, that is, you are wrong and I am right, you must fight to win or lose, if the boy you meet has demeanor, cares about you very much, bows his head to you and admits his mistake, you must not feel cynical: "Why bother in the first place!" At this time, you should give him some respect and concessions, such as you say that you are wrong, or listen to each other's opinions, not only to resolve the contradiction, but also to enhance the relationship.

Have their own lives. Most couples like to stick together every day during the love period, thinking that this is an intimate relationship. Some girls have passed this period, and another person will guess "whether he doesn't love me anymore" and the like, which is easy to be suspicious, in fact, you can feel whether he loves you or not, but it has passed the love period, and girls still regard boys as the focus of their lives. You might as well improve yourself and return to the center of gravity of your life, when you are getting better and better, do you still have to worry that he doesn't love you? Some guys like to stick to each other, and they have to report to their girlfriend what they are doing all the time, and they also want their girlfriend to tell him what they are doing, which they think is a sign of intimacy. In fact, most girls like mature men who know how to measure, and it is more reassuring for them to have time to develop their careers than to cling to girls like children.

Don't speak ill of each other. Couples not only understand each other's preferences, but also know their own sore spots, when there is a conflict, both parties are emotional, dizzy, often say the most ugly, the most hurtful words to each other. Even if it has nothing to do with this conflict, as long as it can hurt the other party, anything will be used to attack the other party. When everyone calms down, words sharper than knives have already poked each other's hearts, and the bad words hurt people in June's cold, once the damage occurs, it will be difficult to make up for it.

Don't control each other. Couples will always have their own uneasy emotions in the relationship, afraid that the relationship between each other is not stable and long-lasting, so they especially hope that they can fully control each other, at this time there will be a peeping on each other's privacy, control each other's decisions and emotions behavior, as everyone knows, you do this affects your own life, but also affects the other party's life, only a sense of depression, this situation will develop into the other party's thinking derailment.

It is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to get along, if couples want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, they must be more tolerant, communicate and give, and the specific ways to alleviate the conflict should be reasonably alleviated according to the situation. Finally, I hope that all of you who are in love now can have a happy and happy outcome.

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It is a couple who are together to have a heart and soul together, so there will rarely be a contradiction between the two. But everyone is an independent personality, two people can not be completely the same no matter how they meet, everyone's personality traits are different, and there will be conflicts together, and couples are no exception. There are many people who are not together because of their incompatible personalities, but is this really the case? Jealousy and conflicts between couples are common, and the most important thing is how you reconcile and resolve them.

In fact, there will be conflicts between couples because everyone feels that they are doing the right thing and the right thing. Then two people will argue with each other about who is right and who is wrong, but there are positive and negative sides to everything, and everyone stands from a different angle, and they will look at the problem differently, so.

When two people are together, they must not drill the horns, they must distinguish who is right and who is wrong, and they don't have to blame easily, you are not the other party, you will not know her other party's feelings, so we must first think from the perspective of the other party, never look at the problem simply with the idea of "self-centeredness", and we must be sober and rational to understand each other. And if a person is really wrong, you have to guide it out, instead of blaming it very strongly, etc.

Be sure to give each other space, and two people must also maintain a relative psychological distance, getting too close will make the other party feel oppressive and force the other party to want to escape. Everyone has to be independent, don't rely on others for everything, he can give you advice, give advice, analyze things, but you can't rely on each other completely. A little farther away and a little more psychological freedom will make both parties feel relaxed and the relationship will be beautiful.

If there is a problem between couples, it must be solved, not to be fooled and passed or hastily solved in a "laughing and playing" way, let alone complaining to each other. If a problem is not solved, then it will always exist and one day it will erupt again, and the severity of the outbreak is also the condition in which it is silent. Therefore, the two problems found must be resolved in different mediation methods that are suitable for you.

Two people who love each other are in an equal situation and respect each other. Instead of disrespecting each other under the pretext of loving you. And there are many people who have a sense of self-protection, and you must be the other party to show their love for you before you can express your love. But you want others to love you, and you have to give them a reason to love you. Love is relative, and if a person takes the initiative for a long time, he will be tired.

Everyone makes mistakes, but some people have a hard time forgiving those who make mistakes, and even if they do, they will keep holding on to this mistake and take it out from time to time to talk about it. No one is infallible unless he is a sage, so we must learn to be tolerant of others. You can't deny others because of a little mistake in them, don't give them respect, and feel very high. If you are overly critical of others, then others will also be critical of you.

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