The tears that fell were imprinted on Shen Yizhen's chest, and she raised her head to look at the man in front of her, "Shen Yizhen... Can we go back to the way before?"

His determined gaze suddenly became much weaker, and he lifted her hair and tucked it behind her ear, pinched her chin and shook his head gently, "I can't go back." As soon as his words fell, his heart suddenly chuckled, as if he had been photographed in reality, with red eyes and tears rolling in his eyes.

"Don't cry, I'm not done yet, something has happened and we can't escape it, so it's impossible to act as if nothing happened. But through this time I knew my heart, so ...... Let's get these things out of the way together, so that the after... Shall we start all over again?"

She nodded desperately, "Okay...... Okay, let's start anew. ”

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Redemption is to start anew, not to go back to the past, how to redeem love.

I don't like the word redemption, it's too humble.

Girls who come to get back together, ask yourself, is your ex-boyfriend really good enough for you to try to fight for it? Are they really so good to you, so good? Are you really so frustrated, you can't find a better one except him? If so, then you die, he can't get back together with you, because he will dislike a person who goes up to the pole and has to fight him, this is human nature.

If not, that is, you have the ability to find a better one, then what are you doing now? Your own conditions are not bad, the future natural choice is unlimited, the last game is a bad game, then be a practice, now start again. If your own conditions are not good enough, take advantage of this excellent opportunity, combined with your own environment, internally or externally or both in a round of self-transformation, the results are self-evident. Staying calm in the face of things is inherently a charm, if you face the situation of being broken up and deal with it calmly, you will not make the low-level mistake of stalking, and he will also think that you are different and very mature.

Before the breakup, you can't see his shortcomings because you love him, and after the breakup, you can't see his advantages because you hate him, so only by staying calm can you really empathize. All you think is good for you is your own drama, and all his light and honey self-confidence are in the eyes of the lover, and they are all attached to him by you.

If you know that he is a scumbag, you know how inappropriate you are, it is useless to reconcile, and what you want to continue to redeem is all impulsive. Letting you disconnect is not to let you wait for him day by day, but to calm yourself down and improve your strength.

If one day you become a successful person, a big star, he will run back with his face licking, because he has a greater need for you at that time. You listen to sad love songs alone every day, think about sweet love clips, run to the places where you have been together, and have a fart?

No one is perfect, I believe that everyone has a lot of disgusting places, but the same life is easy for people to sink and not see the facts, and now falling out of love is actually a rare opportunity for you to become a stronger person in your heart / a person with an independent personality / a person with infinite charm, to be reasonable, everyone, the opportunity will not come again. The core of love is attraction, and the core of redemption is change. Many people are always entangled in right and wrong after a breakup, trying their best to redeem each other, but forgetting that they should make corresponding changes and improvements.

Wang Xiaobo famously said that all human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence. So now you are in great pain, not because of how much "love", but because you are angry at your own incompetence, the fact that you have played a bad deck of cards, and you are angry about why you can't know these truths earlier and gain insight into the laws of human nature earlier.

However, it's not right for you to think so, this is a particularly interesting thing, for example, I don't think I'm stupid, but I dare to reliably say that even if I read Mr. Jiangnan's post before I broke up, I will never be able to completely understand the laws of human nature like I am now, indeed, I may have differences in the way I deal with many things, but in my heart I will definitely still doubt, will hesitate, will hesitate, will hesitate, then if I can't be firm in my heart, can not be really strong, then in the end I will have to go through this experience。

Therefore, this is just like the elders trying to use preaching to remind the younger generations not to take the detours they took back then, some things, it can be said that all the things, I have not experienced them once, and all kinds of psychological changes cannot be fully experienced. Even if you know the law, you can't experience the tragedy without experiencing human nature, and if you don't experience the tragedy, you can't believe in the law of "going against human nature". I think it's a very interesting causal routine.

Therefore, falling out of love is a hurdle given by God, and it is also a step, and if you climb up, you will go to the next level. You have to believe that in fact, you have to go through this experience, you don't have to go after you leave now, you have to leave sooner or later if you don't go now, you don't hit the street on this person, sooner or later there will be someone who will let you hit the street, it's good to pounce early. Of course, the above only applies to people with enough IQ, I can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, and no one can wake up, and again, no one can save you, you can only rely on yourself, you don't save yourself or use different methods, then there is no second explanation except IQ emergency.

Finally, I swear that you unswervingly believe that your ex is true love, and you must use your life to redeem the reunion, I want to tell you that a life is very long, at least forty or fifty years, you are just a few months away? Breaking up can be successfully reunited and live a happier life depends on hard work and methods, if you also want to be a special case, please come up with some special case due characteristics, this matter is absolutely not urgent. A friend once asked me how I can get better quickly (meaning to be good)? I said that "getting better" itself can't be fast, if there is a way to get better soon, then of course everyone gets better, so is "good" still valuable? Is "getting better" still meaningful? Another point is that before you decide to redeem yourself, you must first force yourself to accept the fact of the breakup, which is very important!

Many friends say that I want to win him back, why should I accept the fact of breaking up? Because you don't accept the fact of breaking up, you still treat the other party as a lover, but in fact the other party doesn't think so anymore, when he snubs you, releases your pigeon, says cruel things to you, and gets close to other members of the opposite sex, you will have endless negative emotions. In the end, you give up redemption, it's not that the other party doesn't love you anymore and it's not worth redeeming, it's that your illusions are shattered and you should accept the fact that you should break up. You have to tell yourself that you have broken up, that he is not obliged to please you in every way he pursued you before, that he is not obligated to take care of you like a lover, and that he has the right to meet the opposite sex and start over.

If you love him/her, at least respect him/her!

The above is about the benefits of accepting the fact of breakup on one's emotional regulation, and it also has the benefit of giving the other party a psychological impact. You have been pestering him, pestering him all the time, he can't feel the heartache of losing you, and he will despise you psychologically, and accept the fact of breaking up for him to experience the heartache of breaking up, at least he will feel a little unaccustomed.

A friend once said that he lost 20 pounds when he pursued his girlfriend, and after the breakup, he lost weight again, because he didn't think about tea and dinner, he felt that he was impressed by the other party because he was good to her, I said no, because you became handsome after losing weight. I found that many people have a very bad habit of thinking, that is, they feel that after chasing each other in love, they can be very casual, and they don't care about their personal image and living habits. Moreover, this situation does not discriminate between men and women.

We have to understand one thing, and that is that the essence of love is mutual attraction, not mutual begging, nor mutual pity. When the other party discovers your unique charm and value, your relationship can not be disturbed by external factors, and the other party will put all their thoughts on you. At first, we are attracted to the things we like about each other, but then we find that we have some shortcomings that we don't like in the other person, and these shortcomings are actually very easy to change - such as personal image, the way we speak and the tone of voice, but many people ignore them. Many lovers feel that love should be tolerant of each other, but he/she wants to be tolerated by the other person, not by himself/herself.

Therefore, before contacting the other person, you must change your shortcomings, improve yourself, and become good enough, just like you didn't show any shortcomings before falling in love. At the same time, you can't shift the focus to all the redemption, everyone needs to have their own life, and their own career, if you have nothing to do, they dare not entrust themselves to you, so don't ignore learning and career because of the heart complex, in this process, you have to let them see your efforts, see you are constantly fighting for your future, hard work.

Incompetent, unsuccessful. No way, no way.

Love is an ability that can be learned.

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Redeem love, how to make him love you more!

It's hard to get this thing back, it's hard to say it's not difficult, it's not difficult to say it's not difficult, you knock your head and think about why he left, what you have to do to reconcile. Then for a girl, the best outcome is that he falls in love with you again. Then you have to think about why you had a good stage of love, why you can't go on now, and you want to go on, but the other party doesn't want to, just because you are no longer attractive to him, so what should you do? If you rely on your previous stalking, if you rely on saying a lot of apologies and guarantees, can you move him? In fact, this concept is wrong, we say that redemption is not a remedy, but a second attraction.

Adjust the mode of getting along, adjust and modify the core problem of being broken up, and do something through planning, which can be interesting things, elegant things, etc., or it can include things to improve for the reasons for being broken up, and show them in the circle of friends, so that he can be curious about you, and then you can communicate without negative emotions, so doing all kinds of interesting things is not the whole way to redeem, doing lofty things is just an introduction, not the point. The point is how you can make him feel after you cross paths again.

So what to do with secondary attraction?

First of all, it is necessary to deal with feelings coldly and minimize the sense of need. You must know that a person, especially a man, makes a decision to break up after a period of deliberation, and women often belong to the emotionally fluctuating type of breakup, and many people regret it soon after saying it. A man usually weighs the pros and cons of all aspects and thinks that his decision to break up is the most correct. At this time, you have to agree with him first, he will be very surprised that you are different from before, and you have not denied him, he will think about whether he has misunderstood you, and thus start to think about whether his decision to break up will be wrong. Moreover, just like the childhood doll that has always been with you, if you lose it or are snatched by others, your heart will begin to be unbalanced.

The second point is that you have to do reflection. That is, what I just talked about earlier, the core problem of fixing the breakup. Break up, some people don't have a mistress, some people have a mistress, whether there is a big or not, it's your way of getting along, or in other words, you don't meet some of Ta's needs, and even make him disgusted. You do have your strengths, but what you dislike him is exactly what you need to improve, and even you turn it into your strengths. You have to calm down and start from the beginning and think about what happened between you, what contradictions there were, what he told you that you didn't pay attention to.

At this stage, you have to contact him less, and don't send him a bunch of reminiscing and emotional words when he is excited. And if he says something to you, you must first affirm it. Then someone asked, teacher, didn't you say don't contact him, why do you say that he should be sure of what he said to me, he will not talk to me eighty percent. Things are ever-changing, it is very likely that you will have something to cross, talk, and then if you have a good attitude, it is also possible that he will take the initiative to mention the matter of your relationship, in this case, you have to agree with his point of view. The psychology of a person is that you agree with him, but he has to think about whether he is doing the right thing. Then one of our great goals has been achieved.

Third, we need to transform ourselves in a targeted manner.

As we said earlier, the second attraction is for you to get in touch again and show your different temperament. Then for the ex, it is to make him curious through secondary attraction, let go of the impression of imprisonment, and take the initiative to contact you, or he will not reject you when you have an avenger, so that you can communicate and communicate. At this time, it is time to test the results of your transformation of the core problem of the breakup. For example, if you didn't praise him very well before, you can observe what his strengths are, and after he has done something well, you can praise him for being really capable. Wait a minute. Therefore, recovery is not just about going parachute jumping, jumping and waiting for profit. Otherwise, after the establishment of the Avengers, you will be exposed again and face the possibility of being broken up again.

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If you want to reheat your relationship after a breakup, it's too easy to save your love!

"I've done so much for you, and I've done this for you!"

"What else do you want! Do you want me to kneel down and beg you!" After many couples break up, one party will always say something similar to the above after begging for redemption without success. After saying these words, in fact, the relationship between the two was pushed to an irreconcilable place.

In the process of getting along, two people enjoy a relaxed and pleasant mood, that is, they provide a good emotional value for each other. It is this emotional value that constantly deepens your relationship and makes you sweeter and more loving. Therefore, if you want to reheat the relationship after a breakup and restore the love and reconciliation, of course, you need to provide emotional value to the other party.

Learn to create a good atmosphere and aura so that he can feel the ease and pleasure you bring him, and there will be a natural opportunity for him to fall in love with you again. However, many people, despite their selfless giving, do not know how to properly provide emotional value. They often work hard to be good for each other, but they don't know that this kind of good that the other party doesn't need, which will only bring pressure to the other party. The other party only wants an apple, but you give a cart of bananas, you think the other party will be moved, but in the end it is only you who is moved. And the person who will really provide emotional value can start from the small things and really make the other person feel that you know him well and you understand him very well. Needless to say, you know what he needs, and even if you keep the smallest things in mind, he will be able to truly appreciate your intentions. This kind of "heart-to-heart and understanding" fit will always make us addicted to it and make us feel how precious and cherished this relationship is. Once the other party begins to feel that "there may be many people who love you, but there are very few people who understand you, and you shouldn't miss it if you meet you", isn't it just around the corner if you want to redeem it?

First of all, you need to be emotionally stable. If you want to redeem after a breakup, you may be in a hurry to provide emotional value to each other and make each other happy. But at this time, even if you try to restrain yourself, your unstable emotions will still come out. If you are emotionally unstable but still trying to provide emotional value to the other person, the other person may not feel very good, and may even feel very burdened.

Second, learn to affirm and praise each other. In fact, the easiest way to make the other person happy is to affirm and praise the other person. Of course, your affirmation and praise must be sincere, otherwise it will be a hypocritical compliment. From the other party's point of view, praise in the language accepted by the other party, use details and your own feelings as the reason for praise, so that your praise is no longer empty, learn to praise indirectly while maintaining the frequency of praise, and ensure quality and quantity to make the other party's heart bloom. Finally, don't try to claim it just because you provide emotional value.

Many people feel that they have worked hard and tried their best to coax each other, but he doesn't appreciate it at all, and he is really aggrieved in his heart. Let's not talk about whether you really start from the other party's point of view, whether what you do is what the other party needs, just if you are bent on trying to get something in return, the other party will not dare to accept your kindness. To provide emotional value correctly, it should be that you are happy when you provide emotional value to the other person. In this way, you can convey happiness to the other party and make him feel relaxed and happy, rather than full of pressure or guilt that cannot be repaid.

Many times, whether the emotional value is provided correctly or not determines the concentration of the feelings of two people. If you want to reheat your relationship after a breakup, you must learn to provide emotional value correctly, so that you can get along with each other easily and happily, and you will naturally be able to restore love and reconciliation.

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May we all cherish this hard-won emotion.

Love has always been an eternal topic in people's lives. Everyone's love is not easy, everyone's emotions need to be cherished, and everyone's story is always different. We mention love, we sing about love, we expound love, nothing more than to be able to keep this beautiful love, nothing more than to get some comfort in the heart, nothing more than to get back up in the love that falls. The following are some beautiful love quotes, I wish you and me in front of the screen can harvest happy love, and I hope we cherish this hard-won emotion.

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter how old you live, it's who you are with and how you spend those years. When God created man, he first created an Adam, and then he made Eve out of Adam's rib, which shows that man and woman are one and the same. Men and women alone can only be called half of life, some people are lucky and find their other half quickly, and some people are more unfortunate and wait for a long time and do not wait for the other half. In your life, you will definitely meet someone who has broken into your life, broken your principles, changed your habits, and become your exception. And then as the years go by, he also integrates into your life, fulfills your principles, becomes your habits, and removes the so-called exceptions. What is the most beautiful love? It is not a city to choose a city to grow old, meet a person with a white head, and the prosperity of a lifetime, and have no regrets for a lifetime. The years go by, time flies, the youth is parted, the youth has faded, and what does not change is the pure love, the sweet lovesickness, and the stupid sprout.

I know that I can live happily without you, but I always want you to accompany me, do stupid things together, count the stars in the sky together, and fulfill beautiful dreams together.

It's much safer to like a person than to like a person, and the thing you like is done to the extreme, it doesn't speak but can see the result, and liking a person to the extreme, but it hurts the most.

It must be a pity that he has not found the right lover in his life. But we must not make our lives more regretful in order to fill in our regrets.

You, thousands of miles away, have sweet dreams with me. The hard-won fate has achieved each other's care, are you tired? obediently rest in your arms, enjoy that moment of quiet and warmth.

The person who loved you deeply before, whose husband and father is it now? Has the person you once loved so much become someone else's family? Fate, there is also fate, and there is a fate, a lifetime of love, it is not easy.

Suddenly I like the word glimpse very much, love at first sight is too superficial, and the love is pale over time, the most beautiful thing is that I peeked at you at a certain moment, and I put it in my heart. When you like someone, you will inexplicably wish him well, laugh when you think of him, and heartbeat when you meet him. But ah, you don't dare to confess your heart, you're afraid of entering this little happiness.

Sometimes I don't know what love is. It may not be easy to come by, or it may have experienced countless setbacks on the way here, but isn't love itself like this? Can there be a person who can surprise you suddenly, make up charming dreams for you, comfort your wounded heart, and uncover your hijab as a bride? I only hope that after many years, I will wear flowers with white hair, and you will not laugh. I only hope that after many years, I will be old, and you will not let go. I only hope that after many years, I will lie on the sickbed, and you will never give up.

It's not hard work and infinite patience that can be exchanged for love. Love is to choose the right one, evenly matched and blind date.

Youth is gone, and I will accompany you for the rest of your life. The world is gone, and I will accompany you to heaven. You're gone, and I'm waiting for you with tears in my eyes. As Rabindranath Tagore said, love is a full-fledged life, like a glass full of wine. May you meet your lover again, may you have no regrets for the rest of your life, and may you be happy.

One day I also had someone I liked. Maybe I'll write our story into a book and keep it in time so that it won't be forgotten. Life is full of fate, and sometimes what is deliberately pursued will not be obtained for life. The beauty that I never hoped for may come unexpectedly.

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If you want to be with you until you grow old, then cherish your hard-won feelings. According to statistics, people will meet more than 80,000 people in their lifetime, more than 30,000 people will greet them, they will be familiar with more than 3,000 people, and they will be close to about 200 people, but in the end, we will only live with one person for a lifetime. Love is a wonderful existence, the little couple in the milk tea shop, the middle-aged couple in the supermarket, the grandparents basking in the sun together in the park, love it lives in our firewood, rice, oil and salt all the time. Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a kind of sadness, and meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of happiness. However, happiness is often hard to come by, and we have to do how many wrong things and meet many wrong people in order to meet the right person. Fate is hard-won, if you don't cherish it, once you miss it, you will never come back.

Learn to communicate, understand and support each other: love needs two people to operate together, and loving one person must learn to communicate. Only by communicating regularly can both parties know each other's true thoughts and feelings, and can they understand and support each other more deeply. To maintain a good relationship, you must always express your heart and let the other person know your thoughts at all times, so as not to cause regrets due to misunderstandings.

Don't try to change each other, give each other more space to love someone, don't try to change each other, after all, everyone has a different growth environment and different lifestyle. When two people are together, give each other a little more freedom and privacy, and don't overly want to make the other person completely subordinate to you. Because what you liked at the beginning, that kind of feeling, if you try to change, it is possible that your feelings will change.

Full of ritual and passionate. The sense of ritual is like a reassuring pill, it gives people a sense of security, gives people the feeling of being excited all the time, and it is also like a stimulant, it makes love not be smoothed out in a busy life, it keeps love fresh forever, and makes two people always full of passion and fun. The sense of ritual is the high match of a relationship, full of ritual, and always maintain passion, in order to make love last.

Don't shed tears easily, don't say break up easily. It is inevitable that there will be small frictions between two people, and most women in love are emotional, and they can't help but shed tears every time they quarrel and casually say that they break up. If he really loves you to the extreme, you are actually crying, and his heart is bleeding. When you say that you have broken up too many times, he will doubt himself and whether the two people are really suitable and whether they can't go on.

Necessary encouragement and praise. In your relationship, don't be stingy with your encouragement and praise. A good relationship needs the necessary mutual encouragement and praise, which can increase people's happiness, increase the happiness index of two people, and then make each other more inclined to each other. If both parties lack sincere encouragement and praise, it will reduce the wonderful feeling that two people bring to each other when they are together in the first place, and to a large extent, the relationship between two people will become weak.

Only by cherishing yourself will you know how to cherish your feelings. A person who knows how to cherish himself will know how to cherish others and cherish feelings. When we are in a good physical and positive mental state, our experience of the outside world is uplifting. If a woman knows how to take care of a decent appearance, cultivate a rich inner and spiritual world, do not let housework and the ordinary life of getting along day and night wear out the requirements and pursuit of herself, and love herself and each other well, her relationship will definitely be smoother.

500 times in the past life in exchange for a pass in this life, but not every time people pass by, they will know, know and love each other. From ancient times to the present, there are many poems and verses praising love, and there are also many touching love stories, and we are all eager to look forward to love. Therefore, if we are lucky enough to meet, we must know how to cherish ourselves, cherish each other, and cherish our hard-won feelings. Because some feelings, once missed, are not there.

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Cherish: Every love is hard-won, may the person who loves you know how to cherish. Today is the last day of 2019 I just listened to a friend's story, my friend told me that he said that he had a girl who loved him very much, but he didn't cherish it well, he took all the girl's efforts for granted, and then wantonly squandered the girl's feelings. Finally, after a conflict, the girl cried hysterically, and after venting all kinds of grievances and dissatisfaction in the past few years, she said "I'm tired" and turned away from him without crying, but he didn't chase after him as before. He also thought that the girl would call him again after he was deflated, and then beg him to reconcile, and would return to him without hesitation, wash and cook for him, and ask for warmth. But this time he didn't wait for her, he first tried to send a text message, but the girl didn't reply to him, and then the phone didn't get a reply, until finally, the girl's phone was turned off. He went to wherever the girl might have been, but he didn't see her again.

That's when he realizes that the girl might have really gone, and that someone who once loved him so much had disappeared from his world. He told me that he hoped that through me, the girl could see his current repentance, that the girl would know his repentance and beg her for forgiveness. But I replied to him that I don't want this girl to look back, I like this girl to never look back, find someone who really knows how to cherish her, and start well. Why do some people always know how to cherish after losing? Is it because of love? Or is it because you are selfishly enjoying this feeling of being loved? Are you sad because you have lost a loved one? Or are you sad about losing a girl who has no bottom line because of love?

I once read an article that said these words.

Your mobile phone is down, and the first person to pay you the mobile phone bill without asking you the reason is not because there is a lot of money, but because I am afraid that you will be very disappointed if you can't find it. When you are sick, the person who buys you medicine as soon as possible and takes you to the doctor is not because you are idle, but because it will be very distressing to see you sick. What you want, someone who will do everything to satisfy you, is not to prove that she loves you very much, but that your happiness is her pursuit. The person who remembers your birthday is not because of how good the memory is, but because you are really important to her.

So, don't really wait until you lose to cherish, you must know that only by cherishing can you not lose. Please cherish the person around you who loves you, and when the person you love the most leaves or misses it, you will never be able to go back.

Every love is hard-won, and only those who have experienced it can understand. Love is like God's nourishment for human beings, it can make people who have love happy, no one is looking for love, but love is like a luxury, and there are very few people who can have it, because only in this way will people understand its preciousness and understand its hard-won.

Some people say that love is like a rose, the appearance is very bright and beautiful, but it can't be easily touched, because beautiful things often have thorns, and the person who has the rose has to appreciate its beauty while enduring the pain caused by the thorns on the rose, just like the person you meet every time as if he is the right person, and it takes everything to understand that he may be the right person, but not the right person, because what you can really have will remove all your disguises for you.

Desperately to a person, for fear that the other party will not like you if you do something wrong, this is not love, this is please. After breaking up, I feel that I love each other more, I can't live without him, this is not love, this is unwilling, work hard and work hard, for fear that others will look down on you, this is not to be strong, this is fear. Many people will be emotionally controlled, and they only dare to grasp and not give up. But have you ever wondered if you will be too tired if you refuse to give up anything?

You will always meet one or two people who are not suitable, or you may feel that you are exhausted on the road to finding love, and even feel that you may not have so much energy to love someone again, but have you ever thought that only by experiencing the pain of love can you understand its hard-won. Love will not wait for you all the time, and the person who loves you and the person you love will not appear anytime and anywhere, so learn to cherish it.

Every relationship is a kind of fate, and every kind of fate is hard-won. Life is always playing out all kinds of farces, and we are not constantly changing our roles, going round and round repeatedly, life can't escape so many people and so many things after all. Many times we will say that it is not that we don't love each other anymore, but that we have not been able to hold on to the end, many feelings are easily defeated by reality, and we will occasionally get lost in such a life. People always stick to one thing in this life, and I hope there will be such a person who insists on loving you.

Every relationship is a kind of fate, and every kind of fate is hard-won. Only people who know how to cherish and are sincere can grasp the person who is about to become the most important person in your life. Feelings are not afraid of hard work or tiredness, but the most feared thing is that they don't love each other so much, and they don't know how to cherish them. We don't want to miss out on the person we like, and we don't want to make a decision that we regret for the rest of our lives. Sometimes, when you are about to give up, why not give yourself a little courage and confidence, and if you persevere, you may see a better tomorrow. I sincerely hope that those who have always insisted on not giving up can be treated gently by the world.

An unforgettable relationship is not easy to come by.

Don't look at love wrapped in sweet sugar coating, but the core is inseparable from the game, whoever holds the initiative in the relationship can determine the direction of the development of the relationship. In fact, whether in the shopping mall or in the love field, the winner eats and drinks spicy, and the loser often can't eat the residue. The winner of the relationship decides whether to break up, whether to get back together, the concentration of feelings, the rules of feelings, but the loser can only follow.

Some girls don't know if it's a lack of love or what, and as soon as they break up, they begin to self-reflect, desperately find their own problems, and promise that the man will definitely change it. I long to see your smiling face every morning, go home at night, give each other a warm hug, do not ask to have a luxurious car house, I just hope to have a warm and sweet nest with you, and be able to share the happiness of joint efforts, even if it is a kind of happiness. The disadvantage of this is obvious, the hole card is dropped, and even if it is reconciled, the other party will not cherish it. Just like when you go to the market to buy something and bargain, if you haven't said anything, the other party starts to reduce the price by yourself, you don't feel that the other party has reduced enough, but you think that the other party should reduce more. Specific to the relationship, if you become gentle and virtuous in order to save your boyfriend, the other party will feel that this is not enough, you are not good enough, and it is inevitable to pick and choose. Hide your hole cards, every concession you make should be exchanged for the other party's contribution to you, don't give in vain, and don't easily let the other party see how much you are willing to sacrifice for him in order to love him.

Many times, after inadvertently knowing something, I pretend that it doesn't matter on the surface and cover it up with a smile, but in fact, my heart hurts more than anything else. The world of a person is very quiet, and you can hear your own breathing and heartbeat. Put a coat on yourself when you're cold, give yourself a strong face when you're sick, get up from your pain when you fall, and give yourself a forgiving smile. An unforgettable relationship is hard-won and cherished; Although the changes in emotions between men and women never stop, however, things are man-made, and we will always make emotions full of feelings, and sometimes it is just a matter of one person. Nothing to do with anyone. To love, or not to love, can only be decided by itself. The most beautiful thing in life is the process, the most difficult thing is getting to know each other, the most bitter thing is waiting, the happiest thing is true love, and the most regrettable thing is missing out.

Don't give up your feelings easily, everyone will feel distressed, and don't make impulsive decisions, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Maybe just one sentence to break up, never to see each other again, maybe only one initiative, can redeem regrets. Don't easily ruin a relationship because of an angry word, and don't miss a loved one because of face. In the world of love, there are no regrets, and while it is still too late, it should be redeemed in time, and don't lose happiness because of low emotional intelligence! You say that emotionally unequal giving hurts, but I don't care, I'd rather be the one who pays more than be a bystander. Those reluctances, those regrets, can only become memories after all. I'm sorry I owe you the most, I hope that when you recall me, your heart can be a little sweet in addition to pain and hatred, a little bit if you really care about this relationship, and if it doesn't involve issues of principle, it's okay to make a little concession. For example, if you have a bad temper, you can be a little more restrained, if you are bored, you can learn a little more and dabble in a wide range of things...

It is important to note that these changes must be to make you a better person, and those who sacrifice yourself to fulfill others should not try.

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