Okay, let's pick one! There's no one in the house. ”

"Then I'm picking a small one!" she bounced back and forth in front of the counter, "yes...... This one...... Hmmm......"

"Girl, it's not the guy who came with you last time, why didn't he come there?" As soon as the words fell, she withdrew her hand in embarrassment, turned her head and looked at Brother Dong, "This is my brother, it was my boyfriend who came with me before." He...... He can't come with me today because of something. ”

"Yo, that little girl, your life is good enough, you spoil your brother so much, and you have a boyfriend who loves you so much, it's really happy. The boss's words made the sudden sound a little harsh at this moment, but he was powerless to refute it.

"Have you chosen?" Seeing that she was a little embarrassed, Brother Dong interjected the topic. "I haven't picked it yet. ”

"Oh~ I've chosen, so let's do it. She took a Donald duck from the shelf and handed it to the boss.

"The owner swiped the card. Without giving the boss a chance to speak, he handed the card over.

"Good, good. ”

Seeing that the boss turned around and entered the counter, she breathed a sigh of relief, Brother Dong walked over and hugged her shoulder: "It's okay, it's a big deal, there is a brother, you can buy whatever you like." ”

"We've been to this store before, and I liked it when I bought it, but I didn't want him to spend that money on me, you know what I mean?"

"I understand, do you think that you should be pure when you fall in love, and you don't want to misunderstand the other party because of these material problems?"

"Well, that's what it means. ”

"Are you a little too careful, since you are together, there is no need to avoid these questions too deliberately, the more careful you are, the more accidents will happen. ”

"yes, I'm just too careful. Her helpless little eyes looked at Donald Duck in her hand, pinning her thoughts.

"Your card and receipt. Taking the card handed over by the boss, Dong Ge hugged her and walked outside the store, "Let's go, send you home, do you need to help you get it?" she shook her head, "No need." ”

Halfway through the car, Brother Dong suddenly asked, "Have you thought about it, when will you go to him?" ”

"Ah...... Oh, I haven't figured it out yet. ”

"If you really don't want to be separated, go to him, it doesn't matter what the reason is, the important thing is that you can't let go of him, and I guess he can't let go of you either. ”

"Really, do you think he'll be like me?"

"Not all men are cold-blooded animals, since Shen Yizhen has turned his face with his family for you, it proves that he loves you, as for why he suddenly broke up with you, I don't say that you should also understand. ”

She sighed, "I wanted to go to him and explain to him, but that night in the Drunken Immortal Residence, his eyes were full of suspicion about me. ”

"That's not because of Gao Jin, if he doesn't show up, Shen Yizhen won't do that to you. And let me remind you that since you can't let go of Shen Yizhen, then don't get too close to Gao Jin, men are no less jealous than women. ”

"You also think there's a problem between me and Gao Jin?"

"You may not think anything, but others don't think so, I know your character is like this, but men are most afraid of serious and unserious women. In front of Shen Yizhen, you are serious, and it just so happens that he is also serious. But in front of Gao Jin, you are obviously very vague, your ambiguity is often more attractive to men, you haven't heard of that sentence, what you can't get is always the best. ”

"Oops~ Why is it so complicated. ”

"Now you understand a man's heart. ”

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Shen Yizhen didn't know when he came to the villa, the car stopped on the side of the road, sitting in the car and looking at the exit of the community. It didn't take long for Dongge's car to stop at the gate of the community, and Shen Yizhen saw him get out of the car from a distance, opened the co-pilot's door, and suddenly stepped out of the car. Shen Yizhen was just about to push the car door and get out of the car, when he raised his head, he saw Dong Ge take out the doll Donald Duck from the back seat, he recognized it at a glance, it was the one he suddenly liked in the doll store, and at that time, he suddenly pulled him out of the store, saying that when she went to buy it herself, he didn't have to break the bank, and he didn't want him to spend this money. But today she received a gift from this man named Brother Dong, in Shen Yizhen's eyes, this Brother Dong has always been a mystery, I don't know what position he is standing in, and I am not sure what the relationship between him and Su Ran is.

"Take it, I won't send you in, there are a lot of people living here, I'm afraid I'll meet acquaintances. ”

"Thank you, brother. She gave Brother Dong a big hug through the doll, this scene happened to be seen by Shen Yizhen, he looked at this scene with wide eyes, his brows were tightly locked, and the inside of his lips trembled slightly. At a distance, he didn't hear what the two men were talking about, only saw the two hugging each other.

"Okay, let's go in!" Dong Ge returned his hand and handed her the other one, "Think about what I said to you, think about it, do it, don't let yourself regret it." ”

"Hmm... Got it. ”

"Then I'm leaving. ”

"Well, you slow down. I'll go to the teahouse tomorrow to find you if I have nothing to do. ”

"Okay, come on. I've been in Beijing all this time, and I'm going back to Chengde when your side is more stable. ”

"Okay, I just have some business questions for you. We'll talk tomorrow. ”

"Well, let's go back. ”

"I watched you leave, I was going back. Brother Dong smiled and returned to the car, started the car and left, she stood in place and waved her hand at the back of the car, she was in a good mood and turned her head proudly with a spring breeze on her face, but she was shocked by Shen Yizhen's cold eyes, "Shen ...... Shen Yizhen..."She called his name in a trembling voice, but she couldn't believe what she saw, and stood still and didn't dare to move. Shen Yizhen looked at her like this, his eyes were very cold, very scary, full of doubts, and full of loss.

About a minute passed like this, Shen Yizhen turned around and got into the car, and drove away without saying anything. She looked at his departing figure stupidly, she understood Shen Yizhen's eyes, he was very disappointed in her, she wanted to explain but didn't know how to say it, he would believe it. She stood on the spot with the doll in her hand and sat on the ground, and passers-by cast strange glances at her.

Suddenly felt a little aggrieved, slowly squatted down and cried, "Ah...... Why am I so unlucky, you won't even give me a chance to explain, huh...... Ah......" crying, someone in front of her handed her a tissue, "Don't cry, everyone is far away, he can't hear you crying." She looked up and saw Xiao Mo standing in front of her with a lollipop in his mouth and a schoolbag on his back, looking at her.

"You're out of school. ”

"Well, when I got off the bus, I saw the two of you staring at each other here, I thought I didn't dare to come here, and I didn't say a word for a long time. ”

"You've seen it all!"

"Hmm. Shen Yizhen saw other men sending you home, right?"

Suddenly, he took the tissue and wiped his tears, "How do you know." ”

Xiao Mo walked up to Donald Duck and patted the duck's head, "This is not cheap, right! It must have been given by a boy, and Shen Yizhen saw it and misunderstood." ”

She nodded, "It's too late, you think so, he must have misunderstood." ”

"Hey...... Can't you be careful, if you let me tell you what's good?"

"I didn't do anything to be ashamed, why should I be sneaky. ”

"Then I ask you, who sent it. ”

"My brother, my father's apprentice, my brother Dong, oh, you haven't seen it, anyway, it's not the kind of relationship he thinks. ”

"Hehe~ You think Shen Yizhen is me, he believes everything he says, you adults say that seeing is believing, now it's true. ”

"I ......"

"Why didn't you just explain?"

"Will he listen if I explain?"

"Then you don't explain it, isn't the misunderstanding getting bigger and bigger! He misunderstands that you are that kind of girl, and you don't make more sense of it. ”

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Choosing to be silent after being misunderstood, is it incompetence or helplessness?

Everyone has times when they are misunderstood by others, and no one wants to be misunderstood by others. Human beings are social animals, and in the process of getting along, it is inevitable that things will happen and develop that are not subject to human will, so it will cause misunderstandings of one kind or another. Misunderstandings often occur when they do not understand the situation, are irrational, impatient, lack of thinking, fail to understand each other, do not reflect on themselves, and are extremely impulsive. Misunderstandings have always existed between people, and between people who know each other well. It's not that two people can talk about each other, it's not that you have the same hobbies, but that you can tolerate his good and bad, and he can also tolerate your good and bad. But what if there is a misunderstanding between two people? Since they cannot understand it, doesn't it mean that the misunderstanding cannot be resolved? The existence of a misunderstanding is the beginning of a gap between two familiar people. Misunderstandings are not terrible, as long as you have a clear conscience, you don't have to be sad, and misunderstandings will always be resolved. But if you are likely to misunderstand others, you must also analyze them calmly, and everyone knows what it is like to be misunderstood. Don't grieve your close friends and family.

If there is a misunderstanding, but one party does not explain, it is not incompetence, nor helplessness, but not enough care about the relationship. If you value feelings, you will definitely try your best to let the other party know that this matter is a misunderstanding, since the relationship between two people is not important, so what is the difference between explaining and not explaining?

People misunderstand that they can't explain clearly, and sometimes the more they explain, the more complicated it becomes. Don't try to explain to the person who is losing your temper, the more angry you are at explaining to others, it will only turn into a quarrel, and in the end, because both parties learn the truth of the matter in the process of arguing, they will be embarrassed and unable to get off the stage, resulting in estrangement between each other in all aspects.

There is a saying on the Internet: People who believe in you don't need to explain, and people who don't believe in you don't need to explain! Sometimes the more you explain, the more unclear it becomes, maybe it's just that the more people say, the more you describe it, the darker it gets. Some people are suspicious and useless to talk too much, and some people are broad-minded, and most of them will empathize with each other, and they will understand you if they don't say anything! These days, people's hearts are the most difficult to figure out, and I don't know which nerve will be touched by that sentence, and it is useless to talk too much! A gentleman is frank, and a villain is a relative!

Then, wait for the flowers to bloom and fall, listen to the winter rain into the mud, wait for the spring flowers to bloom, the water to murmur, the water to fall, and the truth to be revealed. Although the process has to go through the torment of the continuous mental journey, there are times when you are in pain, there are times when you are desperate and speechless, and there are times when you collapse and tears are pouring out, gritting your teeth and persevering, and slowly eliminating misunderstandings.

Speaking is a kind of ability, and not saying is a kind of wisdom. Sometimes, explanations can be seen as justification, even quibbles, and cover-ups. Being misunderstood, not explaining does not mean incompetence, but helplessness, and it is also possible to clear oneself! The world will not be as good as it should be! Be relaxed, and looking at someone who misunderstands oneself is like a joke. I don't want to explain, in fact, I just don't bother to explain. It's not helplessness, it's not incompetence, it's not wanting. Some people deserve to be cherished, and some people don't deserve to be wasted by you! Laugh it off, and those who understand you don't need too much explanation; sometimes the more people don't understand you, the more confused they become, and they still have to misunderstand.

Not explaining, neither helpless, nor incompetent, is a manifestation of one's own inner strength, is a manifestation of self-confidence! Over time, the truth will definitely surface, so, in the face of this situation, live in the moment, do every big or small thing you can do, time will bring the best proof!

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In love, the three most misunderstood views!

In love, it is common to hear people say, "Why is it different from what I thought, I thought we would always be together / I thought we would be together in the end". That's right, why is love different from what you think? Because when it comes to love, our first instinct is often wrong.

Just wait for the right person, and you will be happy

Nowadays, young people always like to have a sentence on their lips, that is: when you fall in love, you must be with the right person, otherwise you would rather be single for the rest of your life, and you would rather lack than abuse. Even before I myself, I loved to say to my friends: You don't believe in love now, but you haven't met the right person yet. We have all agreed that happiness comes naturally when we meet the right person, just like the story of the prince and princess, living happily together.

But that's not the case, whether you can be happy in the end depends on whether you can meet the right person, and whether you can learn to get along with each other well. To put it simply, happy love requires many conditions, and the right person is only one of them.

And when you overemphasize the label of "the right person", you will find that true love has always been with you, you meet a person, and deal with him, when there is a conflict or disagreement between you, what you want is not to run in, but to begin to doubt, is he the right person? If you don't know how to manage your feelings, even if the right person shows up, you will end up missing out.

The more perfect you behave, the more your lover will love you.

There is a good saying: love makes people feel inferior, so it is human nature to want to leave a good impression in front of the person you like, and everyone who falls in love wants to show their most perfect and excellent side in front of their lover. But that doesn't mean: the more perfect you behave, the more your lover will love you. Human energy is limited, if the person you love only likes the most perfect you, and you will continue to disguise yourself in order to keep this love.

In the long run, this disguised refinement brings exhaustion and great psychological stress, and your significant other will feel uncomfortable. The best state of love is comfort. Everybody is imperfect, and the little traits that you have, the little faults are the best things that distinguish you from others, and you make a difference because of them. The premise of your lover's growing love for you is that you love yourself more and more, rather than showing your perfection in front of him.

As long as you love each other enough, you won't quarrel

Some couples always promise each other when they are in love: we are together, and we must not quarrel. But in the end, there will inevitably be quarrels, so they fall into doubt: are we not suitable, are we not loving enough, otherwise why would we quarrel? They blame the reason for the quarrel on not loving enough, and their logic is that as long as they love each other enough, they will not quarrel. In fact, couples who love each other again will quarrel together.

Loving each other does not avoid and solve all the problems in a relationship, in fact, the only thing it can do is to give us the patience to endure and postpone processing. No matter how much a person loves you, he will also have his temper, and no matter how much two people love each other, they are always different individuals, and there are too many things that can cause disagreements and frictions. Therefore, there is no strict logical relationship between whether to love enough and whether to quarrel or not.

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