Bickering Cold War
Something?" suddenly asked lightly.
"Let's talk. ”
Shen Yizhen ...... she wanted to say something but suddenly stopped.
"How?"
"Forget it... Come on in. ”
"You're going out?"
"Well, go meet a friend. ”
"Is that Brother Dong?"
"Shen Yizhen, let's talk. ”
Shen Yizhen took her hand, "Can we stop arguing for others." ”
Suddenly very helpless, "Shen Yizhen, our problem is not about others, I'm really messy now, I don't want to quarrel with you, so let's talk about it." ”
"Okay, how do you want to talk, what do you want to know?"
She looked at him with firm eyes and asked, "I want to know, what happened back then, what is the part of the story that I don't know?" Shen Yizhen, you have to be honest with me, this is related to the future of you and me, the future of Step Shake, and the future of the Shen family. ”
"What do you mean by that?"
"Shen Yizhen, it's all this time, aren't you ready to tell me the truth?"
"Okay, let me tell you, I didn't want to hide this from you, I just didn't know how to tell you or explain it to you for a while. ”
She moved her steps and walked towards Shen Yizhen step by step, "Was it the Shen family back then... Mrs. Shen did something to hurt my grandmother?"
"Yes. ”
"Is Shen Lao's death related to my grandmother and Mrs. Shen?"
"Yes. ”
She hummed and walked to the window, her whole person's thoughts were chaotic, "Shen Yizhen, do you know... I wish you answered no, so I wouldn't be so embarrassed. ”
"Suddenly...... What happened back then was that our Shen family was sorry for the professor, but for so many years, she also blamed herself. It was she who signed the divorce agreement in the name of the fake professor, which caused the two of them to miss each other's lives, and she was also impulsive and irrational to cause the car accident, but suddenly it has been so many years, and she has also suffered the pain she deserves, can we not involve our feelings because of the affairs of our seniors. ”
"What do you mean... Is it that if Shen Lao was not there, it would have been my grandmother who was injured in the car accident and was lying in the hospital?"
"Suddenly......"
"Shen Yizhen... I don't want to let things in the past affect our relationship, but now things are not as simple as we think. Dai Feng's car accident was obviously aimed at me, and if it weren't for Dai Feng, I would be lying on the hospital bed today. Why did you call me suddenly today, did you know that something was going to happen early in the morning?"
"I ...... I..."
"I don't know how to say it? I'll tell you for you, after you know about this, it's not easy to refute this person, so you have to look for me all over the world and let me stay in your sight, so that you can keep me safe and at the same time, you can leave no trace in front of that person... Right?"
"That's what you think of me, right?"
"Then what do you make me think of you! What should I think of you?"
"You know how much I care about you, how scared I am of you, and how carefully I protect you. How could I agree with someone else to hurt you. I overheard your license plate number, and I thought that someone was eyeing you, so I called you, and I was worried that my guess was true. When I knew that your car had an accident in Chengde, I was even more afraid, but I am glad that the person in the car today was not you. ”
"But Shen Yizhen... The person lying there today is also very important to me, Dai Feng is innocent, he just came to find someone for me, why should he be involved!"
"Dai Feng... Dai Feng... Dai Feng, are you all right now?"
"You're here again, why are you always so narrow-minded! He's my friend and my family. He didn't do anything wrong, not to mention that he's been helping us. Shen Yizhen, don't you still understand, it's your family and the Shen family who are targeting me everywhere, do you know how sad I am like this? Do you know what the consequences of this will be?"
"What do you want to say?"
Suddenly shedding tears, he turned his head and wiped his tears silently, "My grandmother will not let go of the Shen family." ”
Shen Yizhen walked up to her, grabbed her shoulders and asked, "Do you know anything?"
"I don't know anything, I just know that if your Shen family goes on like this, she will definitely not let you have a good time. Shen Yizhen, if you can please tell that person to stop! The grievances of the past have already made the three of them bruised all over their bodies, if he hurts me and me and the family around me like this, then he will try a hundred times the pain I have endured. ”
Shen Yizhen smiled coldly, "A Dai Feng will make you like this, is it because my efforts are not enough, or you are not sober enough." ”
"It's that we were all wrong at the beginning, Shen Yizhen I like you, I love you, I have never regretted being with you, even if the whole world is against us being together, I won't care. Because I care about you the most, but you make me feel more and more insecure. ”
"Well... Don't talk about it, let's all calm down. Shen Yizhen slammed the door and left, he was afraid that he would suddenly say something that scared him if he continued to chat. So he would rather choose to escape for a while.
Seeing Shen Yizhen slamming the door angrily, he suddenly felt very lonely, why did the two of them make such a fuss, why did they look good a few days ago, but suddenly became so strange.
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I once read such a sentence: If we care about that person, we will quarrel with each other with our hearts and feelings, quarreling is a kind of adjustment of life, and it is also a way to deepen understanding.
What feelings are most afraid of is not quarrels, but problem-solving attitudes. Quarrels are not a matter of feelings
Quarrels occur when they discover contradictions in their feelings with each other.
In a relationship, quarreling is an effective way to find emotional conflicts and solve emotional problems. Only quarrels can make emotional problems attract the attention of both parties. Only by choosing each other to face up to the existence of the problem can we better solve the problem.
Quarrels are not a matter of feelings, the person who really loves you is the one who will be by your side no matter how they quarrel.
In a good relationship, quarrels not only do not interrupt the relationship, but make the relationship better. Quarrels vent emotions and release accumulated contradictions, and quarrels themselves are a way to progressively intimate relationships.
The most feared thing about feelings is not quarreling, but when there is a problem in the relationship, the other party is not willing to quarrel with you. In a relationship, it is precisely because you care too much that you will deliberately entangle those contradictions, and it is precisely because you care too much that you will repeatedly worry about those problems. Only people who love you are willing to spend time and energy arguing with you.
All the bravado is just a temptation, and the real departure is silent.
In relationships, this sentence also applies. The so-called quarrel is nothing more than a reminder that the other person loves himself, and the real dislove is to choose silence.
When quarrelling, the silence of the other party, the perfunctory tone of the other party when chatting, and the ubiquitous indifference in life are all murderers of feelings.
Apathy is a silent destruction of feelings. In the face of the other party's WeChat, the "casual" left when communicating and the refusal to respond to your concern, these problems are more terrible than quarrels in the relationship. Quarrels are not the key to broken feelings, the failure to solve emotional problems is the fuse of broken feelings, and indifference is a manifestation of not solving problems. Feelings would rather choose to quarrel again and again than be a superfluous person. Feelings do not end in quarrels after quarrels, but in disappointment in two or three indifference.
The quarrel in the relationship exposes the problems of getting along with each other. And a good relationship needs to actively deal with each other's problems and solve them, rather than choosing to be indifferent. As the saying goes: Feelings are inseparable from the joint efforts of two people. The relationship between people is mutual. If you have me in your heart, I will have you in my heart.
Quarreling is to hope that the emotional problem can be solved, and to hope that each other can deal with the problem positively, rather than choosing to quarrel. The problem itself may be complex, but in a relationship, the attitude to solve the problem is often more important than the problem itself. When faced with problems, the silence and indifference shown by the other party reveal the attitude of not paying enough attention to the contradictions. In fact, in a relationship, more often than not, the problem is not effectively solved, but your attitude has solved the problem. Quarreling will only make the relationship between two people closer and closer, and a good relationship is that in front of you, I don't have to deliberately disguise myself, be my true self, and still love each other no matter what.
In life, in order to make the relationship better, we choose to accommodate each other. Cooking meals that suit each other's tastes, watching the other person's favorite shows, it's all because of love. Don't let someone who loves you be sad, and don't let someone who cares about you choose to be silent. When someone who loves you is sad, there will be less love next time, and when someone who cares about you is silent, you are no longer important.
Silence is the most hurtful attitude in the world. Anger and anger are only momentary emotions, and silence is the disappointment that has been accumulating. In the relationship, there is no greater sorrow than death. Don't snub a person in a relationship, and don't treat a relationship with indifference.
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suddenly knew how deep his love for Shen Yizhen was, but he couldn't let go of it for these reasons. She was even more worried that what she said would really come true, once it was really like what Brother Dong said, the Shen family, including Shen Yizhen, would be in a crisis. Grandma can tolerate it for so many years, which is enough to prove how deep her memory of many years ago is, how deep her love for Shen Lao is, and how deep her hatred for Shen Tai is.
After receiving Dongge's message, she mediated her emotions and left the hotel to meet Dongge. got into Dongge's car at the intersection of the hotel, and it happened that Karen saw this scene.
Seeing two people talking in the car from a distance, he was very curious to step forward to see who he suddenly saw.
"What's wrong, I don't think you're in the right mood?
Suddenly sighed and rubbed his eye frame very tired, Brother Dong reached out and touched her forehead, Karen who was hiding in the corner gasped from time to time when she saw this scene, if Shen Yizhen saw it, it would be okay.
"Do you have a headache?"
"It doesn't hurt. I just feel so tired. ”
"Did he look for you?"
"Hmm. She nodded silently.
"You talked?"
"It's really like we guessed, Shen Lao's car accident back then was not an accident, although Shen Yizhen didn't say what happened very clearly, but I am sure that the accident was directed at my grandmother. And the person who manipulated behind the scenes was Mrs. Shen, but somehow the accident fell on Shen Lao in the end. Betrayed by her best friend, lost her friendship and lost her love, I can now finally understand how difficult and wronged she is. She came back to take revenge on the Shen family, and it's been decades...... The scar in her heart was a hatred she could never erase. ”
"Then you ......"
"There may have been a moment when she saw me as a hope to give up her hatred, but what the Shen family did to me shattered all her hopes. I think soon she will show up. ”
"That's... What am I going to do?"
She sighed, "Do what she says, even if you don't help her, she will find someone else, and I can still understand her dynamics with you." There will also be a chance to help him. ”
"You want to help the Shen family! Don't forget what they did to you, if it weren't for this Dai Feng today, you would have had an accident. What do you think?"
"Of course I won't forget, but I can't watch Shen Yizhen don't get involved, he's not wrong. ”
"Since he's not wrong, why are you arguing with her?"
"I ......" she didn't have any words to respond to Dong Ge for a while.
"In your heart, you already have doubts about him. ”
"Even if I suspect it's because I care about him. I don't want him to have anything to do with this, I don't want him to be part of my grandmother's revenge on the Shen family, and I don't want to see the two of us hurt each other one day because we want to stand on different sides. ”
"Suddenly, Brother Dong treats you as a sister, I know that you have experienced a lot over the years, and I also know that what you want is very simple. But Shen Yizhen is the Shen family after all, his father is Shen Jicheng, the controlling person of the Shen Group, and the person your grandmother Gu Min wants to fight against. The purpose of her return is already clear at a glance, what she wants is for the entire Shen family to step down. And Shen Yizhen can't get rid of the Shen family. ”
She bowed her head in loneliness......
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Some people have never met love in their lives, and some people have worked hard for bread all their lives.
In fact, everyone has their own choice, no matter what they choose, there is a long way to go, no matter how bumpy the road is, it is also their original choice, there is no right or wrong, no matter how difficult, you must stick to it.
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