What love looks like
What should love look like? Is it blindly giving or silently waiting and waiting! In fact, love is the simplest.
No matter how wonderful the outside world is, it can't be compared with the days with you, maybe the outside world can make my vanity greatly satisfied, but without you, what is the use of me having more, maybe the sun outside is warmer, and I just want to have the temperature snuggled in your arms, very ordinary but also very warm, maybe this is what love should look like. Everyone's life is inseparable from love, it seems that the simple two words have to accompany us for a lifetime, it can be said that love is one of the most important things in our lives, everyone's understanding of love is not the same, some people say that two people accompany each other to old age is what love should look like, and some people say that this is what love should look like for her, in short, the simple two words have a different understanding, I don't know what you meet love is like, is it sweet, or sad, is it crazy, or quiet?
We simply think that love is simply like each other, as long as two people are together is what love looks like, only to know when you grow up, love is like a calm sea, it seems to be very calm, but you never know whether there will be waves in the next second, sometimes love is like a typhoon, passing by you, leaving a mess, but when you want to catch it, it has disappeared without a trace, leaving only scars. Regarding love, only a very small number of people are relatively smooth, they go from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love, from love to old age together, such a pair of lovers do not know how many people to envy. In contrast, many people's emotional road is not smooth, their love is very bumpy, hurt again and again, and slowly believe in love again and again, and even some people have not found a real love person in their lives, everyone wants a love that will never swerving to death, but the reality is cruel, not everyone is blessed to have such love.
People who have been hurt in love will always ask themselves a question, what does love look like? Is it as long as two people live in the same room and eat the same meal, is it what love should look like? Is it as long as we have the same goal, and then struggle together, is love what it should be? Is it sad that someone accompanies you, and when you are sad, someone comforts you is what love should look like? Everyone's cognition is different, so everyone's understanding of love is different, but no matter what, there will always be a person in our love, who loves you, protects you, and accompanies you, in fact, as long as there is such a person, that is what love should look like.
The way love should be is actually very simple, not only living out oneself, but also fulfilling others, this is tolerance, two people show their own advantages, tolerate each other's shortcomings. Rather than a single tolerance for love, such love is cheap, not worth it, and can't go far, don't believe in the sea vows, these are all tricks to make you happy in order to achieve short-term needs, only find fun in the ordinary, find happiness in the relationship, is what love should look like.
There are many things that love looks like, the above is just love during the relationship, and the real test of the love of two people is marriage, so what is the appearance of love after marriage? Firewood, rice, oil and salt is actually what love looks like after marriage, at this time it is more about the family, simple love has left us, the pressure of life will make us confused, when one day suddenly can't bear it, you will feel that this is not what I want love to look like, some people begin to escape from reality, because he feels powerless to face life at this time, life can not continue, naturally there is no love, but I can tell you very responsibly, all the pressure you are bearing now is the look of love, there is no thing that allows you to enjoy his best side, without bearing the burden it brings to you。 It's like growing a watermelon, you just want to eat it as it matures, but you don't want to nurture it to grow from a young age. Love is the same, but it's the other way around, you first taste the taste of love, and then take care of its growth.
These are the love that can eventually branch out, but some love is destined to have no result, then let go at this time is what love should look like, although this love has no result, but at least you have loved each other, if for other reasons force two people not to be together, don't entangle, keep the beautiful love fragments of the past, and often recall in the coming days is another kind of stay, but waiting for not a person, but a love. Don't force a result, the ending of this kind of doing is that you can't keep those good memories, leaving only a scarred heart, why bother, you should know, this kind of love is not the kind you and I want!
Whether it is vigorous love, or a long-term love, although the process of love is different, but the ending is what we want, the love I can think of is, to be happy with you, to be happy with you, to be sad with you, to go where you want to go, to where we want to go, to leave footprints, to get old and slowly remember, a life is very short, the time for two people to stay together is shorter, and do and cherish is what I want love to look like!
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The best love in life is companionship, two people have a tacit understanding with each other, have common topics, and struggle to grow together...... Even if you know that you will be hurt, as long as you think of being with him, you will not hesitate, then this is the best love. Many people say that companionship is the most affectionate confession, in this thousands of worlds, everyone's definition of the best love is naturally different, so what kind of love should it look like?
The first kind of love should look like: Even if the distance is far away, I will come to you on a galloping horse.
Some people say that if you can't survive a long-distance relationship, it's a scar, and if you get through it, it's happiness. In a long-distance relationship, they are far apart, and they can't even spend their birthdays together in order to consider each other, but there will always be someone who is willing to come to you for you, across the mountains and the sea. The protagonist of the story is both working in a different place, and the girl has a birthday, and she feels that her boyfriend is running back and forth, and she has to go to work too tired. She said that the video on her birthday was fine, and the boy agreed, but rushed to the girl's door early the next morning, and the girl rushed downstairs very happily: "Didn't you say that you can't come!" The boy just smirked and said: "Luckily, I can't help it, grab a night ticket, happy birthday!" In fact, the girl understands in her heart that the boy took the night train all the way for her, but this is the best look of love, even if the distance is far away, I will ride a horse to find you.
The second kind of love should look like: respect each other's differences and find the same way to reconcile.
Everyone in life has a different philosophy of life, but respect each other's differences, find the same way to reconcile, then the best love is in front of your eyes. Many couples go out to travel, will do a good job in advance or something, one person is in full swing to arrange all the itineraries, and the other is leisurely and comfortable sleeping until he wakes up naturally to experience the customs and customs. Because the behavior of two people is different, therefore, as long as they go out on a trip, they must quarrel until they are physically and mentally exhausted, and they should be happy when they come out to play, but such a trip makes no one feel good. After all, people are not carved out of the same mold, and it is normal to have differences, so what we need to do is to bypass this problem. Of course, when we have time for each other, we still need to create some shared memories. This is also the best form of love, respecting each other's differences and looking for the same way to reconcile.
The third kind of love should look like: When I think about your favorite food, you are also thinking about me.
There is no better tacit understanding in life than this: when I am thinking about you, you are also thinking about me. There is such a pair of lovers, the girl passed by the fruit store on the way to work, and met the fruit that the boy liked had just come on the market, so she bought some. When she got home, the boy was gone, but there was her favorite dessert on the table, just because the girl casually said she wanted to eat dessert the day before. In life, because I remember your preferences, it will be sweet and warm, and then the girl put the dessert and fruit together, looking at them next to each other, just like the two of them in life. The best thing about love is that when I'm thinking about your favorite food, you're thinking about me.
The fourth kind of love should look like: I don't want anyone in this life except you, unless the rest of my life is you.
Life can't be repeated in life, and if you miss it, you will never do it again. There was once such a question, if time could be repeated, would you still choose your current other half? Although usually the two will quarrel and quarrel, but for this question, everyone's answer is that they don't want to start over, the current life is very good, there are people who love you, and there are also lucky people who are loved, after all, it is not easy to meet each other, and I don't want to miss the current other half because of the restart! However, there are always a few people who want to start their lives all over again, and they find out that he is not for himself, but for his girlfriend who has low self-esteem, and he thinks that if he met her earlier, he has been with her and let her know that she is actually very good, so that she will not be inferior as now. This kind of boyfriend may also be what you want most in love! I don't want anyone in this life except you, unless you are the rest of your life.
The fifth kind of love should look like: because I don't want to be separated from you, I will do my best to do everything I can.
There are always so many things that go wrong in a relationship, things are unpredictable, and the best thing is that both people will do everything they can for each other. After the two of them graduated, they worked in the same city, and at first it was smooth, but later due to the change of company, they had to move to another city. If the girl is gone, they are in a different place, and the difference will affect the relationship, and the boy is afraid of the other place. Although the topic was never brought up again, the boy gradually became less talkative, and kept doing things silently, and his heart was heavy all day long, which made the girl sullen. Until one day, the boy took the offer from that city and told the girl, I will go with you, and the work and house over there will be all implemented. The girl was stunned and opened the resignation email that had not yet been submitted, and she had planned to give up her career for the boy and leave, but the boy took the lead and accompanied her. They glanced at each other and laughed out loud at the same time, the best appearance of love is that in order to be with you, it doesn't matter how much you give up, do your best to do everything you can, just for you.
In life, no love is perfect, but these looks add up to a complete relationship. However, in real life, people are becoming more and more realistic, talking about love seems to be a luxury, and now talking about houses, cars, and gift money, as if only these can represent love! However, people have their own decision-making power, as long as they do not regret their decision, then this is the most correct decision. Because everyone has the opportunity and the right to pursue the kind of love they want.
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Love must be relaxed and not tired, otherwise it is not called love. If two people can't be more relaxed than one person together, then what is the meaning of being together? Therefore, good love will make both men and women feel relaxed, and even appreciate each other's existence, so that they will have a lot less troubles or troubles.
Because of him, you don't have to fix the toilet and change the light bulb yourself, and because of her, you can go home and have a hot meal. This is what love should look like, life becomes better because of the existence of the other party, not because of the other person, life becomes a mess.
Happiness is greater than sadness, a person's happiness is not called happiness, if there is no one to share with you, then no matter how happy things are, there is not much meaning. That's why people want to find a partner, so they have someone to share their happiness with. When two people are together, happiness should be greater than sadness, because your happiness will become their happiness, so the happiness will be doubled, and your sadness will become their sadness, so it will be divided into two, and the sadness will become smaller. If two people are together and your tears have overshadowed the smile on your face, then you should understand that this relationship is really not for you.
Being able to grow together, good love, can allow both men and women to grow together. Two people support each other and encourage each other, this is what love should look like. When he comes home from a tiring day, you can say "hard work" to him, this is the best love, and when she is in a bad mood because she lost her phone, you can say "it's okay" to her, which is also the best love. Love is not necessarily earth-shattering, the more ordinary you are to rely on each other, the more you can reflect the beauty of love. As long as two people go in one direction, walk in the same step, and grow together, then this is the best love.
Voluntary convergence, change, and being able to sharpen the edges and corners for each other is what love should look like. I don't remember who said that those who love you change themselves, and those who don't love you change you. It's a simple sentence, but it has a deep meaning. The person who truly loves you will definitely not transform you according to his own ideas. Because of your existence, he will constantly change himself, voluntarily remove those things that affect your feelings, and voluntarily learn something for you that will help your feelings. I think love should be like this, even if you don't say it, he is willing to change it for you.
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Love is an eternal topic, but also a sacrosanct, love, can make a person intoxicated, can make a person can't help himself, too sober, indicating that you are not enough to love, many writers, there are also a lot of romantic or touching love texts about love, cattle people have summarized a lot of very accurate laws about love, because of love, into the palace of marriage. The Law of Love: Take a look at your situation and see if you feel very much like yourself.
Your friends say you're a good match. If, the people around you think that you are suitable, then basically you are compatible, because you will have a lot of similarities, and you will not be tired in your married life in the future.
You have been together for 3 months, and you have not been bored with each other, which shows that the relationship can go further for a long time, which is a very good thing, it allows you to see the true face of a person, see a person's sincerity, as a relationship, three months is a hurdle, step in the past, it is basically acceptable.
He has always cared about you, and may never have done any "big things" for you, but he has been doing countless little things for you every day, and for decades, the vigorous love can only be used to remember and move. He pours milk for you in the morning, draped his coat over you when you go out in the cold, listens patiently to you when you are upset, always leaves the last piece of meat on the plate for you to eat, drinks beer together in the summer and always gives you the cooler bottle, reminds you that today is your grandmother's birthday when you are busy, and serves as your pillow on the long bus so that you can sleep comfortably...... These things are so subtle that you can barely notice them. Even he himself doesn't realize that it has become a habit for him to be kind to you silently.
You can chat together, married life is always boring, people who can chat with you, relieve worries and get rid of boredom, have common topics with each other, can continue to enhance each other's feelings, both parties have emotional outlets, unconsciously, you will find that it is a very happy thing to be able to chat.
The essence of love comes from admiration and pity, women's love for men originates from admiration, the more women admire men, the more women will love men, men's love for women originates from the joy of fish and water, usually the more satisfied a man is, the more he will love women, and women's weakness will also implicate men's love.
Love is not used to show off, it is often said that showing affection and dying quickly, because the real long-term love cares about the feeling of two people, not to show off, both people understand, and do not need people to watch.
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