"Master, are you there?"

Xu Qiulin, who returned to the dormitory after work, just wanted to play a few games, but unexpectedly an apprentice he met on the Internet suddenly sent a message.

Her online name is Yimi Duoduo, as for her real name, Xu Qiulin didn't know it, and she didn't care about it.

I met her a few years ago, and Xu Qiulin was still a happy teenager at that time, full of positive energy and very enthusiastic.

I was able to meet Yimi Duoduo completely because he liked to visit the post bar and reply to an interesting post when he saw it. At that time, I happened to see Yimi Duoduo posting a sad post, so I was overflowing with sympathy, persuaded two sentences, and then added QQ to each other.

Since then, Xu Qiulin has completely become her life mentor, as long as she encounters something uncomfortable, she will come to him to talk to him, and after a long time, she has completely recognized Xu Qiulin as a master.

Although Xu Qiulin was in the autism period for a period of time, as a role model for the master, he never let his autism affect Yimi Duoduo, and later he was able to think about it, which was completely due to the negative energy in Yimi Duoduo.

Negative and positive, he was in the autistic stage during that time, hated the whole world, and it happened that his apprentice encountered something that he couldn't think of, he explained it step by step, persuading and persuading himself to suddenly open up, and it was from that time that he recognized this apprentice from the heart.

It is said that there must be my teacher in a threesome.

Maybe others are not good, but sometimes seeing the shortcomings of others can also make us improve.

"What happened to me this time, let's talk about it! While I haven't completely retreated to the mountains and forests, I can answer for you, and I will not hide my secrets. ”

"Master, here you are again. In today's society, how can it be completely hidden, and a mobile phone can know the world without leaving home. ”

"What if I lose my phone?"

"Cut, can you do it?"

"I can't do it for the time being, because the teacher is waiting for someone, as long as that time passes, you will know. Okay, don't talk about me, tell me what the problem is this time. ”

Xu Qiulin wouldn't argue with him about this meaningless thing at all, and if he really couldn't do it, he wouldn't say it. He will not teach his apprentices to learn to think for themselves.

It's just that this apprentice of his is a little stupid, and after teaching so many times, he still hasn't touched the threshold of thinking about problems.

I can't put it down, I can't figure it out, I can't see through it, I can't forget it.

Xu Qiulin didn't let his apprentice drill the tip of the horns, but he drilled it himself, and he had to find a way to get out, not to mention his apprentice Yimi Duoduo, even if it was him, he would go to drill the horns many times now, but he would come out every once in a while.

"I divorced him. Yimi Duoduo said.

She and her husband's problems, she had already told Xu Qiulin, and Xu Qiulin had also helped her solve her psychological problems many times, but she didn't expect to come to this point in the end.

"Is it heartache?" asked Xu Qiulin.

"It's not heartache, it's just that I feel sorry for the child, I don't have feelings for him for a long time. ”

"Hey......"

Xu Qiulin sighed, and then said: "When can you not deceive yourself, even if you don't have children, you are still reluctant, but the children have become your excuse." You don't really want to leave him. ”

"Nope. ”

"From the first time you talked about you and him, I knew that you loved him from the bottom of your heart and didn't want to lose him. If you really didn't care about him, for the sake of the children, you wouldn't have come to this point. ”

"If you don't care about him, you won't think about whether he's cheating on him as a whole, and you won't push him so hard, all of this is because of yourself. ”

At that time, he didn't cheat, but you still didn't check your phone, text messages, and QQ. You don't let go of all the communication tools you can check. I'm also a man, I know the psychology of men, and we men also need some free space. We men need diplomacy, sometimes we need to be in contact with the opposite sex, and how long can we last if we don't have that trust between husband and wife. At that time, you were too controlling. ”

"As for later, he really cheated, also because of your unreasonableness. ”

"I told you to give him a little freedom, but instead of you, you investigated more strictly, saying that you had to find evidence to prove it to me, and it turned out that you found evidence and won me, but do you think it makes sense to win me? We are just strangers with no communication. Moreover, every time I talk to you, I tell you that I just refute you from your opposite position, and the reason for refuting you is so that you can think clearly, not that you argue about who is right and who is wrong.

"Forget it, you don't feel good now, don't talk about this, things have happened, no matter how much you say it, you can't change the facts, what are your plans next?"

There was no answer from the other side.

Xu Qiulin also guessed this result.

Every time the two debated, the other party did not speak.

I don't know where Xu Qiulin learned these crooked truths, and others who can say them are speechless.

He himself knows that what he says is crooked, so he will leave steps for others every time.

He just likes to think about things with this kind of reverse thinking, standing on his own side, refuting himself, and making himself feel that his opposite is doing everything right and that he is wrong, so that he can think rationally.

After all, what each person's eyes see is only singular, and what others think, the eyes can't see.

Long......

Yimi Duoduo replied, "Master, am I really wrong?"

Seeing her reply, Xu Qiulin knew that she had thought about it seriously.

Right or wrong, he really can't say, after all, what he said to her before was just something he assumed to be true. Her husband's personality, he doesn't know, how can he know if he will cheat.

The purpose of his persuasion of his apprentice was just to make his apprentice better, so good that the man could not do without her.

Everyone makes mistakes, and only when they can they be corrected can they be good.

Xu Qiulin is to cultivate a tolerant heart of Yimi Duoduo.

It's just that the woman's vinegar jar has been overturned, which can be stopped so easily.

Divorce has become a fact, and the most important thing is to live well in the moment.

Xu Qiulin knew that he didn't have the ability to change the facts, otherwise, he wouldn't have entered that period of self-autism.

All he has is a heart to let go.

"Now that it's happened, don't think about it, you should think more about the way forward. Every tomorrow is worth looking forward to, don't live in the past. ”

"Master, what do you think I should do in the future?"