Whether it is the sudden love between Shen Yizhen and Ran in my story, or the ordinary love in our lives, in fact, we should learn to protect it more.

Tacit understanding is that no couple's tacit understanding and deep love are innate, they must have built some kind of bridge between the two, reached some kind of consensus, and followed the common principles to make them gradually move towards a better result. Love can always be as intoxicating as it was at the beginning, and I hope it will help you to summarize several principles that should be observed or adhered to in getting along with men and women.

Encouragement and praise are the most important

When men and women are just falling in love, they will inevitably praise each other's merits, and as the relationship is fixed, after the initial temperature drops slightly, people do less of this kind of thing, although the two people are still very attached to each other, but they no longer say words of praise and encouragement out loud.

If there is a lack of genuine praise and encouragement, the wonderful feelings and gratitude that the initial compliment brings to each other will be greatly reduced, and the direct result is that the emotional bond between the two people becomes weak.

Therefore, it is important to encourage the other person and treat him as an object of admiration, telling him that you are fascinated by a certain characteristic of him, especially one that a man is proud of but rarely understands what others think, such as his good social skills, unknown quirks, and even his toned body.

Say whatever you want

For example, Nana hates her husband the most for going to bed without hugging her before going to sleep. Whenever he forgot, she would get angry, not sleep well, and even pretend to be sick and cry. And her inexplicable husband will only keep asking her: What is wrong with you? I believe that you are not unfamiliar with this dramatic scene. Many women, like Nana, want their husbands or boyfriends to be extrasensory and can make romantic moves they like without explanation, but there are really very few people in the world who have this kind of perception, and they can't put a bug in your heart and decipher your heart at any time. If they know you're waiting for him to decipher, it will only make them laugh and cry. In a good relationship, this kind of guessing game is resolutely abandoned, and the strongest and deepest love needs to be based on communication without barriers. What you need, what you are worried about, what you want the other person to say and do, it is better to say it directly. If you sulk without saying a word, you will make the other person at a loss and depressed, which can easily lead to contradictions and conflicts.

Innocuous fetishes can ignore the fact that after a couple or couple has lived together for a long time, personal habits and habits will be displayed in front of each other, no matter how much he makes your heart flutter, living together is a beginning to test your patience and inclusiveness. He may whistle and tie every morning to get ready for work, or he may throw his used bath towel on the floor forever. No matter how strange the little fetishes, a sensible woman should choose to ignore them all. You'll soon find out that turning a blind eye to these little things definitely does more good than bad to your relationship. Since it has been a habit formed over the years, there is absolutely no need to waste time on this kind of thing, and don't make a big mistake because of small things.

Contact at least once a day, if you get a text message from your partner every afternoon, wouldn't you feel happy? Maybe you'll see each other in the evening, but he'll keep it up to the habit anyway, even if it's just a few words. This text message becomes a bond between you, letting you know that he is still thinking about you in his busy schedule, and what could be more touching to you? In modern society, the pace of life is tense, and the pressure of work is heavy, and it is very likely that two people will not be able to see each other for several days in a row, whether it is a phone message, an email or even a small note on the pillow, which is nothing more than to express: although we cannot meet, our hearts will always be together.

Happiness can be created by itself

Couples who often shuttle between various parties or parties are often not favored, and the ones who really have the potential to last forever are those who are used to the world of two. They don't need to find security in their networks, and they are just as happy in a world of two people. A truly happy partner cherishes every ordinary moment when two people are in relation to each other, they are good together, they don't need other people to bother, and they don't rely on any activities and games to be satisfied.

You may not believe it, but a couple with a tacit understanding can sit on the couch for hours reading their own books, or talk about their daydreams, or even sit together and think in silence, without creating a topic or with any background music, because for them, it is enough to be around each other.

Love also needs to check the progress does not require two people to have a regular meeting once a week to discuss whether the recent investment in love has been completed on time and in quantity, nor does it mean that when insecurity or friction arises, it is necessary for two people to be able to discuss and grasp the progress of the relationship openly and honestly. Regularly summarizing your performance and inner thoughts can help you identify small inflats on the road to love and resolve them easily, which is a method that many intimate partners often use, and it is worth learning.

Always respect each otherIf you want to know if a couple is in a deep relationship or if the relationship has turned red, just look at the expressions and tone of their voices when they talk. If either of them rolls eyes, sneers, or makes sarcastic remarks at every turn, it can be declared that they are unlikely to last long. If one person is always condescending to another, it means that there is a lack of basic respect between them, which is a bad habit that every couple should try to overcome.

Although many times you need a lot of strength to refrain from expressing your opinion, a good lover should not show contempt or ridicule towards your partner. Sometimes your partner does act stupid, then you might as well think about it from a different point of view, if you are robbed or ridiculed by the other person, you must feel hurt, and this force is applied to the other person and he will receive the same blow. You should learn to exercise restraint and preserve the other person's self-esteem is important for your relationship.

Sometimes there is a misunderstanding between couples, you must know how to endure ~~ Don't just blindly think that you are right, you haven't tested each other's feelings, sometimes, boys are more generous, bow your head and apologize. Don't be shy, hehe.

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To tolerate each other, they may quarrel over some small things in life, and the cold war, after a long time, these small disputes have quietly made each other hate each other, so tolerate each other more, no one is perfect, since they want to decide for a lifetime together, they must understand all her shortcomings, of course, they are not blindly letting each other go

There is time, two people sit down and communicate, but one party must bow his head, husband and wife do not need to be strong in front of each other, because after all, it is a lifetime, if one party bows his head, I believe that the other party will understand, and forgive, not blindly calculated, the more you care, the more angry, angry is not good for your health, and when the anger is gone, I thought, in fact, it is not a big deal.

When you have nothing to do, you can also create some romance or surprises, send flowers, or make a candlelit dinner, these are more ordinary, if there are other novelties it is also better

It is best to remember each other's birthdays between two people, give each other a surprise on the birthday, you can get close to the feelings between two people, these touching moments may also be forever good memories between two people, and don't forget the wedding anniversary, two people can give themselves a day off, go to the world of two people for a day, what a beautiful thing!

Give each other more care and care, to always ask for warmth, although sometimes the other party says you are verbose, but in the heart it is sweet, the force is mutual, love is the same, not to say that only let the other party pay, give each other more love and care, wouldn't it be better!

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How to stick to your original intention in love, you must have forgotten these.

We often talk about the original intention in love, but in fact, we are talking about whether we can hold it well in the face of the sudden temptation of love. There are about three kinds of people in love, the first is that you have no resistance in the face of great temptation, you have betrayed the original intention of love, and the second is that you are in a dilemma of affection when you are faced with great temptation. The third is to be able to stick to the original intention in the face of temptation, and the final harvest is, of course, the most sincere emotion. So how do we stick to our original intention in love, you must not forget these points.

Think more about unforgettable experiences in love

When you feel that a love has gone from vigorous to flat, it does not mean that the relationship between the two of you has reached the end, on the contrary, it means that you have entered a new stage. When you are tired of a relationship, think more about the unforgettable things you have experienced together, what kind of experience has enhanced your relationship with each other, and what kind of moment makes you find that you love each other more, and on what occasion you suddenly have a desire to grow old with each other, as long as you think about these things clearly, all the discomfort will naturally dissipate.

Inject more freshness into love

This sense of freshness does not mean to find a new object again, but to add something new to the original feelings. When you feel like it's the same, try to create something for the other person, without too much spectacle, no expensive gifts, maybe just a bouquet of flowers, a movie ticket or a meal cooked by yourself, you can inject more memories into the relationship later in life. In the same way, the other party feels your intentions and will repay you with practical actions. Such a two-way interaction will bring more beautiful things to love.

Think sensibly when temptation comes

There are many temptations in love, it may be the emergence of a new person in the relationship, or it may be a huge change in economic conditions, but no matter what it is, it is enough to impact a person who is not firm in the relationship. If you feel that the temptation is enough to impress you and you need to leave your object, please calm down and think rationally: why did it want me to leave, will my departure make me better, is this temptation something long-lasting, will it hurt the other person, can you be sure that it is the right thing to do. When you think about these questions with a calm and rational mind, you will naturally have the answers. In fact, any temptation has a price, and there will never be a pie in the sky.

Don't magnify the other person's shortcomings

Many people will find that after a period of time in a relationship, they will find that there are only shortcomings and no advantages. It comes down to the fact that you've been too lazy to discover or even deliberately avoid the shining points in your body. And when the other party's shortcomings are exposed in front of you, you prefer to take a magnifying glass, infinitely magnify their shortcomings, and then prove this fact in your heart: he is so bad, he only has shortcomings. If you do this for a long time, the other party will have no other effect on you except boredom, and it will also make you more open to accept temptation.

The original intention in love is to test whether a person can be loyal to emotions, but also to practice a person's character. In any case, please stick to the original intention of love, and in any case, please do not hesitate to leave those who cannot control themselves in the face of temptation.

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"Don't forget the original intention, you have to always" This sentence is very classic, people have to pass it on by word of mouth, and they all understand the truth of this sentence, what they want at the beginning, what they are pursuing, they must always keep these in mind, and then continue to move towards this goal, and finally get a complete beginning and end, but how many people know its next sentence?

"The original intention is easy to obtain, but it is always difficult to keep"

Don't forget the original intention, the next sentence of Fang De is always easy to get, and it is always difficult to keep. There are many people who think that the first sentence is the essence of it, and I admit that the second sentence is actually an explanation of the first sentence, telling me that we should be aware that not everyone wants to have it.

"Easy to get from the beginning"

The original intention is their own heart and ideal at the beginning, everyone often loses their heart in the process of following when they have an ideal and then follows, forgetting why they did it from the beginning, and forgetting what goal they want to achieve, such a person will slowly sink, but when he remembers the day, he still comes and looks back, because the original intention only exists in remembering whether he remembers his original thoughts, so "the original intention is easy to get".

"It's always hard to keep"

It is because not everyone can always persevere, the original intention can be forgotten, and then pick it up, but to persist in this thing, you can only continue, even if you slack off for a day, you will break the persistence, and you cannot say that you have always been consistent, so "it is always difficult to keep"

In love, you remember the original intention, but can you keep it all the time? The beginning of love is nothing more than two people who are in love with each other, and have the urge to live a lifetime with the other person. Some people think that in love is always to start falling in love and getting married, but is marriage really the end? In this era of flash marriage, are most people always getting it? I think the beginning of love is the heart of two people, and the end is until the death of one party, how many people insist on such a lifetime of persistence?

Therefore, the most important thing for a person is to love someone, to love you as before, how can you do it? Like a person, what you can't do is to pursue it if you like it, but to think about yourself and her, can you have a good result? Then slowly get in touch with others, discover the advantages and disadvantages of others, and think twice about whether you will have other ideas in the future because of these, and you can boldly pursue them after thinking clearly. Then it is to be responsible for yourself, to be responsible for others, to keep always, and to have a love of "not forgetting the original intention, you have to always".

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Is there such a song in your mobile phone, from the ecstasy when you first heard it to the current long-term listening, it will always be stored in your mobile phone and sung in your heart. It turns out that love is also like a song, the first time I heard it, I liked it very much, and I felt that it was very in line with my heart, so I downloaded it to my mobile phone, and whenever and wherever I could plug in the headphones to listen to music, I must listen to this song, or even more hot, only a single song loops this song. Like the girl she liked for the first time, there seemed to be only such a person in her mind, and all the surrounding scenery lost its brilliance, and only she shone brightly. So no matter when eating, sleeping, reading, working, or even walking, I will think about her in my heart, and I can't wait to become a conjoined person with her and leave every minute.

If life is only as it was said at first sight, if you go deeper, you will feel that her joys, sorrows and sorrows will affect you, make you feel down, and even be heartbroken, it is better to only keep the joy of the first meeting. Some people will say that how can a song replace people, after all, songs are just a way for us to entertain or emotional sustenance, and they cannot be compared with people who get along day and night. But I want to say that how many crazy men and women in the world are so similar to this song. I once had a song that seemed to be completely immersed in the song when I first heard it, and I even complained that there was a gap in the middle of the single loop, as if it had been a long time before it started playing again, and I even used some tools to extend the song to half an hour without intervals, this is such a fiery love.

But gradually, I found that I didn't have to listen to this song so much, and it was good to eat meat every day and occasionally change to vegetarian dishes, after all, many new things are constantly emerging, and there are many more songs in my favorite list, and I keep repeating listening to this song, but the single loop becomes a random playback. But it's still a song I like to listen to, but I've added some new favorites. People are the same, we will meet different people at different times and at different stages, maybe the person who fell in love at first sight when we were young left a deep impression on us, but we can't control the development and change of various factors between you, and over time, I am afraid that I will forget the beauty of the previous when I meet a person I like more at the right age. How many people can wait until the age when they can hold hands, maybe we will comfort ourselves with a sentence that we met the right person at the wrong time.

Don't forget the original intention, you have to always. No one can resist the annual rings of time moving forward, what we can do may be to retain our original intention in the hourglass of time, after the precipitation of the years, whether the song is still in our hearts, even if it is deleted by you one day but you can still find it when you think of it. And is the state of mind at this time as pure as it was at the beginning, or does it feel young and frivolous?

As long as you have loved it, it will be a lifetime.

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Regardless of whether the ending of the relationship is perfect or not, we must not forget our original intention.

Please love seriously in love, and please cherish yourself in love. Regardless of whether the ending is perfect or not, we must not forget our original intention, do our best, and cherish ourselves. If one day you don't love me, don't lie to me, and don't be cold and violent, please tell me, the more thorough, the better, let me die completely, then there is nothing to regret, because if you do your best, you can be worthy of this feeling.

The departure of the leaves is the tree's non-retention, the person who is leaving, just like it is difficult for you to wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, rather than losing the dignity of the plea, it is better to let go freely. The best always comes last, and time does not favor those who are sincere. Maybe at some point, you will realize that some people are just passers-by, some love, just growth. Don't get entangled in an unequal relationship, waste your youth all the time, and wear out your will. From joy to disappointment.

People who don't take you to heart, even if you dig out your heart and lungs, it's useless. Because feelings can't be forced, and reluctance is just tragedy. Instead of loving youth at fault, it is better to grasp youth to be good to yourself and make yourself better. Because the person who can always be with us is always ourselves. If we don't even cherish ourselves, how can we expect others to cherish us? Regardless of whether the ending of the relationship is perfect or not, we must not forget our original intention, do our best and cherish ourselves.

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If a couple wants to maintain a long-term relationship, then the most important thing is to know how to love each other, you are to let the other party receive your love, not to love him in your own way, unacceptable love is actually more likely to become a pressure and burden, and can not make the relationship between you really long!

Intimate interaction cannot be saved

Don't skip the intimacy of being in love just because you're together. Once you feel that there is no need for an old husband and wife to be too aggressive, then this is the beginning of your love going to the grave. After all, it is two people who love each other, there is nothing to say, more interaction, in order to feel the love from the other half, and life can have more flavor.

Feel free to connect with each other

Because of life, study and work, it is inevitable that two people are often separated, and for us now, mobile phones should be our main communication tool. Don't turn off the phone when it's okay, or don't bring the phone, and replace the battery and charge it in time when the phone is out of battery. I called you, not to supervise you or check on you, but to know that you are safe and that you are well. Therefore, please turn on the phone 24 hours a day, and if you do not answer the phone for various reasons, you must call back immediately afterwards and take the initiative to explain the reason.

Don't just care about what the other person does to you

Some women often say, "He just needs to be nice to me." In fact, this is not quite true. Whether a person has normal and healthy interpersonal relationships is closely related to his future life and happiness.

Couples must learn to change their roles

In our Chinese society, the wife should be more of a hub and lubricant for the relationship between families and "friends", she should be very good at dealing with the delicate relationships between various family members, know how to take care of and care for the elders, know how to build a warm harbor for her husband, and let the home become the promoter of his career, rather than a stumbling block; The husband should take more responsibility for the development of the family, have a strong sense of career, work hard for his career, and become a strong dependence on his wife and the umbrella of his family. Both the wife and the husband need to be cared for and nourished by each other, otherwise by the time they reach middle age, they will both be extremely emaciated;" A "healthy" husband and wife relationship should be: a partner in life, a helper in a career, a child with sensible parents, and a mature parent for the children.

Don't forget the original intention

After being together for a long time, the strengths of the other party will gradually be ignored, and the shortcomings will be magnified. Therefore, whenever you are angry, remind yourself that there must be a sufficient argument to support you as to why you chose him in the first place. In this way, your relationship will stand the test more effectively.

Talk to each other often and let each other know what each other thinks

This is the most important point for two people to get along for a long time. If you don't communicate, where do you understand each other, and how can you form a tacit understanding if you don't understand. You don't have to talk about your mental activities like a thought debrief. It's like chatting, talking about what's happening around you, what you're thinking, or how two people get along. Don't hold everything in your heart, so you feel uncomfortable, I guess it's uncomfortable, women are cranky. Often, a lot of things, you say it, but it's all right. If you don't say anything, nothing will turn into something and sweetness will become sad.

Know how to cherish and be grateful

Chinese parents are some of the most selfless and dedicated parents in the world, saving for themselves, but keeping the best for their "children". After the child has his own family, he should strive to learn to repay both parents, instead of continuing to be a wayward little emperor and little princess. These rewards can be some details, such as helping mom and dad cook and wash dishes, taking the initiative to contact mom and dad, taking care of them when they are sick, and letting them feel the importance and concern of their children for their parents. If you have the ability, you can also share some more things for your parents, so that they can have an "emotion" and life to rely on.

Maintain your circle of friends

After finding the other half, the most feared thing is to lose yourself. Girls, in particular, tend to attach all their body and mind to the man they love. It's risky. Because you lose yourself and the price of breaking up is painful. Therefore, even if you are in love, don't be too "heavy on color and light on friends", the original friends must keep in touch and contact, so that life can maintain their independence in interdependence.

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This life is very short, if you want to spend it well, then you have to cherish the people around you who love you, because these people are hard-won, and you can also get more growth because of these people. These people know anything you want to know, so you have to learn how to cherish it in this short life.

The people who love you are hard-won

Maybe you will meet people you love, but those who love you are hard-won. It only takes a minute or even seven seconds for you to fall in love with someone, but those who love you need to accumulate their love for you with their hearts. You have to cherish those who love you, many people feel that those who are around them are not that important, they want to pursue what they want to pursue, in fact, in the end they will find that those most important things are often around them.

It's important to have fun in a timely manner

Many people think that being happy in time is a derogatory term, and that life should have more long-term goals and greater plans, but in this short life, they can only grasp what they can grasp in front of them, and the changing life will also disrupt many plans. Therefore, you only need to grasp what is in front of you to get what you want, and only by solving those problems can you overcome those greater setbacks, so in the face of those who love you by your side, you have to cherish it.

There are many possibilities for life's choices

Because there are many possibilities for life choices, people do not cherish them when they are faced with those who love them. They will think that they may meet a lot of people on the road in the future, and this is true, but you must know that if you miss this person, you may miss it forever. It's like two intersecting lines, once they are staggered, they will go further and further, and even only one point in the life of two people intersects. Many people will always regret what they have done before, and they will always regret those feelings that they did not cherish before.

Don't regret it until you lose it

Many people always can't see what is in front of them, only when they lose, they can understand what those things mean to them, how important those people are to them, therefore, we don't want to regret when we lose, don't find out when we can't regret it, in fact, the person who loves them the most is by their side.

Cherishing is a kind of gratitude

Only when you learn to cherish the people and things around you, will you find that the world is not as bad as you think, and you will also find that there are many beautiful things waiting for you around you, and there are many beautiful people waiting for you around you. Cherish is a kind of gratitude, and this kind of gratitude will gradually increase with your mentality, people are to be in a stage of gratitude, and they will feel that the world is good for themselves when they have gratitude.

Fate is predestined, and it is grasped by yourself

Maybe many people will feel that they can't get rid of their own things, so when their fate comes, they can't shirk it. Although fate is destined, but more to rely on yourself to grasp, if you are very clear and understand your relationship situation, then you must grasp this opportunity.

The people you love should be cherished, and the people who love you very much are also worth cherishing. There was once such a multiple-choice question, the person you love and the person who loves you, which kind of person would you choose? Many people choose the person who loves you. Maybe when you are young, some people will choose the people they love, but later on, you will find that those who are most precious are often the people who love you.

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Memories are like fluttering, have been sprinkled, that year, the wind blew, the flowers bloomed, I stood at the tip of the wind, to the flowers said, at the moment no matter how prosperous you are, you can not compete with time after all, the seeds of fate have long been doomed to your withering, you are just a soul at the foot of time, now, the hourglass of time, verified the promise, the flowers withered, memories have passed.

I've been crazy, stupid, persistent, persistent, patient, and in the end I've lived alone. When it's quiet, I think of you, I think of what we've said together before, the roads we've traveled together, everything we've done together, and a person will giggle, and then it's heartache.

The only thing in the world that gets better and better with the passage of time is memories.

The old dream of the past finally turned into a butterfly, and the cuckoo cried blood and tears. The mountain league is gone, infatuation has become sorrow, the past will never come again, Mo is lovesick, it can't withstand the consumption of several lifetimes, around the intestines, and finally tears and drinks.

It turns out that everyone is afraid of the loss of time, and they have a delicious youth living in their memories. Even when we grow old, we still yearn for a sense of tranquility and eternity.

Maybe when everyone is young, there is a period of love that is used to regret and grow.

Laughing and drinking the cold wind, low eyebrows and tears, the rain falls lonely heart, drunk out of the wind and the moon platform, the marks are wrong and haggard words are hidden, painting the building, stacking the heart dream, the heart does not return, the dream is different, the thought diagnosis, the thought is limited, Fang talks about a string of drunken soul kite, and the appointment is not enough in this life.

Growing up and growing old means that those things that you once thought you couldn't accept and couldn't bear, now you can accept them with a smile and can bear them.

I pray that on some beautiful street corner, I will meet you, and then myself...

I gave you all the warmth in my heart, but I froze myself.

"You never know which will come first, the unexpected or tomorrow. "Yes, don't say tomorrow, we can't even predict what will happen in ten minutes. The unknown of tomorrow, the passing of yesterday, are all nothing. Only the present is real, can be grasped, and is worthy of your savoring and living with your heart.

The reason why people are troubled is that they have a good memory, remembering those things that should not be remembered in the past, and forgetting some things that should not be forgotten before. There will always be a lot of helplessness in life, and when you are powerless to change, choose to accept or let go. You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today and live in the present. Those who are wrong and in the past do not need to be dwelled on. Sometimes, letting go is a better way to move forward. The good and the bad are gone, and the good and the bad are gone. The encounters of life are like the rain that has just fallen outside the window, it has rained, it has been drenched, it has been wet, and it has stopped and is no more.

Living in the moment is our best choice. Past gains and losses, successes and failures, happiness and sorrow, good and bad, fame and fortune, beauty and ugliness, are all in the past. You can't turn back time, you don't have to be entangled, you don't have to get along with yourself, live in the present, grasp the time of the moment, take every dawn as the beginning of life, regard every dusk as the summary of life, do what you should do today, and don't let today's things become tomorrow's regrets.

You can't change the past, you can't control the future, you can only live in the present. The only thing that can decide and change is yourself at this moment. Neither the past nor the future exists, only the present moment is real. Eugene O'Kéeli said: "I have no control over time, I can only influence the world around me to a greater or lesser extent. All I have control over is my energy, how I allocate it, and how I use it to deal with the outside world...... I don't think about how I'm going to live my life anymore, and I don't think much about the old days. I need to stop imagining a short future in two months, a week, or even a few minutes. The world in 60 seconds is as elusive as the world in 60 years from now. ”

People always have to move forward, they can't always live in the past. It's like a moving train, with established tracks and stops. When I arrived at the station, some people got off the bus, and some people got on the bus. The one who gets off the bus may be your loved ones, even if you are reluctant, when it is time to get off, you can only say goodbye. And those who get on the bus, there are strangers, and there may also be people who will accompany you to the end in the future. On the road, whether you feel sad or happy is up to you. This is life, you can't go back, but also can't let you linger, don't hesitate when it's time to get in the car, don't be sad when it's time to get off, go with the flow, face the past and the future with a calm heart, and let yourself live happily in the present.

It has been said that life is a journey into the unknown. Life is actually a once-in-a-lifetime live broadcast, with no rehearsals, no scripts, no fast forwards, and no replays. No matter how brilliant the success of the past is, you can't go back, the only thing we can grasp is now, while the parents are alive, timely filial piety, while the children are not working, cherish the days with them. Don't be nostalgic for the past, live the present life, live the present life, cherish and enjoy the beauty and grace of this life, and share your love and happiness with everyone around you.

While not being nostalgic for the past, we should not be afraid of the future, because no matter how and what state the future will come, it has nothing to do with the present day. Worry and fear don't change anything, because you don't know what's going to happen tomorrow or in the future, and even if you're prepared, life can change at any time. The boat is naturally straight to the bridge, the mountains and rivers are full of doubts, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village, so don't worry about the vague future. Life is a mirror, and what you do to it, it does to you. Happiness is never absent, do not covet the past, do not fear the future, cherish the present, keep a normal heart, happiness is in the present.

There are many things in the world that cannot be completed in advance, and only living seriously in the present is the truest attitude towards life. Being alive is like sweeping the floor. You will never be able to sweep the ground of yesterday and tomorrow. If a person lives today, he only needs to sweep the floor of today, his heart, and his floor. Because tomorrow has tomorrow's heart, tomorrow's dust.

"Gently reminding yourself to be in the present moment with those who are already in the here and now is the simple key to liberation. "Anything you see, hear, feel, taste, touch, or smell, you can be in the present moment with them.

Living in the present, what should be discarded must be discarded, not forced. Willing to give up is a realm, but also a kind of wisdom. Only in giving up and making trade-offs can you live life to the fullest.

Don't always get along with yourself, don't embarrass yourself about some things, and let go of what you should let go. If you want to live happily, you must do everything in the moment with a practical heart and let yourself have no regrets. Emerson once said, "Happiness is like perfume, not poured on others, but on oneself." ”

If you want to live your life calmly, the best thing to do is to focus your life on the present. Don't dwell on the past, don't worry about the future, focus all your energy and time on every moment you are experiencing, cherish every day you are currently experiencing, cherish everyone around you, cherish every feeling in life, and live in the present.

Yesterday there are more and more, tomorrow less and less. To live in the present is to cherish today. Because today is extraordinarily beautiful, you can immerse yourself in it and experience it with your heart. Grasp every moment in life, cherish everything you have now, do what you should do, be kind to others, change yourself, always maintain a normal heart, live up to Shaoguang, and live a happy life.

Life is not a few decades, happiness is a day, unhappiness is also a day, why not let the troubles stand aside, live every day with your heart, live in the present, cherish the present, and do not leave regrets for life.

The title pages of life are torn off one by one, but it is not easy to grasp every day, live every day with your heart, and treat it as the last day of your life. You will find that every minute and every second is so beautiful, and those small happiness that usually seems to be very ordinary is so important to you. Cherish it when you have it, and don't regret it after you lose it. A good night is worth a thousand gold, instead of regretting the past, it is better to grasp the present and look forward to the future. An inch of time is an inch of gold, an inch of gold is difficult to buy an inch of time, no waste of life, no regrets in life!

The joy of life lies in living a true self. Flowers have the beauty of flowers, grass has the turquoise of grass, water has the flexibility of water, and clouds have the elegance of clouds. Don't deliberately imitate others, don't change yourself at will to cater to anyone, I am who I am, a different me, a unique me. Be good at discovering the good in others, and learn to appreciate others

People's strengths to make up for their own shortcomings, so that they will not lose themselves, and they can continue to improve themselves. Fame and fortune are all things outside the body, material civilization is important, and spiritual civilization is even more essential. It is better to live a rich life than to have a happy life, and would rather laugh on a bicycle than cry while sitting in a BMW.

Gods and horses are all floating clouds. After walking through the bustling thousands, in the end it will eventually become a passing cloud, and after enjoying countless scenery, it will eventually be left behind. Life is just a dream, and the clouds are scattered for thousands of miles. Live in the moment, cherish what you have, the mileage of life, the scenery all the way to the mud, you must have a mood to see the scenery, adversity does not refuse, and the beautiful scenery is harvested. Bring an elegant, a bouquet of brightness, and be calm all the way. Look at life with a happy heart, the more you look at it, the more relaxed it becomes, and face setbacks with a smile, and your heart will not be too sad.

Let go of those burdens, pick up the fragrance of flowers all the way, put it in your bag, poetic life, and sing and walk!

The best state of mind is calm, and the best state is a simple, most meaningful life, which is to do what you love. Some people do things for fame, some people do things for profit, and some people do neither fame nor profit, completely based on their own interests. I advocate such a person, fame and fortune are worldly fetters, and spiritual life has no chance, only by doing their own hobbies, will they find true happiness, only when the heart is happy, there will be happiness at all. And although this happiness has nothing to do with money, it is an inexhaustible source of the soul. Therefore, we must always maintain a grateful heart, give back to others, have a kind heart, and help others, so that we can be happy with others and happy with ourselves.

Give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in the hand.

Be kind, say good things, do good deeds, and make good connections. There is love in the heart, and life is wonderful everywhere. Money can't buy happiness, happiness comes from inner satisfaction. Contentment is always happy, and suffering losses is a blessing. To forgive others is to release yourself, know how to care for others, try to understand others, and don't do everything alone. The best life is giving, and the happiest thing is doing good deeds. The meaning of life is to give not to take, not to become a slave to money for the sake of worldly desires, not to just care about moving forward all the way, and ignore the beautiful scenery, not to fantasize about those ethereal nothingness, and forget the happiness that is within reach around you.

Life is a kind of fate, the more deliberately you pursue something, the more you may not get it, and the splendor you never expected, but you will meet it inadvertently. We have been looking for happiness for a long time, and suddenly looking back, happiness is actually all around us, what we need to do is to slow down your pace and feel this happiness carefully. In life, there are too many pursuits, and often they are in the midst of blessings and do not know the blessings. In fact, happiness is very simple, having a bright smile, having a healthy body, being able to breathe freely, and being able to do what you like, there is no more luck in life than this. As everyone knows, we already have a lot, but we still think that we are unhappy, because you don't have a pair of discerning eyes, or in other words, you haven't experienced setbacks and life and death, so you don't understand what true happiness and happiness are. Life needs a pair of eyes that are good at discovering, and at the same time, there must be a state of mind that cherishes blessings and knows blessings.

Many troubles actually come from themselves. People don't have to be too serious in this life, if they are too serious, they will not only suffer themselves, but also complain about others, so they will restrain their feelings, it is better to travel lightly, learn to be a careless person, be a generous person. Fate can't be met or sought, no one can drive it away if it's yours, and you can't keep it if it's not yours. If you are in his heart, what does it matter if you have 3,000 rivals? If you are not in his heart, what is the use of letting your head run and bleeding? What does not belong to you must know how to let go gracefully, face it calmly, and be yourself quietly. Live your own characteristics, show the wonderful in the ordinary, and taste the vivid in the silence. Go with the flow, everything is fate, simple and easy, come and go like the wind. There is a person who understands himself in his heart, even if it is a difficult day, there will be sweetness in his heart. In the world, there is a person who knows you, understands you, and loves you, and you have joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

People are willing to share together, what a beautiful and fortunate thing! A person who understands you, no matter how rich, will never give up, and a person who understands you will always be consistent no matter the wind and rain. Because of compassion, we understand, and because we understand, we cherish. When you are happy, you are in front of you in the distance, and when you are confused or confused, you hear your comforting words, like a spring breeze turning into rain, moistening your heart. At that moment, all the gloom in my heart went away with the wind, my smile was as beautiful as a flower, my heart was full of bright sunshine, my thoughts returned to normal, and the sky was clear. The faint years, the warmth of friendship, the hurried time, the precipitation of indifferent affection, the unchanged greetings left a sincere heart, sincere wishes.

Forry left a sincere friendship. Pure feelings will not give up, intimate friends will not be separated, warm care regardless of the four seasons, like a warm spring breeze with you, like a brilliant flower cluster around you, and like a bunch of bright and warm you!

Friendship makes us more precious, friends make us more happy, and blessings make life more gorgeous. The complicated life is more relaxed, and the ordinary life has added a color. Friends are the wealth of a lifetime, and good friends are a kind of spiritual induction and tacit understanding of each other. Your gesture is a look, a movement, a look back, and your friends will understand it, and they will understand it without too much explanation. Cherish this friendship!

Don't live too tired, don't care too much about fame and status, the more desires, the more troubles, the simpler the heart, the happier you are. Put the mind flat, empty the heart, the real happiness comes from a plain heart, do not care about fame and fortune, look down on the gains and losses, will experience the real fun, only indifferent and quiet, is a transparent life.

In life, there are always some things that make people helpless, and in life, there are always some feelings that make people sad, which is called taste, and this will be colorful. I believe that only after experiencing can we mature, and only after pain can we have a deeper understanding. Real water has no fragrance, still water flows deeply, and some things, after years of precipitation, do you know what you want. The happiness of life is a calmness and calmness. Do what you love and love the people you love. No matter what others think of you, you are happy in a happiness and reap different joys. It's worth it, no regrets in this life!

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