From the relationship between Shen Yizhen and Su Ran, it can be clearly seen that men and women yearn for love and want love......

For example, the love that a woman wants...... I often hear people say that the best love is when I need you and you are there. For girls, companionship is the most affectionate confession! There is no need to deliberately maintain this relationship, it just so happens that you are there when I need you, and I happen to be there when you need me. The time is just right, and the feelings are just right! There are always some people who can enjoy happiness but not weal and woe, whenever you encounter difficulties, you can better see the people around you, which people are flying separately when the disaster is coming, and which people are accompanying you through it. No matter how many difficulties there are in life, how much despair there is filled with, there will always be a little light in the darkness and give you new hope.

The best love is often not just talking, you are always there. What I really care about is not sweet words, but that you are there when I turn around. No matter how beautiful the love words are, they can't match that you are by my side, just saying "I am here", which can drive away all the anxiety and fear in my heart. People are afraid of loneliness in their hearts, but with you, you are not lonely. In this cold winter, we need your warmth even more so that these girls' restless souls can have a home.

People's mouths can deceive, but actions don't. Whether he loves you or not, just when you are in great pain because of the arrival of your great aunt, and he has prepared a hot ginger brown sugar water for you. His love is not only on the phone every time, but in life. He knows that he will dress you when it is cold, pour water for you when he is thirsty, buy snacks for you when he is hungry, beat your waist when your back is sore, and carry you on his back when he is tired...... There are good things that think of you, and there are good things that also think of you, and I am gentle and considerate to you. But it's not about being obedient in everything, and when you do something wrong, you will be blamed and your questions will be raised.

In fact, the sense of security is not an ethereal thing, but something that can be really felt, that is, when I need you, you are there! Love is not a game, it can end casually. We can't afford to hurt, we all hurt. The love that girls want is actually very simple, as long as you are there!

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One day I saw this scene in the airport, a young man dressed in a formal suit, not playing with his mobile phone, but holding a bouquet of flowers in his hand and hiding behind him, and then looking forward to the person who came out of the passage, looking for the figure he was waiting for. It's such a simple video, a man waiting for the woman he loves, but all the women are very envious, envious of this man, the woman he is waiting for. Everyone is saying that that woman is really happy because there is such a person who treats her gently.

It was just a simple wait, but it made many women red-eyed. We don't know whether that woman is happy or not, but this shows how much too many women lack love and yearn for someone to love them. For love, some people are always saying that women are very material and realistic, they like very rich men, and they are only willing to marry men with good conditions, and they will not consider those men around them who are not in good conditions. But in fact, the person who said these words really wronged the woman, what the woman's heart longed for has never been, a man has a lot of money, and what they want is a lot of love.

Just like the man who was waiting for his lover at the airport, dressed formally, did not play with his mobile phone casually, hid a bouquet of flowers behind his back, and waited carefully, which is enough to make too many women feel that they are full of happiness.

The love that a woman wants is actually very simple, but there is such a person who loves her very firmly, always takes care of her feelings in her life day by day, and occasionally gives her some, little romance and small surprises. That's right, these needs, it seems, are not high at all, or even very low, but there are too many men who can't even do the most basic and can't meet them. Men can't love women, but they always feel that women leave themselves because they don't have money, which is too unfair to women. And when men are talking about women's reality, too many men are often more realistic than women, and when looking for a other half, he will not only look at the woman's appearance, look at the woman's personality, but also look at the woman's work and family background.

And even if a woman's conditions are not bad in all aspects, men may not necessarily give their sincerity, and often just want to flirt. Too many women, who have never even felt it, are firmly chosen by a person, let alone carefully cared for by a man.

And when a woman chooses a man, the man in life, but he doesn't care about himself, he won't bring him any warmth, but when a woman is a free nanny, then what's the point of such a relationship, it's not as happy as being single. In today's era, there are more and more single women, they don't want to fall in love, it's not that they don't want to get married, they just don't want to give themselves to someone easily, and they don't know how to feel sorry for themselves at all. They are always ready to give a man the best of their own, but unfortunately they don't, meet such a person, treat them with a hot heart.

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Life in the world, due to the different three views, the love that everyone wants for women is also different, women and men in the relationship are different, what they need is different, many people will say "women's hearts, needles under the sea". In fact, the love that a woman wants is very simple, but "I said I wanted to buy a bag, and then someone really bought it for me, and she was happy not because she had a bag, but because someone cared about her". In love, some men do pay a lot for women, but there are still many women who are not satisfied, which cannot be blamed.

It can only be said that the love that women want in their hearts, men don't know, love can be without wind and waves, or without romance and passion, but it needs each other's company.

You stand on the bridge and look at the view, maybe the people watching the view are watching you from upstairs. Women in love hope that their men can occasionally give them a little romance and surprises, not that they are hypocritical, this is what every woman wants. Of course, it doesn't mean that it has to be like this every day, and once in a while, it can make a woman happy. Smooth sailing love is of course very good, but women still need a little surprise and romance, even if they are getting older, but they always have a girl's heart. Occasional surprises and romance are a way for you to express your love to each other, life is colorful, so the love that a woman wants in her heart is romance and surprises.

The premise that two people who love each other can go to the end is mutual trust and loyalty, trust is to build a bridge between two people's beautiful love, if there is no trust between two people, how can we talk about love?

A woman's sixth sense is generally more accurate, and whether a man is loyal to his woman or not, a little clue from a man can be seen. What a woman wants is trust and loyalty to each other, and she doesn't want her man to betray her. She will choose to believe in her man at all times, but she wants to repay her for the loyalty of a man, of course, when she encounters something, she hopes that her man can believe in herself, rather than sentencing herself to death all at once, what a woman wants is actually very simple, loyalty and trust are enough.

A woman in love, she hopes that the other party loves her all the time, she hopes that both people are equal, not unilateral giving, women understand in their hearts that true love is mutual affection rather than wishful thinking. There is also fairness in love, all women want a fair love, no one owes anyone in this world, of course, in love, what women want is more to pay and return are proportional, want to be happy with each other in the future, equality is very important.

Every woman hopes that she is married to love, not to be your nanny, in love, everyone may have their own career, women are not married to be your nanny for a lifetime. She also has her own career to deal with, and what she hopes is that her man will also have enough responsibility. Some men go to their own women when they encounter a little thing in their lives. Never try to solve it yourself, you must know that the appearance of a boy doing something seriously and attentively will fascinate many women, so what women want in their hearts is the kind of man who is responsible.

What every woman wants is actually very simple, you don't have to bother to please, as long as you do what a man should really do. Occasional romance and surprises, mutual trust and loyalty, fair treatment of her, and responsibility, these are exactly the kind of love that women want.

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In the process of falling in love, sometimes there will be some unpleasant quarrels, and both people don't understand why two good people will quarrel? The answer is very obvious, the boy makes the girl feel not very good, or which kind of behavior of the boy makes the girl feel that she doesn't care so much, maybe the boy can't give the girl the feeling of love she wants. In fact, in the process of getting along, we only need to pay attention to a few points, and when we get along with girls, we can grasp the four feelings, so the relationship between the two people will become deeper and deeper.

The first feeling: when I get along with you (the boy), I feel like a child, like a daughter, spoiled by you. Girls are insecure people, if you spoil her in the process of dating, then she will become more and more dependent on you, and you can quite dominate the process of love, girls have always been a vulnerable group, they need your care, want to be protected by you, and if you notice this in the process of dating, you always treat her as your daughter to take care of, whether she quarrels with you or you have conflicts with you, you are treated as a child in the tantrum on the line, there is no need to be angry with her, and then the two people are inseparable, if you see a child in the temper, will you still be angry？

Be generous, girls like mature men, they all like the kind of uncle-type men with a sense of responsibility, they don't need to find a son who makes them bother all day long, but they need to find a man who can spoil them all the time and love them, they also need to be spoiled like a child, you can accept my vexatious behavior, then you should also accept my willfulness, because the feeling of being tolerated in a quarrel with your favorite is really too happy. So when you are in love, you have to learn to tolerate your girlfriend and take care of it like a child in life, then your girlfriend will love you more and more, and this kind of relationship is exactly what she wants.

The second feeling: When I am with you (the boy), I feel very grounded and safe, and I don't need to panic when I encounter anything, because she knows that you are there. When we give a girl this feeling, the girl will know that you really like her and love her. You have to learn to stand in your girlfriend's shoes at all times, let your girlfriend know that you are her safe haven, even if she really does something wrong, you will choose to like her and tolerate her. If you give a girl a sense of security, the girl will become more and more obsessed with you, she knows that you can give her a sense of security, she knows that you will stand behind her and stay with her, as long as you can give a girl a sense of solidity and security when you are in love, then everything next is not a problem, even if she occasionally quarrels with you, it is also a coquettish performance with you.

The third feeling: I don't need to disguise myself when I'm with you (boy), I'm free. You don't need to put on makeup and wash your hair to dress up so beautiful every day, and you won't dislike her. Remember, girls are always looking for a marriage partner, if you can accept all her shortcomings when you are in love, and you won't dislike it, then this girl is 100% ready to be with you for a lifetime, because the disguise is too tired, and it's too tiring to put on makeup and wash your hair every day to see the person you like. If you can accept her plain makeup, accept her little shortcomings, then the girl will definitely like you with all her heart, isn't love like this? Only strangers will show all their advantages, as long as you take off all the guards, she is the time to love you the most, she is at ease with you, and you like her even if you don't wash your hair, don't wear makeup, don't brace beautiful, you also like her, so this is the feeling that a girl likes, no need to pretend to be free.

The fourth feeling: it is easy to feel your (boy's) dedication, in fact, to put it bluntly, it is to let a girl feel that you are good to her, and your kindness to her and warmth to her is to her in her opinion. How do you understand this sentence? That is, let this girl feel your love for her, and feel that you care about her the most, and also feel that you like to pay for her. If a girl can't even feel your love, then you are a failed boyfriend, if a girl can't feel your dedication in you, can't feel your love for her, she will gradually alienate you, will gradually be disappointed in you, and then there are all kinds of quarrels, all kinds of questions about whether you love me or not, in fact, it's very simple, occasionally create a small romance, occasionally create a small surprise, occasionally give a small gift, even in a small romance, surprises and gifts, in the eyes of the girl are your love for her.

If we can let girls feel these feelings when we are in love, then this girl will follow you with all her heart, of course, there will be no big quarrels, and there will be no two people full of contradictions every day, happy love is high-quality love, if every couple can do this, then I believe that there will not be so many breakups, so many quarrels, so many unhappy breakups. Give a girl what she wants, give a girl the feeling she should enjoy, and give her a sense of security, then you must be that qualified boyfriend.

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In today's materialistic society, many men feel that most of the love women want is piled up by luxury cars and luxuries. But in fact, this is a very one-sided understanding, money is actually just an accessory of a woman in love, otherwise we would not see so many people who are willing to give up everything for love.

As we all know, a woman is a very sensitive and very emotional animal, and many times women do not fancy a person because of the other person's background and some things they have. Most of the time, women value men themselves, and all women want is for men to be able to treat them wholeheartedly. Women want men to be attentive and considerate to them, and not in stages, but to be able to do it all the time. And women actually attach great importance to promises, so men should remember what they promise to women in ordinary times, and fulfill their promises as soon as possible, because even if sometimes women don't say anything, they actually remember it.

Women not only need someone to accompany them, but also need someone who can give them psychological comfort, women hope that men can take the initiative to discover the little secrets and some careful thoughts hidden in women's hearts. In normal times, women hope that men can give them more company and care.

In fact, at the same age, women are relatively more mature than men. So many times women will take a long-term view, and no woman is willing to entrust her future to someone who looks very unreliable and can't see any future. Even if you have nothing now, at least you should let women see your self-motivation. Let women have confidence in you and give women some visible hope, women will be willing to work hard with you, and the relationship will become deeper.

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Not only women have the love they want to love, but also men, and everyone has the right to choose in this fair society. What kind of love does a man want? It's actually very simple.

In our lives, it is easy to meet someone we like, but it is difficult to find someone to live with. It is often said that love is different from marriage, when you are in love, you feel that you like each other very much, and when it comes to marriage, you find that you are not suitable for your partner in life. In fact, women pay more attention to feelings, which kind of love women want, full of romance. Therefore, it is also a difficult thing for men to coax women, as long as the boy does not care about his girlfriend's thoughts and does not feel that his girlfriend is not adaptable, he will be in a bad mood. When falling in love, men still have the energy to guess and guess the minds of these women, but when it comes to marriage, with the arrival of life pressure, they slowly have no energy to guess.

Men like women who have straight words, because men's thinking logic is straight. Women don't like to say what they want directly, women want their boyfriends to guess their own, so it is a manifestation of love for themselves, but sometimes men are not so sensitive, so they may not even know if they make their girlfriends angry!

The three views coincide and must be compatible. In fact, most people agree with this, if two people want to have a good love story, they must have three views that coincide with each other, and if two people's ideas can, they can be together. If the three views coincide, two people will not be so uncomfortable getting along. Anything is negotiable. With a partner who has the same three views, there will be many topics to talk about together. The most important thing is that after two people reach a common opinion, they have a tacit understanding when it comes to solving things.

Girls who are easy to be coaxed and who know how to measure and grasp the scale are often loved. In love, when couples quarrel, it's often not that the boy really doesn't love the girl. It's that girls feel that boys don't love them anymore, so they will start to be jealous and lose their temper. This is also a big headache for boys. Although coaxing girls is also a sign of love, boys are also willing to watch their girlfriends spoil themselves. But if the girl doesn't grasp the proportion, she often loses her temper and breaks up with the boy. It's a fuss every few days, and even the most patient boys will be tortured to the point that they have no temper.

As a result, the two of them fell into a vicious circle. Among them, we need to know that one of the biggest weaknesses of boys is that they don't know why you suddenly get angry. Sometimes girls are more concerned about how much their boyfriend cares about them, if they suddenly feel that their girlfriend is suddenly angry. Most of them are because of this, and I can't say why, but the only way is to coax girls.

Girls who are easier to coax are also easier to please boys. Occasionally, a small tantrum can still warm up the ordinary life emotions of two people. It's not a good thing to create conditions for boys to create romance.

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It is the most desired way for boys to fall in love, and as a girl, you must understand.

I don't want to leave you because of your bad side, in fact, watching you hide and feel uneasy at the same time, I will want to hug you even more. This world only affirms all good existence, but not with me, I love you all.

To love someone is to love her all, as the famous love story boy Wang Xiaobo said: "I give you my whole soul, along with its quirks, petty tempers, flickering light and dark, 1,800 kinds of bad problems." It's so annoying, only a little good, love you. "But in love, there are always awkward things for some reason.

You can do it, but not too much. This should be the voice of many men, many girls like to "do", girls can indeed "do", it is healthier to do one, but it will not work if it is too much, who can stand it like "one cry, two troubles, three hangings". Therefore, the most important thing that boys want to be in love is that girls do it once in a while, and boys can coax it, and it will be good to coax it.

Not too sweet, not too cold. When many couples show their affection in the circle of friends, they always give people the feeling that two people seem to be glued together for 24 hours, which is too sweet, and many men don't like this. We all know that "show affection, die fast", and there is a reason for this. It also makes sense that distance produces beauty. But it can't be too cold, there is no boy who likes a cold girlfriend, the two respect each other like guests, and there is no emotion at all.

Don't rely too much on each other. Many girls are emotionally dependent on their boyfriends and think that the other person is all they have. Therefore, if your boyfriend sends a message after a while, or misses a phone call, they will be very panicked and even have unnecessary suspicions. Put yourself all on one person, and you will inevitably lose yourself. The love that boys want is that two people are usually independent, but they still have to be hot when it's hot.

Know how to communicate, don't have a cold war. In couples, quarrels are inevitable, and once they quarrel, many boys will be silent, and the two will fall into a cold war. Neither of them likes such a scene, what a man wants is that the two can communicate well and not have a cold war. Many times, men are silent because girls are unreasonable.

Pamper each other, in love, boys will spoil girls as little princesses, but have girls ever thought that boys also need to be pampered. No matter how old a man is, he is actually a child at heart, and he also needs to be cared for. They expect that when they are vulnerable and helpless, the other party can comfort them and hug them. What a man wants to be in love is that two people can love each other and care for each other. When you are young, if you fall in love with someone, please, please be sure to treat him gently, and when you grow up, you will know that at the moment of looking back, the youth without resentment will have no regrets, such as the quiet full moon on the hill. Love is not common, and it should be cherished when encountered.

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As we all know, the biggest difference between men and women is that men are rational animals, while women are emotional mothers. In relationships, women are easy to understand, because they feel that it is a matter of course to ask for love and accommodation from men, but many people often ignore men because of this, they also need love, and they also crave women's care and understanding. Women are inherently insecure creatures, and this trait seems to have been present since they were born, so they are always constantly trying to control in their relationships, wanting to get all the love of men, in order to make up for the holes in their hearts. And men are just the opposite, they want to cherish the person who understands him, as long as you can satisfy his desire for love and understanding him, then he is willing to go to the soup for you and die for this relationship. So, what kind of love is the pursuit of a man?

Plain love: It is not that you want to tell him "I love you" all the time, but after your relationship enters a dull period, you can understand his thoughts, understand his various habits, and give him ordinary love in ordinary life, to prove that you really care about him and want to go with him for a lifetime. For example, his stomach is not very good, and he often forgets to eat because of work. Then you can send him a message or take a few photos when you have dinner, and tell him that you made a mushroom stew tonight and it is very fragrant, I wonder if someone can smell it? If you care about someone in your heart, it is never spoken, but your every action is reflected, especially in some trivial things. A man's mind is not so delicate, if you can feel your love in a place that even he ignores, then how can he not die to you?

Wordless love: Who said that a man doesn't understand love, doesn't know how to love someone? He can hold up everything in this society of the jungle, it is not easy, if you still want him to do everything, then your love is too harsh. You have to know that he also needs someone who can give him understanding and support, and a shoulder to lean on when he is tired, so that he will feel the happiness of being with you. Instead of going home to coax you when he is facing all kinds of pressure, or you just give him an empty sentence like "Don't be afraid, I will always support you", but encourage him with real actions. What you have to do is to give him a hug, take care of everything in the house, so that he doesn't have to worry about it anymore, let him lean on your shoulder and say all the negative emotions in his heart.

Additional love: Not long ago, I went to a script reading meeting before the start of a new play, and after the meeting, we had dinner together, and I happened to meet an old friend from the same studio when I first entered the industry, and we talked a lot when we got together, and I asked him how his relationship was recently. He said sincerely: In the two years since he broke up with his studio girlfriend and left, he has also had a few new partners, but he has never been able to forget her, and he always compares her with others, so he later went back to find her, and now he feels that he has nothing to ask for in life. I was surprised because he used to always say that she was wrong, but he told me that when we broke up, she would still care about me and take care of my life and diet from time to time, but she never raised emotional matters, and she was the only one in this world who could give me such love. This is the so-called additional love, simply put, it is to give him irreplaceable goodness, because no one can do this, once he develops dependence on you, then even if you break up, he can no longer accept anyone else, because he will always compare in his heart, no one can be as good as you.

Of course, this is not very easy to do, because no one will not care about their own gains and losses, but if you want to keep a man's heart, then you must have an early investment in him, and influence his thoughts and efforts through your behavior. To deal with a man, if you don't know how to be flexible, then in the end you will only lose both, on the contrary, if you can overcome the rigidity with softness and meet the feeling of love that he wants most in his heart, then he will naturally not forget your good, and then his feelings will not be in your hands?

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To love someone, the best love is not to keep giving, but to give him the love he wants. However, in relationships, there is a clear difference between a man's thinking and a woman's thinking, and many women are used to loving men according to their own thinking. As everyone knows, that kind of love for a man does not want, and even becomes a burden in his life. Therefore, whether it is love or marriage, a woman must understand the man and understand what he wants. In fact, this kind of love is the love that men really want, and I hope you can be a woman who understands him.

No matter how affectionate you are, you have to keep your distance, in the relationship, women always want to stick to men, and feel that this is a manifestation of affection. As everyone knows, this practice often makes men want to escape. Because, in a relationship, most men are very rational, even if they love someone again, they only love seven points, and the remaining three points will be reserved for themselves to do something they want to do. But women are not like this, women's love is full of love, and they even want to control all men and tie men to their side. Over time, it will make men feel unfree and oppressed. Therefore, this is not the love that a man wants, what he wants is for two people to have their own space, to be able to stick together, and to fly freely.

Respect each other's individual differences, many women in a relationship, always like to follow their own ideas, forcing men to make some changes. And this kind of practice can easily make men have rebellious thoughts, and even quarrel with you for this reason. Therefore, in a relationship, a woman should respect a man's living habits and hobbies. After all, he is not you, he has his own thinking patterns and life plans, and if you keep forcing him and trying to change him, he will get farther and farther away from you. Therefore, women should remember that the love that men want is a love that can bloom separately, and respect each other's individual differences in order to make this relationship last longer.

Don't look for trouble. In fact, almost all men are afraid of trouble, and they also hate that women have nothing to do. However, in a relationship, many women like to change their tricks and look for nothing, today they feel that the man doesn't love them anymore, and tomorrow they suspect that he has done something sorry for themselves. You know, there is a limit to a man's patience, and if you are always messing around, he will also become unresponsive. Therefore, the love that men want is a relaxed and happy love, where two people can understand and tolerate each other. If there is something to communicate well, don't look for trouble, and turn small things into big things. I hope you can understand the man's mind, give him a little more trust, don't listen to the wind and rain, and quarrel with him casually.

Able to love the house and the black. Almost all of them have one of the criteria for choosing a mate: honor their elders. Therefore, in the relationship, if a woman can love the house and the house, and treat the man's family and friends politely, then the man will be very happy and will love you more. Secondly, everything is prosperous with family and talent, if you can get along with his parents and have a happy family, then he will also have an easy life and be able to work hard outside without any scruples. On the contrary, men will only be in a dilemma, and even have a psychology of avoidance. Therefore, the love that a man wants is the love that can love the house and the black.

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Everyone has psychological needs, men and women are different, most men have strong machismo, so women should be clear about what the three major psychological needs of men are, which will make the relationship between the two more intimate. Generally, after marriage, it is not easy for women to take into account the feelings of men, and unconsciously there will be more and more contradictions, more and more obvious, as long as you understand the psychological needs of the other party, you can better solve the problem.

Dependent: There is always one party who is strong when the two are together, women must not be too strong, try to show the little woman's side in front of men, even if you pretend that the mineral water can't be unscrewed and let him help you, this will make him feel that you are dependent on him, and then inexplicably protective of you, men will not think you are very hypocritical, but will like the appearance of women and birds. Most of a woman's sense of security comes from a man, and the more you rely on him, the more she will love you and give you enough security, so women should not be too strong, even if they are strong in front of others, but they must be vulnerable in front of their husbands.

Being trusted: being trusted is a feeling that men need the most, men always have busy work outside, at this time women don't want to call or text hard, work has made him breathless, you put pressure on him will make him hate you even more, this is obviously that you don't trust him, if the trust between husband and wife can not be done and talk about the future, all feelings will be distrusted and consumed, so women should trust their men and give him enough space.

Be understood: When a man is in trouble, the first thing he thinks of is his wife, everyone will do wrong things in life, as long as they know that they can change their mistakes, it is a good thing. When a man makes a mistake, he really hopes that the woman can understand him, in fact, this is the process of reading the other party's heart, the woman must maintain the mood of understanding when she decides to be with him, understanding is the preservative of the couple's feelings, so the woman should keep these two words firmly in mind.

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So what is true love between a man and a woman?

Many people think that he is good to you and obedient to you, this is to love you, and you are obliged to respond to him and try to love him. Actually, no, when a person is unconditionally good to you, it is necessary to think about whether he needs something from me to be so good to me, and what benefits can be given to him if he is good to me? There is a big difference between liking and loving, liking is that I need you to continue to be good to me, so I choose to be with you. Love, but because I love you, I am willing to be nice to you. Don't confuse the two, and when accepting someone who pleases you, be sure to think about whether I am moved by his flattery or his genuine feelings. People with utilitarian flattery will break down the wall in your heart little by little, and when you fall, you will withdraw in time. But a person who is sincere to you will not. How many people are emotionally attracted by this "cheap" flattery, and give everything they have. Sincere love is the premise for everything to unfold.

Learn how to love.

How to express one's love correctly is the best way to maintain a relationship. Learn to "exchange" each other's love, rather than blindly "taking" each other's love. For example, if he accompanies you to go shopping today, you can also take the initiative to play games with him tomorrow. When the other party pays for you, you also have to learn to empathize, can you also take the initiative to pay for him, instead of greedily wanting more. No one has the responsibility and obligation to pay for you, and your boyfriend is no exception, maybe he just pays voluntarily, but he will be tired after paying for a long time. While asking him to do something for you, put yourself in his shoes: why does he want to help me do these things? Can I do anything for him? Love is actually mutual, he gives you the love you love, you should also take the initiative to love, or even double the love, so that the mutual love can make both parties feel the happiest. Don't let companionship become "constraints". It is undeniable that compared with boys, girls in love have a stronger sense of need for a sense of security, and are more eager for the companionship and care of boys. Sometimes the other party just replies to you a little late, and the tone of speech today is a little wrong...... In fact, it is just some very small things, which will be infinitely magnified in your eyes, loving someone and not "possessing". Don't let the focus of your life revolve around the other party, and inadvertently ask the other party where they went today, who they met, and what they did in a questioning tone, and then call it "sticky". As long as the other party's answer is not in line with his heart, he will be angry with him like an unreasonable child. Two people who originally loved each other, in this kind of constant work, constant questioning, let him prove that his love for you is sincere, and finally let the relationship fall apart in this cloud of doubt. Two people who truly love each other should learn to understand and trust each other, and both parties have their own independent space, not a public space.

Love that leaves room for love.

Love is sometimes like a game, you never know what the outcome will be or what will happen halfway through. If you win the game, it will be a lifetime, and if you lose, you will have nothing. Maybe the two people who were close yesterday went the other way and became strangers to each other the next day. While loving someone, you should also keep room for yourself. People change, and so do feelings. Don't be fooled by the so-called true love, maybe the one who says he will love you forever is ready to leave. The promises I made to you may be true, but after a long time, the feelings are gradually diluted, and I leave. Sensuality makes your love more and more beautiful, but rationality allows you to see the true nature of the other party.

Learn to put forward your own demands reasonably.

Sometimes it may be that the other party does not care about their feelings, which leads to various negative emotions such as grievances and unhappiness, but it is best not to use this as a reason to lose your temper or quarrel with the other party, which will only get worse. You can calm yourself down first, communicate well with the other party, or put forward your demands in a way that is easy for the other party to accept, so that the other party will not only clearly understand what you are not doing well enough, but also feel guilty because of your tolerance, so that you will think of all kinds of flattery, and say all kinds of love secret words to "atone for your sins".

Learn to give each other personal space.

After all, not everyone is always concerned about love, and there will be things they care about at the time and urgent things to deal with, and good things do not have to be enjoyed at all times, just like some people like to eat chocolate, but if this person eats all the time, they will not be able to stand it, so they need to know how to give each other a certain amount of personal space, which can well establish the trust of both parties.

Learn to compliment each other for a little bit of progress

Everyone likes to be praised by others, especially both men and women in love, no matter what they do, they all want to be recognized by the other half, so in love, don't be stingy with your praise words and praise, talk about love secrets, and praise each other in time every time the other party makes a little progress, so that the other party has been "falling" in their praise shells.

When two people have been together for a long time, love will slowly become numb, they will look down on each other, feel that the other party does not understand them, and then all kinds of grievances, complaints, and quarrels, which will lead to a breakup. In fact, love also needs to be managed by our own efforts, and to unlock its love code, we need to try and work hard little by little.

Love is trying to be together, don't believe the so-called breakup in the TV series because you can't make each other happy. You have to believe that you are each other's happiness, and do not shirk the responsibility of giving each other happiness, but strive to fulfill the obligation to make each other happy. When you say that you left so that the other person would not be harmed, you have already caused the most harm to the other person. Don't cheat on your lover. A lie often requires countless lies to cover up, unless you are sure to lie to him for a lifetime, and when the lie is exposed, everything may be over, so please be honest with him.

Don't say anything drastic when you're impulsive. Sometimes a cruel word rushed out of anger may break the other party's heart. If you have already said it, then apologize and try to make up for it with your gentleness, knowing that it is easy to nail a nail, but can you fix the hole in the fence when you pull it up? Because love is the existence of two people, there is absolutely no room for a third person. Anyone who thinks they can hug left and right is nothing more than people who are more interested in YY on the Internet. Don't think that if he loves you, he won't leave you. Under your repeated hurt, he will also leave, because you don't know how to cherish and don't deserve his love. Only by knowing how to cherish can we understand love. Be kind to each other's family, friends. Although it is you who are in love, it has nothing to do with the people around you. But respecting each other's family and friends can make the relationship between two people more lasting and stable.

Don't put too much pressure on each other. Keeping a proper distance from the opposite sex is good for your love. Sometimes if you are too close, you may inadvertently make embarrassing actions for each other. Don't lose contact. It is difficult for people who often lose their news to feel at ease. It can also make people worry about your safety. Don't make promises lightly. Promises that cannot be made are more hateful than those that are not promised. Maybe many men and women like that blank check, but when you find that every one of them can't be cashed, will you still love this scammer?

Don't test the other person, we always like to verify the promises made to us by others, but rarely verify the promises we have made to ourselves. Because a person falls in love with a city, goes to a place, misses a place, all because of the people there, not the scenery there, a city will connect with itself, and it is also because there are the same people as themselves. Women must learn to love themselves, don't think that they can capture a man's heart if they can live a life, dress up themselves, and learn new things in order to keep love fresh.

No matter how urged by your family, no matter how old you are, don't treat marriage casually and follow your heart, because marriage is not playing cards, and reshuffling the cards will cost a huge amount. To love him is to tell him not to hide the pain of longing in the depths of your heart. Don't be afraid, it's beautiful to love someone. Don't live just for yourself. People don't live only for themselves, their parents, their lovers, and their children. Maybe we're going to do a lot of things we don't like to do, but for their sake, don't complain. Because love is a kind of responsibility and a kind of responsibility. Don't give any hope to someone you don't love. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Maybe you just like the feeling of being loved, but when disappointment comes, you may be disgusted by the other person because of your greed.

Plain is true, yes, but it should be dull after passion, and then passion, and then dull. Passions should alternate in waves. In front of the opposite sex, men always like to show their very manly side. That's how you can be a man, so machismo is sometimes a must. Girls should learn to show weakness in a timely manner, and overcome rigidity with softness, and there may be unexpected sweet effects. You can never imagine loving someone like that before love begins, and you can never imagine that love will disappear before love ends. Before love is forgotten, you can never imagine that such an unforgettable love will leave only a faint trace;

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