People know the cold and the warm
After the teahouse got together and separated, she suddenly came to the courtyard, which was also agreed with the professor when she left the drunken immortal residence yesterday, and the professor said that someone wanted her to meet. Pushing open the red door of the courtyard, a gramophone plays Peking Opera full of Beijing flavor, a bird cage hanging under the banyan tree, and a bamboo chair swaying on the stone blue, all of which are in line with the lifestyle of the old Beijingers.
"Grandma~" She tentatively looked for her grandmother's figure, "Grandma~ I am here suddenly." The inner door creaked open, and the professor walked in front of him, followed by a woman.
"Grandma," she stepped forward with a happy face, but when she saw the appearance of the woman behind her, she was stunned, and the fruit basket she was holding fell to the ground instantly, and the bright red strawberries rolled to the ground.
She looked at the woman behind her with a frightened gaze, "You...... You are. β
"It's me, it's my aunt. The woman took a few steps forward and suddenly took two steps back. "Suddenly, what's wrong with you, why are you still hiding when you see your aunt. Then the professor said suddenly.
She looked at her grandmother and then at her aunt, and confusion and confusion welled up in her heart, "You... How are you together. So you said last night's friend was ......," she turned her gaze to her aunt.
"I want to surprise you, for all these years I know you've always wanted to see your aunt and want to know where she is! So this time I brought your aunt back in the hope of fulfilling your wish. β
She looked at the two of them with a crying and smiling face, "Fulfill my wish, then why don't you help me find her for so many years." And where have you and my good aunt gone all these years, why don't you leave without saying anything, and leave me alone in Chengde!"
"Suddenly, you listen to me, I didn't mean to leave you, I didn't want you to suffer with me, and I knew that your grandmother was looking for you when I left, so I left with confidence. β
"So that? So you can leave me without saying a word? I am a person with feelings, how do you know that I am afraid of suffering with you, how do you know that I will leave you for the so-called glory and wealth. Do you think or are you afraid, you are afraid that I will affect you. β
"Suddenly, you can't talk to your aunt like that. β
"And what do you want me to say?" she turned her gaze to the professor, "so you knew where she was from the beginning, and you kept not telling me because you were afraid that I would leave you and leave Step Shake? Family affection is so vulnerable in front of you? Do you want to trap me for your so-called love? You are my only relative in this world, but I feel that you are so far away from me, you know how I have come through these four years! I told myself that I would work hard to live for the people I loved, but I found that the people I loved were getting farther and farther away from me. You are him and ......"
The aunt approached and took her hand, with a distressed and indebted look on her face, "Child, we love you, I don't let the professor tell you my whereabouts, I know you can, you can choose to be strong and independent." β
Suddenly pushed her hand away, "Then why are you coming back now, didn't you see that I was doing well, so why did you come to see me?"
"I'm asking your aunt to come back. The professor took her hand and handed it to her aunt, "I quit the Step shake group, which means that you are going to fight alone in this jewelry group, and I am afraid that you will not be able to let you go, so I think you need to be alone." β
"What do you need someone to do by your side? Spy on me, look at me, if you're not at ease, I'm going to hand over the group to me, what's the difference between this and you being by my side? It's just a different person. And also...... I want to know why Shen Yizhen suddenly broke up with me, have you seen him? The day I came back, he went to your company, did you reach any agreement?"
The professor looked at her with a puzzled expression, "Who are you listening to this! Is it Shen Yizhen?"
"Don't ask me who I'm listening to say this, and you can answer me if it's not. β
The professor was silent for a moment...... "It's not ......"
Suddenly sneered: "No? Really not? Do you know how much I love him? Do you know how many things he said to break up with me? Do you think so, I am sad and sad to love someone? Professor Gu, you know this kind of pain better than me. β
"Alright... What is there to be nostalgic for when you break up, your future road is still far away, what is a Shen Yizhen!"
"You hated that person all your life, don't you regret it? Don't you regret that you forced my mother away? Do you still want to force me away? Think I'm just like you!"
"You ......," said the professor's trembling voice, "I'd rather you blame me now." β
"You'd rather make a mistake than give yourself a chance to never get yourself. I am glad that you still have two relatives here, but I am also unhappy with myself, I can't make a choice, I can't live my life in my own way. Suddenly he turned and left, and the shouts of the professor and aunt came behind him.
"Suddenly......"
"Suddenly~"
She ran out of the courtyard crying silently, and when she came out of the alley intersection, she happened to meet Dai Feng, who had also received a notice, and she hit her head "Ah~" She raised her head sharply and saw that Dai Feng's breath had eased a lot, "Dai Feng." β
"Suddenly, what's wrong with you?"
She gasped, "Why are you here, you know they're here." β
"Theyβwho are they? The professor asked me to come here. β
"They...... They ......"
"Who the hell, I'll take you in. Dai Feng pulled her and wanted to go back, but suddenly stood still, no, "I...... My aunt was inside. β
"Auntie, you mean your aunt?"
"Yes, she's back. My grandmother always knew where she was, and she knew where she was for the past few years, but she just didn't want to tell me. Do you know Dai Feng?"
Dai Feng had an innocent expression, "I don't know, you really believe me, I really don't know." She...... How could she suddenly come back. β
"It's my grandmother, she knows everything. She also met Shen Yizhen. β
"What you're saying is that the professor has seen Shen Yizhen and knows where his aunt has always been!"
"Yes. β
"It's okay, it's okay. Dai Feng put his arm around her shoulders and comforted her.
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In the world, coming and going, everyone uses their own footsteps to measure the vast road ahead, and they all feel that life is not easy with a strong heart. Life is warm and cold, we must face it calmly and calmly, and the world is hot and cold, we must be at peace with the encounter and deal with it calmly.
In this bizarre world, no one can live a smooth life. But I always believe that after walking through the smoke and rain of Pinghu Lake, the mountains and rivers of the years, those who have experienced and tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and clean, time is always a bystander, and all the processes and results need to be borne by ourselves. If it is not bitter, where will it be sweet, if it is not through the vicissitudes of life, where will the clouds come from the light wind, if it is not for trekking through mountains and rivers, where will the willows and flowers be bright, if it is not going to the poor place of water, where will it come from to sit and watch the clouds rise.
Life will only be understood by experience, only by understanding will you cherish, there will always be someone in your life who will make you smile the sweetest, and there will always be someone who will make you feel the deepest pain. Forgetting everything is the best way to treat yourself, and many things are still good. The so-called strong people are all people who run with tears, the so-called luck means that you have to persevere and work hard, the so-called bravery, that is, you still love deeply after recognizing the coldness of this world, and the so-called laughing without saying a word, in fact, it is painful without saying anything.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is unknown, only now is the best gift that God has given us. All difficulties are preset calamities by God for you, making you strong, and all setbacks will make you grow wise, enrich you and make you wise. If you haven't experienced wind and rain, how can you see the rainbow, how can you not taste the flavors of life, and how can you understand the true meaning of life.
People who really care about you will know that you are warm and cold. Time flies, and Shaohua is fleeting. Many times the encounter between people comes from fate, because of fate, we come together with each other, and we will not meet without fate. When we were young, there was warmth where we had a home, and when we grew up and rushed to another city with our bags on our backs, we would feel a great loneliness spreading in our hearts. The bigger the city, the more noisy it is, there don't seem to be many lonely people here, many people are in groups, but in fact, there are always many lonely people inside. Frankly, a big city is great, but it's a lot of pressure, and whatever happens to you at this time, you have to bear it. The more you grow up, the more you find that there will be very few people who can understand you when you come to the big city, and sometimes you are wronged and you dare not speak easily.
In fact, what you really care about in the world is that when you are sad someone can know your joys and sorrows, or when you need help, the other party will appear in front of you like a hero.
A few days ago, a friend was chatting with me, and she asked me what it would be like to be someone who really cares about you. In fact, I think everyone has a fixed answer to this kind of question, and the reason why this kind of question arises is that each of us wants to find some more ways to answer a question. Human nature is very complicated, when you grow up, your cognitive ability is not as good as before, your heart begins to mature, and you rarely have the immaturity you once had.
A reader once left me a message, she said, "When the person you like doesn't like you anymore, what should you do, give up or don't give up." "It's hard to make a choice when faced with this kind of problem, but I have to say that you have to make a certain choice, and if that person really doesn't care about you as much as he used to, you don't want to keep it.
Because any retention may not be able to return his prodigal son. What's more, people are very realistic, when you give to the person you like, others will not be grateful to you, and even hurt you. Instead of that, you might as well stop your losses in time. You must know that a person who really cares about you must know your warmth and coldness, and understand your joys and sorrows. Happiness sometimes comes very simply, that is, you need to give, or be able to put the other person into your heart, and your relationship will be stable.
People are born lonely, you want to be cared for by others, and you also have to know how to give. When each other has done what they have done for each other, you will truly reap love. In this world, we all long for someone to understand and understand when we are tired.
However, life is sometimes cruel, if in the process of walking, there is such a person who can know your warmth and coldness, understand everything about you, then it can be said that you are very lucky. When the other party doesn't care about you, don't provoke it, after all, what doesn't belong to you is inappropriate after all. Therefore, for the rest of your life, you must know how to self-harm in time, spend more time on those who care about you, cherish them more, and treat them well, so that you will reap happiness in the future.
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Those who love you will know your warmth and coldness, and understand your joys and sorrows!
The luckiest thing in this life is to be able to meet a person who can come to you when you need him, born as a human being, there will be seven emotions and six desires, there will be happiness, happy times, there will be sad times, sad times. When you are sad and unhappy, you can have a person who knows your warmth and coldness, and understands your joys and sorrows by your side, what a happy thing it should be.
On the road of life, you will meet many people every day, some people are passers-by in your life, and some people have stayed in your life for a period of time, no matter what, only the person who really loves you will always be by your side and give you a shoulder to lean on.
Everyone will know a lot of people in their lives, and there will be many friends and relatives around them, but there is only one person who can really know your warmth and coldness, and understand your joys and sorrows, and some people may not have met one in their lives, so they must learn to cherish when they meet.
She met such a person with a friend around her before, the first time I saw a man who would often accompany his girlfriend to go shopping, and a shopping is most of the day, friends love shopping, buy clothes have serious difficulty in choosing, always like to go shopping a whole street and then see if there is anything you like, therefore, she spends most of the day every time she goes shopping, there are many female friends who say no after shopping with her, there is no next time, the legs are gone, but her boyfriend does not sell anything and just accompanies her to buy clothes and can go shopping with him for most of the day, they have been together for more than three years, sometimes he can understand her thoughts with a look from her, He likes to play games and plays quite well, in the Internet cafΓ©, even if she is not interested in games, she can be silently by his side. Long-term love is like this, you understand my hobbies, you can also understand what I love, you can accompany me to do what I like, I can also accompany you to do what you love, if both parties do not understand each other, then it is easy to quarrel, such feelings will not be happy, the real happy love is that you understand my joys and sorrows, I can also understand your heart.
In short, only those who really love you will be patient with you to do what you love, even if they are not interested at all, as long as they are by your side, he will have a feeling of happiness, I believe that everyone is eager to have a lover who knows you and understands you, rather than being busy, after a long time, the relationship will fade. A life is so long, and only those who love you will know your warmth and coldness, understand your joys and sorrows, then he loves you, understands you, you also have to understand him, understand him, love him, the feelings are mutual, it takes two people to pay together, if it is a one-man show, then this kind of love will not last long.
For the rest of your life, you will meet many people, but there may be only one who can really love you and understand you, so don't live up to his love for you when you meet, and remember to cherish this relationship.
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