Fu's original intention was to lay the foundation of the teacher. The rule in the "Book of Rites" is: "Ten years of life is young, learn." ”

"Ten years, out of the master, living outside, learning books. "When a person reaches the age of 10, he has to go to the teacher's house to study, and it is a boarding school.

The current primary school students are seven years old, and there were early ones in the past, Dong Qichang wrote Yuan Liqing (the Ming Dynasty military department Shangshu)

"At the age of seven, he was a grandfather, and he received "Mao's Poems" and "The Book of Rites". There is also a later one, Yuan Mei's "Zi Bu Yu" is a collection of Zhiwei novels, and his skills are not below Pu Songling, but they are more mysterious.

Among them is written about a widow's son, because the family is not smooth, cai

"The fifteenth year of the child, the school master". The teacher is above the master, not only to teach knowledge, but also to help people, is a lifetime to respect, master and apprentice like father and son.

The national teacher is the emperor's chief of staff. In the past, people who were particular about it had sacrifices in their houses

The tablet of "Heaven and Earth Monarch Teacher", this teacher refers to Confucius, and Confucius is the master of all generations. The division is still an army establishment, protecting the family and defending the country,

"Five people are in the army, five soldiers are two, four two are pawns, five pawns are brigades, and five brigades are divisions" ("Zhou Li").

Shi and Fu are both heavyweights, Sangong has Taishi Taifu, and Jiuqing has a young master and young master. "Li Ji" is a book about rules, about how we Chinese should abide by the rules.

The rules of man and the gods of heaven and earth (the sun, moon and stars, the interlacing of the five elements and the reincarnation of the four seasons, and the sacrifice of the gods), the rules of man and society (the order of monarchs and ministers, the discipline of the four directions, the rules and regulations), the rules of people (birth, old age, sickness and death, marriage and funeral, family affairs, state affairs, world affairs), the rules are detailed and called the number of rites, and the number of rites in the period is very specific.

The sum of social rules is called etiquette, and etiquette is the religion of the Chinese, as the old saying goes

"Worship with propriety". Because of the existence of etiquette, the social order is clear and edification. The word gift-giving refers to the rules of giving.

Gifts are not given indiscriminately, nor are more than the merrier, and it is not advisable to receive them indiscriminately. There is a local saying in the countryside: "Giving someone a bucket of rice is a benefactor, and giving someone a load of rice is an enemy." "The example of the reality version is that a leader in Shaanxi received a considerable number of famous watches, and his cousin and uncle came out.

At the beginning of the 20th century, there was a slogan called

"Down with the Confucian shop", smashed the Confucius tablet, and smashed some of the old rites. But most of the people who do these things are people who understand the rules, so they pay attention to proportion, and if they miss, they will miss, but they are not too ruthless.

In the 60s and 70s of the 20th century, there were two slogans: "Break the Four Olds" and

"Batch forest and approve hole". Putting Lin Biao and Confucius in a basket to criticize is really innovative and has become an epoch-making joke.

Four old is

"Old ideas, old culture, old customs, old habits".

"Breaking the four olds" is

"*****", that scene

The "revolution" was thorough, knocking over and smashing everything that should not have been smashed to the ground, and stepping on countless feet.

For example, there are three small problems: After 1979, we achieved great economic progress in more than 30 years, but how much of the kind and honest things in the traditional behavior of the Chinese have disappeared with the wind over the years?

Now we are the second oldest in the world economy, but is the reputation of the way Chinese behave in the second place?

The countryman builds a house and attaches great importance to laying the foundation. After the old order was smashed, used

"Learn from Lei Feng"

Can the new morality of "five stresses, four beauties, and three loves", which is slightly shabby, support tens of millions of mansions?

I love to read the book "The Book of Rites", and the above words are things that I memorize while reading.