Yes, human nature is cheap.

"I still want to stand up from here," Chen Qiao looked up at the sky. "But without an audience, it doesn't matter if you can't get up or not. If you lose in his hands, you can't count as losing. Besides, such an old bad old man, winning can be regarded as a victory. ”

Chen Qiao clapped his hands, "After you leave, I will also go back, so many beautiful girls with blond hair and blue eyes, convex and backward are waiting for me." ”

Liu Nian looked at him as if he was watching the end of the first half of his life. I wanted to say something, but I found that I couldn't say it in the end. When Chen Qiao first came, he introduced Chen Mofei to him, and their first meeting seemed to be yesterday.

Two suites, Chen Mofei's house is a high-rise, or a small apartment, there are a few buyers, the house of the Liunian family is large, and it is a western-style house, and no one even looks at it.

The renovation project of the old house is carried out in an orderly manner, the original bed is still strong, it has not been changed, so it has not been moved, the wall has been repainted with latex paint, the kitchen bricks have been taken off, the kitchen cabinet door has been not good, the flow of years have been changed, the rent is fast, the price is reasonable, and the new tenant signed the agreement on the day, the flow of the year to see each other, a pair of small two, young people, vigorous, two people said, must love this house as their own house.

At that time, I didn't know that the love of many people in this world would be defeated by a house. However, what is even more tragic than this is that the so-called love between them is not defeated by a house, how many people's love is not defeated by a house, or is it defeated by other things, because of money, because of distance, because of time, because of temptation outside, because of ......

Many, many reasons. Many, many reasons. There are many, many reasons that people can see and see clearly, but there is no way to help the person concerned.

When a so-called love comes to an end, people often only blame each other, and most of the time, we accuse the other person of not loving themselves so much and not doing what they expected.

Love and expectation are the propositions of eternal life for human beings.

But these two propositions often make us despair, so we have to die.

Almost all of them died in despair.

To live or to die.

To live or to die.

Is it to live in pain, or to die after enduring all kinds of pain?

How?

After signing the same agreement, Liu Nian and Chen Mofei went downstairs, it was night, the sunset was infinitely better, a touch of red, everything became peaceful, and the two walked on the road in silence.

"They signed for a year?"

Chen Mofei asked.

"yes, it's a year. Liu Nian replied.

"I had just graduated from college at that time, I was with Fang Cao, we rented a house, and my biggest wish at that time was to have a house of my own. When I see them now, I feel like I saw myself at the beginning. ”

"When did you own your own house?"

The wind blew away Chen Mofei's hair, and her eyes became distant.

"At that time, I didn't want to go home, I didn't have any money at first, so I could only rent a house, a luggage roll, not even a decent piece of clothing, that luggage roll, dragged to wherever it was home, but at that time, the owner was not so kind, and some bullied outsiders. I still remember the house I rented at the beginning, it was a plug room, do you know what a plug room is?"

Chen Mofei looked back at the passing years.

Liunian smiled and nodded, "Yes." It's a large and a small room, and people rent one to you. ”

"yes. That's it. The owner of the house slept in a big room, we slept in a small room, at first a small room slept four or five girls, but at that time the rent was also cheap, a plug room 150, 200, a few people to share, it was only a few dozen yuan, but at that time our monthly salary was only 200 yuan. ”

"It must have been a hard time. ”

"Bitter and happy. Chen Mofei said, "Maybe I was young at that time, and I really didn't feel bitter." If the heart does not feel bitter, no matter how bad the conditions are, it can be endured. Later, when people felt bitter in their hearts, they felt that it was unbearable to feel any grievances. ”

If you think about her, you want to ask. Now, do you feel bitter or sweet in your heart now?

"The hardest day, I ......"

Chen Mofei looked at him, "The hardest days and the best days are now. She smiled and took his hand, "I can't get through it, I can't get through it together, it's the hardest day right now." Together, it's the best day. ”

She looked at the flowing year, and the flowing year thought about her words, and felt how transparent she had to live, how much she had suffered, and how many sins she had suffered in her heart, so that this woman could say such things, and she could see it much more clearly than herself. However------

His heart was cold, after all, he was not worthy of her.

Liunian sighed and reached out to put his arm around her shoulder.

"What are your plans for the future?" she asked.

"Plans?" was stunned, in fact, he didn't know. He didn't know that life seemed to be starting to enter a one-day pattern.

Impotent.

He had never felt so incompetent as he did now, he saw Chen Mofei with a big belly, and in that belly was his child. Once upon a time, he always thought that one day he would have his own child, and he would give him the best in everything, so that he could be a man who stood up to the sky. Don't be like his dad.

He's actually living a bit of a wretched life. He had always thought he was quite successful. Good grades in school, good work, young and promising, and people appreciate their faces wherever they go.

Originally, he thought that all this was obtained by his own ability, but he only found out after this series of events. He gradually saw himself clearly, he can't say that he is nothing, at least, he is not as strong as he imagined.

Men grow all their lives, but some people don't seem to be able to really grow up in their lives. And a woman's growth is sometimes almost instantaneous---- emotional wounds, family changes, the first reconciliation with the original family, looking back at their parents and finally understanding their difficulties, marriage, having children, long-term family problems, marriage reefs, parent-child relationships, ...... Men tend to avoid problems, while women tend to focus on them, and some women are good at delving into the inside of the problem to try to solve it. The process of discussion and research allows women to grow.

So you see a breakup, men rarely tell women directly that I don't love you anymore, let's break up. He will take various methods, such as the cold war, bad attitude, and even not give the money he earns to his family...... He will take these peripheral behaviors to weaken the relationship with each other first, until the woman can't stand it and takes the initiative to break up.

But women generally focus on "why?" at such times.

Why don't you love me anymore?

Why are you doing this to me?

Why don't you care about your children or your family?

What is wrong with me that you would do this to me?

Men's thinking is more results-oriented, while women's thinking is generally more focused on cause and interior. Putting the consciousness aside, let's analyze the subconscious of these two types of thinking. The motivation behind it may be far less superficial than the public thinks. For example, men will think that women are more persistent and love themselves too deeply in this situation. But in fact, it is very likely that women are being dominated by their genes and motivations for being a woman, and they may only want a relatively real and objective reason, find their own shortcomings, summarize the reasons for your failure, and then correct them for better preparation for the next stop.

Therefore, women's growth is not only explosive, but also durable. Because she thinks, explores and summarizes. It is a coherent act and action. Men, on the other hand, usually don't think about why they do what they do, they let themselves be dominated by desire, primitive genes, or consciousness.

In fact, women are more mature than men.

He began to understand why in ancient times it was a matriarchal clan commune, why it was a woman who appeared in front of everyone as the head of the family, and why it was a woman who headed the house.

However, men are more creative and aggressive, so men are suitable for fighting the country, and women are suitable for guarding the country. This is a process of coordinated operations, and there is no distinction between the top and the bottom. I don't know why modern human beings can put the sexes in a situation of absolute opposition or absolute dependence.

Too left or too right is the main cause of gender contradictions and the general unhappiness of modern marriages.

Men are more or less arrogant, and women are more or less unrealistic. The two sexes have a lackluster understanding of human nature and each other, and their definition of self is not objective enough.

These are the main reasons why family relations and contradictions cannot be reconciled at present.

And there has been a crack between him and Chen Mofei.

Half a month later, the neighbor of the old house called and said that the sewer pipe of their house was leaking.

The bathroom is newly repaired, and the contractor is estimated to have cut corners, and the waterproofing is not done. I made an appointment with the contractor in the past year, who knew that the contractor said that he was busy, and there was a lot of this price between his words, or this world, who would really do after-sales? No, you can find someone else to do it, we have no problem.

Liu Nian was very angry, and complained to Chen Mofei, saying how could he do such a business, and if he continued like this, he would have no business to do sooner or later to drink the northwest wind.

Chen Mofei smiled faintly, she has seen too many such people and such businesses, the domestic society lacks a trust system, everyone is in danger, Mo said that between strangers, how familiar are husband and wife, and they are calculated by each other. For the sake of interests, how many sons calculate their own fathers, and how many fathers have the strength to pit their children.

The collapse of the trust system will make people's hearts completely anxious, because people may become the prey of other people's schemes at any time, and the merchants of any product cannot be trusted. Credibility will be lost, for example, people are now stereotyping the educational, health care and justice systems as not trustworthy, so there are tensions between teachers and students, doctor-patient disputes, and many complaints about the many systems in which they live. What is the reason in the final analysis? The complete collapse of the trust system.

I don't believe in you anymore, from not believing in an individual to not believing in an institution, what is trust?