Chapter 379 - Career Dreams
Liang Yu is a very aura girl, it is not quite right to say that she is a girl, after all, she will be nineteen years old soon, and after graduating from junior high school, she went to a vocational and technical school in the county, saying that she is still in school, but in fact she has not learned anything. She just messed around in a technical school, and the vocational and technical school in the county is like that, who has gone to a vocational technical school who knows, it is strange that it can be taught and studied, and students can learn real knowledge.
However, for rural children, the little girl who graduated from junior high school, just 16 or 7 years old, could not be admitted to high school, let alone secondary school, went home to farm and her body was a little thin, and her family was not at ease when she went out to work, so she introduced a partner and waited to get married, but her age was a little younger.
Of course, it is common for many rural children to start introducing their partners to talk about marriage after graduating from junior high school, and there are many children who have children before they get engaged, and it is not uncommon for them to officially get married with two children.
Zhou Lifang feels sorry for her delicate girl, her daughter is her mother's intimate little padded jacket, this sentence is not bad at all, girls are generally more kind and considerate, empathetic, quiet and gentle than boys, and can always make their mothers feel happy, intimate and comfortable.
Daughters are not as naughty as sons, and regular spiritual massages will make people feel warm. Liang Yu has recruited Zhou Lifang since she was a child, how can she be willing to let her daughter suffer and suffer, of course, she doesn't want to marry her daughter early, she also thinks that her daughter can grow bigger and live a better life by her side.
Liang Yu followed his mother to Zhang Xinping's rented house for the first time, Zhou Lifang did not come empty-handed, brought Liang Yu's bedding, and also brought some miscellaneous grains and vegetables in his own vegetable garden by the way.
Yang Qiaozhen is pregnant, it is good to eat some grains and fresh vegetables, there are no rare and precious things in the countryside, as far as the grain and vegetables are there, they are all grown in her own field, and she can eat safely.
"Sister Zhen, your belly is bigger again, the baby is growing so fast! Hehe!" As soon as Liang Yu entered the door, he put down the cover in his hand, and ran over affectionately to gently hug Yang Qiaozhen, looking down and seeing Yang Qiaozhen's more bulging lower abdomen, he couldn't help but reach out curiously to touch it.
"Hehe, it's almost five months, the baby is growing up day by day, my stomach is almost full, people can't stand it for a long time, my back hurts, fortunately you came to help me. Yang Qiaozhen hugged Liang Yu affectionately, and then greeted Zhou Lifang instead, "Second aunt, what else do you bring with you, you can buy them in the city." ”
"Nothing, it's all grown by yourself. Zhang Hanfang put her things away, walked over to help Yang Qiaozhen, looked at her lower abdomen carefully, showed surprise in her eyes, and said happily: "Qiaozhen, you are so blessed, look at your belly like you are pregnant with a big fat boy! Huh!"
Zhou Lifang is talking about Zhang Shougu's old feudal tradition, which is her brother-in-law, she knows the virtue of this brother-in-law very well, his virtue is not checked word by word with his name, he is stubborn, sticks to the old feudal morality, and wants to hold a grandson.
In fact, it's no wonder that Zhang Shougu, their Zhang family is a single family for several generations, if Zhang Xinping can't give birth to a son, then the Zhang family will be cut off from the incense. In Zhang Shougu's thoughts, there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest, he must not watch the Zhang family die, and no grandson is the queen.
Zhou Lifang's description is also more appropriate, Zhang Shougu doesn't have a smile all day long, as if everyone owes him two hundred and five, the longer the long face grows, the more it looks like a bitter gourd face, fortunately Zhang Xinping didn't get his inheritance, Zhang Xinping looks more like his mother Zhou Lirong, and he is still very handsome.
Zhang Xinping listened to Zhou Lifang say that Yang Qiaozhen's belly looked like she was pregnant with a big fat boy, smiled happily, and asked, "Second aunt, do you look at your face?"
Zhou Lifang waved his hand again and again, and said with a smile: "How can I look at the face! Whether a woman is pregnant with a boy or a girl, there are some differences in the characteristics of her belly, and she can distinguish them, which are all from what others say, and they are all clichés, but they are quite accurate." ”
"Wife, this time your credit is great, the hopes of the Zhang family are all pinned on you, give birth to a son, you are the great hero of the Zhang family. Zhang Xinping said with a smile.
"What? If I give birth to a daughter, I won't be a hero, you're too patriarchal, right? Yang Qiaozhen glanced at Zhang Xinping.
She still likes her daughter a little more, and she is deeply touched by her father-in-law's desire to hold her grandson, and her father-in-law is embarrassed to say it in front of her, but the look is very expectant, and her mother-in-law has said casually more than once, parents are like this.
Zhang Xinping suddenly realized that what he said was not quite right, whatever son and daughter are all their own species, they must be treated the same, and quickly explained: "No matter what you give birth to, you are a great hero, your credit is great, I like to give birth to a son, I also like to give birth to a daughter, as long as you give birth to it, I like it." ”
"Brother, look at what you said, what else can Sister Zhen give birth to besides giving birth, what do you want her to have a child?"
The little girl is only nineteen years old, she is generous, rich and graceful, and eating whole grains in the countryside is no worse than eating meat and drinking milk in the city.
"Oh!" Zhang Xinping was stunned for a moment, turned back to the future for a moment, pointed at Liang Yu and nodded, the little girl would do it with him as soon as she came, and she dared to expose his words, which was really bold.
"Xiaoyu, what are you talking nonsense! Your sister-in-law Qiaozhen is going to give birth to a baby, and you have to help take care of it more. This time you're here, share her worries more, be busy with your hands and feet, don't be as lazy as you are at home, that's not good. Zhou Lifang taught Liang Yu a lesson, and then smiled at Yang Qiaozhen, "Qiaozhen, you will take care of her in the future, if she is disobedient, she will not be given food." ”
"Mom, when am I lazy to eat, I will help you pick vegetable leaves when you stir-fry, I will help you wipe the table when you wash the dishes, I am not diligent enough, you are too good at wronging people, you are not slandering my character, I don't want to hear it." Let's not bring this, my stir-fry and cook are also delicious, don't you say?" Liang Yu was unhappy, pouting, and argued fiercely.
Zhou Lifang saw that the little girl was still energetic, this is not her own home, this is her aunt and sister-in-law's house, how can she be like a little princess, so she stopped fighting with her daughter, softened her tone, and said: "Yes, your stir-fry and cooking are delicious, who made my daughter ingenious." It just so happens that your sister-in-law Qiaozhen is inconvenient, so you can do more work, stir-fry and cook, as long as you raise the baby to be strong, your brother Xinping will not reward you well. ”
Zhou Lifang seems to be hard and can't do it, so let's say something nice, and praise and encouragement policies are more acceptable.
Parents educate their children in the same way, say more words of encouragement, praise, children can listen more to the heart, it is much better than beating and scolding, beating and scolding is not a genius.
After all, Liang Yu is still a child's mentality, and when he heard the words of almost praise, he immediately smiled, and really fried two dishes by himself, saying that he wanted to show his hand and let everyone taste his craftsmanship, and if it was delicious, he would like it, and he would do it well in the future.
Zhang Xinping, Yang Qiaozhen, Zhou Lifang, Liang Yu's mother and daughter, a total of four people, had a good meal in Zhang Xinping's rented house, just with the grains and vegetables brought by Zhou Lifang, boiled porridge, fried vegetables, and ate beautifully.
Although the house rented by Zhang Xinping is only more than 60 square meters, it also has a master bedroom and a guest room, and a high and low bed is installed in the guest room, just so that when Yang Qiaozhen gives birth to a child in the future, the family will come to help take care of the child.
Therefore, Zhang Xinping persuaded Zhou Lifang not to rush back, stay at night, take a good look in the city, and have a rare opportunity to come to the city.
That time Zhang Xinping was injured and hospitalized, Zhou Lifang came to the city, but he only went back to the hospital to see Zhang Xinping, and he really didn't have a good walk around the city.
The rural farmers have nothing to do, how can they have the leisure to come to the city to hang out, everything in the city is more expensive than the village and town, who would be stupid to come to the city to buy things.
Of course, this point of view is said to people of Zhou Lifang's age, and it is not suitable for those young boys and girls, even young people in the countryside, what they pursue and yearn for is the luxury life of the big city.
Zhang Xinping and Yang Qiaozhen took Zhou Lifang and Liang Yu to the Qinqin Baby Children's Clothing Store to have a look, and they envied Zhou Lifang very much, and marveled that their young people also had their own business in the city.
Zhou Lifang didn't know what a career was, and when she heard Yang Qiaozhen say that this was her career, her eyes were stunned, what kind of career is it, isn't it just selling clothes and doing business.
Compared with the stupidity of her mother Zhou Lifang, Liang Yu sincerely admires Sister Zhen's thoughts, what is a career, this small shop is a career, it is the foundation of their struggle, and it is also the source of their happiness.
Although Liang Yu's age is young, her thinking is not naïve, and her thinking is still very insightful.
"I Ching" has clouds, and the people of the world are called careers. To put it simply, it is to do what you love, but help others, this is the career. Of course, Liang Yu can't deeply understand the profound connotation of the word "career", but she also knows that she also has her own career in her heart like Sister Zhen, so that her life will be more meaningful.
Hemingway said that everyone is born to engage in a certain cause, and everyone who lives on earth has obligations in his own life. Tao Xingzhi said that there is no big or small business; big things become small things, big things become small things, and small things become big things, then small things become big things. Lenin also said that in order to achieve a great cause, it is necessary to start from small things. Therefore, although the baby children's clothing store is small, it is the beginning of their great career, and it is also a firm pillar and inexhaustible motivation for them to continue to pursue their dreams.
Zhang Xinping watched Yang Qiaozhen, Liang Yu, and Zhou Lifang chatting about their careers there, smiling knowingly, and thinking happily. He couldn't help but think: When a person lives, don't look down on others at any time, don't despise the small things that others do, and don't feel that what others do is meaningless, maybe such a small thing will have an unexpected huge impact one day.
In fact, for anyone, anything he or she does is meaningful to himself, and if he or she insists on doing everything he or she does, the meaning will be extraordinary, and success is accumulated step by step.