Chapter 379: Existence is Reason
Three British battles against Lu Bu!
From picking up the three uncles to his home, Su Wang realized what is called wheel warfare!
That night, the Su family set up a banquet to entertain the three uncles, Su Wang had an uncle and two uncles on his side, plus his father and himself, it stands to reason that his strength should not be weaker than his opponent.
But the three uncles who can't stand Tang Jin are too insidious, and the others toast, so they deduce that the amount of alcohol is not good, once they drink with Su Wang, they will do it all, and the most important thing is that Su Wang can't refuse yet.
"Why, you have a drink with your uncle, and my second uncle can't drink it?"
"Since you can have a drink with your second uncle, it means that the amount of alcohol is okay, let's have another drink. ”
Uncle is older than the sky, especially if he has to marry other people's nieces home, facing these two uncles, Su Wang can only sacrifice his life to accompany him.
But compared to these two, the one he hated the most in Su Wang's heart was the third uncle, although the third uncle didn't drink, he found some key reasons for drinking.
"Su Wang, you should also take the initiative to toast your eldest and second uncles. ”
"The younger generation respects the elders, and naturally the younger generations do the elders at will. ”
So, after a few glasses of wine, Su Wang himself was a little floating, and in the end, he didn't care if he was an uncle or not, the three big horsemen, didn't they want to get me drunk, then we would really do it.
In the end, the first drinking game ended in a fiasco for Su Wang.
Next!
"Su Wang is awake, come and eat, I'll pour you wine." ”
Su Wang, who slept until noon, looked at the wine glasses that had been poured on the table, the corners of his mouth twitched, at this moment he really wanted to beat these uncles hard, this is not to treat his nephew and son-in-law as a son-in-law.
"Uncles, I drank too much yesterday, and now my head is a little dizzy......"
"Xiao Wang, it's okay, just sit down and have a drink. ”
Here Su Wang's uncle also spoke, Su Wang thought that it was okay to drink drinks, but he finally found that he still underestimated the bottom line of Tang Jin's three uncles, and finally got drunk again.
In the evening, when it was evening, this time Su Wang finally breathed a sigh of relief, Tang Jin's three uncles didn't ask him to drink anymore this time, because tomorrow was the day of the real engagement.
"Do you think that Tang Jin's three uncles are too strong, so they know to pour you wine. ”
In his bedroom, Su Wang was complaining to Tang Jin about how inhumane her three uncles were, but found that her mother pushed the door and walked in.
"Mom, I've vomited twice in the past two days, and you don't feel sorry to stop it. ”
"How can I not feel distressed, but I know that this can't be stopped, you know that when your father married me, your uncle and they drunk your father for three days in a row. ”
"It's a bad custom. Su Wang pursed his lips.
"Although the custom is not very good, but there is a reason for it, first of all, when people drink too much, it will be easy to expose their true nature, and at the same time, it will be easy to tell the truth, I tell you, after you get drunk, but you have told everything you have done since you were a child. ”
"In the past, because of the underdevelopment of transportation and communication, generally both men and women were engaged through the media, to put it bluntly, it may be from engagement to marriage, both sides of the newlyweds will not contact more than a week, in this case, how can we know the man's temperament and the situation of the man's family. ”
"That's why the older generation has such a custom, let the uncle come to the man's house to check, first of all, drink and talk, yesterday you drank too much and said a lot of things, your father and your uncle did not stop them, because they also came here like this. ”
"In addition, don't look at Xiao Tang's three uncles drinking every day, but I saw him chatting with people in our village several times, probably to inquire about our family's affairs, and to see how our family's popularity and reputation in the village are. ”
Hearing his mother's words, Su Wang understood, sure enough, the existence of any custom has its own reason, but because of the changes of the times and some living habits and changes in the environment, these customs seem a little out of place in the eyes of modern people.
"Okay, you have a good rest, tomorrow is the official door, I have to go and arrange with your aunt and them. ”
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Next!
January 16th!
Su Wang, who can finally rest for a day, is dressed up energetically, and at the same time, the convoy at the door of the house is also arranged, all of them are arranged by Sun Liancheng, otherwise Su Wang himself would really not be able to do it.
It's not that Su Wang doesn't have this money, but because in a small county town, there is no wedding car rental company at this time, and if there are at most, there are only one or two good cars, and it is impossible to put together such a fleet.
Sun Liancheng relied on his face and connections to get so many good cars, and the most important thing is that they are all licensed.
Tang Jin's three uncles, today's state is a little sluggish, last night in Su Wang did not serve the wine table, the Su family also really had a fight with these three uncles, the final ending is that Su Wang's two uncles are still lying on the bed, and Tang Jin's eldest uncle and second uncle are still standing, but it is said that they were vomiting last night.
The first two days were when you were uncles to test your nephew and son-in-law, and the man's relatives naturally didn't want to drink too much, but on the last day, the test was over, and Su Wang's uncles naturally had to avenge Su Wang.
Su Wang didn't witness the battle at the wine table last night, but he also heard it from his aunt, it is said that these old men drank to the end and talked about the past, and on a whim, no one could stop them, saying that they were going to catch loaches in the field.
However, two fell down before they could get out of the door, and one kept giggling with chopsticks and shouted, "I grabbed the loach, I grabbed the loach." ”
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The engagement is not a marriage, the main purpose of the convoy is to pick up the woman's relatives to come here to recognize the door, so Su Wang followed the two elders here, and the other cars were empty, and a row of cars went towards the address where the Tang family was located.
And at this moment, in the Tang family, it is also very lively, Xia Lan is arranging a list of relatives who will go to the Su family for a while, and it is important not to omit it, because according to custom, these female relatives will get the man's cigarette candy and red envelopes at that time, and it is not good if there is one less.
In this engagement, Tang Ming and Xia Lan's parents did not come, because they were old, and the fatigue of this winter was not good, and it was just an engagement not a marriage, so this engagement was handled by Xia Lan throughout the whole process.
"Well, the second aunt's family will let the second aunt's eldest son be the representative, and the third aunt's side will let the aunt go over......"
"Mom, you don't have to count it like that, Su Wang said, there are enough convoys coming this time, everyone can go over together, and they can all sit down. ”
"It's not a question of whether you can sit down or not, what did so many people look like in the past, they can't chew on people's tongues, and they think that our family is all greedy people. ”
Seeing her daughter walk in, looking indifferent, Xia Lan was a little big, motioned for her daughter to sit down beside her, and then said seriously: "Xiao Jin, since you are engaged, even if you are half a man in the future, I will explain some things to you in advance." ”
"Mom, you've scared me a little, even if I'm engaged, I'm your daughter. ”
"That's different. ”
Xia Lan shook her head, recalling in her mind what her mother told her when she was engaged, and now it was her turn to tell her daughter.
"Falling in love is a matter for two people, and you can consider your respective preferences and interests, but when it comes to engagement and marriage, it is a matter of two families, and all aspects that need to be taken into account must be considered. ”
"Take this engagement process as an example, there is a saying about how many relatives we go to here, each family can only send one or two, it is impossible to send more, and you can't gossip, I know that Su Wang and his family will not care, but what about their relatives, what about the people in their village, will they gossip?"
"Rules are rules, some rules can't be broken, just like following the money, with Su Wang's current net worth, a relative will do a happy event, and there is no problem with a 30,000 or 50,000 yuan, but I believe that Su Wang will not do this, and Su Wang's parents will not do it, but follow other relatives, at most, it will be a little more. ”
"Because this money has to be repaid, you have a lot of money, and when the time comes, when you have a happy event here, people will also have to pay you back, and you have to add some, so you would rather borrow money than be generous in the money. ”
"To be honest, your personality is not very suitable for dealing with people, and you won't please people, I was always worried about how to get along with the man's family if you get married one day, but fortunately, Su Wang, this kid is quite competitive. ”
"Although it is said that money is not everything, there is still some truth in the saying that the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and Su Wang is the most promising among the relatives of the Su family, in this way, those elders will not make it too difficult for you, as long as you have a good relationship with Su Wang's parents, there will be nothing to do. ”
Xia Lan recalled that when she married Tang Ming, life was not so good at that time, because the Tang family itself is a big family, and there are many relatives and elders, and she, a junior, can only be cautious, and this situation is not much better until the two children are born.
"Mom. ”
Hearing his mother's words, Tang Jin also had a look of fear on his face.
"Okay, things are not as serious as my mother said, now it's different from the past, and the thinking of the older generation is not so rigid, the most important thing is, Su Wang loves you, isn't that enough?"
When Tang Jin heard this, his delicate face turned red, that's right, as long as he and Su Wang really love each other, this is enough.
(End of chapter)