Xiaohe's father-in-law, Su Bingren, has a poor stomach, the whole person looks thin and tall, and his gestures reveal the demeanor of everyone, and he is also highly respected in the village in the northern plains.

My mother-in-law used to say that Su Fa's father couldn't come, he couldn't stand it, and he was angry that he broke off the relationship once.

Indeed, it is very difficult for such a person with a little high self-esteem to come to live under the same roof with his son and daughter-in-law in a big city and suffer every day.

But think about which grandparents in the whole community are not sacrificing their families and lives to dedicate themselves to their children and grandchildren? Why can't their own grandparents sacrifice more?

Thinking of this, Xiaohe completely extinguished the little sympathy that had just risen.

This time, it is good to say that it has been more than a month, and there have been two angry scenes in succession.

quarreled for the first time, Su Bingren later knew that he was deceived by his wife and put a trumped-up charge on his daughter-in-law, and he always felt a little sorry in his heart;

The second time I quarreled, although my wife made a bigger noise, but thinking about it carefully, it was just because she didn't understand the rules of the city and made a joke, but I didn't expect Su Fa to react so much, and she didn't save any face for her mother at all, not even her own face.

Therefore, although Su Bingren was not in a hurry to pack up and go home this time, the tightness in his chest was even worse than last time.

A discerning person understands that not letting his mother-in-law put garbage at home must be a request from his daughter-in-law. The son has completely taken over his wife's end.

Su Bingren slowly figured out that his son was already separated from his hometown in the countryside, and he couldn't train his daughter-in-law, which made him the most depressed.

Xiaohe's mother-in-law, Liu Zhaodi, has a straight waist, eats a lot of fragrant, and scolds when she wants to, she is shorter than the common old ladies in the world, but she walks with a tiger, and it is common to offend people, and the most jealous thing is her ability to fall asleep on the pillow as soon as it is dark.

Based on Xiaohe's experience, the mother-in-law's emotional experience has been adjusted to her place for a day, and she completely forgot about the embarrassment of being called the police yesterday, and continued to shout in a loud voice, worrying about every trivial matter of the whole family.

This kind of ability is both jealous and angry, and it also makes people feel at ease.

Facing the little crane who had just come back, the mother-in-law complained bitterly as usual, saying that Ah Fu didn't take a nap at noon, and had been torturing people, and now he was sleepy again, so he kept competing with his grandfather, and the old couple and the old bones were going to be broken up by him.

Xiaohe walked over to replace his grandfather, whispered to Ah Fu, put another sink of water, and let him play all over.

Grandma stood next to her and felt distressed about the "money that flowed away", and grandpa said that he couldn't be so used to being a child.

Xiaohe pretended not to hear, Ah Fu played for a few minutes and had enough, so he successfully carried out the bathroom.

While changing Ah Fu's soaked clothes, Xiao He urged Ah Jun to go to the bedroom to do his homework.

Starting this week, Ah Jun has written homework.

Although he trained for more than a month in advance during the summer vacation, and also learned one-on-one pinyin lessons for half a year in advance, Ah Jun's speed of writing homework is still worrying.

Write three, erase two, write one line, and cry.

In the past, Xiaohe heard from her colleagues about her son's frequent crying nose when he first started elementary school to write his homework, and Xiaohe secretly laughed at her son's fragile heart, and a little homework can be hit like this.

Who knows, now Ah Jun writes his homework and cries every night!

As soon as I sat at the desk, it was clear that I was going to the execution ground to write my homework.

And the mother was the executioner.

If it goes on like this, it won't be written for a few days, and the deep love between mother and son will be declared severe.

Halfway through the homework, my grandmother came to urge the two to eat.

Today, Su Fa didn't come back to eat after working overtime, so everyone simply ate the lo mein made by grandma.

After the meal, Ah Jun continued to do his homework, Xiaohe went to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, Grandma went to close the door to sleep, and Grandpa accompanied Ah Fu to play games.

After a while, Ah Jun asked his mother to go in to check, sign, and straighten out his schoolbag, and the day's homework was finally announced.

Ah Jun ignored Xiaohe's extra request for him to tidy up the next day's clothes, and left the task to his mother, and he was in a hurry to go to the living room to take a breath.

As soon as Ah Jun came out, he saw Ah Fu tearing down the Lego toys he had worked so hard to build all over the floor, and when he walked up to his brother's head, he knocked them up, and his brother was beaten and cried.

"Ah Fu, look at the bad things you have done!" Ah Jun gritted his teeth in hatred.

Grandpa yelled for Jun to stop him from hitting his brother.

Ah Jun didn't listen, so his grandfather started to spank Ah Jun's buttocks.

While he was fighting, Su Fa came back from overtime, and his grandfather stopped, and Ah Jun screamed.

"My brother has broken my things, why can't you beat him and beat me? You're a bad grandfather!" Ah Jun cried and complained to his grandfather.

"My brother is young, you are older, if you are an older brother, you have to let your younger brother go. Haven't you heard of Kong Rong making pears?" Grandpa looked at Ah Jun angrily.

Jun shook his head and said he hadn't heard of it.

"When Kong Rong was four years old, he ate pears with his brothers. When he was picking up the pears, the other brothers all picked up the big ones, but he took the youngest one. His father asked him why he wanted to take the youngest one, and Kong Rong said, because I was the youngest, so I would take the younger one.

You see that the younger brother will let the elder brother, and the elder brother must learn to let the younger brother. Grandpa wholeheartedly persuaded Ah Jun.

Xiaohe thought to himself, this story is probably not suitable for the current scene.

Sure enough, Ah Jun didn't understand what his grandfather meant at all, "Yes, he is small, so he should have eaten less." I'm a big brother, so I have to eat a lot. Ah Fu is not as sensible as Kong Rong, and he has to destroy his brother's things. ”

"Who taught you these crooked truths?" Grandpa's nose is about to be crooked, why is it that Ah Jun is so rebellious at a young age, it seems that it is natural for him to eat more and occupy more.

Seeing Su Fa sitting on the sofa with a cold face and not educating Ah Jun, grandpa was even more angry.

"Su Fa, you see that the good son you taught, he doesn't know how to let his younger brother go, and no one is afraid, it's not okay to go on like this. ”

Su Fa was silent for a while and didn't speak, and when he saw that his father was still looking at him steadily, he spoke.

"Dad, although Ah Jun is a few years older than Ah Fu, he really has no obligation to let his younger brother, his things were destroyed by his younger brother, and he can express his anger. ”

"Then he can bully his younger brother and beat his younger brother? Are there any rules?" Grandpa looked incredulous.

"Of course there are rules, it's wrong for him to beat his younger brother, but it's also wrong for his younger brother to take his things, and you can't just see your brother's fault. Su Fa's voice was faint.

"My brother is so young, what does he know, the toys are put there, Ah Jun doesn't play, and he can't let his brother play. Where have the brothers, friends, brothers, brothers, fathers, and sons in this family gone?" Grandpa didn't give up, it turned out that his son's thinking was broken, no wonder Ah Jun was also bad.

"Dad, it's not that simple. Just like you just talked about Kong Rong, do you know what Kong Rong said when he was older? He said: What kind of relationship should the father have to the son? As for his original meaning, it is really an ear for lust. For example, if the thing is sent to the bottle, it will be separated.

It means that the relationship between father and son is just the product of erotic attacks, and the deep love between mother and son is like a thing in that bottle, and after taking it out, it is separated and has nothing to do with it. It's okay to talk about filial piety, but you can't be foolish, the times are different, and you can't just stick to the old way. ”

Grandpa was stunned, as if he didn't know his son, and didn't know where Su Fa's remarks came from.

After that, Grandpa was quiet and didn't say anything more.

Before going to bed, the little crane monster Su Fa spoke to his grandfather a little directly, and the old man definitely didn't like his weird remarks when he was old.

Su Fa also regretted it a little, but when he said that he had endured his leadership all day in the company today, and he had to restrict freedom of speech when he got home, he really had to hold back his internal injuries.

Xiaohe also understands that Su Fa's work unit is serious and rigid, as many as the rules of the deep house compound, and Su Fa's mood is understandable.

Xiaohe also said that he planned to take Ah Jun to the hospital tomorrow to check if he had ADHD.

Su Fa strongly objected, believing that these tests were not scientific at all, and were similar to questionnaires.

Xiaohe actually quietly went to register when he was in the kindergarten class of Ah Jun, but later felt that he shouldn't think so badly about the child, so he returned the number.

This time, Xiaohe insisted very much, "Even if it's for peace of mind, you just let me try." ”

"Then I don't care, you can decide for yourself. But I also warn you, just don't let Ah Jun get hurt twice. Su Fa reluctantly agreed.

Nothing was said all night.

***

The next day, at about four or five o'clock in the morning, Xiaohe woke up from his dream with a deep sense of guilt.

In the dream, the leader handed Xiaohe a note, telling her to take an important exam.

It's a pity that Xiaohe lost the note in a blink of an eye, and only vaguely remembered that the test location he saw in a hurry was No. 345 on a certain road near his home.

Xiaohe was first dragged down by various affairs and found it difficult to go out.

I finally got out of the door, and it was all kinds of twists and turns, such as unsmooth transfers, taking the wrong station, and taking the wrong road.

After a busy night, Xiaohe didn't find the exam location after all, so he suddenly condemned himself all night.

Xiaohe wakes up and is still reminiscing about the scene in the dream, making such a dream, proving that he has been stressed again recently.

Xiaohe was worried about Ah Jun's problem, she wanted to call Su Fa to discuss again, and thought that there was no need to wake up Su Fa in the morning, just to talk about the car that she had said many times.

Xiaohe lay on the bed and thought about why Ah Jun was so naughty, and he didn't know if it was really ADHD or just the family environment that had brought him up badly.

Jun's living environment is very different from that of Xiaohe's childhood.

Xiaohe's mother was the most gentle when she was a child, and she rarely got angry with Xiaohe because of daily trivial things, unlike Xiaohe who would get angry at Ajun's schoolwork and style at every turn.

The most important thing is that Xiaohe and Su Fa have been with their mother-in-law for so many years, and they have always been full of a strong smell of gunpowder, which has created a growth environment full of quarrels for Ah Jun and Ah Fu.

As a post-10s, Ah Jun is not as relaxed and comfortable as Xiaohe, a post-80s generation, and Xiaohe feels that his family is really wronged by Ah Jun.