"Okay, first question, did your classmates know that your father was the director of the Economic Bureau when you were in high school, and what did they think of you?"

The middle-aged woman was a little surprised by Yin Bing's first question, but she didn't expect that the first question had nothing to do with that scumbag, it turned out to be her own.

"Hurry up and answer, don't think too much, let alone why I'm asking this question!" Yin Bing urged again.

"When I was in school, no one knew about my father's official position, but they all knew that my family was well-off. The clothes I wear and the things I use look very expensive, although they may not know those brands, but they know that they are not from ordinary people's homes.

My academic performance is in the middle of the pack, and I don't do well in science. Well, it's actually lower middle class, but the teacher is very good to me, because the teacher knows my father's position, and she once begged my father to help her son arrange a job. ”

"Okay, let me summarize what you mean, that is, when you were in high school, everyone knew that you had a good family background and your teachers took good care of you. And that scumbag also knows all this, he rarely talks to you, because at that time he was inferior and sensitive, on the one hand, he felt that he was not worthy of being friends with you, and on the other hand, he felt that he studied well and could change his situation in the future and surpass you. Right?"

The middle-aged woman thought for a moment and nodded.

"After you met for the first time in the unit, he didn't contact you again for three months, and when he invited you to dinner again, he wanted to ask you to help him stay in the company, do you think he knew your family history at this time?"

The middle-aged woman said with certainty: "I know, although I started as an ordinary employee when I joined that company, I didn't go through the general administrative interview procedure, and the chairman's assistant and secretary all knew about me." Later, when I was working, the chairman of the board of directors also came to see me, and I called my uncle at that time, and my colleagues around me also heard me.

So the people in the company later knew my details, although I didn't want to publicize it, but in the workplace, this kind of gossip is often the fastest. ”

"Okay, or the second question, I didn't finish asking, why do you think he didn't contact you after three months, and why didn't he contact you in these three months?"

The middle-aged woman was stunned again, she had never thought about this question carefully, "I guess after he first met me, he didn't come to me again because he didn't know me well in high school." Later, he was very stressed and busy when he interned at the company, so it was normal that he didn't contact me.

It's just that after the three-month internship period, he found that his performance could be eliminated, he was a little panicked, and began to think of other ways, plus in the past three months, he must have heard about my background, so he thought of me and used me as a springboard!

Yin Bing stretched out a finger and shook it, "You only said part of it right, and some parts of it are not all right." When he sees you, he immediately asks his colleagues about you, which should be human. In other words, he knew your background immediately, but he still didn't contact you.

Why? Not because of busyness, of course. You don't know men at all, and being busy is always just an excuse for men. The main reason why he doesn't contact you is that he is very unconvinced of you from the beginning, although you have a good family background and dress nicely in high school, your academic performance is not as good as his, and he is still psychologically balanced.

When he joined Xinyi's company as an intern after graduating from college, he found that the person who was far inferior to himself had actually become a supervisor in this company, and he felt that you were all dependent on the background, and he was not convinced, so he didn't contact you.

When the three-month deadline expired, he found that as a top student, he did not have any advantage in the environment of cruel competition, and at this time, after careful thinking, he began to compromise with reality. He contacted you. ”

The middle-aged woman's face changed, and she nodded solemnly, "Little brother, although you look much younger than me, you are very right. Alas, I thought he had changed later, it turned out that when we met, he never liked me!"

"No, you're wrong again, it's because he likes you very much, that's why he feels less than you! ”

"Really?" the woman's eyes lit up again.

"It should be true. But you don't have to be happy, because the moment he asks you, he has already given up on his idea of making a career for you. He thinks that when he asks you for help, he is bowing to you, bowing to reality, and everything he does in the future will be branded by you and your father.

So from that moment on, his feelings for you began to change quietly.

He began to need your help and your father's help again, and he hated you. Because everyone will think that he is not very capable of himself, and everything he has is given by your family. ”

The middle-aged woman nodded, was silent for a while, and said, "Yes, when I quarrel with him, whenever I mention the help my family has given him, he is especially angry!"

Yin Bing asked again at this time, "Do you know why he didn't let you work?"

The middle-aged woman nodded and shook her head, "I don't dare to say it, I found that my original thoughts were not all right." It turned out that I thought he wouldn't let me work because he was afraid that I would be tired and would be good to me. Now I don't know, what do you think?"

Yin Bing smiled: "You're half right again, he's really afraid that you'll be tired." The other half of the reasons are more complicated, first, he is afraid that you will know what he does at work, such as secretly stealing company resources to start your own company or something, and second, he is afraid that you will grow up and become a very good person.

He needs you to be an incompetent person so that you will depend on Him for everything and cannot do without Him. He has total control over you and satisfies his vanity, and he feels like he's finally surpassed you. ”

"Then he has succeeded, I rely on him and respect him, why did he abandon me later?" the middle-aged woman was a little puzzled.

"Because your father is retired, your aura is gone. You are no longer an object he wants to transcend, his motives are no longer pure, but you are still his goddess, and he is very proud to get you.

But after you lose your aura, he finds that you are just an ordinary housewife, and you have not worked for many years, your thinking is rigid, your thinking is backward, you no longer have any advantages, and you are completely unattractive to him. Notice here that you are not attractive to him, not useful, because he feels that he has finally fulfilled his dream back then, completely surpassing you and surpassing his goddess.

However, the method he used to survive was not that he surpassed you by his ability, but by dragging you off the altar. He hasn't improved much, the main thing is that you're falling behind.

Now you should know what he's afraid of, and how to get revenge, right?"