"Chen Xiaolu told you about your father at home, right?" asked Yu Mei curtly.

Chen Jianqiang suddenly became seriously ill, and he most likely wanted to go back to take care of him, Zhou Weiwei couldn't help himself, as soon as Yu Mei came today, she suddenly lost her confidence, she was always afraid that her daughter-in-law would suddenly lose her temper, and she couldn't resist it.

"Well, I said. Zhou Weiwei didn't raise his eyelids, just picked up the bowl and drank the soup in one go.

"Alas, I didn't expect that your father would be like this, what should I do after this? No, when you are confined, let your mother come over for a few days?" Yu Mei cautiously proposed.

"You died of this heart as soon as possible!" Zhou Weiwei said this and went back to the bedroom.

Yu Mei was stunned, she had said the wrong thing again.

After Tan Tian went home, he also told Pan Long about Chen Jianqiang's illness, Pan Long didn't expect his father-in-law to be so strong.

"You should go back to accompany our dad more, the children will be handed over to the grandparents, our sister probably won't be able to come back old, and we will have to spend more time when the time comes." ”

"Yes, I think that's the only way to go, and my sister also said that we will have a meeting together later to discuss a decision. Our parents are the best for the eldest sister and Xiaolu, and in the end, a lot of things don't have to be done by me, the person who was thrown out? Not to mention Chen Xiaolu, it's good that he can take care of his family's affairs now. Tan Tian thought of the past, and he was still a little unhappy in his heart.

"Xiaolu is indeed the most affected, our parents have been helping him too much, and now there is no one to help, maybe it's a good thing, without support, he will be able to stand up in the future!"

Pan Long has always looked down on Chen Xiaolu, thinking that he has almost no advantages except for laziness and playfulness, but he can't easily say this to his wife. My wife's family protects their calves, and it is okay for their own family members to scold them, but others are anxious when they scold.

"Okay. ”

Tan Tian knew that his father was really sad, but he had always treated his parents with a clear conscience, so he didn't feel too sad.

Chen Xiaohe is different, since she knew that Chen Jianqiang was sick, she couldn't wait to get sick for her father. Maybe she still has the genes of a literary youth in her bones, and she thinks about how to make her father happy in the coming days.

After Yu Mei left in the morning, Chen Xiaohe ran to Chen Jianqiang's house and asked Chen Jianqiang, who was watching TV, "Dad, what do you want to do? I'm here with you this week, let's go together?"

Chen Jianqiang waved his hand again and again, "I don't have anything I want to do, I don't have anything." ”

"How can you not have it, think about it. Chen Xiaohe sat next to his father and shook his father's arm.

Chen Xiaohe hadn't been so close to her father for a long time, and she was a little unnatural, but she still forced herself to take the initiative to do something.

"Really, you don't have to stay here with me, there are still a lot of things at home, what should Jun Afu do? Chen Jianqiang hugged his arm, his eyes still staring at the TV screen, he really didn't want to trouble others.

"Dad, you are a patient now, don't always think about others, didn't you raise us a little bit when we were young, why is it so difficult for others to be nice to you, you can only be good to others, others can't be good to you." Chen Xiaohe's face was full of sadness and anxious.

"Don't talk about this nonsense, I don't want to do anything, I don't have any wishes! I have only one wish, and that is to help me keep it secret, and not to let many people know that I am sick, and I don't want people to visit me like monkeys. After saying this, Chen Jianqiang turned his head and stopped paying attention to Chen Xiaohe.

Chen Xiaohe really can't stand his father, when others are sick, they are all playing a little temper with their children, why is his father so not like a patient, let alone a terminally ill patient, I don't know that he thinks he is in good health.

Does Dad really have to be strong until the last moment?

Chen Xiaohe had no choice at all, and it was difficult for her father to break through here, so she had to continue to ponder by herself, and finally thought that she could check it on the Internet to see if there were any related articles such as taking care of terminally ill patients.

This one can't be checked, and the screen is full of such articles. Chen Xiaohe lamented that the current era is really too convenient to obtain information, and how can patients in the past have a way to understand their own conditions except listening to doctors.

Chen Xiaohe focused on the psychological changes and emotional care of terminally ill patients, and many articles were very comprehensive.

When a person has a terminal illness, people with different personalities may have different emotional changes to protect themselves. Some will have a bad temper, some will be desperate and discouraged, some will be depressed and afraid, and some will feel sorry for themselves.

Like Chen Xiaohe's father, it should be a typical type of fear of causing trouble to his children and feeling sorry for himself. In the face of this type, children should take more initiative and care for the patient like a dog skin plaster, because such patients will never take the initiative to ask others for care.

His father is also very introverted, and he doesn't like to be the focus of everyone's attention since he was a child, so he asked Chen Xiaohe to help him keep it secret. The flaw of this kind of personality is that it is easy to get caught up in his own emotions, but some of them are very suitable for research, so it is not a good practice to blindly hide his illness from him, but he should be given some professional books so that he can fully understand his condition.

In addition, even if the care of relatives is in place, one of the biggest problems that terminally ill patients inevitably have is loneliness. This is a kind of loneliness that all the caregivers around him can't experience, this is a war to face the disease alone, he is the only one to fight, and the best way to alleviate it is to find a patient and face it together.

After Chen Xiaohe browsed around, he finally opened up the idea of taking care of his father.

She first went to the Internet to order four or five authoritative, professional and easy-to-understand books on liver disease health care, so that her father could read them when he was fine, and alleviate the panic caused by not knowing anything about the disease.

Then, Chen Xiaohe thought about accompanying his father to find a few patients.

"Dad, you're going to get medicine on Monday, right? I'll go with you this time. Chen Xiaohe went to talk to Chen Jianqiang in the side room again, but his father was still watching TV.

"No, no, no. "Chen Jianqiang is still the same trick as before.

"Dad, don't you use nothing, why am I coming back, I must accompany you. Chen Xiaohe really can't stand Chen Jianqiang's stubbornness.

Chen Xiaohe thought that going to the hospital with his father for a follow-up examination, first, he could thank his father's attending doctor in the past few years, and second, maybe he could take the opportunity to find a few patients to join the patient circle, which would definitely be a meaningful thing for his father.

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