Chapter 209: It's Not Easy for Oil Couples
When Wei Ying cooked the noodles in the pot, she took them out, passed them through cold water, and put them aside, ready to make oily noodles.
I saw that when Wei Ying poured onions, ginger, garlic, various spices, and dry and spicy noodles on top of the noodles,
She poured oil into the bowl and said to Wei Ying:
"Sister Wei Ying, I think, if the two of you are so far apart, then you really usually have to maintain your relationship......
Wang Danhong sighed, she recalled the sweet time with her husband before, and then said:
"I want to maintain a good relationship, but the moon is far away from the water, and the water can't quench the thirst...... Because, my husband and I have been separated from each other for many years, and we often quarrel on the phone, so my husband found another woman at the No. 8 oil production plant, lived together, and formed the so-called temporary husband and wife ......"
Hearing this, Wei Ying was speechless,
This is already, not the first time she has heard in an oilfield unit, because the husband and wife are separated, resulting in the formation, the kind of patchwork, temporary couple.
I saw that when Wei Ying finished the oily noodles, she brought it to Wang Danhong, and then said:
"Sister Wang Danhong, is it because your husband formed a temporary husband and wife in the No. 8 diesel factory and lived with other women, so you divorced her?"
Wang Danhong sneered, and then said:
"To tell you the truth, if she hadn't told me that he had formed a temporary couple in the mountains, maybe our marriage would have continued...... However, when he told me that he and the woman had been living together for a year and that the woman was pregnant, I filed for divorce......"
Hearing this, Wei Ying was very sympathetic to Wang Danhong and said:
"Then after you divorced, who did the child award to?"
Wang Danhong took out her mobile phone, clicked on the photo of her one-year-old son, and then said to Wei Ying:
"The man's conditions are better than mine, so the judge awarded the son to the man......"
After speaking, Wang Danhong suddenly burst into tears,
She snorted and cried, and said to Wei Ying:
"My husband and I, on the day of the divorce, my son was just one year old, and now, we have been divorced for more than two years, and my son is also three years old, but in the past two years, my mother-in-law's family has not let me see my son at all...... Wei Ying, you can't understand, my current mood, I am special, I want to see my son......"
When Wei Ying saw that Wang Danhong was holding the bowl of oily noodles, she couldn't eat it at all, and she kept crying.
She stepped forward, hugged Wang Danhong into her arms, patted her on the back, comforted her and said:
"Sister Wang Danhong, don't be sad, if your in-laws' family doesn't let you see your son again and again, you'd better go to the court to sue them, and then get the right to visit your son......"
Wang Danhong's tears flowed into the oily noodles, she sobbed, and said to Wei Ying:
"If my mother-in-law's family still won't let me see my son, then I will definitely go to the court and sue them for ......."
Wei Ying wiped Wang Danhong's tears while comforting her and said:
"Sister Wang Danhong, don't be sad, the court will definitely be very fair and give you the right to visit your son......"
After finishing speaking, Wei Ying picked up the handful of oily noodles, and then let Wang Danhong eat, saying:
"Sister Wang Danhong, since you haven't eaten enough in the afternoon, then hurry up and eat noodles......"
Wang Danhong wiped away her tears, and while eating, she said to Wei Ying:
"So, Wei Ying, you are not married yet, I advise you as an oil worker, when you are looking for a partner, you must find a man who works with you, and you must not be like me, find a man who works in other factories, and then the husband and wife live separately, and they can't see each other all year round...... In this way, it is easy to lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, and then the divorce ......"
Wei Ying listened to Wang Danhong's lesson, and she suddenly thought of her boyfriend Li Pengpeng, who worked in the No. 1 Oil Production Plant.
So, Wei Ying said to Wang Danhong:
"Sister Wang Danhong, if, according to what you say, then I can only break up with my boyfriend Li Pengpeng, after all, I work in oil production plant N, and he works in oil production plant No. 1, ...... work"
Wang Danhong told Wei Ying, saying:
"Actually, if you have a way to transfer from oil production plant N to oil production plant 1, then you can talk about it......"
Wei Ying felt that it was very difficult to transfer from oil production plant N to oil production plant No. 1, and said:
"As we all know, the benefits of the first oil production plant are good, and the vacation system is good, and our factory, the benefits are not good, and the vacation system is not normal.
After speaking, Wei Ying sighed, and she sighed in her heart:
Everyone thinks that oil workers are glamorous, with high wages, stable jobs, and guaranteed income in droughts and floods, but who knows that the places where oil workers work are either in the wilderness or in the deep mountains and old forests, and moreover, oil husbands and wives live separately all year round, gathering less and leaving more?
Wang Danhong asked Wei Ying with great concern and said:
"By the way, Wei Ying, your boyfriend works in the No. 1 oil production plant, which operation area works?"
Wei Ying told Wang Danhong and said:
"She is in the office of the Hezhuangping operation area of the No. 1 Oil Production Plant, and she works ......?"
Hearing Hezhuang Ping, Wang Danhong said to Wei Ying:
"Hezhuangping, it's very close to our Fengjiaping operation area, although you and your boyfriend work in two factories, but you are close, so you can ...... It's not like, my husband and I, I work here in Yan'an, and my ex-husband works in Yulin, and we get together for 108,000 miles...... If you want to see each other, it's even harder than going to the sky......"
Wei Ying looked at Wang Danhong and said:
"Sister Wang Danhong, then when you took turns with your ex-husband before, why didn't you take the vacation and pour it together?"
Listening to Wei Ying's words, Wang Danhong sighed, she was very helpless and helpless, and said:
"The vacation system of the No. 8 oil production plant is 15 days off in the previous month...... The vacation system of our oil production plant is 40 days and 10 days...... You say, the vacation system is different, how can the two of us put the vacation together?"
Listening to Wang Danhong's words, Wei Ying sighed, she felt that it was not easy for oil couples, and said:
"Alas, I hope that Changqing Oilfield can pay attention to this issue...... Let's settle the matter of the separation of husband and wife...... At the very least, if the husband and wife are not in the same factory, they should be able to work in the same factory, and they should be able to live in the same operation area and in the same unit......"
At that time, it was 2012, and the system of the unit was not very humane.
Three years later, in 2015, Changqing Oilfield has begun to implement the solution to the problem of separation between husband and wife.
If the husband and wife work in different oil production plants,
As long as you make an application, then you can transfer unconditionally.
Unlike in 2012, when the job transfer between husband and wife was so difficult......
I saw that when Wang Danhong finished eating the oily noodles, Wei Ying gave her a bowl of noodle soup and said:
"Sister Wang Danhong, after you finish eating noodles, you must drink a bowl of noodle soup, the original soup and the original food, otherwise, when you get up in the morning on the second day, your stomach will definitely be very distended......
Listening to Wei Ying's words, after Wang Danhong drank a big bowl of noodle soup, she felt full of wine and food, very happy, and said:
"Wei Ying, you make oily noodles, it's so delicious, it's really lucky to live in a dormitory with a chef like you......"
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