"You also have to ask our dad for his opinion, and don't help him make decisions without permission. Our dad is also a temperamental person, he may not just listen to your arrangement. And I always have to tell my younger brothers and sisters, you have three brothers and sisters, how rare it is in this era of only children, there are always more helpers than others.

At this time, we have to discuss it together. Besides, if you can't arrange it, you can find an aunt or something, don't put the pressure on you alone, I know you have filial piety, but filial piety is not the best to rush forward in the front, but to arrange things properly, this is the greatest filial piety. ”

Su Fa listened to Chen Xiaohe's arrangement, and really felt that Chen Xiaohe hadn't grown up yet, and the decisions he made were always so hasty. Can his own small family be left alone like this?

Yes, the situation at home is indeed urgent, and there is a major event that affects people's lives, but no matter what, you must weigh the pros and cons of all parties and make a thoughtful decision.

No wonder in the workplace or at home, Chen Xiaohe always makes a mess, Su Fa can't help but slander.

Chen Xiaohe, after listening to Su Fa's words, he also felt that it made some sense, but he suspected that this was a set of high-sounding excuses that Su Fa found in order not to take care of his father wholeheartedly.

Moreover, the most important thing is that this word is completely cold between the lines, and there is not much taste of caring for relatives at all, but it seems to be dealing with a business matter.

Chen Xiaohe knew that Su Fa had a set of skills, that is, he said his own set of crooked reasoning very correctly.

Chen Xiaohe wanted to have a seizure immediately, but she endured it again, and she forced herself to come to her senses. Loyalty is contrary to the ear, no matter how you say it, Su Fa is indeed the truth.

Chen Xiaohe tossed and turned, a little angry at Su for a while, and felt that his anger was inexplicable for a while. In the end, it was reason that prevailed over his messy emotions.

Chen Xiaohe took a long breath, "Well, okay, but now Xiaolu's daughter-in-law is about to be born, and Chen Xiaolu has just had that unstable job, so she must be too busy to take care of it." And Tan Tian, Tan Tian is okay, her in-laws are all by her side, and I forgot about them in a hurry when she could take care of them together. I'll have to go back and talk to them. ”

"Yes, our dad is like this, since the best hepatobiliary hospitals in Shanghai say that, then there should be no way where to go for treatment", Su Fa tried his best to help Chen Xiaohe clear his mind.

"The most important thing for us now is to try our best to make my dad happy, everything is as he wants, and then on this basis, we can ensure that our children's small family can live as normally as possible. ”

"Okay, I'll accompany my dad back to my hometown on the weekend, and go back to explain to the family, when I hear that my dad only has a few months left, it's really a mess, and my brain can't think at all. Chen Xiaohe's eyes turned red again.

"Well, you can go with confidence, don't worry here", Su Fa fell into deep thought after speaking.

After a while, Su Facai said again, "On the weekend, I should accompany them first, my parents are actually harmful to coming at this time, if you run home every day, or want to live back to your hometown to accompany your father for a while, I am afraid that my mother will make irresponsible remarks about you, and you will be even more uncomfortable, my mother's nagging level, I still know it very well, don't you know it very well." ”

After hearing this, Chen Xiaohe also deeply felt that it made sense, and after he was really anxious, he didn't care about any causes and consequences.

Mother-in-law is the person who is most afraid of being good to her mother's family. I remember when I first got married, my mother-in-law said in a roundabout way how bad it was to find a daughter-in-law with a younger brother at home, for fear that Chen Xiaohe would abduct all the good things of her family back to her parents' house and make up for her younger brother.

Later, after getting along for a long time, my mother-in-law's various strange remarks emerged in endlessly.

Chen Xiaohe remembered that Chen Jianqiang had a minimally invasive operation because his stomach was not very good, Chen Xiaohe was worried about his father's body when he heard about it, and he was in tears, so his mother-in-law asked her what was wrong, Chen Xiaohe told her mother-in-law about her worries, but her mother-in-law did not sympathize with Chen Jianqiang's experience, but immediately put on a pestilence-like expression, disgusted with Chen Xiaohe's family, how there are so many things in Chen Xiaohe's family, and his father's poor health has to drag down the small family, etc., there is no sympathy for other people's experiences at all.

Later, my parents had less time to come over and take care of the children, and my mother-in-law would say that they don't care about you, and you don't care about them when they have something.

Many unbelievable and selfish remarks made Chen Xiaohe angry.

Chen Xiaohe couldn't help but think that if he knew that he had gone back to his parents' house to take care of his father, and his mother-in-law would come here, he might have to have a lot of nagging and complaining.

Mother-in-law is not a person who can control her emotions, she will always be a person who is unhappy, does not vomit or is unhappy, does not vomit at this time, and waits for when.

"Why don't we find an aunt first, and if I can't come back next week, I'll give you a hand. Chen Xiaohe thought for a long time and then said.

Su Fa nodded and agreed to Chen Xiaohe's proposal, "Okay, let's take a look for a while, if it's too busy later, it's not too late to find my parents to come over." ”

"Do you have time to look for it together in the past two days?" Chen Xiaohe asked again.

"I guess I'm not free, you can find it yourself first, I've been late to come back recently, let's just talk about it on the phone when it's time to decide." Su Fa said.

After that, Chen Xiaohe went to the housekeeping company to interview his aunt non-stop.

Interviewing an aunt is not an easy task.

There are two housekeeping companies around the community, one is simple and the other is larger.

Sometimes some people in the community owner group will share their aunts with their neighbors, but this time they are in a hurry, so they can only go to the housekeeping company.

Chen Xiaohe listened to Su Fa's suggestion and went to the big one, which was on the same street as a bunch of education and training institutions. The person in charge is an old aunt in her 60s, wearing a pair of thin black-framed glasses, and the whole person looks energetic and quite capable.

"I used to be a soldier and an accountant, and I retired and came here to exert my spare energy, you can call me Mr. Bai. But the boss is not me, the boss is a proprietor in your community, and she has opened several housekeeping companies. ”

Chen Xiaohe couldn't help but be speechless, there was really Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon in the community.

Chen Xiaohe introduced his own situation to Mr. Bai, and said that he wanted to find a half-day afternoon to take the children and cook.

"No problem, it's 35 an hour within four hours, it's about 2100 if it's a three-hour monthly subscription, it's 30 an hour if it's five hours, and it's about 3100 yuan for five hours a month. The brokerage fee is 35% of the monthly price. ”

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