Chapter 103: Sisters
Tan Tian changed his posture and continued to turn on the complaining mode, "Chen Xiaolu, and I fight and grab things every day, so when I was an adolescent, I got angry at home when I was fine, quarreled with our mother, quarreled with Chen Xiaolu, and ran away from home and played many times, I felt chilled at that time, I felt that this mother was good, but I was not alone, I still had to rob others, and then I simply didn't rob it, let it be given to the two of you." ”
The more Chen Xiaohe listened, the more unpleasant he became, and quickly took Tan Tian's cup and refilled her with a glass of water flatteringly.
"Do you know? Xiaotian, I actually feel it, I'm quite proud in my heart, I think you can't rob me, I remember sometimes scolding you with my mother, I still felt very righteous at that time, I'm sorry, sister. Chen Xiaohe gave Tan Tian an apologetic smile and stretched out his hands to give Tan Tian a hug.
Tan Tian stepped back and avoided the hug, "It's going to be, don't come and coax me!"
Tan Tian looked at the hills in the distance, as if he had returned to his youth, "Then I thought, why do I have to rob that love, I want to leave this home." After dropping out of school and going to work in society, I felt more and more that my relationship with my family was weakened. Now that I'm stronger, I feel that everything is not so important, it's good that my mother loves me, she doesn't have time to love me, I think that's what it should be. Now I'm actually very good to my mother and my mother, but it's just to do my duty, I think this distance is very good, sister, you want too much. ”
Chen Xiaohe also followed Tan Tian to look out, this small city is surrounded by mountains, when he was a child, how eager Chen Xiaohe was to see the scene outside the mountain.
Now that I've seen everything beyond the mountains, I'm nostalgic for this small city.
"Maybe I should learn from you, I just think that it should always be my home, and this idea is wrong. ”
Tan Tian rubbed a snowball and threw it far away, and his eyes were a little unwilling, "Look at how hard our parents are to Chen Xiaolu's family now, and they can't wait to take out their lives, how much did Chen Xiaolu spend on them?" Back then, I wanted to do some small business, and asked my father to borrow 5,000 yuan, but he just wouldn't lend it to me, what about this son, I can't wait to give him 5,000 a month, if I care, can this be calculated? Besides, we have everything here for our son.
You see that our mother and a few of them are so good to our grandfather, but our second aunt wants a square table in his house, she looks at the wood is good, and grandpa said that this is reserved for the son, and the daughter can't think about the things of her mother's family. ”
Chen Xiaohe looked at his sister with sympathy, "Hey, that's the rules that our mother's generation abides by, at that time, the daughter was the water that was spilled, and now it's like this big, how much can be given to the son and how much can be given to the daughter, and the son and daughter also have to support the elderly, why give it to the son, our parents haven't changed their minds." Of course, as an older sister, we won't bother with my younger brother about this, but this principle is this principle in short, every era has its own situation, and in that era, what you think is justified is embarrassing and wrong to do in this era, right?"
Tan Tian was stunned by Chen Xiaohe's theory, "Sister, why don't you say that you are my sister?
Chen Xiaohe also laughed, "What's stronger? No matter how strong the theory is, the realm is not high! I don't think my mother should give us much money, I just think that the times have progressed, and men and women are equal, but I didn't expect that because of Zhou Weiwei's control, our family still stays in the primitive society, and everything is still the old rules." ”
Tan Tian laughed even louder, "Zhou Weiwei is also uneducated, her hometown is more backward than ours." ”
Chen Xiaohe couldn't laugh anymore, "I think our mother is a person who adapts to the times, and later I learned that she is not adapting to the times, she just adapts to the people around her, and the people around her let her live in a primitive society, she will live in a primitive society, let her be equal, she will be equal, our mother is really the most malleable person." ”
Tan Tian didn't expect that one day, he would be able to talk so much to his sister.
To be honest, although the sisters are the closest people, many times, the deepest thoughts of each other are actually rarely communicated, and sometimes it is not an exaggeration to say that they are strangers. "Yes, that's because she doesn't have any ideas herself, and whoever is good will listen to whomever she wants. When I was young, I listened to my father, I had to be a boy; when I had a child, I listened to my child, and the child could hold it wherever she wanted, and the three-year-old child would be able to make decisions for her; when I had a daughter-in-law, I would listen to my daughter-in-law, and my daughter-in-law would do what she said. Isn't that the best way to avoid conflict?" Tan Tian continued.
"Yes, conflict has been avoided for the time being, but there will be endless troubles. The wind on the top of the mountain was hard and cold, and Chen Xiaohe unconsciously stomped his feet, "If you want so many children, have you ever thought about how to raise them? This Hailing has not yet been found! Listening to children is pampering, so that children have no ability to survive, and can only gnaw at the old." In the final analysis, our mother just has no will, and allows others to rub and knead round. ”
"Alas, sister, you are really right. Tan Tian kneaded the snowball in his palm more and more round, "Now that she is returning to Zhou Weiwei to rub it, you are not happy, it is finally kneaded into a circle, and she has to change it to a square one again! After speaking, Tan Tian pinched the snowball into a square shape.
Chen Xiaohe saw her use a snowball as a metaphor for her mother, and felt that it was a stroke of genius, so she immediately snatched the snow cube in her sister's hand and rubbed it again. "Yes, I'm actually competing with Zhou Weiwei, I feel that my mother was snatched away by her, and I still want to beat and scold, although I also rub her, but I don't bully her, I'm afraid that our mother will be bullied. ”
Tan Tian had no choice but to make a snowball again, and threw it out fiercely, "Just admit it, sister, our mother is not bullied here, she is also bullied there, she resisted, life is even more difficult, the family is going to fall apart, she has used her wisdom to make the best choice she thinks by wronging herself." ”
"Yes, I want to save her, it's too difficult, unless I save Chen Xiaolu's family first, our mother is the last to support her, and finally she can be fished up. I can't help it, I can only be ruthless, watch her drag the bottom there, and don't care. Chen Xiaohe finally threw the snowball in his hand far away.
The two sisters chatted and forgot about skiing, and on the first day of the new year, the two of them said a lot of things that no one else could understand.