39. Divorced woman
In the next twenty years, even ten years, a woman will probably be able to shout "You love, my mother divorces you", and she will find someone worthy of Prince Charming, although maybe a mule. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
In these years, divorce, no matter who is right or wrong, is the woman's fault, and a woman's divorce is to be looked down upon, and she must speak quietly.
In this way, I can't help but break people's mouths behind my back, you see that this kind of woman deserves no man.
"I said big sister, can we have a good chat, why are you crying so hard? I didn't drive you away, anyway, I'm alone, what about you help me be a companion, don't you just live until the end of the year? What's the big deal?" He Fang couldn't see this woman crying, she was actually younger than herself, only 25 years old.
The man left on the third day, carrying the suitcase without hesitation.
He Fang and Li He came directly to start tidying up the house, and threw all the old furniture that was about to fall apart into the kitchen, ready to chop it down for firewood.
Li He used to rent a place in Wang'ershan, the lease period was relatively long, the house had not been returned, and there were still a lot of old furniture.
The woman is not very old, her figure is not bad, and her almond face is also handsome, but her face is not good-looking, and her hair is scattered.
wiped his already red and swollen eyes with his sleeve, and whispered, "Sister, he doesn't want me like this, I feel uncomfortable." I know you're a nice guy, but let's be honest. When I married him, my parents didn't agree. Later, he returned to the city, and I didn't hear from him for two years, and I found him shamelessly. My mom and dad were so angry. You said that I am divorced now, and I will go back, even if my parents can't beat me, I have no face to see people, and my parents have no face to see people. I can't go back as a last resort. ”
After saying that, tears flowed down again.
He Fang's heart was cold, she was still too impulsive, but she didn't care about others, she was still crying vigorously when she saw her, and waved her hand irritably, "Okay, stop crying, three-legged toads are hard to find, and there are few two-legged men?" I can give you a place to live, but what do you live on, where is it so easy for you to be a girl's family?"
The woman didn't laugh or cry when she heard this, so she had to hurriedly say, "Sister, don't worry, I paste paper boxes for the neighborhood committee factory every month, and I have 4 yuan a month, which is enough for me to eat and drink by myself." ”
He Fang went out, looked at Li He, who was smoking in the corner of the kitchen, walked over and said, "I'll leave in a few days, how about I let this girl cook for you, you two old men, one by one lazy donkeys go to the kang, I'm really afraid that I will starve you two if I leave?"
Li He was stunned when he heard this, the nanny had all been rectified for herself, and her thinking was ahead of her time, "She is a little girl, the impact is not too good"
He Fang choked directly, "Don't talk about eating a deflated belly, Ma Yoer is neat." Hmph, I live with you, why haven't you thought about the bad influence? I'm not a big girl, right?"
Li He was instantly stunned, where did this temper come from.
But he really didn't think about this problem, probably because he was too familiar, and He Fang's temper didn't treat her as a girl.
"No, what kind of relationship do we have, don't you all know about the deep revolutionary friendship?
He Fang became even more angry when she heard this, and went back to the living room directly and said to the girl, "You go to my place to cook, I have a stage, or not, I have to fall on you, I will give you a salary according to the market for a month, and you will go there to have a look." It's okay to live in this house, but it's also okay to live over there."
The woman waved her hand and said, "Sister, it's benevolent and righteous for you to keep me, give you a hand, cook a meal, how can I still charge you money"
As soon as He Fang got home, he took the woman to the kitchen, and explained hand in hand, "Although the old man likes to eat meat, after all, he is old and can't be greasy." He can't eat spicy, but your brother Li likes spicy food. So two plates of roast meat. A plate with a small amount is not spicy, give it to the old man. A plate for you Brother Li. Except for soy sauce in roasted meat and soy sauce in roasted fish, other vegetables do not need soy sauce. Try to use well water as much as possible, this faucet can cost money when it is turned on............"
He Fang pulled the little girl and chattered for a long time.
I discussed it with Old Man Li again.
Old man Li thought for a while and said, "The market is just seven or eight yuan, so let's give seven yuan." “
Li He said, "Will it be less?"
Old man Li sneered, "Less, the sanitation at the door, day and night, is only five yuan a month, and the foreign workers who enter the city are now at this price." Besides, as soon as people come, you will be spoiled, and there will be trouble behind. Shengmien, fighting Mi Qiu, this sentence, learn a little in the future. My life is a living example of this. “
Rising Mien, fighting Mi Qiu is a gap caused by the disappointment of psychological expectations.
To explain Maslow's theory, when the need for food and clothing is satisfied, the need for respect is required. It's all gratitude, and a high standard of favor can easily become a measure of inner gratitude.
Once it falls below this standard, it will be no longer grateful, and at worst it will turn against you. In fact, it is the standard of people's hearts, and it is easy to follow the changes in the outside world and imperceptibly.
Li He thought about it, he just didn't know how to be a man in his last life.
If you can't be a person, it's not that you're not a good person. It's about being too good at being a good person, a good old man, and a bad good person.
If you occasionally give a rose to a girl, people will definitely think you are romantic. But if you give roses to people every day, if you don't give them one day, they may complain.
There is also a well-written old-fashioned story about a good man who gave a beggar a few dollars a day.
One day, the good Samaritan stopped giving money to the beggar.
The beggar asked him, "Why don't you give me any more money?"
The good man said, "My child was born, and I want to save money to buy milk powder."
The beggar is angry, how can you do this.
Caigen Tan: Enyi is light and strong, and those who are strong first and then light forget their benefits.
Only then did Li He feel that the Chinese culture was broad and profound.
In the previous life, I disdained people who were sophisticated, and I really have to study hard in this life.
The girl's name is Fu Xia, and she and He Fang were busy in the kitchen that night.
Waiting for a few plates of Mali dishes to be served, He Fang admired, "It's really well cooked, it's neat and smooth, you two are blessed." ”
Fu Xia said with a smile, "If Sister He teaches well, I will also cook some home-cooked food." ”
Old man Li took a mouthful of food by himself, smashed his mouth, and said to He Fang with a smile, "It's worse than you, but the taste is enough, and it's okay." ”
Li He knew in his heart that in fact, this dish was not bad at all, and it could be said that it was full of color and flavor.
It's just that Old Man Li took out the faction of the landlord and old wealth and wanted to train people, and Li He definitely couldn't go against it.
"Your home is in Baoding?"
Fu Xia replied crisply, "That's right, it's in Tang County." ”
"Think about the donkey meat burned, I haven't eaten it for many years, and I'm hungry"
He Fang said, "Sit down and eat together, don't stand." ”
"Sister, you eat first, I'll go to the kitchen and bring the soup. ”
After saying that, he went to the kitchen in a panic
Old man Li shook his head and snorted, "Although this girl doesn't have a bad heart, she doesn't tell the truth." ”
He Fang smiled and whispered, "You are high, I feel the same way, but I can't tell what's wrong." ”
Li He was the only one who was confused, and he didn't think there was a problem.
After thinking about it, I had to sigh, I didn't have enough emotional intelligence and lack of heart and eye in two lifetimes, and it seemed that I couldn't cultivate it.