Sun Ji'an's face was full of expressions of "Yes, yes, yes, I know that you are married, you have children, your daughter is very cute, I know it, okay? Please stop torturing my single dog".

After Zhou Heng expressed his daughter's cuteness to others with satisfaction, he sent another voice message to his daughter-in-law: "Send another one over and I'll take a look." ”

He used to despise others for posting babies, photos, and videos, and he felt like that, not like an adult with brains at all.

Who doesn't have a baby, isn't it normal to get married and have children? What is there to dry?

What is the most beautiful child in your family? Hey, you haven't seen a beautiful child, have you? Everyone else's child is smarter and more beautiful than your child, have others sunned?

And yet now......

Alas, this face is no longer a face.

Why is this so?

Is it impossible to avoid everyone becoming like this?

Jiang Xiaoxuan replied to him: "I don't have to send it, the little guy is asleep now, the one just now was taken an hour ago, how can I cook if she doesn't sleep?"

At such a young age, children need a lot of sleep, sleeping twenty hours a day, and can only play awake when they are feeding.

Zhou Heng said: "Videos of falling asleep are also available. ”

He's not busy right now anyway, and they're checking the dowry and gifts right now, and they'll have to talk about the process for a while.

Some people welcome their relatives, and they only welcome them once in their lives, although the process has been done by others, but when it is their turn, they have to rely on the matchmaker to talk about it, for fear of missing any details.

On the day of the big day, they were both happy and nervous, for fear that they would do something wrong.

Zhou Heng soon received a video of the little pomegranate falling asleep, and the strange thing is that everyone in the video is eating fragrantly, eating steaming radish stewed mutton soup-

Only the little one fell asleep alone in the shaker, and the kitten sat diligently beside her, not moving, not even blinking an eye.

Cats will take care of children!

A few adults next to him ate radish and drank soup with a lot of energy, so it sat seriously on the other end of the shaking bed, staring at the little cutie who was asleep.

What kind of world is this, hahaha.

Zhou Heng sent a voice message to Jiang Xiaoxuan: "You can too, enslave a cat to help you be a coolie!"

Jiang Xiaoxuan replied, but it was the old lady's voice: "It's not us who asked the cat to take care of the child, it's so well-behaved, what do you say?"

Zhou Heng couldn't help laughing when he heard the old lady's voice, it turned out that the cat itself wanted to watch the child.

The kitten is really heartbroken for this family.

Fortunately, the child is easier to carry, and when she falls asleep, she can put it on her small rocking bed, and she can sleep for a long time. You don't have to sleep all day long, so adults can have more time for themselves and sit down to have a good meal.

So they were all drinking lamb chops stewed with turnips and eating deliciously.

I heard that some children were very worried about the first few months, and they had to sleep in their arms, and they didn't even give time to eat, and they cried as soon as they put it down.

Their little guy is not bad in this regard.

And she has a very strong physique, probably the nutrients absorbed during pregnancy are good, every time she goes to the hospital for a physical examination, the doctor says that the child has a very good physique and very strong hands.

After admiring the child's sleeping again, Zhou Heng went to greet the She people with great interest.

After all, it was the first time I had seen this traditional ritual up close.

This whole team of welcoming relatives is all dressed in gorgeous national costumes.

The people in front carried all kinds of decorated greeting items, chicken, duck and fish, eggs, tofu, fruit wine, etc., the scene was very loud, and they walked in a long line.

They explained more complicatedly, there are twelve small red envelopes wrapped in red paper: that is, the tornado crown bag, the ancestral bag, the comb hair bag, the frog catching bag, the sealing bag, the appendix bag, the bridesmaid bag, the sedan chair umbrella bag, the matchmaker bag, the sedan charm bag, the return bag, the open sedan door bag, etc., go to the woman's house, this is called "Yuan Zuli".

In addition, don't look at their village, but the girls wear real silver jewelry on their heads, wrists, and waists, and they jingle on the road, crisp and beautiful.

The Miao people also have a variety of silver jewelry products, a complete pair of jewelry is said to be dozens of catties, and now there is commercial production.

However, the jewelry styles and popular aesthetics of various ethnic groups are obviously different and have their own characteristics.

The national totem of the She nationality is the phoenix, so the headdress, bracelets, etc., are all styles of various phoenixes.

There is the Lan Jiaxun I saw before in the team, he is happily taking pictures with his camera, and his main reason for recording the video is to record the mountain songs in the team.

There is a professional singer here who is specially designed to deal with the bride's side of the offer.

Zhou Heng and Sun Ji'an also mingled in the crowd carrying gifts, feeling very fresh and interesting.

The couple are both She people, so the bride is from the village and doesn't have to go far to get there.

The bride's family is surnamed Lei, one of the four surnames of the She ethnic group, because originally they only had four surnames, Pan, Lan, Lei, and Zhong, and they were not allowed to intermarry with foreigners before, so they turned around, and they were still the four surnames.

The large group walked and walked to a small road, and at the front of the path, it was also very lively and beating, and it sounded like the bride's house.

The matchmaker stopped at the front because the road was blocked.

Blocking the road were a bunch of female relatives on the bride's side, aunts and sisters-in-law, all wearing beautiful national costumes, wearing phoenix ornaments, smiling and holding a large handful of cedar branches, blocking the road.

The welcoming team here understood, and the matchmaker first released three double cannons, signaling "We are coming".

On the other side of the road, two double cannons were fired in response, which means "got it".

And the cedar branches in their hands mean to sing at night.

The team here to welcome relatives has already been prepared, and the "Chilang" who came to sing with him stepped forward, broke off three cedar branches, threw them on the side of the road, and then folded one and threw them down the road.

Then, handing over a red envelope, the aunt and aunt took off the cedar thorn and released it.

The team here began to set off a long firecracker.

In short, the sense of various rituals is full.

After the firecrackers were released, the greeting procession passed and was welcomed into the main house of the bride's house, and the various greeting gifts and gifts that had just been picked were placed in the center of the hall and displayed one by one.

The first thing I did when I entered the house, of course, was to drink tea.

This tea has a famous hall and is called "pagoda tea".

The wedding side sent four groomsmen to represent, plus the singing Chilang was five people, and the woman's side also sent four beautiful bridesmaids to bring tea.

The tea is packed in a tray, a total of five cups, four of which are placed in the shape of "Tian" at the bottom, and the other cup is placed in the middle of the top of the four cups, with two layers of teacups, resembling a pagoda.

After Chilang took the tea tray, he didn't move, only moved his mouth, put the top cup of "spire" in his mouth, and drank the tea slowly, paying attention to not a drop left, not a drop leaking.

It is said that this shows the man's wisdom and bravery.

Then the remaining four cups were transferred to the four groomsmen to drink.

Drink dry tea and return the bowl to the woman, and then the best man and the bridesmaid will face each other, which is called "catching snails".

Then the greeter is asked to take off the straw sandals, wash the feet, and put on the cloth shoes, which is called the "take off the shoes" ceremony.

After that, the groom's uncle counted all the gifts to the woman's cook and uncle.

There are a pair of shoes for the father-in-law, father-in-law, and uncle, a pig's foot, a pair of turbans and crepe for the mother-in-law, and a pair of shoes for the mother-in-law.

Zhou Heng looked at these ceremonies and felt that it was much more complicated than them, and when he got married himself, he didn't have such trouble.

Still, it's quite interesting.

He looked at the natural scenery outside the house, the primitive ecology that has not been impregnated by civilization, and then looked at this traditional wedding, which really has a sense of "unity between heaven and man", and felt that it was so harmonious.

The landscape outside is very beautiful and natural, and there is almost no need to add any carvings, just shoot anywhere, it is a very beautiful natural landscape.

If the people here can get rich, then they will not lack anything, and they will not envy the prosperous life of the big cities outside.

Staying here can calm people's minds.

There are a lot of ceremonies in the future, such as making trouble in the kitchen, borrowing pots, all kinds of troubles, probably that the wedding team wants to put wine on the woman's side and invite the woman's people to eat - in the wedding team, there are cooks and a group of people.

But on the woman's side, the bridesmaids or something will definitely not let this go smoothly, you can borrow the kitchen, pots and pans will not be given to you, you have to figure it out yourself.

The way to find a way here, that is, the duet singing of mountain songs, the mountain songs sung by the woman are the fans, and the men sing the fans and sing correctly, so they will "lend" them the same pots and pans.

It's just a fun picture.

This form of wedding is not the same as the vulgar marriage trouble that is popular elsewhere.

After the follow-up incomparably complicated various "pan songs", "grabbing chicken coops" and so on, the team finally succeeded in welcoming the family.

Zhou Heng can be regarded as having tasted a few She wedding banquet dishes - one meal on the woman's side, and another meal on the man's side when he comes back.

Traditional weddings are quite lively.

Lan Jiaxun sat next to Zhou Heng, watched it with relish, and said that when he got married in the future, he would also have this kind of traditional wedding.

He also told Zhou Heng very mysteriously that even if it is a She wedding, each village is different, and the ceremony is different, for example, crying marriage is popular in some places, it is said that the bride will cry for three days, crying until her throat is hoarse, which shows that she is extremely reluctant to her mother's family.

But they obviously don't have it here, so it's different.

And some places are even lighter.,After being sinicized,,There's basically not much left.,Not only can't sing She songs.,I don't know the old traditions of the She people.,I can't even speak She's language.,Only Mandarin.。

In the village he passed, he saw someone asking the old man to teach.

And he also came to the old man to learn She song, wanting to carry it forward and be accepted and sung by more people.

Zhou Heng looked at him full of energy, but asked him curiously: "Your family...... There's a mine, right?"

I feel that the people in Zhejiang Province are very rich, otherwise how can they afford him to wander around like this.

Lan Jiaxun shook his head with a smile: "Our family has no money, we are very poor, and we only have a few shops." But it's a little better than here, my grandmother, I'm over 80 years old, and I've been listening to my grandmother learn She songs since I was a child, so I like this business. ”

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