996. Frustration
"Auntie, I toast you. Li Yan stood up with her cup.
"Oh, sit down, sit down, just a few of us. The old lady hurriedly pressed Li Yan, raised her cup and drank half a cup, and then continued, "I also married him at a loss, I have been grumpy all my life, tiger, Siberian tiger, just a little bit, the king of heaven Lao Tzu can't come, few people can stand it, just him, although he didn't like me at first, but after getting married, I should let me not let it at all."
And try to reason with something from a book, do you think I can be a reasonable person?"
After saying this, not only did she burst into tears and laughed, but several people next to her also laughed.
Li Yan said enviously, "Uncle is so good." ”
"Once, I was so cruel that my nails scratched the flesh on his arms and face, and he didn't move, so he frowned, and then sighed, and said Why do you keep such long nails.
And then what do you say, women and villains are difficult to raise, you say it's fun, it's not fun. The old lady sighed and said, "I sometimes think that when I was young, I didn't know how to restrain myself, so he sighed every day."
If I am a little sensible, I can let him live a good life for a few days.
His life is short, all sins have been suffered, he has never enjoyed happiness, I am better than him, I am old now, and I can live this life now. ”
Tears came out unconsciously.
Li and the brother and sister were stunned, they both knew that the old lady was not good at stubble, but they didn't expect that her temper would be so irritable when she was young.
"Hey, let's drink. He Fang shook her head helplessly, and didn't wipe the old lady's tears, still venting there.
Li Yan slowed down the old lady, and couldn't help but be curious, "Auntie, that sister is still young, you haven't thought about it...."
"Nope. The old lady shook her head firmly, "It's not that I'm in love or something, it's just a human being, and I can't compare."
After his dad left, he was handsome and blind, and I could still pick and choose, but these people, I looked at them, compared with his father, I couldn't look at anyone, I couldn't see anyone with thorns on their bodies, and they didn't like anyone!
I know that I will never meet a man like his father in this life. ”
This time she drank it herself, with the bottom of the cup empty.
"Eat some food, think about something all day long. He Fang sandwiched a piece of fish for the old lady.
This meal, the unprecedented Li He got off the table for the first time, he couldn't afford to pay for it, once the women chattered, it was endless.
He could only hear crying and laughing for a while, and when he was bored, he took the dog up the hill.
It took more than an hour to get from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the mountain, and when he came down in a sweat, the women had just cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks.
Li Lan was picked up by He Fang at the airport in person.
The three-day children's Go tournament ended the double-elimination group stage of the round of 32, and he did not even enter the quarterfinals.
Li He wanted to be happy for a while, but when he saw his son's lost little face, he still held back.
Even He Fang could only rejoice in his heart, and comforted on the surface, "Manly man, let's not cry, it's no big deal if we lose, let's start over and find more of our own shortcomings, okay?"
"Good. Li Lan nodded weakly.
The two of them looked distressed.
Li Lan didn't touch Go for three days, and the two of them cheered, and finally didn't have to go to the chess courtyard.
However, two days later, Liang Henian called and said that he would come to visit.
"Sorry, that's not necessary. Li He directly refused, anyway, the other party didn't know the address of his home, just to save a snack.
Liang Henian said, "Mr. Li, I don't necessarily force your son to continue learning Go, I made this call for the sake of the child." ”
"For the sake of the child?" Li Hele said, "My son doesn't want to learn now, respecting his opinion is for his good." ”
Liang Henian sighed and said, "Mr. Li, I am really good for the child, think about it, the child has suffered a setback this time, if he can't face it positively, will it leave a psychological shadow?"
I guess since you love your son, you don't want him to be an evasive person, do you?
The psychology of children is far more fragile than that of adults. ”
"Come on, then. Li He reported the address.
It's just that what he didn't expect was that Liang Henian would come so quickly, from hanging up the phone to now, it would only take about 40 minutes to get full.
"You may be seated. Li He was not very happy.
"Thank you. Liang Henian didn't care about Li He's attitude, but looked for something in the house.
"My child went to school today. Li He knew that he was looking for Li Lan, "School hasn't been released yet." ”
"I'm sorry, look at my memory. Liang Henian patted his head embarrassedly and continued, "The child is playing abnormally this time, and we are also responsible, and we should strengthen the child's psychological counseling more, so that the child can actively face the battle." ”
Li He waved his hand and said, "It doesn't matter if you win or lose. ”
"It's not important to you, but it's important to kids, and to be honest, he loves Go. Liang Henian said seriously, "He naturally hopes to win, and he needs this sense of achievement." ”
"That's why I'm willing to let you come. Li He has always neglected his son's mental health, and he was happy that Li Lan gave up Go, but now that Liang Henian said a few words, he became worried.
If a child has experienced failure and cannot get out of the frustration, it is not good for the child's development.
"Mr. Li, I think you also want your son to be a strong person, right? Don't you want him to be a half-person, right? If he can't face it positively this time, but adopts an attitude of giving up and choosing to escape, it will not be a good thing for him to cultivate his willpower. Liang Henian avoided talking about Go.
"Then talk to him. Li He sighed, what Liang Henian said was right!
Now it's not a matter of learning or not learning Go.
Although he is worth hundreds of millions, he still hopes to cultivate his son into a person who has faith, goals, and does not escape in the face of difficulties!
He went to Li Lan to get out of school, and Liang Henian followed directly.
Li Lan came out of the school gate and saw that Liang Henian was happy at first, and then lowered his head again, his face gloomy.
"Let's go talk to the pizzeria next door. Li He pointed to a shop at the intersection and watched Liang Henian pull Li Lan in, but he didn't follow.
I ate a bowl of haggis noodles at the door, and after smoking two cigarettes, the two of them came out of it.
He looked at the time, and more than an hour had passed.
"Dad, I'm going to keep learning chess. ”
This was the first thing Li Lan said when he saw Li He.
Holding his head high, he looked at him nervously.
"Okay, dare to be the first, and strive to be the first. "Li He must be encouraged.
Even if a thousand hearts are not happy!