Chapter 72: A Child Who Lost His Father's Love
He Rulan didn't expect that Hu Xiaoqin's children had already gone to school and were still in her own class, since Hu Xiaoqin moved out of the dormitory after she became pregnant, He Rulan never saw her again.
The world is big and big, in the same city, in the same railway area, He Rulan and Hu Xiaoqin have not had any intersection in seven years, in the railway hospital where colleagues gather, in the vegetable market with the most acquaintances, there is not a single encounter in a small area.
The world suddenly became smaller, and it happened that He Rulan began to teach from the first grade again this year, and it happened that Hu Xiaoqin's daughter had just started school this year, and it was so coincidental that she was in He Rulan's class.
Xue Mingming's academic performance is average, neither smart nor stupid, but his personality is well-behaved and sensible, and he is a little timid and afraid, with He Rulan's understanding of Hu Xiaoqin, Hu Xiaoqin seems to be weak, but her heart is strong and flexible, she belongs to the type that never bends, Xue Mingming is timid wherever she goes, is it because of Xue Ziqing?
When studying the psychology of children's education, the teacher once said that in family education, the father plays an indispensable role, and the father is especially important in cultivating the child's character and cultivating the child's ability to think rationally.
In addition, fathers are often the ones with strong hands-on ability in the family, and play an important role in educating children about practical hands-on ability.
In addition, a good family atmosphere and the father's extensive social and interpersonal communication also affect the child's communication ability and cheerful personality everywhere.
"Auntie, please go back and tell Xue Mingming's father, if you have time, you can come to my office to talk, and if it's convenient, I can also visit my home. After the parent-teacher meeting was dispersed, He Rulan specially explained a few words to Xue Mingming's grandmother.
"This ......" the old lady flickered a little, "Obviously, my father is a little busy with work and is often not in the local ......"
"Oh, there's always a time to come back, right? Children are also a more important part of life, can't they spare any time?"
He Rulan was a little puzzled, but she thought of Xue Ziqing and Hu Xiaoqin's reluctance to get married when they got married, presumably they had stumbled over the years, and they were not so wishy-washy.
The old lady promised to take the words back, turned her head and sighed, led Xue Mingming away, looking at the backs of their ancestors and grandchildren, He Rulan fell into deep worry.
A few days later, Xue Ziqing didn't come, Hu Xiaoqin did, and her mother came back with a message to let the parents talk to the teacher, Hu Xiaoqin thought that her daughter's performance in school was not good, so she hurriedly came to school during the break.
"Oh, Sister Hu, I haven't seen her for several years!" He Rulan enthusiastically stood up and took Hu Xiaoqin's hand, asked her to sit down quickly, and poured her a glass of water with a paper cup.
"This winter is extremely cold, Sister Hu hurried to drink some hot water to warm up. ”
"You're welcome, Teacher He! I heard my mother say that Xue Mingming didn't perform well in school, so I was in a hurry, so I hurried over, I didn't expect it to be you who taught Mingming, I really met an acquaintance. ”
I haven't seen Hu Xiaoqin for a few years, Hu Xiaoqin is a lot older, but he is thirty-two or thirteen years old, with a little gray hair flashing in his hair, and his face is extremely haggard and tired.
"Is Sister Hu still working at the telegraph office, is she tired from work?" He Rulan asked critically.
"Well, I'm still working there, working three shifts, I'm used to it, I don't feel tired!" Hu Xiaoqin seemed to know that He Rulan saw through her embarrassment and haggardness, and smiled embarrassedly.
"Originally, I wanted to talk to your partner, but your mother said that he was busy with work and often not in the local area, so wouldn't it be very hard for you to take care of the children alone, Sister Hu?"
"I don't feel when I'm used to it, sometimes I work the night shift, and my mother helps me carry it. Hu Xiaoqin was still faint and didn't mention much about herself.
"Well, I want to communicate with you this time, Xue Mingming, this kid is very well-behaved and obedient, but he is a little timid and afraid, and he rarely communicates with his classmates when he gets out of class, and he always sits alone in the corner, not too gregarious. ”
He Rulan glanced at Hu Xiaoqin when she said this, only to see her lowering her eyelids, not saying a word, and looking light.
He Rulan paused for a moment and then said: "Do you see if you can encourage her more at home, if her father comes back, let the child communicate with her father more, which can improve her self-confidence, I will also strive to ask her more questions at school, let her participate in group activities more, and see if it can have a positive impact on her!"
"Then thank you Teacher He! Girls! I'm always timid and scared, so it's good to be older. Hu Xiaoqin said lightly.
He Rulan reluctantly sent Hu Xiaoqin away, it was obvious that she was very defensive and did not mention the child's father at all, it seemed that things were a little complicated.
On the weekend, He Rulan and Zhuge Huaizhi went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables together, Zhuge Huaizhi raised his son high above his head and sat on his shoulder, and the little guy shouted happily, "Drive!"
"Look at what you're used to! You have used his father as a horse to ride!" He Rulan glanced at Zhuge Huaizhi with disgust, "You have to get used to it! Boys! Be bolder, aren't you Haoran?" Zhuge Huaizhi looked doting.
"Dad, I'm going to sit high!, drive!" Haoran, who was more than two years old, shouted excitedly, sitting on such a high place, not afraid at all.
"Xiaohe!" He Rulan looked back and saw that it was Ding Jianrong.
"Sister Ding is also here to buy vegetables?" He Rulan greeted warmly, occasionally met Ding Jianrong in the vegetable market, He Rulan was short of time, often said hello and left in a hurry, today is the weekend, He Rulan wants to say a few more words to Ding Jianrong.
"Lao Zhu, you take Haoran well, go over there to buy some brisket first, then buy some potatoes, stew brisket at noon, Haoran loves to eat it the most!" He Rulan arranged work for Zhuge Huaizhi.
"Okay, let's go, son, let's be free!" Zhuge Huaizhi smiled and humped his son to the side of the beef and mutton.
"Put him down, don't fall!" He Rulan shouted behind them uneasily.
"Tut-tut! Look at your uneasy look!Hurry up and follow!" Ding Jianrong couldn't help but laugh at He Rulan.
"Men are careless, but they can't say a few more words!" He Rulan smiled embarrassedly.
"You have a really good temper, in fact, I knew him before, we had a group meeting together, at that time I was still a little kid in my impression, laughing gently and gently, I didn't expect the two of you to become a family, haha! The little fart boy of the year has become a handsome guy, and he has become a father!"
Ding Jianrong couldn't help but sigh that time had flown by, He Rulan suddenly remembered Hu Xiaoqin, and asked Ding Jianrong if he knew about her family.
"Hu Xiaoqin! Hey, don't mention it, she's getting a divorce!"
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Chapter 72: A Child Who Lost His Father's Love