Chapter 110: Life-changing Decision (2)
Lucy paused for a moment, then said, "Second, a relatively certain choice.
In a few cases, when making a choice, we can make a relatively clear judgment and distinction in advance about the degree of influence and its rank, because we know that it will have a significant impact on ourselves, or on others, on society, or even on the world.
Normally, what can be defined as a 'relatively certain decision' is at least a Major Decision.
We can give some examples, most of all the major choices in your life belong to 'relatively certain choices', such as which school and what major to apply for in the college entrance examination, which city to choose to work and live in, which industry and which company to work in, etc. ”
Xu Xincheng nodded and said, "Understood."
He decided to study and live in Guangzhou that year, filled in the college entrance examination and reported to Guangwai, and decided to apply for Hongfei AI Division at the end of his junior year.
After listening to Lucy's explanation, he suddenly had a sense of understanding in his heart, it turned out that the choices we make every day, and so many choices we make every day, can be distinguished in this way.
Lucy continued: "These 'relatively certain choices' can be further distinguished and can be roughly defined and differentiated according to their main sphere of influence.
According to their main scope of influence, we can divide these major decisions into the following types: Career-changing Decision, Daily-life-changing Decision, School-life-changing Decision, Love-life-changing Decision, Family-life-changing Decision, etc.
I'm sorry! I can only distinguish these choices with English phrases, because in Chinese, there is really no phrase that directly corresponds to them and can express exactly the same meaning.
Let me be clear about the meaning of these five phrases.
First, career-changing decision refers to a major decision that can completely change a person's career, such as whether to choose to work in a new industry, whether to choose to accept an invitation from another company to change jobs, etc.
Second, Daily-life-changing Decision refers to a decision that can completely change a person's daily life, such as whether to move, where to move, whether to buy a house, where to buy a house, etc.
Third, School-life-changing Decision refers to a decision that can completely change a person's learning career, such as whether to choose to go to graduate school, whether to choose to study abroad, etc.
Fourth, Love-life-changing Decision refers to a decision that can completely change a person's love life, such as whether to choose to accept a suitor, whether to choose to give up a relationship, etc.
Fifth, Family-life-changing Decision refers to a decision that can completely change a person's family life, such as whether to choose to have a pet, whether to choose to take their parents over to live with them, etc.
The scope of these five choices is largely unilateral. Of course, all choices have a greater or lesser impact on the rest of everyone, and I mean, the main area of influence, in the beginning, is focused on one side.
When I invited you to be the assistant to the chairman, I told you that it was a big decision, a career-changing decision, remember?"
"Yes. Xu Xincheng said softly, he thought to himself, "That choice has indeed completely changed my career." ”
Lucy continued, "Finally, there's the Maximum Decision. This kind of decision, we can call it Life-changing Decision, it refers to the decision that can change the whole life, it will have a huge impact on a person's daily life, work, family and other aspects at the same time.
In addition, there are other English phrases, such as Game-changing Decision, World-changing Decision, etc.
Game-changing decision refers to a decision that is enough to completely change the trend or situation, and its impact is huge, it is subversive, usually refers to a decision that has an extremely huge impact on a game, an event, a company, an industry, etc.
World-changing decision is a decision that can completely change the world. However, these two options are beyond the scope of our discussion today and will be discussed later.
Excuse me, do you understand the explanation of the choice?"
Regarding the choice, Xu Xincheng has also thought about it before, in fact, this is a matter that everyone will think about and need to think about, but he has never really thought about it so carefully before, let alone distinguished it so carefully.
Impressed by the thoroughness of Lucy's thinking and the rigor of his elaboration, he nodded and said, "Understood." ”
"Alright, that's it. Steve, the decision you need to make now is a Maximum Decision, a Life-changing Decision, a decision that will completely change your entire life, and it will have a tremendous impact on you.
Again, if you choose the latter, what you hear will be true answers, some truths about the future, and these real answers and future truths will be completely beyond your imagination, they will completely change your life, and they will add a lot of pressure to you, so please think carefully.
"Ahh
At this moment, his head was numb and swollen, his breathing became rapid, his hands and body even began to tremble slightly, his heart was pounding, and his heart was turbulent: "Oh my God! What kind of answer and truth will it be?"
Lucy asked, "Excuse me, what is your choice?"