Chapter 560 [The Least Thing to Deceive Is the Child]
At night.
At the request of the children, Yeguang and Liu Chiyan took her to watch a movie.
I don't know which child in the school heard the little girl say, saying that there is a cartoon that is particularly good, so she clamored to watch it.
Cartoon or something, to be honest, glow-in-the-dark without love.
No, to be precise, it should be a cartoon of this world, glow-in-the-dark without love.
The production level of cartoons in this world, I don't know why, still stay in the positioning of children's watching films, and most of the cartoons made are shoddy cartoon animations, which are not much to watch.
It's not that it can't be reached technically, it's just that including at home and abroad, the concept doesn't seem to have changed, and no one is focusing on the development of animation in the field.
Otherwise, with the current special effects technology of foreign Hollywood, if it is applied to animation, plus a good story and production, it can still make excellent cartoons.
Yiyi is smarter and more mature than children of the same age, usually, in fact, she doesn't watch many cartoons, when she is at home, she also follows the night light and Liu Chiyan to watch TV series most of the night, or variety shows, and rarely watches cartoons by herself.
To sum up, it can also be said that Yiyi actually doesn't have much interest in cartoons.
The cartoon I took Yiyi to watch tonight.,I won't mention the name.,In short,It's boring.,Not to mention the glow-in-the-dark and willow pond smoke.,Even Yiyi looks boring.。
After drinking a bucket of popcorn and a juice drink, Yiyi fell asleep leaning on the glow-in-the-dark in a daze.
The luminous light and the willow pond smoke couldn't help this boring time, and the three of them slept sweetly next to each other.
This is also a strange thing, a family of three went out to watch a movie, and they all fell asleep.
At the end of the show, the movement from the audience woke up Yeguang and Liuchi Yan, and Yiyi also woke up, still lying in Yeguang's arms with sleepy eyes.
"Let's go, let's go back. ”
Yeguang got up with Yiyi in his arms, and Liu Chiyan took a piece of clothing and covered it with Yiyi.
Out of the theater, Yiyi muttered in the night light arms, "I won't believe in Xiuxiu anymore." ”
Xiuxiu is Yiyi's tablemate, a very cute girl, I can often see her when I go to pick up Yiyi in the nightlight, probably, it is because she and Yiyi told this cartoon that it is good, so Yiyi will want to take a look.
Yeguang smiled and said, "You can't think like that, Xiuxiu is your friend, you still have to trust your friends, you don't like watching this cartoon, but maybe Xiuxiu likes this cartoon?
Yiyi blinked and thought about it.
Nightglow continued, "You can't hold others to your own standards, you know?"
Yiyi nodded, "Oh, then I just don't believe him in the future, it's good to say good-looking cartoons." ”
"If you like it, I'll make a cartoon you like to show you when you're not so busy after a while." ”
Liu Chiyan chuckled on the side, just thinking that this was the night light playing with Yiyi.
Yiyi looked at the glow-in-the-dark and said, "I don't have a favorite cartoon." ”
Luminous, "Nonsense, don't you like Journey to the West? Do you like Monkey King? I'll make Journey to the West a cartoon for you to see." ”
Yiyi's eyes lit up, "Really?"
Luminous, "Of course it's true, when did I lie to you?"
"Yay!" Yiyi scurried in the night light, "I want to see the Great Sage, I want to see Sun Wukong." ”
Liu Chiyan looked at the night light, "Are you serious?"
Luminous, "Ang, what else?"
Liu Chiyan, "I thought you were just ......" Liu Chiyan didn't finish his words, but he already understood what he meant by the glow.
Yeguang smiled, looked at Liu Chiyan, and said, "I don't know what other parents' education methods and coaxing children are, but I think that as a parent, the most important thing to deceive is the child, and the least can be dishonest to your own child." ”
Many of our parents always like to coax their children to say some promises that cannot be kept, or it can be said to be deception.
For example, even if you are taking your child to the hospital for injections, you have to tell your child to take him to an amusement park.
Obviously, I told my children that as long as you obediently finish eating, I will take you to play on the weekend, but what? Can you really fulfill what you say?
Many parents can't!
Then when the children who have already kept in mind what their parents promised to promise, because of the promises that have not been fulfilled, all kinds of troubles, the parents feel that the children are not well-behaved, and they make a fuss, and then they start to punish and scold.
In fact, is it really the child who is not well-behaved?
The world of children is relatively simple.
At the stage where their worldview is being established, they are not able to think rationally like adults, and cannot distinguish which of the things their parents say to them is true and which is false.
They can only remember that you promised me, or that you deceived me.
And once parents deceive and distrust their children become the norm, and children begin to distrust their parents psychologically, then the impact on the physical and mental growth of children will be immeasurable.
Comparing your heart to your heart, aren't you, as an adult, also hate being deceived the most?
Liu Chiyan was stunned, then nodded and smiled, "You're right." ”
The cinema is not far from home, and the luminous and willow pond smoke did not drive over.
Holding Yiyi, the night light and the willow pond smoke slowly walked back.
It was already quite late, and on the way back, Yiyi lay on the night glow, dazed and fell asleep again.
When he got home, Yeguang gently put Yiyi on the bed and covered him with a quilt.
After washing, the luminous light and the willow pond smoke are also ready to rest.
Lying on the bed, Liu Chiyan pillowed Yeguang's arm, hugged Yeguang's neck, exhaled like an orchid, and said softly, "Husband, happy birthday." ”
Yeguang stroked Liu Chiyan's hair and said with a smile, "No sincerity, I celebrated my birthday with Yiyi, why did Yiyi have a gift, and I would say happy birthday." ”
Liu Chiyan looked at Liu Chiyan and said softly, "I have given you everything I have......"
Luminous Wan'er, he was just joking before, went to Liu Chiyan's head and kissed it, Luminous hugged Liu Chiyan, and said softly, "I know, thank you." ”
Liu Chiyan, "It's good to know, so if you always have to be good to me, I will always be good to you." ”
Glow-in-the-dark, "Why are you more than me all the time?"
"Because I love you a little more than you love me." ”
The night light smiled freely, and Liu Chiyan occasionally talked to him about love, which always made him sweet to the bone.
"Not necessarily, maybe I love you more than you love me?"
"No way, I must love you a little more. Liu Chiyan insisted.
"Hmph, you didn't even prepare a birthday present for me. Luminous laughed and joked again.
Liu Chiyan didn't continue to argue with him, but raised his head slightly, looked at the night light with a hot face, bit his lip, and said softly, "Actually... I've got a gift for you..."