Chapter 33: A Clear Place

It's finally time to get off work. Wen Qingshui hurriedly packed up his things and went to the appointment of the sisters.

This afternoon, the news of the sister group has not stopped. Ding Ling and Zhang Haoxue took turns bombing! The sisters, who have always been gentle and ridiculous, experienced a storm.

Wen Qingshui arrived at the appointed private room. Ding Ling's crying pear blossoms brought rain, and Zhang Haoxue was full of sadness. Originally, one was going to get married, and the other was in love, and they should be the happiest two people, but they were both in chaos at the same time.

"Tell me, how can there be such a family like him, I got married and bought a wedding quilt, and the let me buy a single one. I chose a curtain, and my mother said that this color doesn't work, that style doesn't work. ”

Ding Ling couldn't bear it at first, she only talked about the bitterness in her stomach in the WeChat group, how could she relieve the resentment that was blocked in her heart.

"I'm desperate. The most infuriating thing is Li Zhenyuan, he didn't say anything, he completely stood on his mother's side, and told me that it was not easy to fuck, let me understand, don't worry about it! Why should I be careful? My life, my days, my supplies, and I can't make my own decisions? Why should my life be controlled by others? I can completely respect her opinion when it comes to fucking things, and even what I need to do, I can also do my duty, and contribute money and efforts. But that's my business, why can't I do what I want? I have to be happy so that I can be sensible? Why?"

"All the while, I convinced myself that because I liked him, I had to accept his life, his family. But why didn't he think about it for me? Sometimes I can figure it out, after all, it's his mother, these are all small things, what can I do with him? But sometimes I feel like I really don't know what I'm doing? Why do I have to torture myself in this relationship?"

Ding Ling cried. It seems that she has also been suppressed for too long.

But Wen Qingshui's heart was pounding, how similar this was to his mentality when he got married!

"There's something even more devastating!" Ding Ling rubbed her face up and down a few times with her hands, finally easing her emotions. "Every time Li Zhenyuan goes to my house, my mother has to give him up! But when I go to his house, I have to listen to him and fuck me for everything. I don't feel like I have any status at all. I felt uncomfortable, and he didn't know how to comfort me. Even if he coaxes me behind his back, is it okay?"

"When it comes to marriage, my mother thinks about their family everywhere and listens to his family for everything. Even if you are not satisfied, you don't say anything, not only do you not want the bride price, but you also take money to decorate the house! But do you know what the said?"

"My mother actually asked Li Zhenyuan, am I not valued at home? Otherwise, my family can do anything, and I don't have any opinions! If I am valued, will my family be able to buy a house for the two of us! After all, my family is rich! You say, is this like a word?"

"Isn't my mother afraid that my family will be too strong and will marry too much, and Li Zhenyuan will not be able to come to the stage? My mother also said that if I give me a sum of money, I will be the private money of the two of us! From the beginning to the end, my family does not say anything, does not pick on reason, and does not pick on trouble, isn't this a good thing? How did it turn out that I have no status in the family?"

Wen Qingshui was stunned, and his heart felt like he had been hit by 10,000 critical hits. Hold back as much as you can.

"Qingshui, why don't you speak?"

Zhang Haoxue was the first to discover Wen Qingshui's abnormality. Her voice attracted everyone to look at her, and it also somewhat recalled some of Wen Qingshui's senses. There was a tense atmosphere in the room. Wen Qingshui looked at the crying and stunned Ding Ling in a daze.

"Even so, now that you are separated from him and not married, are you willing?" Wen Qingshui muttered expressionlessly.

"I'm ——, like this, how can I not get married?"

"If now, several of our sisters here urge you to let go and leave him, will you agree?"

"I-"

Ding Ling's face was full of shock and she didn't know what to do!

Wen Qingshui was surprisingly calm now, and then said, "Your answer is definitely no. Why? Because you love him a little more. It is said that the person who loves more becomes humble in love! In fact, it is not, it is because the person who loves more is more willing to tolerate and be more tolerant. Because I love him, because I love him a lot, I don't want to give up, so I am willing to convince myself over and over again, so I don't want to follow the advice of others. Even if you know that the suggestion is more reasonable. I kept trying, until I couldn't convince myself to tolerate it anymore, until I hit my head and broke my blood. There is no way forward, and we have to turn back. ”

"Ding Ling, unless you can always convince yourself to be tolerant and tolerant. Or Li Zhenyuan is willing to change for you. But you have known each other for so long, and you know best whether he has changed or not. Not now, and it will be difficult to have one in the future. If you can't put yourself in the right place, it will be even more difficult in the future. If you don't let go now, I am now you in the future. ”

Ding Ling was stunned.

"I've felt all of this, I've felt before. I'm also the one with a broken head and no way out. ”

Ning Qinglan looked at Wen Qingshui, she seemed extremely calm now, and her words were cruel, but she hit the nail on the head.

"Indeed, Qing Shui is right. Ding Ling, if you feel very wronged now, you should really think about it, do you want to continue walking!"

Zhang Haoxue saw that Ding Ling's matter was already deadlocked, and she couldn't figure out why, so she answered.

"What about me, then? I'll quarrel with him now. You also know what happened at the bar last time, what's the point of you talking about that fancy drink? He doesn't know how much he has done? When we go out, he has to spend more than 100 yuan on the matter that others settle for ten dollars. I persuaded him, but he told me not to care! He can't spend money indiscriminately, and money doesn't come from the wind. ”

"Family, culture, background, and interpersonal interactions are all important factors that affect the marriage of two people. If two people are not equal, one person must compromise. But the man who compromised violated his habits of life for more than 20 years. Many things and concepts have been engraved in their bones. This compromise can't be heartfelt, so how long can it last?"

Everyone was stunned, today's Wen Qingshui is simply a philosopher.

"The two of you are blindly compromising, and the other wants to change the other. It's impossible!"

Wen Qingshui said calmly, but her heart has been unbalanced, and she has been taking deep breaths to relieve her negative emotions. Good sister has something, she can't collapse first.

"Haoxue, he spent 100 yuan on ten yuan, you think the money is lost. He didn't think so, he felt that it was good to solve one thing quickly, it was worth it, and he shouldn't care about the cost. Besides, this hundred yuan, for him, is equivalent to one of ours or even less, and he doesn't care at all. Speaking of which, your concerns are fundamentally different. Why are the concerns different? Because you are not people of the same world at all, you just have differences in your bones, or huge differences. ”

"After listening to you, I'm even more depressed!" Zhang Haoxue shouted, venting her dissatisfaction in her heart!

"Then let's not talk about it, emotional matters are very complicated! It's better to let it go first, let's eat something delicious!" Ning Qinglan stood up, hoping to ease everyone's mood.

"I'm not saying this because I'm not saying this because I've accumulated a lot of negative emotions in my failed marriage, I hope you can all think about it and don't make decisions blindly! ”

After speaking, Wen Qingshui stood up, regardless of everyone's retention, he also refused the escort, and walked out alone. Leave her friends worried and worried. She also felt sorry for her friends, but her head was buzzing at the moment. It's as if you've been struck by lightning. Insisting on staying will only make everyone more worried.