When they got out of the car to deal with the crash before, Yiyi and Liu Chiyan didn't get down, but they also saw it in the car.

When Yeguang returned to the car and drove home again, Yiyi looked at Yeguang and asked, "Yeguang, why do you have to make him lose money?"

Yeguang glanced at Yiyi in the rearview mirror and said, "You want to ask why I didn't let him lose money from that brother before, but this person made him have to lose money, right?"

Yiyi nodded.

Yeguang thought for a moment and said, "Although I don't want to teach you like this, Yiyi, I must tell you that there is a difference between people and people, and not all people are worthy of our kindness. ”

Yiyi tilted her head sideways and thought for a while, and said, "But, didn't you teach me to be kind to everyone and the world?"

Nightlight suddenly didn't know how to answer Yiyi's words.

This matter, probably no adult would ask this kind of question, it is like black and white, clear and thorough, and there is no need to say more.

But Yiyi is different, she is still a child, and she is now at the age when her own worldview is cultivated, and she has no way to see and think about problems like an adult.

Yeguang thought for a while, and then said, "It's right to be kind and treat everyone kindly, but if you treat a person kindly, but he doesn't treat you kindly, then you don't need to be kind to him, kindness doesn't mean that we can let others bully, being kind to others is different from being bullied by others." ”

"For example, the little brother in front of the hot pot restaurant, he hit our car, but I don't want him to lose money, this is kindness. ”

"And the guy just now, he also hit my car, but he wanted me not to let him lose money, this is bullying. ”

"It's actually very simple, it's up to you to decide what you want to be. ”

"And bullying is what he wants you to do. ”

"You want to think with him, that's the difference. ”

After the night light finished speaking, he glanced at Yiyi through the rearview mirror.

Yiyi thought about it again, nodded as if she didn't understand, and then said, "It's like I have a bag of snacks, and I share them with other children to eat, which is kindness, but when I haven't distributed them to eat, they come over to grab it, this is bullying, right?"

"Uh," Nightglow smiled, "almost." ”

There is nothing wrong with Yiyi's metaphor.

Liu Chiyan leaned against the car window, listening to the two discussing the topic of kindness, without interjecting, just smiling all the time, looking at Yeguang and Yiyi.

To be honest, Liu Chiyan has always felt that although Yeguang and Yiyi are not related by blood, Yeguang has done a good job in the role of his father.

He dotes on Yiyi, but he never indulges Yiyi, and teaches Yiyi very well.

The two have been married for more than two years, and Yiyi has also lived with them for more than two years, Liu Chiyan asked herself, in the past two years, she has taken good care of Yiyi's daily life, but in terms of teaching Yiyi, she has not done too much, far less than the night light.

For a long time, it has been the night light that is imperceptibly, following the good and inducing, and educating Yiyi.

Yiyi is such an older child, except that she can eat too much and has an obsession with eating, there is almost no other problem, of course, it is not a problem to be able to eat.

Liu Chiyan still remembers that Yiyi didn't know what it was like before the night light.

At that time, Yiyi, withdrawn, even a little inferior, always noisy, although she was also very kind, but except for her appearance, she didn't feel too much innocence that a child of her age should have.

At that time, Yiyi was very strong, but she was not happy.

However, after Yiyi and the luminous light were in contact for a long time, Liu Chiyan found that everything was different.

She could feel that Yiyi's originally cloudy heart was becoming clearer and clearer, becoming like now, sunny and warm, blue as blue, and cloudless.

Yiyi can be so innocent and cute now, kind and sensible, I have to say that the glow has a lot of credit.

In fact, there are very few nightlights, or never, when I was at home, I directly taught Yiyi, told her what was right and what was wrong, and told her what should be done and what should not be done.

If he wants to teach Yiyi something, or a certain truth, there will always be a certain thing, or a certain opportunity, as an introduction.

For example, Yeguang and Liu Chiyan once took Yiyi to go shopping, and at an intersection, because there were no vehicles coming and going, a large group of people were in a row, running a red light, and crossing the road.

Yiyi dragged Yeguang and Liuchiyan and wanted to walk with the crowd, but Yeguang stopped her, and when almost everyone crossed the road with the crowd running the red light, Yeguang and Liuchiyan led Yiyi and stubbornly waited for the red light for more than half a minute.

And afterwards, Luminous educates Yiyi and tells him that no matter what others do, you need to follow the rules and obey the traffic rules.

In fact, if it is placed in normal times, when Yiyi is not around, the night light asks himself, he may not wait for the red light alone, and it is very likely that he will also be one of the people who cross the road with the crowd running the red light.

But if Yiyi was by his side, Yeguang would never be such a bad example, because he knew very well how his words and deeds would affect Yiyi.

Parents are the best teachers for their children.

Leading by example is that Yeguang puts herself in the role of Yiyi's father, and feels that she should do what she should do, fulfill her responsibilities as a father.

In addition, in daily life, Luminous will also seize some opportunities to give some positive and positive guidance to Yiyi.

For example, once, when I was also out shopping, while waiting for the traffic light, there was a mother with a boy about the same age as Yiyi standing beside the Yeguang family.

Under the scorching sun, there was a sanitation worker on the other side of the road sweating and cleaning up the garbage.

The mother accused the sanitation worker of saying to her child, "If you don't study hard, you will end up with the same results as him." ”

Yiyi also heard this at that time, and turned her head to look at the mother.

Yeguang touched Yiyi's hair at that time, and then pointed to the sanitation worker as well, and said to Yiyi, "If you study hard, you will be able to create a better world for him." ”

The glow wasn't loud at the time, but it was enough for the mother and her baby to hear it.

The little boy also turned his head to look at the glow-in-the-dark, and then at his mother.

The mother also turned her head to look at the night light, her brows furrowed slightly, and then she also touched her child's head and said, "Listen to uncle." ”

The little boy smiled and nodded, "Hmm." ”

Sometimes, proper guidance is extremely important for children.

In fact, the core of the two is the same, both of which are to educate children to study hard.

However, the former may allow children to grow up to be out of the grassroots and get ahead.

The latter can benefit society and change the world!