Chapter 52: Erikson's Theory
Ye Zhiqiu is planning his next development path in the entertainment industry.
Mikar is also fighting for her future happiness.
In the room, Mikar stared at Chu Kaiyang with a pair of big eyes, pitifully.
Holding his mouth~
On the big bed, he looked up at Chu Kaiyang pitifully.
He said in a complaining tone.
"Sister Kaiyang, can you give me Qiuzai~"
"Mikar is really pathetic. ”
"Look at you~"
"People are beautiful, have good personalities, have a kind heart, and have money in the family!
"It's like a born winner in life~"
"You are so good, what reason do you have to rob men with others!"
Chu Kaiyang looked at Mikaer, very speechless.
This girl has been pestering herself for more than ten minutes, and she says a set of things, and she doesn't have any duplicates.
The eloquence is so good that I don't know what I do.
The most important thing is that Chu Kaiyang looked at Mikaer's pitiful appearance and found that he couldn't get angry.
Listening to her tone, I was inexplicably a little secretly happy in my heart.
Even if you know it's a sycophant~
But my heart is still happy!
Chu Kaiyang took out the mobile phone given by the program team and began to edit the text message.
Glaring at Mikar, he said.
"Don't give me this set~"
Mikar's expression instantly closed, her mouth pursed, and she said to herself, "Sure enough...... I knew you were going to send it to Qiu Tsai too!"
"But Qiu Tsai is mine~"
"Don't think about it!"
Chu Kaiyang "......"
Look at Mikael's tone, that expression~
It's just ~
Suddenly~
Mikar's expression softened again, and she looked at Chu Kaiyang flatteringly, and continued.
"Look~"
"Actually, that Ning Haiyi is not bad!"
"Young and golden, handsome!"
"I heard that he is still the president of the company, and he is young and promising~"
"Than Ye Zhiqiu's person~"
"The company is a start-up, and it has no achievements, it can only be regarded as a potential stock, and it is not comparable to Ning Haiyi at all!"
Chu Kaiyang was amused, and interjected, "You are so optimistic about Master Ning, it's better ~"
"You choose him!"
Mikar complained, and hurriedly 'bah', 'bah' and 'bah' a few times in her mouth.
"I just want my autumn boy~"
"Don't slander me~"
……
Another room on the third floor.
Yang Chengmiao looked curiously at Ning Haiyi, who was sitting on the sofa, and asked.
"Brother Haiyi, who is your favorite female guest?"
The SMS prompt of 'Ding Dong' in Ning Haiyi's hand has just been issued~
glanced at Yang Chengmiao lightly, and the expression on his face was obviously a little disdainful.
Sleeping at night, there is no camera installed in the room, his attitude is a little more relaxed, but a little domineering.
Throw your phone on the table at will~
didn't answer Yang Chengmiao's question, but thoughtfully stared at Yang Chengmiao with deep meaning.
After a few minutes, he just watched like that, without saying anything or doing anything else.
Yang Chengmiao was looked a little unnatural, and got up from the bed to go to the toilet.
Suddenly, Ning Haiyi behind him suddenly said.
"You're an actor arranged by the program team, right?"
Although the sentence was a question sentence, it came out of his mouth inexplicably indifferent.
It seems that Yang Chengmiao is calm~
The same!
Seeing that Yang Chengmiao was not ready to pay attention to him, he continued to walk in the direction of the bathroom.
Ning Haiyi continued, regardless of whether Yang Chengmiao was listening or not.
"Any idea how I found you?"
"You're too proactive, your personality sounds like a 'warm man', but in essence you're just afraid of offending us!"
"If you don't speak, I'll take you by default!"
"A psychologist once said that the development of personality runs through the life of an individual, and the whole development process can be divided into eight stages~"
"From zero to one year old, in infancy, the developmental task is to gain a sense of trust, overcome mistrust, and experience the fulfillment of hope. ”
"From one and a half years old to three years old, early childhood, the developmental task is to gain a sense of autonomy, to overcome shyness and doubt, and to experience the fulfillment of the will. ”
"Between the ages of three and six, preschool years, the developmental task is to gain a sense of initiative, overcome guilt, and experience the fulfillment of purpose. ”
The small rice balls brought by Lin Chunxiang were in this period, and their behavior was purposeful, and they actively hoped to attract the attention of others. ”
Ning Haiyi slowed down, and continued, as if he didn't care about everything, but he was sure of everything and knew everything.
"The next stage is the school age, six to twelve years old, and the development task is to gain a sense of diligence, overcome an inferiority complex, and experience the realization of abilities. ”
"To be honest, you have conceded many times in the villa~"
"Others see you as polite and say that you are a very 'warm' person, but in my opinion, this is a manifestation of your low self-esteem, and you have not even completed your school-age tasks until now. ”
"Don't be in a hurry to deny it~"
"After school age, it's youth!"
"The task at this stage is to develop and establish identity and prevent character confusion!"
"Before the show starts, the character set up by the director team should be a 'warm man', so that you will not offend others in the show. ”
"But today in the villa, you should have deliberately concealed your true character, many behaviors, and reactions in the face of others~"
"In my opinion, they are all contradictory. ”
"You actually don't like me, and you don't like Ye Zhiqiu, but you just have a warm smile on your face. Every time he faced us, he was very polite, but in fact, he had already scolded the two of us in his heart. ”
Yang Chengmiao turned his head and looked at Ning Haiyi, without sadness or joy, and without showing cowardice.
Ning Haiyi was slightly stunned, a little surprised.
However, it is very uncomfortable to stop suddenly halfway through the fork.
I had to bite the bullet and continue.
But he didn't want Yang Chengmiao to look directly at him, and he didn't dodge at all.
Ning Haiyi originally wanted to continue to 'stimulate' him, but when he looked at him, he slowly stopped his mouth and swallowed what he was going to say.
Yang Chengmiao smiled slightly, still very polite.
Say.
"The psychologist you're talking about is Erikson!"
"I also studied his writings when I was studying abroad. ”
However, his theory of personality development can only be said to be suitable for the general situation, but not for the individual. ”
"After adolescence, there is early adulthood, middle adulthood, late adulthood. ”
"In early adulthood, gain intimacy, avoid loneliness, and experience the realization of love~"
"To put it simply, it encourages us to fall in love, in fact, men between the ages of eighteen and thirty are basically doing these things, so I always thought his doctrine was bullshit~"
Ning Haiyi frowned, although Yang Chengmiao was smiling politely, his smile was more impressive than angry......
Well~
Powerful......
Yang Chengmiao looked at him and continued.
However, although I feel that his theory has no practical significance, I have to say that he has summarized it quite comprehensively. ”
"Between the ages of thirty and sixty, middle adulthood, acquire a sense of reproduction, avoid a sense of stagnation, and desire the fulfillment of care. ”
"Uncle Kaishan and Sister Chunxiang, according to their age, they should be in the middle of adulthood now!"
"Finally, late adulthood!"
"After the age of 60, the elderly desire to gain a sense of perfection, avoid disappointment and boredom, and like to explore life and explore the realization of wisdom"
"If I remember correctly~"
"These are the eight stages of personality development that you are going to tell me about!"
Ning Haiyi was looked at by him, and suddenly felt that his previous guess was wrong.
Can......
Think about Ye Zhiqiu~
Think about Xu Kaishan~
There are a total of four male guests, Ye Zhiqiu and Xu Kaishan don't look like people who can be actors!
Surely he is not an actor himself??
That's a little weird!
……