Military hospital.

The medical equipment here is the top equipment in the country, and each doctor is definitely among the best in the country.

At about three o'clock in the afternoon, after putting Su Yun in the house, Su Yun and Wang Xiaoqiang went back to the hospital and found a psychiatrist.

"You say, one of your friends, in less than a few hours, suddenly had a huge change in personality?"

In front of Su Yun, a middle-aged doctor with a fat face looked at Su Yun and asked with an incredulous expression.

"That's right. Su Yun nodded and replied.

"Hmm......" The fat doctor frowned, as if thinking about something. After a long time, he spoke: "Let me tell you this, a person's character, in the process of changing, is actually only two things, deconstruction and reconstruction. ”

"Deconstruction...... Rebuild ......," Su Yun said softly.

The fat doctor nodded and continued:

"Deconstruction, that is, deconstructing the inherent cognition, reconstruction, that is, new beliefs, you need to take the cognitive beliefs you hold now, and form new cognitive beliefs through various ways and methods. And this requires three steps: submission – identification – internalization. ”

"Submissive...... Identity...... Internalize ......" Su Yun looked at the fat doctor and muttered softly.

"That's right, obedience, if you give an example...... For example, when people say that you are not doing well, and you recognize that you have such a problem, but in order to behave normally, you will follow some suggestions from others. For example, things should be done faster and more efficiently.

But in reality, would you really do it willingly? Do you have your own work steps, are you really willing to let others dictate you? So at this point, you may use some stealth attacks to show your dissatisfaction, such as procrastination, temper tantrums, and so on. ”

"But it's not ......"

"Yes, it's not real, visceral obedience. ”

Su Yun was just about to speak, but was interrupted by the fat doctor, who continued:

"Most people, in fact, can't even be obedient, because when you are familiar with your own style of doing things and have your own living habits, you are very reluctant to be destroyed by others. Therefore, even if you are unwilling to change your own style of doing things, how easy is it to change a person's most essential character?

And that's just the first phase of change. ”

Su Yun frowned, carefully pondered what the fat doctor said, and nodded from time to time, as if he felt that it made sense.

Seeing him nodding, the corners of his mouth lifted slightly, and the fat doctor continued:

"Although it is difficult to be obedient, there are still some people who have been trained, such as social tempering and increasing life experience, and can also take this step and enter the second stage - identity. ”

"Agree, that is, you seem to have inspired you with this truth, you agree with this truth, and you have the determination to practice it. But it's still on the conscious level, on your subconscious level, in your huge implicit system, and you still haven't accepted this new belief, so you're going to have a lot of difficulties in your practice, and you're going to be constantly suffering and blaming yourself in your ego and your ego. ”

"To take a very simple example, most children are addicted to playing games nowadays, and teachers, parents, are all crying out: don't play games, don't play games, this will ruin your future!

Do you think kids today don't know that? They don't agree? No, they do, and they're determined to do it, and they want to quit gaming. But these children's subconscious minds did not accept this new belief.

They subconsciously think, I'm just playing a game for a while, how can I get into the future? So, it's very difficult for them to quit the game in practice, and they're constantly suffering and blaming themselves in the ego and in the ego.

This is identity. ”

After listening to this example, Su Yun could understand it very well.

He also remembered that in his world, games were prevalent, especially among teenagers, what alliances, glory, chicken, etc......

These games are so prevalent among teenagers that many minors drop out of school before they even finish their studies. Don't they know the dangers of the game? They do. Didn't anyone warn them? Yes, but they couldn't easily agree. They can't change themselves easily.

The fat doctor picked up the thermos cup on the table, took a sip of hot tea, moistened his throat, and continued:

"The third is internalization. A new cognitive belief must reach the stage of internalization, so that your entire inner system can be changed, and you can truly practice it from the heart.

Why is it so difficult for us to change? Because a lot of people are stuck in the second stage of identification. The change of the cognitive belief system is a very long time, and if you do not adhere to it in practice, it will cause the change to lose its effect.

You said that your friend had a sudden change of personality in just a few hours, and I don't think that's possible. ”

Hearing this, Su Yun raised his head for the first time and looked at the doctor with a surprised expression.

"Every time we grow, it's a spiral, even if you take 10 steps and take 7 steps back, then you're 3 steps better than your previous self. It is impossible for a person's change to be achieved in one step, it must have gone through a long period of time and spiritual accumulation. ”

Su Yun sighed slightly, he could be regarded as convinced of this psychiatrist from his heart.

He didn't intend to tell the truth, he didn't tell the doctor about his past condition, he just threw the bait to tell him that his friend's personality had changed in a few hours, so as to judge the doctor's ability.

After all, the disease of the human heart is the most difficult to diagnose, as long as you say it casually, the general doctor will not deny the person's confession. However, this doctor denied it, and the friend in his mouth definitely did not change in a short period of time.

It seems that the name of the top doctor in China is not in vain.

"Hey. . . Su Yun pretended to sigh and said helplessly: "Doctor, what you said is right, in fact, I didn't tell you that many bad things happened in my friend's house before, but there has been no problem for so long." But in the last few hours of today, her personality has suddenly changed, and I really don't know what to do. ”

This doctor is obviously also an old fritter, and after listening to Su Yun's words, he didn't ask too much. Because the identity of the person who can come to this hospital for medical treatment is inevitably not simple. He wasn't so ignorant as to inquire about other people's homes.

"A sudden change in a person's personality over a period of time must be a great stimulus in the heart, and this stimulus must have lasted for a long time, and then suddenly exploded at some point to lead to this result. The fat doctor said with one hand rubbing his chin.

Su Yun's eyes lit up, and he immediately said:

"Yes, yes, that's it, doctor, what should I do?

"Damage?" the fat doctor looked at him, shook his head, and said, "This is his own voluntary change, not forced by others, so if it is only for his body, there will be no problems."

If you want him to change back to what he used to be, it's best to obey him now, after all, time is the best medicine in this world. Maybe it won't be long before he suddenly changes back to his old self. ”

Listening to the doctor's words, Su Yun sighed slightly, thank God, at least the doctor didn't say that he couldn't come back.

However, the doctor's next sentence made Su Yun's whole person stunned directly in place.

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