33 Discussion of social experience

Actually, I have to be honest with Yao Ling, I don't like her, and I even hate her.

First of all, she always took more than half of their living expenses, so that Wen Yu was passive, which indirectly affected my life; secondly, I think she looks down on me and my friends, she can't wait for Wen Yu to find a rich second generation who can be touched by the way, and treats me coldly from time to time.

Yao Ling has a fox face, it is easy to catch up with those boys who lack moisture, and she will play some small tricks to make them obey her words, and she pretends to be arrogant all day long, I really don't know where she got her confidence, of course, I won't say these words to Wen Yu.

Wen Yu had a good time with a girl named Yanzi at the time.

What do you say about the appearance of a swallow? can only be described as ugly, big cake face, and a lot of acne on the face, like pus, and have shawl hair all day long, at first they talked about nothing, but then I don't know what's wrong, Yanzi suddenly stopped talking to Wen Yu, Wen Yu felt puzzled, asked her about the situation, she didn't say why, probably because Wen Yu's work and rest time affected other people, and Yanzi was a person who went with the flow, so he simply drew a line with Wen Yu, which later made Wen Yu understand the hatefulness of women, it was too nonsensical.

These are also what Wen Yu told me.

Wen Yu will tell me everything, she is not annoyed, the two of us are basically talking all the time, I am listening, and then give her some opinions and suggestions, sometimes I will comfort her a few more words when she talks about unhappy things.

I'm wondering, where did Wen Yu come from so many topics to me.

She also said that she will give birth to a daughter in the future, and raise her to be a completely different person from Wen Yu, not like her in personality, not like her, not like her in learning, and not like her in lifestyle, in short, Wen Yu wants her future daughter to live a completely different life from her, as for that other life, Wen Yu imagines that it is beautiful and warm, full of kindness, and a life that will not disappoint.

I don't understand how Wen Yu can have this kind of thought, maybe she is disappointed with her current life, maybe it is some other reason, I don't know, I just think she wants to become her own future daughter, she wants to be that kind of person.

Later, I knew that something had happened to Wen Yu, which made her personality change a lot, don't look at her usual appearance of giggling, she can speak, that is the only mental state that can allow her to continue to live after a long time of experience and struggle, and after seeing all the warmth and coldness of human feelings, she hides the past, hides it very deeply, it seems that she has completely forgotten, she wants to live again, she is saying goodbye to the past, it is best to have no contact at all.

I can't talk about it now, because she hasn't mentioned it to me yet, because I found out later, because I haven't made Wen Yu angry, we were happy together all day, and of course she wouldn't say anything else uncomfortable to me.

I heard from my dad that one of my uncles was in Suzhou.

In the village, our Chen family is a big family, a few years ago said that we would build a Chen family ancestral hall, more than 100 households in the village went to more than half, but you can imagine how many people in our own family.

My uncle's grandfather and my grandfather are brothers, which sounds a bit winding, but in a big city like Suzhou, he is also a real relative, and I call him Uncle Huizhan. When I was in junior high school, Uncle Zhan's reputation was already a household name, he studied well, and he was particularly able to endure hardships, at that time his family had no money (of course, at that time, the life of every family was the same), every day to eat steamed buns on pickles, drink boiled water, and later was admitted to the national key university, few people in the village were admitted to college, he counted one, and then he graduated from college and was assigned a job in Suzhou, after several years of hard work, became the leader of the company, and settled in Suzhou. He has always been the object of comparison between everyone in our village, and my mother often said to me, "You see that you are Uncle Zhan, you go to school hard, and now you have become a big boss, you have to learn from him." ”

One day, Uncle Huizhan called me, it was the number my father gave him, saying that I had come to Suzhou and wanted to come and see me. I gave him the address and he said he'd come over after work.

At about 5 o'clock in the afternoon, Uncle Hui Zhan called me and said that he had arrived at the school gate, and I picked him up and took him to the dormitory. They played in my dormitory for a while, but I didn't expect Qingqing and Shao Po to be classmates, they were junior high school classmates, and they hadn't been in touch for a long time, but they actually met in Suzhou.

Uncle Hui Zhan said to invite the people in our dormitory to dinner, he said: "It's fate to meet, let's go, I'll invite you to dinner." It just so happened that Qingqing and Shao Po were classmates again, and the other three were not easy to refuse, so they all went.

It's been a few years since I last saw Uncle Zhan this time, when I was a little younger, I just treated him as an elder, and now I see Uncle Zhan very easy-going, without the frame of an elder, and from time to time he also says the current popular Internet terms, full of humor, which makes me feel that the distance between the two of us has narrowed a lot.

At the dinner table, we talked about everything and drank some wine, but I didn't toast Uncle Huizhan because he didn't drink while driving. On the contrary, Qingqing and Shao Po drank a lot, and the classmates were very happy to see each other, they took one cup after another, and while I was in the toilet, the last two bottles of beer were also opened for them.

Uncle Huizhan and I talked about family things, and some of his experiences when he first entered the society, I heard it and found that I got to know him again, he didn't succeed casually as the old family said, he also experienced a lot of setbacks and bitter moments, who will be smooth sailing?

Shao Po is boastful to us, but also a squirting family, he said while drinking, he can't stop at all, he said: "My brother-in-law usually likes to take me to all kinds of occasions, all kinds of dinners, I asked, although I can't see the world, but I can also learn a lot from it." We are a migrant worker from the countryside, and if we don't learn some survival skills, we won't be able to get along here. We all nodded vigorously and listened to him all the time.

"When I first came to Suzhou, I was also unfamiliar with the place and had no culture, I entered a factory, and two old local workers saw me as honest and bullied me all day long, not only asking me to do this and that, but also often attacking me personally, and then I couldn't bear it anymore, so I said to them: You two be careful. I called a dozen or so gangsters in the society and said to the boss: This is 2,000 yuan, I will invite a few brothers to dinner, please teach the two of you a lesson, just scare and scare, don't make too much movement, and don't understand too much, otherwise I can't say anything in the factory, thank you!" Shao Po took a sip of wine and continued, "The boss said okay; at night, my two colleagues were blocked in an alley, and a dozen or so people punched and kicked them. If you offend someone, if you figure it out, it's over, and if you can't figure it out, you'll see it once and hit it once, and we'll go. Since then, no one in my factory has dared to bully me anymore. Shao Po concluded, "If anyone does not offend me, I will not offend anyone; ”

I said, "Yes, they didn't tell you again." ”

Shao Po said: "What they sued me, whether I was there or not, they have no evidence. ”

Qingqing said, "So, what about those gangsters?

He said, "No." After all, they are mixed with society, and I also found them through people, one time is enough, you can't have contact with them, and you will definitely finish playing after a long time. ”

I secretly admire it, it's really experienced.