Should younger people use honorific titles for older people? At least not exactly, in China. Twenty-two-three-year-olds and twenty-four-five-year-olds, six-seven-year-olds can also be friends, and it's not so strict to call them brother or brother. Especially the classmates who go to school, it's normal to have a difference of one or two years, but they still call their names or take nicknames for their relatives, but I haven't seen anyone between classmates who really respectfully calls whom brother.

But it's not the same in Korea. They grew up in a very orthodox and strict school system. At what age should you go to school? So if it's the same grade, there won't be much difference in age. And the senior is definitely older than you. Either call it a senior, or call it a senior. If the relationship is better, I will go directly to learn the word, and call it Ernie oppa or Nu Na or something like that.

This is the folklore and cultural difference between the two countries. There is nothing good or bad. However, what Han Mingjin wanted to tell Xu Xian was another thing. That is the folklore of the "first year". He also remembered it when he was counting Kim Tae-yeon's birthday.

There is a difference of one year between being born in '92 and being born in '91, that's right. But there's a special case to this. That is, in South Korea, it is calculated according to the lunar birthday. If your birth registration says that your birthday is before March, then according to the lunar calendar, you were born in the previous year and not this year. In this way, you can marry someone who is a year older than you and wants to call your older siblings.

Here's an example. Han Mingjin used the solar calendar when he registered. It says he was born on February 5, 92. So according to South Korea's early age algorithm, in fact, he can also be regarded as born in 91. In this case, in fact, it is allowed for him to be related to Xu Xian, a girl born on June 30, 91.

You don't need to say honorifics to each other. Just like Seo Hyun and Jung Jin-woon. But is it possible to be related to all 91 years? No, no. If the other person was born within March of '91, then you still have to call him or her something nice. After all, his birthday is also very big, and the difference is nearly a year, so he can't be vaguely calculated.

And this algorithm is also the reason why Xiuying was born in 90, but she can be friends with the other members of the same group in 89 years without saying honorifics. Her birthday was very big, and it hadn't been the Lunar New Year at that time, so it could be counted as 89 years.

Of course, Xu Xian didn't understand this algorithm, but she hadn't thought about it since she was first angry with Han Mingjin many years ago. At this time, when he suddenly mentioned it, Xu Xian felt a little trance. If you do that, the matter is actually serious. Because of all the things that happened to her and Han Mingjin, kissing and hugging or something, they can be covered up by the relationship between sister and brother for the time being. Especially with a serious character like Xu Xian, if he recognizes a reason, he will rely on it.

The advantage of this is that you will be more determined and will not change your mind easily. And the downside, when this principle that is based on collapses in an instant, she will be at a loss, and she will face and push down what she has done with this principle in the past, and she herself ...... It can also be pushed down by reaction forces.

Han Mingjin just mentioned it jokingly, Xu Xian stopped there, and suddenly turned to look at himself with a cold face: "What do you want to say?" Han Mingjin smiled cheaply: "I know that you are the one who cares about your identity the most among them." So, if you still want to keep this name, then you have to give me some sweetness, and I will continue to pretend to be confused as a foreigner who doesn't understand your customs. Otherwise, quack, you know. ”

Xu Xian bit his lip, his chest heaving: "You...... Don't you want to be a brother anymore? Or ...... Still don't want to make me angry?" Han Mingjin pouted and bit his nails: "It's not a question of whether you want to or not." Your Korean customs don't allow us to ...... Sister Xu Xian, what's wrong with you?"

Han Mingjin's face changed. Because at this time, Xu Xian's face suddenly turned pale, and his lips trembled and he couldn't speak. And sat on the ground by the door, and seemed to be out of breath for a while. Han Mingjin hurriedly stepped forward: "Sister Xu Xian, are you okay?"

Xu Xian looked at Han Mingjin sneeringly, the tears in his eyes slid down, but as if it had nothing to do with her expression, he stretched out his finger and pointed at Han Mingjin, and then pointed at himself. Just can't speak. Han Mingjin's neuropathy is true, but his brain is definitely enough. And the situation at this time is not the same as Ben's brain, after he said that, Xu Xian was like this. That's definitely because of that.

Han Mingjin helped her to the edge of the bed and sat down, patting her back comfortingly: "Sister Xu Xian, don't get me wrong, in fact, I lied to you." Xu Xian shook his head blankly and tried to speak: "No." I...... I know this algorithm. We are relatives, not brothers and sisters...... It's not a brother ......."

Han Mingjin scratched his head, isn't it, isn't it, why is it like how much of a blow has been suffered? It is usually a couple who is suddenly announced by their parents that you are sisters and brothers, and then there is enough blood. What is the situation now? It's not that the sister and brother are hit harder.

But the most important thing at the moment is, of course, to bring the relationship back to square one. Han Mingjin patted Xu Xian's back for a while, and found that she still didn't get better. Finally, she scratched her head helplessly, took out her wallet from her pocket, opened it, and took out the ID card she had returned to China last year to show her: "Sister Xu Xian, look at the date of birth on this." ”

Xu Xian moved his unfocused eyes to this side and saw the numbers on it. Seeing that she was staring at the numbers on February 05, 1992 and didn't speak, Han Mingjin said by himself: "According to the above calculation, we can indeed be relatives." But have you forgotten? My birthday on the lunar calendar is the 5th day of the second month, which is written incorrectly, and it is written according to the solar calendar. In other words, if you count according to the solar calendar, my birthday is still other than March. I'm still going to make you angry. ”

Seeing that Xu Xian's eyes changed for a moment, Han Mingjin tentatively spoke: "You understand this time, right? That is to say, according to the customs and the date stipulated in the law, I have to make you angry for the rest of my life, and there is no possibility of changing it." Xu Xian finally regained some of his strength, and asked in a hurry: "That's ...... Then you just said ......"

Han Mingjin scratched his head: "Didn't I just want to take advantage of you to lie to you?" I thought you could figure it out, after all, you are the best student for them here." I remember the last time you and I had a horror special, you figured out all the difficult questions, and you just kept Sadako on TV and didn't come out. How ...... it?"

Xu Xian looked at Han Mingjin and let out a long sigh of relief. However, the heavy rain that Han Mingjin expected also came. Xu Xian grinned, and cried out with a wow. Han Mingjin hurriedly stepped forward to close the door tightly, and then came back and hugged her in his arms and comforted: "It's all my fault if I don't cry or cry." It's me who is bad...... Yes, let's hit it, hit the point. ”

Xu Xian took his hand and hit his chest hard, but in the end, it was a quiet character, it was just a subconscious action, and it would not be a conscious hit. After half a sound and enough crying, Xu Xian sobbed and looked up at Han Mingjin: "Bad guy." Stinky boy. Did you know I was going to be out of breath just now? Why are you mentioning this?

Han Mingjin pursed his lips and nodded: "I said that I wanted to take advantage of you to deceive you." But now that the explanation is clear, I'd like to ask you. Based on our relationship, is it so important whether a brother or sister is not a brother or a sister? If it is not a brother and sister, the seven-year relationship will disappear in an instant? What kind of psychology do you have to tell me?"

Xu Xian was stunned for a moment, lowered his head and buried himself in his arms, and said the reason why she was on the verge of collapse. It is because of the sudden change in the relationship that the pressure on the relationship between sister and brother in the past is now borne by her. She couldn't accept it for a while, which is why she was like this. However, Han Mingjin understands it, but he doesn't understand it very well. Otherwise, he wouldn't be so reckless as to joke about it.

Helping Xu Xian up to face him, Han Mingjin had a strange expression: "You mean to say that because of the relationship between sister and brother, we can rely on this for anything." There won't be too much burden on the psyche. But if you lose this relationship, you won't find an excuse to do so for a while, and you will deny your own standards of conduct...... That's why, right?"

Xu Xian bit his lip and lowered his head without speaking, and Han Mingjin was a little speechless for a while. Han Mingjin shook his head with a smile, hugged Xu Xian, who was still sobbing subconsciously, gently rubbed her back, and smelled her fragrance: "First of all, no matter whether your idea is tenable or not, but now the relationship between sister and brother cannot be changed no matter what, and you should be able to feel at ease." ”

Han Mingjin looked down at her ears and stepped forward with a smile: "But I want to ask, don't talk about sisters and brothers, don't talk about relatives, even if it's an ordinary couple, have you ever done what we did." For example, it's okay to hug each other, kiss the little mouth, or suck the tongue. There's nothing to touch your buttocks, and then give away private items, and look at your little sister, and kiss ...... again."

Han Mingjin smiled. I saw Xu Xian's ears just now, and the more I talked about it, the more red it became, and the more I said it, the more it trembled. Finally, at the mention of her little sister, she raised her head and screamed expressionlessly. It's not that Han Mingjin doesn't understand why she cares so much about her sister and brother status, because only when she is to herself, she will lose her temper willfully, and she will be like a girl instead of a rigid model student full of honorifics. What he didn't understand was that she actually used the relationship between sister and brother to cover everything. Then it doesn't make sense.

Looking at her crying wet cheeks at dusk, Han Mingjin was silent for a while, but he felt that the most meaningless thing was himself. Others care about their own bits, but they can treat them like jokes, which is a bit inhuman. Gently hugging Xu Xian, Han Mingjin wiped away her tears, and sighed secretly This action I have done several times today, and I have done evil.

"Sister Xu Xian, look how bad I am. always wants to take advantage of you, and always makes you cry. Xu Xian laughed, raised his head and stepped forward: "You are already bad." The worst of the worst of the badasses. Han Mingjin nodded helplessly, suddenly thought of something, sat up and ran out of the bedroom: "You wait for me, I'll be back immediately." ”

Xu Xian didn't know why, thinking that he was going to pick up something, but suddenly the door of the villa sounded, and Xu Xian felt that something was wrong. He had actually already left the main gate, where was he going so suddenly? Just looking at the slowly closing villa door and the sound of the car starting, Xu Xian couldn't find an answer for a while.