The time of beauty is fast even in winter.

Wang Xile has made all-round progress in sticking to the one-hour study plan, participating in sports training, and improving the level of play. In this atmosphere, it soon came the last Friday of December. At nine o'clock in the evening, Wang Xile turned off the computer and came to the living room, and he said, "Dad, I will play a game tomorrow." ”

"Didn't you stop playing games on Saturday?"

"I'm not saying that there are no games on Saturday, but that there are no good games anymore. ”

"You have too many games to fit on a computer, what games haven't you played?"

"Dad, do you know what game I'm learning to play now?"

"What?"

"Big game on the Internet. ”

"Haven't you been playing online games. ”

"Now that I'm skilled, someone on the Internet has started to bring me into the group, so I still want to play tomorrow. ”

"Joy, it's been almost a semester since you don't play games on Saturday, good things need to be insisted on, I don't think you should play games on Saturday. ”

"No, I have to play tomorrow because today one place quickly lost, but it's time to shut down, and tomorrow I have to work hard again. ”

"If you want to play too much, you can open it up now and play it for a while. ”

"No, the shutdown time has passed. ”

I am glad to see that Wang Xile's self-control has been concretely revealed, and he can turn off the computer by himself in the face of the online game that he likes very much, which is not simple. I happily said, "I can play tomorrow, but I have one condition." ”

"What conditions?"

"We've been camping for a few years, and I think you have what it takes to find Suoyang. Tomorrow you find your brother to go to the alkali field not far away, that is, the piece of land where we often go to dig Suoyang, no matter how big or small, as long as you find a seedling Suoyang, you will play games. ”

"Okay. The son agreed.

The child's answer was beyond my expectations, because he likes to reason with others. It's winter, and it's hard to find Suoyang.

The next day, Wang Xile got up together and first made an appointment with his brother, then quickly wrote his homework, and shouted at nine o'clock for his mother to cook. Mom said he was a "burnt bun". Wang Xi was happy to see that his mother ignored him, so he started to do it himself. An hour later, a pot of rice and half a small pot of scrambled eggs with tomatoes are ready. The nephew was also urged by him on the phone, and when they met, they only said the word "hurry up" and devoured it. Things became obvious. Wang Xile is fighting for the right to play games with his actions, and his scary way of eating makes people feel a kind of awe-inspiring joy.

"Brother, let's go. ”

After eating, they didn't care about anything, tied a small shovel to their bicycles, pushed out of the courtyard gate, and rode away.

Wang Xile is gone. I smiled and said to my wife, "I guess they won't be able to dig a single seedling." ”

"If the child wants to play, you just let him play, you have so many ways, and you have to give him such a big problem. The wife said distressedly.

"You don't understand that. When the child comes back and digs up, everything will be easy to say. I would say that any effort is worth encouraging, and it's okay to play. ”

"You've always been talking to your children. I thought I wouldn't let him play if I couldn't dig it. The wife said with a sigh of relief.

"Speaking counts depending on the nature of the matter. The matter of principle must be the tip of the needle. The rest of the matter is more flexible. Education should rely on words and scheming that conform to the laws of children's physical and mental growth, rather than hard management. ”

"Before, I didn't believe in your attitude of educating dolls at all, and I always thought that dolls could only be managed well, and I began to agree with your point of view a little bit over the past few years from the changes in my son. ”

My wife and I cleaned up and sat on the sofa watching TV, and I was surprised that Wang Xile and they came back at less than three o'clock.

"Dad, we dug up six seedlings to lock the sun. There is a seedling that is extraordinarily large. As soon as the son entered the door, he rushed to say.

"So fast?!" I said in amazement with my mouth open.

"If it weren't for Daddy, we would have been faster. The son said.

"I didn't go, how can I be fooled?"

"You provided the wrong information. You said let's dig in the alkali field, but we looked for it there for nearly an hour and there was no shadow of the chain yang. I led my brother on a ride to the sandy place where you used to take me in front of me, and as soon as I got off the road, I dug the first hole. ”

Wang Xile's eyes flashed with tears as he spoke. These tears are common to human beings, and they are the joy that comes from the bottom of one's heart after achieving the goal by one's own efforts, and it is also the beginning of one's belief in oneself.

"You've been riding six kilometers back and forth, let's have fun. I said, "However, there are more and more evil things on the Internet, especially pornography, which has a disabling effect on adolescence, so you should be careful." ”

Wang Xile went to play. I laughed at what I had just said, that such a young child knew what it meant to be a yellow pollutant and moral principles and so on. But this is the second warning that I have been given to sex education in adolescence, and I must find the right time to tell my children about this as soon as possible.

On New Year's Day 2005, Wang Xile took a stack of greeting cards and boasted to me that he was the person who received the most greeting cards in the class. As soon as I looked at the greeting card, an adolescent airwave passed through my heart. The signatures on the greeting cards are all pen names such as "Black Sword Narrow" and "Long Hair Fluttering", which is not only influenced by the current love of martial arts and entertainment film and television, but also the official opening of the curtain of adolescence. I must keep my eyes open, my ears firm, accept the secret message of life, pay careful attention to the development of the youth psyche, and search for a safe passage.

"Joy, now that you male and female classmates have crossed the dividing line on the table, are you still fighting?" I said.

"No fights. But sometimes there is also a small friction. The son paused and said.

This is the standard adolescent mentality.

First Friday in January 2005. In the evening, Wang Xile said that he would not play games at night, and he was going to watch a DVD.

"Alas, what a good sci-fi movie can make you stop playing games. I said.

"It's not science fiction. It's called "Fruit Basket". ”

This is an idol-style anime series about boys and girls. Wang Xile watched a plate on Friday and another on Saturday, and his evaluation of "Fruit Basket" was only two words - handsome.

"Joy, Daddy will tell you a story. I said after watching the disc.

"Good. Daddy, talk about it. The son said.

"Once upon a time, a group of students went on an autumn trip to the orchard, and they saw a green apple falling under the tree, what would happen next?" I said.

"This group of students will go up together to grab the green pinny fruit. Whoever is the most clever will grab. The son said excitedly.

"How do you know?"

"We have been to the Agricultural and Forestry Orchard many times since we were children, and this kind of thing has happened a lot, and I can grab Pingguo every time. The son said with a subtle view of the movements at that time.

"And then?"

"I took Pingguo in my hand and made my classmates envious. I wiped it clean and took a bite, and the fruit that fell off was particularly untasty. But I pretended to be very delicious, and said to Liu Lei that it tasted good, Liu Lei took a bite, and used the same method to deceive Shi Chen again, and then Shi Chen deceived his classmates. ”

"What is the fate of the last green applet?"

"Let's throw it like we threw something. ”

"I'm talking about the fate of throwing it away. ”

"It's terrible. ”

"Why?"

"Because all of us who had eaten rushed up together and trampled on it with our feet. ”

Qingping fruit landed and was scrambled by everyone, then abandoned, and finally trampled by scramble. ”

"That's the story I'm going to tell you. ”

"Dad, it's still a story. The son was puzzled and said, "What kind of story is this!"

"It's a big story. I said, "Have you ever seen the word Qingping fruit in the story on TV or in books?"

"Yes. ”

"Where have you seen it?"

"It's in the Fruit Basket I'm watching now, and it's also in mythological stories. ”

"What is Qingpingguo talking about in these works?"

"It's about male and female classmates looking for a partner. ”

"Have you ever seen a student looking for a partner?"

"Yes. ”

"Where have you seen it?"

"I went to the desert park and saw your middle school boys and girls together. ”

"Joy, that's what you often hear about adolescence. The result of adolescent male and female classmates finding a partner too early is like the green apple in the orchard of agriculture and forestry. ”

"Dad, I'm not looking for a partner, why are you telling me this?" the son said embarrassedly.

"Just because you didn't look for a partner in elementary school doesn't mean you won't find someone in middle school. The key is to have a proper understanding of adolescence. Daddy is now telling you about puberty. I said, "People are emotional creatures, and the energy of adolescent relationships will give you more purpose in life, and it will also embrace the pursuit between male and female classmates." Like the boys and girls in "Fruit Basket", they are also like you, and they beat the female classmates at the same table more and more lightly, all of which belong to the psychology of adolescence. ”

"Dad, is it also the psychology of adolescence to cross the dividing line and get lighter and lighter?" the son asked urgently.

"Yes. ”

"Then I've gone bad?" said the son, panickingly.

"Who said that. ”

"The adults in "Fruit Basket" scolded those students for being shameless. ”

"Joy, those who say that children are 'shameless' are critical that they don't understand education. Life is a long road, and good things don't have to be available right away. Middle school students are looking for a partner like the green apple you picked up in the agriculture and forestry department, although you rushed to pick it up at first, but in the end it was abandoned. ”

"Dad, I seem to understand something. ”

"Just be clear. The power of youth is powerful, but it has the potential to move forward, or it can make people backward. ”

"Dad, that's the story you told me. ”

"Yes. That's the story I'm telling you. ”

"What kind of story is this, Bai made me happy for a while. ”

Adolescence education is very important for human development. When a child is over 10 years old, he often raises his arm to show off his muscles, but in fact his flesh has no lines at all, and this behavior is the beginning of puberty.

When I went to bed at night, Wang Xile said that his lower body was a little painful, and I saw that the skin was inflamed. I thought this was the best opportunity for the physiology of adolescence, so I used hot water to reduce inflammation for my son and gave him the first puberty education.

A few days later, Wang Xile took the final exam at the end of the fourth grade. On the day he got the test results, he said: "Dad, I should actually score 98 points in the English test." All lazy Qi Peng. ”

"How can you be lazy Qi Peng?" I asked, puzzled.

"When speaking English, I think Qi Peng is weaker and speaks simply. Unexpectedly, Qi Peng was stuck, and it was not difficult to make it easy for me, and I was deducted 3 points in the end. If I had known this, I would have been hard to say in the first place. ”

"Joy, I didn't expect you to make such a big progress this semester, Dad admires you so much. ”

My words came from the bottom of my heart, because Wang Xile's implementation of the one-hour study system was relatively good this semester, which shows that he was able to take the initiative to concentrate on doing some things in that small time.