Chapter 353: The size of a fist
"You said that no matter what happened before, as long as we are together, then we have to work harder, if we don't work hard, then how can we have a future, so in this situation, if there is anything, you must not stop me, because if you stop me, then you are preventing my growth, and then the two of us will have no future at all. ”
He knew that if he didn't work hard now, then the future of the two of them would not be guaranteed at all, so he had to work hard now, he had to get more help now, if this girl didn't help him, if this girl didn't give him such a chance, then how could he become stronger in the future.
So at this moment he must understand that if there is no one to support him, if this girl does not help him, then it is impossible for him to become strong in this life, so this girl is now the biggest part of her life.
It's not that he depends on this girl for everything, but he wants this girl to provide him with some psychological comfort, to provide him with some psychological help, then this is enough, if he has these, he feels that he can hold on longer, he feels that he can hold on forever.
Because if this girl provides him with these things, he feels that he can actually do it according to his own mind and his own ability, so in this case, he can actually understand that he can do what he is now, and it is not excluded that he still has some obsessions in his heart, if there are no these obsessions, then he will not be able to do it now, and he will not be able to be so powerful now.
So all of this comes from the fact that he still has some thoughts, some wishes, and some thoughts in his heart that have not been fulfilled, and if he had achieved all these thoughts, then maybe there would not be such a thing now.
So in fact, all this is because there is some motivation, if there is no motivation, then how can everyone grow, so you must have motivation, you must have ideals, you must have dreams, if you don't even have dreams, what is the difference between people and salted fish?
He once felt that his thoughts were too real, his thoughts were too simple, and his thoughts were too little, but he felt that his thoughts were completely unat all without any ideas and without any reason at all.
Because what he thought in the past and what he thought in the past was actually not what he really wanted in his heart, because what he really wanted, he realized at this moment that it was this girl, and if there was no such girl, then he might not be able to live for the rest of his life.
I'm afraid he won't have anything to rely on in the rest of his life, and I'm afraid he won't have any ideas, because if he loses this girl, he feels that he probably won't want anything in the future.
"Do you know why I value you so much? Do you know why I treat you so well?
That's because I regard you as the rest of my life, I regard you as my everything, if it weren't for that, then I can't be like this every time, I can't be so patient every time, if you don't, do you think my temper will be so patient with a person?
It's completely impossible, so it's just because I love you, if it weren't for loving you, I definitely wouldn't have done this, if it wasn't for the fact that I love you, then I definitely wouldn't have put up with it until now. ”
It is precisely because he loves this girl, it is precisely because he has feelings for this girl, and it is precisely because this girl is the most beautiful fairy in his heart that he will give so much, and he will give so much to this girl very unrequited.
"I do know how much you love me, I do know how deep your feelings are for me, but I ask you to believe it, to understand that our relationship must be unswerving.
If one day you abandon me or I abandon you, it is definitely not because the two of us have a problem with our character, but because we have different ideas, but because we have different personalities, which will lead to our separation, not because of our feelings, because our feelings are pure and true, and our feelings are the most mellow and rich, so don't doubt that there is any friction between the two of us, what is a big problem.
Because there can be no major problems between the two of us, the two of us can only have some misunderstandings due to some small contradictions, otherwise the two of us would not be separated."
This girl knows what kind of feelings the boy in front of her has for herself, and what kind of feeling she feels about herself, in fact, for this feeling, he is also happy and a little unhappy in his heart
Because he thinks that this boy sees himself as the one who fills the vacancy, fills the vacancy in his heart, fills the vacancy in his own heart, and lacks that part of the vacancy, so he is not so happy in his heart, if he is really so happy, then I am considered to be part of his independent person.
In fact, no matter how long the time is, the relationship between the two of them will definitely be deeper, because the two of them are not just involved in the problems of two people, but they have been together for so long, and they really recognize each other in their hearts.
If there is no recognition, then they must not be able to persist until now, because their relationship is completely dependent on the trust they once had, if there is no such trust, then he has experienced so many things, and it is impossible to be together again. ”
What are two people together for? Is it just for affection?
Maybe there is still a part of the collision of hearts, without a collision of hearts, they would not be together at all, they could not have lived together for so long, and lived under the same roof, and the two people lived in such harmony.
If it weren't for the fact that they had a high degree of identification with each other, a high degree of recognition for each other, it would not have been possible at all.
"I believe it, if it weren't for those troublesome things, then I'm afraid it wouldn't be what it is now, because what you have to say is actually quite simple. ”
If you want to say that he didn't necessarily believe what he said before, but he really believed what he said now, because he had never deceived him before, and now he won't lie to him, because of the relationship between the two of them, such a life, how could he lie to him again.
"Actually, I can't lie to you, because at least we have known each other before, maybe although we haven't known each other for a long time, but even within this time, I have never lied to you.
Because I think it's not at all possible to deceive people, and it's to lie to you, if I really want to lie to you, then it's impossible to tell you again, right, and it's impossible to tell you so much, if I lose my conscience, I'm not such a person, and I can't do such a thing, if I sometimes do such things in this life, it can only mean that I am dealing with the enemy.
If it weren't for the enemy, then I wouldn't have done such a thing to my own people, and I wouldn't have said such a thing to my own people, because it was impossible, and I wasn't such a person. ”
In fact, if it weren't for the fact that the two of them have been together for so long, he wouldn't necessarily do it, because the relationship between the two of them is already very deep, and if the relationship between the two of them is not so deep, then I'm afraid he really won't do it.
But he has such a feeling now, and he is here, which means that these things between them actually still need the two of them to pay their feelings.
In fact, the most lacking between people is trust, if there is no trust between two people, then it is nothing, so they all trust each other very much, if they don't trust each other, then they can't be together, the reason why they can be together for so long, it also shows that they must have a sense of trust in each other.
If there is no such trust, then they can't be together for so long, in fact, for the two of them, mutual trust is their greatest help, is their greatest dependence, if they don't have such a big dependence, I'm afraid they won't be able to get to this point.
Why should there be any mess between people? If it has to be messy, then it's not a good thing for everybody's feelings.
After all, if two people talk about feelings, then don't talk about those other rational things too much, then talk about feelings, but if you really want to talk about material, then you don't talk about feelings, because you don't deserve it at all, as long as you talk about materials, then don't think about talking about feelings with people anymore, because this is a kind of contempt for people.
"Actually, it's quite simple for you to say these things, but you have to see what people think, if you feel that you can, then you can do it, but if you feel that you can't, then you can see for yourself when the time comes. ”
Actually, he knew what I should do, but he was still a little unsure.
"Anyway, if you want to do well when you do it yourself, don't ask him again, if you want to ask him again, it won't be good if you want to do it again when the time comes. ”
It's not very big, but it depends on how they understand it, if he understands it well, then this thing is indeed relatively simple, but if he can't understand it, then he is stuck in a dead cycle, this cycle will make him completely wear out his patience, completely wear out their trust in each other, if they don't even trust each other, then what can they bear.
So he is very unfair to them, although it is so unfair, but they have no way and have to accept it, if they don't accept it, then the relationship between them will eventually come to an end, which is not good for them at all.
Why is it said that there must be trust between people, if there is not even a little trust between people, if there is not even a kind of trust in each other, then what is the point of them getting along? Is it just a suspicion of each other all the time?
If they live in this suspicion, they will not know each other, and they will have a slight hostility towards each other's suspicions.
"Okay, okay, I also know what you think, if you continue to say it, I'm afraid I'll be even more uncomfortable in my heart, so you still don't say it, if you continue to say it, I'm afraid I'll have some hostility towards you at that time, and I'm afraid I'm not very good to you, so if you continue to say this, then I will ignore you in the future."
If you still love me, if you still have feelings for me, then please shut up, if you don't shut up, I will ignore you. ”
In fact, he felt that he said these words very simply, because from his mouth, he didn't have to worry about anything at all, this boy would be angry, if he was really angry, it just gave himself a reason, just to teach him a lesson.
In fact, for himself, whether he will compromise or not, this is a very simple matter, because he is not afraid of him not compromising at all, if he does not compromise, then the consequences will be borne by himself at that time, and he will not be buried at that time.
"No matter what you thought before, but in the future, I ask you to remember that as long as the two of us are together, then you must listen to me, and if there is anything, then you must tell me as soon as possible, if you don't tell me, if something happens to you at that time, then how can I forgive myself."
So no matter what happens in the future, you have to tell me as soon as possible, if you don't tell me, then even if something happens to you, I don't know, then my boyfriend is a little incompetent, so you have to tell me as soon as possible. ”
In fact, he has always been very domineering, and he used to be even more so now, because when he didn't have the ability before, he was such a temper, and now that he has more power, how can he not continue and dictate himself.
Because he feels that his strength is enough, he can already protect the person he wants to protect, if anyone dares to bully him, so if he dares to worry about him, then be careful to give him hardship.
If you just want to bully the people you care about, you want to attack the people you care about, so you have to ask the fist in your hand.