Wang Xile has changed, and this change is comprehensive.

On that Saturday morning in early July, Wang Xile got up early and said, "Dad, I want to have a party with my classmates at home this afternoon, and buy some food like you adults?"

Wang Xile's move subconsciously told his parents that he thought he was an adult in the family and hoped to be the master of some things. Without thinking, I replied, "Yes." Absolutely. ”

"Wow!"

Wang Xile raised his hands upwards and screamed wildly, and then hurriedly urged his mother to clean up the house. When you're done, sit at your desk and do your homework. My wife and I were talking while watching the morning news, and these had no effect on Wang Xile, who used to be busy, and watching his concentration on his homework, I seemed to hear his heart singing.

"Wang Xile has been more conscious of his homework during this time. The wife said.

"Yes, much more self-conscious. I said.

After Wang Xile finished his homework, he came over with his homework book and said, "Dad, I got all my Chinese homework right the first few times. ”

"Great," I said, "in the past, your Chinese homework was full of 'red forks', and the teacher was so angry that he could scratch the notebook when he judged the homework, but now your progress is so bad that Dad can't even admit it." ”

Seeing my son's overall progress, I am glad for the "useless" education I had in the past.

"Dad, I have an idea I want to discuss with you. ”

"What an idea. ”

"This time with friends, I want to use my manuscript fee to treat you, can you say okay?"

"How much do you have now?"

"One hundred and two dollars," said the son, "since I had my own passbook, I have spent some but not a penny." ”

"It's a good indication that your self-control has increased," I said, "and it's good that you want to use your manuscript money to entertain and share your successes with everyone, but how to do specific things well is very difficult for a child of your age, and Dad will tell you something that happened to Li Ka-shing." ”

"Dad, who is Li Ka-shing?"

"The richest man in Asia. He started his career in the shipping industry. ”

"Speak quickly. ”

"One day, Li Ka-shing was walking down the street. As he pulled something out, a penny slipped from his pocket and fell to the ground and rolled down the sewer. Seeing that the coin was about to roll down the drain, a traffic cop flew up and blocked the coin with his foot. Li Ka-shing thanked the policeman and then took out a hundred dollars from his body and gave it to the policeman, and those present were stunned by Li Ka-shing's action. Someone asked Li Ka-shing why this was, and Li Ka-shing said: 'If that one cent falls into the sewer, there will be one penny less wealth on the earth, and a hundred dollars are given to the police, and he will spend them, and this hundred dollars are still on the earth.' The police protected the wealth, and the hundred dollars were the reward he deserved. 'Joy, Li Ka-shing is the richest man in Asia, what is his attitude towards money?'

I gestured to my child for a long time, and he understood the meaning and hurriedly said, "Money can't be wasted." Can't afford to waste money. ”

"Li Ka-shing is so rich that he pays special attention to taking care of wealth, you only have a deposit of 100 yuan, so you are ready to treat you lavishly, right?"

"Not true. ”

"Where did the idea of a treat come from?"

"It was on TV. ”

"See what?"

"I see that their friends have money to spend and drink all their wine. Special cow!"

"Joy, this situation is the most popular in romance and martial arts. But the martial arts on the martial arts film are all fake, is it true that it is so difficult to spend money?"

"I know that. Since the last time I watched the high jump with you, I know that martial arts movies are all about deception. ”

"Martial arts movies not only deceive people with martial arts, but also deceive people in life. The kind of happiness and hardship in martial arts films, spending money and drinking in big bowls are some of the stupidest lifestyles, which will only make life worse, and there is nothing to learn. ”

"It's going to be tough. I've told my friends that we'll be at my house this afternoon. ”

"How much do you know?"

Said Friday afternoon at school. ”

"Why are you partying at our house?"

"You don't have to ask. We can play on the computer. Truth be told, the main purpose of the party is to save more time playing with the computer. ”

"How can you save time?"

"In the afternoon, when dinner was about to take place, my classmates called their parents from my house and said that eating at my house would save time. ”

"Joy, you can really think of any way to play more games. I said with a thumbs up in admiration.

"Of course, who made us playful little dolls!" The son said proudly.

"You promised your classmates to do an event at our house early, how do you know we'll agree?"

"Because if I can give a reason, you'll agree. I have a good reason to tell you. ”

"No need. I interrupted my son's words and said, "Joy, you are already a big child, this family is not only your parents' home but also your home, what is good for our family in the future, what is bad for our family, I hope you can take the initiative to think about it." In the future, you don't need to state reasons for what you are doing at home, and in the past, you were asked to state your reasoning to develop your ability to communicate in oral conversation, which Dad believes is the most important skill in social work and life in 20 years. And now that you have a strong spoken language, you put that little energy out and think about what to do, what not to do, and how to do it is good for our family. Now about the fact that you paid for a treat, have you made it clear to your classmates?"

"Nope. On Friday, after school, we only made an appointment to meet at our house. ”

"If you say it, the manly husband will be full of words, and his words will count. If you don't say that you pay alone, then it's a different matter, I'll give you a "tie" idea. ”

"Dad, what do you mean by a tie?"

"Tie is when everyone contributes the same amount of money or things to organize the event. ”

"Dad, we're tied. ”

"It's the best way to get together with your classmates. Playing a tie is also to test your organizational planning ability and see if the knowledge you have learned can be turned into skills to solve real-world problems. ”

When it was time for lunch, Wang Xile hurriedly ate a small bowl and rode out on his bicycle.

After lunch, my wife and I went out on some business. I didn't get home until almost six o'clock in the afternoon. As soon as I entered the living room, I saw some small food bags on the coffee table. Entering the back room, there were six children fighting fiercely around the computer. Wang Xi was happy to see me come in and said, "Dad, today we each gave three yuan for a total of eighteen yuan, and each person spent an average of two yuan and eight cents and five cents, and the rest was returned to each of them for one dime and five cents." ”

"Very good, you are very well organized. I said.

It's almost seven o'clock, and the children are going home, and they have said that they must let the family scold them to death at seven o'clock, and maybe there will be no chance to play again.

The children left, and Wang Xile played alone for a while before turning off the computer. He came over to me and told me about his shopping process and his thoughts. Every time he says something to buy more and buy less, he can clearly explain the reasons and ideas, and the amount of things he buys is carried out according to the actual person, which is the result of his training in buying things from camping from time to time.

In the blink of an eye, the exam was not finished, and Wang Xile told me that their exam was a unified examination of the whole Union, and the teachers said that the test paper was more difficult.

On the way to work that day, I got together with Mr. Liu. She said: "Teacher Wang, your Wang Xile seems to have suddenly changed as a person during this time, and he has made great progress in all aspects, what method did you use to change the child all at once?"

I couldn't answer Mr. Liu's question, but I just smiled and said, "There is no way to educate a teacher better." ”

Teacher Liu smiled politely, she didn't agree with my answer, and said casually, "It's incredible that there has been so much change." ”

To be honest, according to Wang Xile's character all along, he must have been a poor, dishonest and playful child at school. But since June 1st, I suddenly felt that I was really going to be laid off in terms of urging my son to implement the one-hour study plan.