Chapter 326: Hardness
"Okay, okay, don't talk about that, we don't have to talk so much mess together, I just want to have a good time with you, after all, we brothers don't need to say those frustrating things together, don't say those things at all, as long as people are unhappy, we should be happy together, and we should be happy together." ”
They can spend a day happily and they can spend a day when they are uncomfortable, in fact, in this case what they think in their hearts is what they should do, if they can't follow their inner thoughts, it will definitely be a big problem, at least they don't want to show anything now, and they will see it later.
"Actually, since you have a girlfriend, I think it's very difficult for you to get close, but then we think you can still get close, after all, you are our good brother, you are our good friend, so we still want to get close to you, we still try to get close to you.
After all, this kind of relationship between us is not something that can be dissipated in a day or two, so we have never given up on you, and we have never treated you as our stranger or anything, after all, our relationship does not need to be too much. ”
Although this kid is a bit heavy and light on friends, although this kid is a bit unsightly, it's just that he may be their best friend, and this kid has given them a lot of things, like these, he can't just deny it.
Therefore, they must take these words as a guiding light in their hearts, after all, if this kid did not lead them into the way, they probably don't know where they are now.
"Okay, okay, I'll be anxious with you about all that mess, although I help you so much, but I never thought about what you could report to me, and I didn't think about what you could report to me.
So if you mention this matter again in the future, then I will turn your face on you, and besides, do you think I am the kind of person who forces you to ask for that kind of favor? ”
When he said this, his two eyebrows were raised, as if he was very cheap, which made the guy opposite speechless.
"Okay, okay, we don't know your temper yet, just your temper, if we can let us give you any benefits, if you give you any benefits, then it's not you, after all, you never ask us, you just will pay for what you want.
But the more you are like this, the more you make us feel that we owe you a very big debt, after all, you are our good friend, you are our good brother, but you have been giving us, what is the matter, so I can't allow this to happen all the time. ”
Everyone should have the meaning of his life, everyone should have his direction when he lives, if he doesn't even have his own direction, if he doesn't even have the purpose of his life, he doesn't even have a goal, then what is the meaning of a person's life?
"Actually, let me tell you, you don't just judge this relationship between us, and if you look at this relationship between us as weak, then it is indeed weak, but if you look at it as heavy, then it is indeed heavy, as long as you see how you understand how to see it.
So don't let me remind you of such things in the future, because if I remind you again, then there will be no friendship between our brothers, and we don't need these things at all, because we don't even trust each other, and what are we talking about these things. ”
He knew that if this was the case, then he was afraid that they would not be able to repay what this kid had given them in their lives, after all, if they really took these things to heart all day long, I am afraid they would really be difficult to let go.
"Actually, I didn't take those things to heart, but I can't forget them, after all, you are our best brother, you are the one who makes us unforgettable, because even if you are brothers, we can't bear it, you know? ”
If it was simple, then they wouldn't say that, because this matter is really not something they can control, or this matter, in fact, it is really difficult for them to choose.
Because this relationship between them is already very close, but the more they give, the more they give, the more they give, then it will produce an emotion in their hearts, produce a very excited, very resistant force, and this resistance will make their relationship more and more cold, more and more like an ice cube.
If the relationship is really mixed with too many interests, it will make everyone feel that this relationship has indeed reached a trough, and such a trough will make everyone dislike, so if he is really smart, if he really doesn't want this to happen, then he should stop his behavior now.
Don't let him pay too much, or there will be no benefit to the relationship between them, not blindly pay to get the love of others, not blindly pay to get the feelings you want.
"You know, sometimes you like it and sometimes you don't like it, it's just a thin line, the things you do, whatever you do, will make all people feel that there is a heat wave coming, that heat wave is something that is inseparable from the relationship, you should know that kind of thing, but what I want to know more is that you should understand what the relationship between us is. ”
If the relationship between them is really not good, then I'm afraid it can't be like this now, but, in fact, each of them cherishes this relationship very much, and this relationship is a crystallization of all of them, although this is a bit general, but in general, the relationship between them brings them positive energy, not negative energy.
"I treat you as brothers, and you must treat me as brothers, otherwise I will die of misery in my heart, after all, I do all these things according to what you think, I do according to the direction you want, because I regard you as brothers, and I think these things should be done for you as a brother.
Because you may not be able to do this, but if I have the ability, I have the qualification, and if I have the power, I want to help you, but even if you don't want you to do it, then how can I do it. ”
He regards these guys as friends, if they don't regard themselves as friends, then they don't ask for their own hardship, after all, they have paid their feelings, and they have not been reciprocated by others, or they have been recognized by others, if they don't even have this, then he will really feel uncomfortable to death.
Even if all the efforts are not reciprocated, but it is not like this, after all, the relationship between them is very deep, and even if they have no real return, but at least there must be a word of thanks.
Although he didn't like this kind of thanks, he didn't like it, his friends were very reasonable to accept what he gave them, and he would rather not say thank you to himself.
Even if they really accept it as a matter of course, they should also have a grateful heart, otherwise these things they do are not very useless, although they can't get a little thing back, but they can make themselves feel better, if the mood is not better, why do this, why do this?
"You don't actually have to do these things at all, even if you don't do these things, then we are good friends, even if you don't do these things, then we are brothers forever, if you do this, it will make the relationship between us more complicated, but let our relationship be mixed with more interests.
So you should understand this truth, otherwise you wouldn't be able to get to where you are now, so there are some things that you can't measure or do with what you think in your heart. ”
If a person wants to grow, he must understand something, if he wants to grow, then he must know something, if he doesn't know what he wants, then his life is really over, and for them, this kind of feeling between them and this desire between them is also their common wish.
They want to have their own strength, they want to have a good future, they want to have a good family, this is what they all yearn for, who doesn't want this kind of life.
In fact, a stable life, for those who are ambitious, is indeed very unreasonable, but think about it carefully, if you can't even get these things, then think about the rest, wouldn't it be sitting in a well and watching the sky.
"Actually, I understand the other truths you said, there is indeed a lack of motivation between us, this motivation is that you give us too many things, so that we have lost this motivation at all, so I hope you will not help us so much in the future, and you help us so much, we don't feel that we can afford it.
Although we are brothers, although we don't need to say these things, very frustrating words, but I can't help but mention it, otherwise we may not be able to extricate ourselves from this whirlpool in the future. ”
If a person has no long-term plans, then he must be very sad now, if he does not have a long-term goal, if he does not have a long-term vision, if he does not have a courage to look at his future, then he may really be mediocre in this life.
"Since I said that I would be responsible for your future, then I will definitely be responsible to the end, after all, since I have promised such a thing, I will not lose my word, if I break my promise, then it will be my fault. ”
A man who says a word is a ding, as long as he says all these words, then he can't regret it, if he regrets it again, what will it look like, so they can't go to the same way as before now, but should arrange their life well, but should arrange their life well.
"Okay, okay, if you say this again, I'm afraid the two of us should quarrel again, so let's not talk about it anymore. ”
He knew that if they continued to talk like this, maybe they would really quarrel, because their relationship was actually very complicated, and this complexity was not bad compared to before, but in fact, they were completely different from before, because their relationship was very different from before.
As long as a person really owns something, then he will definitely think about what to do if he has these things, and what to do if he can't have them? Otherwise, he will regret it later.
"I don't really want to hear you say this, I can feel it as soon as you say this, the relationship between us is too complicated, and you know, in fact, I never wanted to think of you as my best friend, but as my brother, a real brother, not a friend. ”
The concept of brothers and friends is completely different, there can be many friends, but there can only be one brother, or a single several, if there are too many brothers, then it is nothing.
"I know, I also regarded you as brothers from the beginning, otherwise I wouldn't be able to do so hard to help you now, I'm not so stupid, you know me, and from the beginning, I actually understand a truth, this truth is, as long as we are brothers, then I will definitely help you, if I can't help, then I must find a way. ”
If it really can't be done at that time, then you must find a way, or you can't watch them have an accident.
"I know you didn't want to accept it from the beginning, but you have to think about it because you feel that these are really fine, but there are some things you can't decide, and once something happens, it's more troublesome, you can't handle it yourself, you have to call someone else. ”
He knew that these guys were still relatively tough, and if such a thing really happened, I am afraid that he would not really call him over, otherwise he would not be like this now.
"Okay, okay, if there is really something, I will definitely inform you, otherwise it is such a small matter, every time I have to trouble you, I can't help it. ”
If every time something can trouble him, then he can't help it.