The leaflet wrote about the problems that women will face after giving birth, and every woman faces risks during childbirth, sometimes it can be life-threatening, which doctors dare not guarantee. Just like the last time the woman gave birth, all the indicators before giving birth were normal, but no one expected her to suddenly have an amniotic fluid embolism.

After giving birth, for many mothers, it is also a nightmare that has just begun, the body is out of shape, which is visible to the naked eye, but there are more and more invisible diseases, such as urine leakage, hemorrhoids, high blood pressure......

In fact, with the development of the times, society is becoming more and more respectful of women, and there are many public figures who are willing to stand up and speak out about this issue.

Not long ago, there was a very popular woman who said that she caused uterine and bladder prolapse due to difficulties in the delivery process, and the diagnosis was written as stress urinary incontinence and bladder prolapse grade 2. Sneezing, jumping rope in place, running, etc., can cause urinary incontinence. In the words of the female star herself, it is "not just a little incontinence, but the whole pad will get wet, and the pants will also get wet." ”

The life and work of that female star have been greatly affected. She used several methods introduced by the doctor to improve her exercises, but because her condition was a bit serious, she finally had to be cured by surgery.

Celebrities are still like this, what is the situation of ordinary people who can't have professional rehabilitation doctors and VIP delivery rooms?

Of course, the hospital did not make this leaflet to scare pregnant women, nor did it encourage families to dink. It is a great and magnificent mission to continue life, but it is also the right of every woman to know what she will face because of continuing life.

Otherwise, what's the difference between just constantly emphasizing the greatness of continuing life without informing them of the risks they will face?

Zhang Bing took the leaflet, flipped through it and looked at it for a while, and there seemed to be no change in his mood, he put the leaflet back again, and said, "What you said above is not everyone who has had a child, right? ”

Rao is Fan Shasha has a good temper, and when she heard this, she also wanted to kick him.

Will his mother take the initiative to tell him that he leaks urine when he sneezes?!

Will his mother take the initiative to tell him that when he was pregnant, his uterus enlarged and compressed the intestinal tube, and he was constipated to the point that he couldn't metabolize for a week?!

For women, this is a "shame" disease, how can they take the initiative to tell their families?

Of course, it cannot be ruled out that Grandma Zhou is really in good health, so good that she has no sequelae after giving birth to Zhang Bing, but that is not a reason why he can not care for his mother!

Fan Shasha is really irritable enough to want to hit someone.

Fortunately, Miao Fang was not there, and Fan Shasha could imagine the scene where Miao Fang pointed at his nose and scolded.

She took a deep breath, tried to calm down, and said to Zhang Bing: "Uncle Zhang, Grandma Zhou grew up without love in that era, so she may not know how to talk about her pain. But even if you don't say it, she's your mother......"

"This is what every woman has to suffer, what is there to say? Now women are hypocritical. ”

Fan Shasha gritted her teeth, too lazy to continue discussing this with him, otherwise she was afraid that she would really jump up and beat him in a fit of anger.

She turned cold and said, "I'll tell you the truth, in fact, Grandma Zhou's other physical problems are common to the elderly, and it is okay not to carry out professional treatment, as long as you care for her more in life." We invited Grandma Zhou to come over and called you over again for Grandma Zhou's rotten feet...... You can turn a blind eye to the suffering she has suffered in order to give you life, but now that she is old, even if it is for her to live out her old age in peace, please ask Uncle Zhang to take her for treatment, okay?"

Zhang Bing still hesitated: "My mother doesn't want to go......"

"When I was a child, my mother told me that she didn't like fish, she liked to eat fish tails with no meat at all, and my mother said that she didn't like to eat short bananas, but she liked to eat rotten black bananas...... Do you think they really love it?"

Zhang Bing lowered his head and did not speak.

"And the surgery is free, you only need to bear the round-trip fare to Shanghai. Fan Shasha continued to persuade, "If your family is really in difficulty and can't afford a few hundred yuan in fares, I can apply to raise money for you, I just need you to have an attitude, you are willing to take Grandma Zhou for treatment!"

For the first time, Fan Shasha felt contempt for a person, the two of them played cards and mahjong, and they won or lost more than a few hundred yuan a month, right?

Zhang Bing still maintained that kind of appearance, not saying anything, Fan Shasha felt that if she continued to communicate with him, she would really be depressed.

She ignored Zhang Bing and left directly.

After passing through the medical department, Fan Shasha went in and complained to Miao Fang: "I'm really speechless, I haven't persuaded me for a long time." Otherwise, let's think of something else. ”

Fan Shasha was afraid of being angry with Miao Fang, so she didn't dare to tell her too much of what Zhang Bing said about bastards.

Miao Fang was also angry after hearing this, was silent for a while, and said, "That's okay, ask Zhang Bing to go through the formalities and take Grandma Zhou out of the hospital, and I'll think about Plan B again." ”

Fan Shasha felt that it was useless to do too much to Zhang Bing, so she proposed: "Otherwise, let's give up, I will ask for leave to send Grandma Zhou to Shanghai for surgery." I really don't understand why they are, it's not that they're so busy that they can't spare time for a few days......"

Miao Fang shook her head: "Grandma Zhou has a son and a daughter-in-law, what are you taking her to?

Fan Shasha frowned: "These two people really don't listen to persuasion. I don't really have anything to say to them. ”

Miao Fang thought for a while and said, "You go back to the obstetrics and gynecology department first, and when I break at noon, I will go to the county middle school...... Go find Grandma Zhou's grandson. ”

Fan Shasha had no other way, nodded and went back to work first.

When it was almost time for lunch break, Miao Fang didn't eat lunch, so she went to Zhang Wei's school, contacted her old classmates who were teachers in the county on the way, found out Zhang Wei's class, and then ran directly outside Zhang Wei's classroom and waited for Zhang Wei to get out of school.

In less than ten minutes, the bell rang for the end of class, and the students came out one after another, Miao Fang saw Zhang Wei and immediately beckoned to him.

Zhang Wei recognized her, walked over and asked curiously, "Doctor Miao, did you come to the hospital to find me?"

Miao Fang nodded: "Yes, you come with me, I have something to tell you." ”

Miao Fang couldn't help but pull him to the back of the teaching building, Zhang Wei saw that she had such a big belly, and he didn't force him to pull her, so he went with her.

At this time, it was school time, the students either went to the cafeteria or went home to eat, and there were few people behind the teaching building, Miao Fang pulled him to a secluded corner and said, "At the end of last year, I asked you to take your grandmother for treatment, what do you say? You said that your grandmother used to be bad to your mother, so your parents are not willing to take her there, right?"

Zhang Wei didn't know what she was going to say, so he nodded: "Yes." ”

Miao Fang frowned: "You are still, what about your family acting in martial arts dramas? What about you still in house fighting dramas? Do you still repay each other? Don't say that your grandmother can't be that kind of snarky person at all, even if she is not good to you, do you want to hate her so much?"

Zhang Wei also looked impatient: "I don't hate her, I just don't want to care." Besides, you're too lenient, right? What does it matter to you whether my grandma goes for treatment or not? Oh, I know, you must be so concerned about completing tasks and improving performance, right?"

Miao Fangqi was speechless for a while, this work was hard and tiring, she insisted for so many years, the starting point was just because she didn't want these old people to continue to suffer, and the subsidies they got were very small, and they couldn't compare with their contributions at all, but as long as those old people recovered and were grateful to her, she felt that what she did was valuable.

But this Zhang Wei is really too much!

She slapped him on the head: "You bastard! In the future, if my child is really not filial to me, I will not be treated when I am sick, I would rather not be angry! I will be angry with me! Your family has no conscience!"

Zhang Wei didn't bother to argue with him for the sake of her big belly, scratched his head, and said, "I'm going home for dinner, Doctor Miao, you should go back to the hospital too." ”

After speaking, Zhang Wei left first.

Miao Fang was angry for a long time, but she had no choice but to leave the school first.

Zhang Wei did not live in the school, and his parents specially gave him a small single room around the school in order to give him a better living environment. Usually he's here alone, and his mother comes over every few days to wash his clothes and cook for him.

When Zhang Wei came home today, he found that the door of the room was open, he thought his mother was coming, so he hurriedly walked in, but found that the people who came were his father and grandmother.

Zhang Wei asked curiously, "Dad, grandma, why are you here?"

Zhang Bing replied to him: "Your grandmother was brought for a physical examination by someone from the county hospital, I came to pick her up, and she said that she came to see you by the way, so I brought her here." ”

As soon as Zhang Bing finished speaking, Grandma Zhou walked up to Zhang Wei, stuffed a small bag made of a handkerchief into his hand, and said with a smile: "Weiwei, are you tired of studying? Grandma will give you money to buy something delicious." ”

Zhang Wei retracted his hand and said lukewarmly: "I don't want your money." ”

Grandma Zhou's eyes were lonely for a moment, but she didn't say anything, put the money on the desk in the room, and then went to the kitchen to serve him food, and after putting all the dishes on the table, she served two bowls of rice, and she said to Zhang Wei: "Grandson, come and eat." ”

Zhang Bing was also busy saying: "This is what your grandmother came to make for you." ”

Zhang Wei nodded, sat down at the dinner table, Zhang Bing also went over to sit down, and shouted: "Mom, let's eat together." ”

"No, I'm full, I only ate in the morning in the hospital. Grandma Zhou sat on the edge of the bed, looking at her son and grandson with a smile, and had no intention of going to dinner.

She sat there alone, looking a little nervous and a little lonely.

Zhang Wei looked at his grandmother...... When I was in school, I usually went back two or three times a whole semester, and when I went back, I also ate and did my homework, so I didn't have time to get along with my family, let alone my grandmother, who was already silent. At this time, he looked at his grandmother's rickety body and loving smile on her face, as well as the wrinkled but cleanly washed old style "wallet" in his hand, and he suddenly remembered Miao Fang's words......

He didn't want to suspect that his mother was lying, but if he thought about it, could his grandmother be the kind of person who was snarky and would torture his daughter-in-law so much because she couldn't give birth to a child?

Maybe...... He shouldn't be too entangled in who is right and who is wrong, whether it is his mother or his grandmother, they all love him, they are his elders, and filial piety to his elders is what he should do.

Zhang Wei stuffed his wallet back into his grandmother's hand: "Grandma, I usually don't have much to spend money, and I don't have time to spend money, you have money to spend yourself." Buy food, don't save. ”

Grandma Zhou saw that her grandson was so sensible and obedient, and suddenly wanted to cry: "I am in the village, and there is no place to spend money......"

"Then grandma, take the money to treat your legs, summer is coming soon, and it will definitely be uncomfortable. Zhang Wei looked at Zhang Bing, "Dad, you have time to take grandma to treat your legs." ”