Chapter 208 My family is happy, but my sister's family is sad
The head teacher of the new school is a young girl who has just graduated from college for a year, because the first time I received a call from the teacher of the new school, Jiang Xi and I both attached great importance to it, so we both listened carefully, and I still remember that the young female teacher's voice was very sweet and her tone was also very gentle.
"Mom, I'm Jiang Dongxi's homeroom teacher!"
Jiang Xi's tone was relaxed, but his expression was stiff and said, "Ah, hello teacher, is Jiang Dongxi causing you trouble?"
"Hahahaha!" There was a brass bell-like laughter on the other side of the phone, "Jiang Dongxi's mother, you don't have to be too nervous, I'm only twenty-five years old this year, you don't need to call me 'you', it's like this, Jiang Dongxi didn't cause me trouble, I want to tell you, Jiang Dongxi is very good, her handwriting is very beautiful, her painting is also very good, the foundation of cultural classes is also good, she actively raises her hand to speak in class, she is cheerful and lively, and she is very obedient and obedient, not naughty or troublesome, I feel very lucky to meet students like Jiang Dongxi! Thank you for letting us meet! ”
I don't know if it's because all the phone calls we received in the past were criticizing Jiang Dongxi, or because this teacher's voice was too gentle and his words were too warm, which directly touched the heartstrings in Jiang Xi's heart about worrying about Jiang Dongxi, and tears of emotion flowed out of the corners of Jiang Xi's eyes in an instant.
It's just that she still couldn't believe it, and asked excitedly, "Really, teacher, is Jiang Dongxi really doing so well?"
I also thought to myself that maybe the teacher was just being polite with a tolerant heart to show encouragement.
The head teacher immediately said, "It's true, Jiang Dongxi's performance is very good, I think Jiang Dongxi is very aura, and it will be better in the future if I cultivate it well, I plan to let her be the representative of the art class, and the art teacher also appreciates her paintings!"
"Thank you so much, teacher!"
"You're welcome, I'm just here to tell you this, I hope that in the future, let's work together to improve Jiang Dongxi's grades, do you say it's okay Jiang Dongxi's mother?"
"Okay! Okay! Great, teacher, don't worry, we will definitely take Jiang to work together! Thank you, teacher, I think what you said to us is really important to us! Thank you!"
"You're welcome, Jiang Dongxi's mother, then I'll hang up first!"
"Okay, goodbye, teacher!"
"Goodbye Jiangdong Mom!"
"Woo ......" hung up the phone, Jiang Xi cried directly in my arms, "Husband, I didn't expect it, I didn't expect that I could still receive a call from the teacher praising Jiang Dongxi, it's really not easy, woo ......."
Originally, I was a man, not as emotional as her, but she cried like this, my eyes were also a little red, people without children, may not be able to understand this feeling, although they say that they don't care about other people's opinions, but, who wants to hear their children be criticized, especially children's teachers.
Imagine if a teacher tells a parent that the child's grades are not good, and the child's grades have not gone up, will the teacher like the student?
Think about it again, Jiang Dongxi didn't know what kind of mentality it would be at school, but fortunately, she inherited Jiang Xi's thick skin, basically she didn't care much about what others said, even if she cried twice at the time, she would be able to forget it in less than five minutes.
This character is really good! In life, there are not so many things that are worth cherishing in our memory, especially the unhappy things, they are all fleeting, and if we want to cherish them, we should cherish those people and things that are good, positive, warm, happy, happy, and worth cherishing! This is not a waste of life.
At dinner, Jiang Xi still couldn't believe and asked Jiang Dongxi again and again, "Girl, what do you think of this homeroom teacher?"
Jiang Dongxi immediately showed a little face like a sunflower, and said very happily, "I think this teacher is very good, I like her very much, she is not only beautiful, her voice is gentle, and she always encourages me!"
Jiang Xi immediately asked with bright eyes, "How did she encourage you?"
Jiang Dongxi rolled his eyes, thought for a while and said, "Even if I answered wrong, she didn't criticize me, she also said, it doesn't matter if I answer wrong, next time I continue to work hard, I will praise if I can actively raise my hand to answer, so I was praised three times yesterday, all because I actively raised my hand." ”
"How many questions did you get right?" I subconsciously asked.
Jiang Dongxi smiled and said, "Hehehe, it's not right!"
Jiang Xi's face darkened.
I, "......" so sorry, I shouldn't have asked this sad question, with my IQ, I should be able to guess!
Jiang Xi touched Jiang Shi's little bun face, her eyes were full of pity, and I could clearly see it in her expression: Poor child, when will your grades go up?
"We finally met a good teacher this time, husband, I have a feeling that Jiang Dongxi's grades will definitely get better under the guidance of this teacher. ”
"Well, I firmly believe it!" At this time, I dare to say that I don't believe it? Besides, the teachers have encouraged my eldest daughter, and we parents must encourage it even more!
Jiang Xi smiled and said to Jiang Dongxi, "Today the teacher called to praise you, she said that you are good at writing, good at drawing, basic knowledge of mathematics and Chinese is also very good, and you are very well-behaved to listen to the teacher's words, she thinks that if you adapt to it here for a while, your grades will not be bad!"
"Huh?" Jiang Dongxi smiled with surprise and surprise, "Really? The teacher called to praise me? Hahaha, really, Mom?"
Probably Jiang Dongxi also knew what level his grades were, so his eyes were as wide as a calf, and he couldn't believe it like her mother.
Jiang Xi nodded with a smile very affirmatively, and affectionately hugged Jiang Shixi in his arms and said, "It's true, mom and dad won't lie to you, so, don't let the teacher down, you must listen carefully to the class in the future, complete the homework carefully, and read the book with your brain and brain, can you do it?"
Jiang Dongxi immediately raised his hand, "Definitely, come on Jiang Dongxi!"
"Come on!"
"Come on!"
Jiang Xi and I also said cheers to Jiang Dongxi, and she shook her little head very happily, as if she was full of confidence and passion.
It's just that she suddenly said, "Oh, I've behaved so well, can I be rewarded for eating junk food once, I haven't eaten junk food for a long time?"
Looking at the bitter cauliflower on her face, Jiang Xi and I couldn't help laughing.
She usually asks me for anything first, blinking at me with big eyes, and acting pitiful.
Fortunately, I already knew her very well, and was basically immune to this little picture, so I smiled and said, "You have to ask the queen about this, and the queen agrees that you can eat it, otherwise I wouldn't dare let you eat it." ”
After listening to my words, Jiang Dongxi immediately turned to look at her mother, frowning deeply, her little face twitched together, and she changed from a bitter cauliflower to a little bitter gourd that begged bitterly, and she could die bitterly.
Her mother also performed with a cold face, and in the little bitter gourd's eyes full of anticipation, she waved her arms like empty eyes, and said lightly, "Yes!"
"Long live the Queen, long live the Queen, hahahaha......ha
Jiang Dongxi happily ran around the house.
"Crazy you, what do you want to eat, say it quickly, I'll take you to buy it, you can only choose one" Since the queen has given the order, the errand work must be mine.
"Hmm......" Jiang Dongxi began to roll his eyes and think again, "Ice cream? no, now that it's cold, my mother will definitely not agree to me eating ice cream, lollipops? No, there are worms eating my teeth, so let's buy potato chips, buy tomato-flavored ones." ”
"Okay, just buy a packet of potato chips," Jiang Xi said with a smile.
So I was going out with Jiang Shi, and when I walked to the door, Jiang Xi didn't forget to tell me, "Hurry up and eat after buying, come back immediately to do your homework, don't delay time, it's dark as soon as the time is mixed." ”
"Yes, Queen!"
"Hahahaha!"
All three of us couldn't stop laughing.
When I came back with Jiang Dong, Jiang Xi was busy in the kitchen, and Jiang Xi started to do his homework after eating potato chips.
This scene entered my eyes and made me deeply understand what it means to be quiet and good!
The house does not need to rise a lot of money, food, and delicacies from the mountains and seas, as long as I have a job, it will be very satisfying to maintain such a life! I hope that our family can always maintain the laughter and laughter in this way until Jiangxi grows up and marries, and we are old, so that this joy and happiness can continue to Jiangxi's own family, that would be great!
Over the years, nothing too sad seems to have happened in our family, and my eldest sister is really a miserable person.
Because the eldest sister is retired, and it is boring to be idle at home, I discussed with Jiang Xi, and asked the eldest sister to come to my house for a few days, on the one hand, let the eldest sister relax, on the other hand, I also hope that the eldest sister can come to make up for Jiang Dongxi, after all, the eldest sister is a teacher, and teaching children is really better than us.
In addition, Jiang Xi also planned to find a partner for the eldest sister, although the eldest sister repeatedly postponed, but Jiang Xi felt that it was actually because she had not met the right person, and if she met the right person, she might not postpone it.
I thought about it and felt that Jiang Xi was reasonable, now many men and women say that it is good to be single and do not want to look for it, in fact, it is because the emotions they have experienced before have not made them feel 1+1=2, or even 1+1=-1, so they will shout such a depressing slogan "It's good to be single!"
The eldest sister didn't postpone this time, and when she came, she brought us pancakes, pot cakes, salt beans, and old hens raised by villagers bought in the market, in short, big bags and small tumors.
Jiang Xi is a person who eats a lot of food and has a great body, she is not a picky eater, Northeast cuisine must be liked, and Xuzhou cuisine can also be eaten with a terrifying face and shouted: ", it's so delicious, isn't it hurting me to gain weight?"
The eldest sister was amused by her, "If you say this, I'll bring more next time, our family is fat, and if you are fatter, you will be more like our family, not a family, don't enter a family!"
Jiang Xi rolled his eyes when he heard this, and said to the eldest sister coquettishly, "Bad silver!"
The eldest sister giggled.
If you want to say who likes the eldest sister the most in this family, it must be Jiang Shi, as long as she gets out of school, she pesters her aunt to play with her, and she insists on listening to her aunt's lectures even if she is tired, and every morning when she goes to school, she will tell my eldest sister again, "Auntie, don't go, I like you, I'm very happy when you're here, I have a companion, you can't go!"
My eldest sister smiled softly and said, "I'm not leaving, this time I'll live here for a month, you can go to school with confidence, I'll wait for you at home!"
Jiang Dongxi would always smile very happily and say, "Then I went to school and went to my aunt!"
"Alas!"
When I returned from sending the child, my eldest sister said, "Your home is so warm and happy, and Jiangxi is so cute, I'm afraid that I won't be willing to go back if I stay for a long time." ”
I said, "Then don't go back, Jiang Xi said that he would find you a partner, and he will live here in the future." ”
"Ahem!" everyone sighed, their eyes were red, "The object is so easy to find, it is difficult for the original couple to meet the right one, not to mention the second marriage of a handful of years, there is no hope." ”
I saw the eldest sister's face full of disappointment in life, I felt very sorry for her, I persuaded her, "Don't think like that, at least there is Mom, Second Sister, me and Jiang Xi, we all love you and love you, the object tries to find it, find a suitable place, and if you can't find it, forget it, don't force it." ”
Hearing me say this, the eldest sister nodded with red eyes.
"How is Liang Liang now, is there any news?" I asked.
The eldest sister said, "I'm back, I'm back to us, his fight, it seems to be fine, the child is fooling around, that is, he was a little wronged by a knife, Liangliang is quite able to break through, at that time he went to Shenzhen, learned to sell mobile phones with others, worked in a mobile phone store, and made a lot of money." ”
I said, "That's good, will he come back to see you?"
"Yes, you gave me 20,000 yuan last time, saying that you were filial to me!" said the eldest sister with a smile.
I was surprised, and I was happy, "Really, I didn't expect it, it's not bad, it's already good!"
The eldest sister smiled meaningfully and said, "Yes, even if he has that heart, but the money hasn't been hot in my hand, it's only about a week, and I'm leaving again, saying that he has a girlfriend and needs money, and he wants to ask me for 25,000, I didn't give it, I said you can make money, I won't give it, I still have to keep my money for my own retirement, and he didn't force it!
The eldest sister smiled helplessly.
I thought the kid had really changed sex, but as long as he could support himself and not mess with his eldest sister.
"What about his dad Chen Sheng? How is it now? Liangliang doesn't ask his dad for money? His dad should be very rich, right?" I asked.
"Ahem!" the eldest sister sighed again. The older the child, the bigger the temper, the bigger the temper, he has his own ideas, he can't listen to me and his father's persuasion, what about me, he can't listen, I won't say it, anyway, that's it, his father's character you know, the two of them almost clashed several times, now they don't do it, they will quarrel, after the quarrel, his father said that he would cut off relations with him, and said that his father's money would not be given to him, Liang Liang was stubborn, said that he didn't want his money, he could earn it himself, oops, young and vigorous, I don't know how thick the sky is, and so on in the society, there is no money, I want to ask me, anyway, I won't give it to him, he won't do it to me now, He still has that human conscience, overall, although he is still a bastard, but it is much better than before, I thought, I hope he is older, he can be better. ”
"Ahem!" I could only sigh when I talked about this.
My eldest sister continued, "His father has found a daughter-in-law this time, and he may have lived together before he got married, and that daughter-in-law brought a child, and the three of them lived together, and it is said that his father got along well with this woman and the child, and maybe, his father really shouldn't show this son." ”
Speaking of this, my eldest sister burst into tears, "I sometimes feel a little guilty about Liangliang, it's because I didn't teach him well, so he doesn't like him, is not mature, and is not sensible." ”
I reached out and hugged the eldest sister's shoulder, and my heart was also very uncomfortable, "Eldest sister, this can't be blamed on you, he has grown up, everyone, living in this world, has to be responsible for their own actions, even though parents have the responsibility of raising their children, but parents can not decide the fate of their children, what really plays a decisive role is personal choice!"
Some children are stubborn, and no matter how much love their parents give, it is useless!
I think that as children, as long as our parents do not do anything that really hurts us, as long as they raise us young, we all have the responsibility to raise them in old age, and when we raise us when we are young, they do not abuse us, and when we raise them in old age, even if there are conflicts and family affection is cold, we should treat them as well as possible.
Taking advantage of the fact that the eldest sister was here, Jiang Xi said that she was going to sell the house in Nanjing Baixyuan, because we were no longer in Nanjing, and it was impossible for my mother to live in that house, and we were carrying a loan of 700,000 yuan in that house, which was not worth it, so she wanted to sell it and repay the 700,000 loan, and we had to live a debt-free and light life.
It just so happened that the eldest sister was here to take care of Jiang things for us, Jiang Xi was worried about selling the Nanjing house, and everything seemed to be fine, but as a result, the hometown called and asked the eldest sister to go back quickly, saying that Chen Liangliang was arrested by the police.
We are all small families and never dare to do illegal things, so when I heard this, my heart trembled a little, especially the eldest sister, the whole person was blinded and panicked!
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