He said, "I don't think she's good, she's not as tall as her sister-in-law, her temperament isn't as good as her sister-in-law's, her facial features aren't as good-looking as her sister-in-law's, and her voice isn't as good as her sister-in-law." ”

Me, "......".

"Hahahaha!" Jiang Xi said with a smile, "What you see of me is only superficially good, if you know more about me, you may not think I am good." ”

As a result, Cong Feng said, "Anyway, there is no comparison, there is no harm, I feel that I will not be able to find a suitable wife for me in my life!"

went on a blind date, and he was desperate, really!

I don't want to pay attention to him anymore, and I always compare myself to my wife, so how can I do it? Besides, my wife is only suitable for me, and not necessarily for everyone!

Jiang Xi also said helplessly, "Cong Feng, you can't always compare me, I'm not a good daughter-in-law, many times what you think is good, it's not necessarily really good, you want to contact other girls, you have to use a sincere heart to get along with others, maybe you will find that others are good, you can't get along yet, just have a heart of resistance, so how can you find the beauty of others?"

Cong Feng blinked and nodded, "Sister-in-law is right, I will think about it seriously, didn't my sister-in-law say that there is another girl to meet? ”

"Okay!" Jiang Xi agreed with a smile.

I think, this time, maybe Cong Feng really realized the true meaning of life from Jiang Xi's words!

If you want people to be sincere to you, you must first treat people with a friendly heart and be sincere!

On the way home, Jiang Xi received a message from the girl.

"Sister Jiang Xi, I don't know what Cong Feng's impression of me is, I want you to help me convey a few words to him, I have a very good impression of him, his appearance is what I have been looking for all these years, if you have a personality, you may have to get along before you can know if you get along, but I very much hope to have a chance to get along with him, I am willing to work with him to make money to buy a house and repay the loan, as long as he doesn't hate me, I believe that I will be very good to him, we will be very happy, if you can, please Sister Jiang Xi help me say good things! Hey, hey!"

Jiang Xi showed this message to me and Cong Feng.

I thought to myself, this girl probably really likes Cong Feng, otherwise how could she be so brave to send this kind of information to take the initiative to fight, and I think her personality is quite similar to Jiang Xi's, dare to say and do.

I said to Cong Feng, "If I were you, I would accept this girl, if you find someone who likes you in this life, you will definitely be very happy, than if you find someone you like, the other party doesn't like your happiness so much." ”

Cong Feng lowered his head and remained silent, silent for a while, before he said, "In the face of her, I don't feel at all, like this, how can we be happy together?"

When he said that, I was speechless.

"Feeling" is a very mysterious thing, and this is not something that can be determined by hard conditions.

When I got home, my mother and my second sister would definitely ask, how was the blind date? Jiang Xi could only tell the truth.

My mother and my second sister both criticized Cong Feng.

"Cong Feng, you can't be too picky, no one is perfect, other girls don't dislike you for not having a house, and are willing to share weal and sorrow with you, you are also thirty-five years old, almost married, hurry up and have a child to live a good life." "That's what my mom said.

My second sister also said, "I look at the photo of that girl, she looks good, your vision is too high, don't be too proud!"

Cong Feng lowered his head and whispered, "I'm not proud, I just don't feel it, and I can't lift the energy to deal with someone if I don't feel it." ”

"Oh, you young people, talk about your feelings all day long, the older generation only meet when they get married, and they don't all live the same life!" my mother said with a sigh.

Cong Feng lowered his head completely and was completely silent.

Jiang Xi said, "Forget it, don't embarrass him, meet someone else, today there is another girl's aunt contacted me, this economic conditions are good, is a graduate of Nanda, studied finance, works in a bank, is the only daughter in the family, has three houses, the aunt said, as long as the girl can take a fancy to this boy, as long as the two people are good, there is no need for the boy to buy a house, the house will definitely be given to his daughter in the future." ”

As soon as I heard that the conditions were good, my second sister immediately asked, "How tall is you and how do you look?"

Jiang Xi said, "Yes, the height is one meter six or eight, which meets the requirements of Cong Feng." ”

Jiang Xi showed everyone the photo, and Cong Feng also looked at it.

Everyone unanimously thinks that this girl is good-looking, has good economic conditions, and is the best candidate.

Cong Feng looked at the photo, smiled and said, "This feels good!"

When we heard this, we all rejoiced for him.

"Cong Feng, I finally met someone who has feelings, and the economic conditions are good, so that you will have to struggle for less than 20 years, you must seize the opportunity, be kind to other girls, live a good life, and make your father-in-law and mother-in-law happy, everything is yours." ”

My second sister's words are probably the true words of the older generation.

"Hmm!" I know, Cong Feng added, "It mainly depends on the person." ”

That doesn't seem to be true! It's just ......

The next day, Jiang Xi and I made another trip and invited the two of us to dinner, thinking that this time the opportunity to see it was very big, but as a result, at the dinner table, Cong Feng lacked interest and couldn't lift his spirits.

Unlike last time, this time, the girl is also lacking in interest and doesn't like to talk.

I glanced at Jiang Xi, it's over!

In order to adjust the atmosphere, Jiang Xi took the initiative to start the topic.

"Xiao Yang, what hobbies do you usually have?"

The thirty-year-old young woman named Xiao Yang blinked her eyes and said, "I usually like to climb mountains!"

Jiang Xi immediately smiled and said, "Cong Feng also likes to climb mountains, you can make an appointment to climb the Purple Mountain on weekends, the environment over there is very good!"

Xiao Yang smiled, didn't say good, didn't say bad!

What about Cong Feng? He didn't say anything at all.

Jiang Xi, "......".

The co-author is that the two emperors are not in a hurry, only Jiang Xi, the eunuch, is in a hurry.

Jiang Xi continued to make persistent efforts, "It's still early today, why don't you go to a movie?"

What we didn't expect this time was that Cong Feng spoke first, "Okay!"

After Cong Feng finished speaking, he looked at Xiao Yang, Xiao Yang also glanced at Cong Feng, and then said, "Okay, then let's go!"

Then, the two of them stood up, said hello to us, and left.

I was stunned for a moment when I saw this wave of operations.

I asked Jiang Xi, "What's this......?" Is it done? or is it yellow?"

Jiang Xi, who has always been able to see through the essence, was also confused at the moment, "It's not like it, the two of them are like warm chickens, they can't lift their spirits at all, their eyes don't shine, they are yellow? It's not right, they left together again? cough! It's really unpredictable now! Even my sister's fiery eyes are not good!"

"Hahahaha!"

I was amused by her, got up and put my arm around her neck and said, "It's good that we're doing a good job, don't get too distracted, or you'll be too tired." ”

Jiang Xi stood up, leaned into my arms, and said with a smile, "My husband is right!

As she spoke, she mischievously put a stamp on my forehead with her thumb, and it hurt me, but I was still happy!

"Wife, how old are you?"

As I walked out of the hotel, I asked with a smile.

Without even hesitating, she said, "Eighteen!"

Me, "......".

"Okay! Then you are eighteen, I must be nineteen!"

"That's a must, I'll always be eighteen, and you'll be nineteen forever!"

"Hahahaha!"

Such a lovely wife, she can't hold back her laughter at all.

When we got home, what we didn't expect was that Cong Feng had already returned to my house.

Jiang Xi asked with a shocked face, "Cong Feng, why did you come back so soon?

Cong Feng replied very calmly, "I didn't see it!"

"Why, you need to have more contact to get to know each other better!" Jiang Xi looked anxious.

"Don't understand!" Cong Feng lowered his head.

The people in the room were puzzled.

My second sister said, "Haven't you seen it again? Isn't it nice to look at the photos?

Cong Feng still said expressionlessly, "I am not the same person as the photo at all. ”

Me, "......".

Jiang Xi, "......".

As for the photo, it is indeed beautiful, it is indeed much more beautiful than me, a lot whiter, but Xiao Yang is not bad, a thirty-year-old young woman, the family conditions are very good, with him a thirty-five-year-old young man, in fact, from the overall external conditions, I still think that Cong Feng has climbed high, and the result is ......

"How can this make you say, you can't even look down on any woman!" my second sister sighed.

My mom was silent, as if she sensed that it was useless.

"Ahem!" Jiang Xi sighed, "Then I'll help you find it, and make a suitable appointment!"

I thought to myself, help him find a fart, and when he leaves, I have to tell Jiang Xi, don't introduce him to this situation, no woman can get into his eyes.

As a result, when everyone was about to give up on this topic, Cong Feng said, "Don't look for it anymore, I have already discussed it with Xiao Yang, we are ready to prepare and get married next month!"

"What?"

Everyone in the room shouted in shock.

"I listen...... Wrong, right?" the second sister looked suspicious.

"Yes, I heard it wrong, right?" Jiang Xi said.

Both of them asked that, and I felt that I had heard me correctly.

Cong Feng lowered his head and said, "Her family conditions are really good, I can save a lot of things by marrying her, and I don't even have to buy a house, and she, who is under a lot of pressure from being urged to marry, is also willing to marry me!

The others were silent, because they didn't know what to say.

"Huh!" Jiang Xi sighed, "Cong Feng, you can't do this, you don't have any emotional foundation, you don't know what kind of character she is, she doesn't understand you, you get married like this, what if you don't get along in the future?"

"If you don't get along, you'll get divorced!"

Jiang Xi, "......".

Jiang Xi was angered by these words, "How can a man be like this? If you want to get married, you have to be responsible, if you marry a woman, you must be prepared to take care of her for the rest of your life, so you have to confirm that you really like her before you can marry her, otherwise two people with edges and corners will be together, it will definitely be a chicken and a dog, and even a world war!"

"Cough!" Cong Feng sighed again, "Sister-in-law, I can't think about it so much now, my parents urge me to get married every day, they want to hold their grandchildren, my relatives, when they see me, they will urge me to one, I can't stand this pressure, anyway, whoever I marry is married, I don't have much hope for love and marriage in my life, anyway, I can't meet the one I like, so it's not bad to marry this one with good economic conditions!"

"This can't be done, pressure is pressure, marriage is not child's play, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, tea, after marriage, it sounds like a trivial matter, all very simple, but if you can't handle it well, it will evolve into a big contradiction, so now the divorce rate will be so high, marriage, can't be willful!

"Sister-in-law, don't say it, I've already decided, I think it's already good, at least I have less pressure to buy a house, I've been tired of blind dates over the years, it's good! Love is too luxurious for me, don't tell you more, I'm leaving!"

After Cong Feng finished speaking, he left, a person who said he wanted to get married, but his whole head was drooping like Wen Ji, and there was no joy on his face.

In this way, is it really suitable for marriage?

I'm wondering, is that Xiao Yang also in the same state and thinking as him?

After that, Jiang Xi also sent a message to Cong Feng saying that he would introduce others to him again, but Cong Feng insisted again and again, just Xiao Yang, he thought it was very good, maybe after getting along for a long time after marriage, he could also get along with feelings.

My mother and second sister both think that this is okay, the two have no financial pressure together, and slowly cultivate a relationship.

My eldest sister said, "I won't comment, my own marriage is so unsuccessful that I am not qualified to comment on other people's marriages." ”

Jiang Xi immediately said, "Sister, don't say that, when you retire, I will find you a partner here in Nanjing, and you will live here in the future, you are now working in your hometown, introduce people here, long-distance relationships are not easy to get along with." ”

"Ahem!" the eldest sister sighed with a smile, "You don't have to worry about me, after divorcing Chen Sheng, for so many years, I don't have the idea of finding a partner, I'm really completely disappointed in marriage, I don't want to at all, now I'm very happy alone, if there is no bright thing, I will be happier!"

At the end, the eldest sister smiled bitterly.

Jiang Xi and I glanced at each other and didn't say anything more.

There are some things that you can persuade others, but you can't force others.

About a week later, my eldest sister and second sister were going back, and they were discussing how to let my mother stay at my house for a few more days, and Jiang Xi and Jiang Dongxi were also trying to keep my mother.

Jiang Dongxi has been in a very good relationship with her grandmother, eldest aunt, and second aunt in the past few days, and as soon as she heard that they were leaving, she cried "wow".

"Woo! Auntie, second aunt, I won't let you go, you are here, I am so happy, you are gone, my mother is busy writing, my father is busy as a dog, I am so lonely, woo ......."

She cried so sadly, her feelings were too sincere, my mother, eldest sister, and second sister were all wiped from tears by her crying.

My mother hugged Jiang stuff tightly in her arms and said, "Wait until you have a holiday and go to grandma's house!"

"I have to make up for my classes on vacation!......" cried even more sadly.

"Mom, otherwise you should stay here for a few more days, Jiang Dongxi is reluctant to let you go!"

I called my mom into my room alone and discussed it with her.

I thought, if my mother can live here and help us take care of the children, I have a matter with Jiang Xi, at least I don't have to put Jiang things in the neighbor's house, wouldn't it be good?

As a result, my mother said, "I don't live here for a long time now, it's easy to have contradictions, besides, I'm here, I occupy a room in Jiangxi, and the three of you can't live in one room for a long time!"

I said, "Don't we have a small room in our house?

As a result, my mother said, "That little room is too small, and it is still facing north, and it must be cloudy in the summer, and it is uncomfortable to live in ......."

I don't even know what to say! Although the north room is smaller, it is really not trendy, and of course, it is certainly not as sunny as the south room.

Jiang Xi and I can't sleep in the small room, and Jiang Xi in the north room probably won't be willing to sleep for Jiang Dongxi, not to mention, the small room can't put a desk for Jiang Xi to write homework, paint, do handicrafts, and do all kinds of things!

I thought my mom should have no problem sleeping in the little north house, but it turned out to be ......

Anyway, everyone has their own ideas! We don't want others to force us, so I never force others.

Because she said such things, then I didn't force her to keep her, but I thought to myself, if we change houses next time, we should buy a larger house with three bedrooms facing south, or a four-bedroom house.

Because to be sincere, I know that my mother is not a particularly easy person to get along with, just like my mother and Jiang Xi are worried, in fact, I am also very worried, they have been together for a short time, and they can still be harmonious, if it is a long time, it may not always be very harmonious.

In Jiang Dongxi's sobbing and choking crying, my mother, my eldest sister, and second sister left.

In less than a month, Cong Feng and Xiao Yang really got married, and we also paid for the money according to the courtesy of our relatives, and also said blessings to them.

But seeing that they didn't show a smile at the wedding, Jiang Xi's heart and I were all for them.

But if you think about it, there are many, many people who marry for the sake of marriage, there are many, many people who marry for the sake of the house, and there are even more people who marry for money.

But these people have never thought about what is the benefit of getting married and divorced? In fact, it is just a business that hurts others and hurts themselves, and no one will feel good when they get divorced!

What Jiang Xi and I were worried about soon happened, and within a month, Cong Feng came to my house and complained that he wanted a divorce.

When he said this, Jiang Xi and I didn't say anything, just let him vent the unhappiness in his heart, and after having a meal with him, he went back, because we always felt that it was strange that he didn't divorce.

But he talked about divorce, and he didn't leave until half a year later, and we just heard some bad things from them from time to time.

After a long time, we don't care anymore, we don't care much anymore, because we still have a lot to worry about, especially when Jiang Xidong's cousin called and said two sad things at the same time.

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